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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If someone said to you that their bedroom is their own personal space and don't like to have sexual meets in there.
Reason asking as I have a spare bedroom where all my meets take place. It's the guest bedroom. I know I sound silly but my bedroom is my personal space and I would only share my room and bed with a person I deeply cared about.
Been chatting to someone and I opened up and was honest as to why I am selfish over my personal space, and sadly this has now resulted in him not wanting to meet me.
He said that not sharing my bedroom/bed has now made him feel unwelcomed.
What are your thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had weirder requests.
So long as the room is clean and safe, who cares?"
My thoughts to its just the spare guest room at the end of the day. Looks no different to any other bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you do what you are comfortable with. I don't meet at all at my home as that's my preference. If he had an issue, why didn't he invite you to his bed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you would have met him and if you both liked each other, you would have had sex in a bed in the spare bedroom?
And he decided that wasn't good enough?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bed is a bed...what's he gonna do if he tuners up at a meet where they put quilts cushions on the floor,like some do...walk out.
Jim was right..People are strange when your a stranger.
Or does he think he's the special one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I personally think it was an excuse not to meet. He said that it was unwelcoming even though all my verifications say how welcoming and friendly I am. as people have said my house my rules. And as long as the room is clean and the bedding what else matters |
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