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Ever been married? Would you again?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have and I used to think no, but it was a long while ago so now I think maybe. I'm not really that fussed either way. One of my friends never has and regrets it , but I said it's not the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. Can't see it happening again.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes and hells bells no

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have both been married and I guess if Dick asked and he actually meant it I'd say yes

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes. No.

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

I've been married and divorced twice. I said I'd never do it again after the first time and I seriously wish I hadn't. If I even consider doing it a third time then please feel free to lock me up and throw away the key

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been married and divorced twice. I said I'd never do it again after the first time and I seriously wish I hadn't. If I even consider doing it a third time then please feel free to lock me up and throw away the key

I think statistically second marriages are generally more successful but that was a while ago, I read that.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

No and I dunno, probably not!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. No i wouldnt get married again as i know im not made to live with a man.

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

yes and only if its to a elderly millionairess with no other family and a heart condition

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes and yes I probably would, but only after living together for some time I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have both been married before and at the beginning i didn't think I ever would but after being with g for 6 years and knowing he is my forever man I definitely would again. Just got wait to be asked now!

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By *limaxinnylonCouple over a year ago

CHESTER

I am divorced and in a long term relationship now. Would not put me off at all.... To me when you stand up and make those vows you mean it and want it to last if it doesn't then deal with it at that point no reason to live any other way! I love marriage but it's not for every one!

Just do whatever makes you happy!

Jayne xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable."

That's lovely.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Yes been divorced 15ish years now. I very nearly marred again but I called it off 2 weeks before the day that was the best 10 grand I ever wasted and I so did the right thing as much as I loved her. Would I now well never say never I suppose but it's not likely. shrugs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I've been married. Will I do it again? Hell no!!! Although I regret never having the wedding I really wanted. That's still not enough to make me want to do it again!!

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"We have both been married before and at the beginning i didn't think I ever would but after being with g for 6 years and knowing he is my forever man I definitely would again. Just got wait to be asked now!

Awwww that's sweet

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Yes and no I wouldn't I don't even want to ever live with someone full time again.

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By *tephenBunChowMan over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Yes, next time sign prenups

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes, next time sign prenups "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, next time sign prenups "

Forward planning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First time lasted 4 months. Second one is 10 years so far. I don't plan on doing it again as I'm hoping he sticks around.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable."

No I haven't, but if I did, I'd like him to say that about me in 20yrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes and only if its to a elderly millionairess with no other family and a heart condition

That would be my only reason to marry again too, but to a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well it's my third marriage now , and sabrinas first .

Really can't see either of us having to try again , we are blissfully happy

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By *londie bearWoman over a year ago

Bexley-ish

Been married twice, never again, there's no point x

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Well it's my third marriage now , and sabrinas first .

Really can't see either of us having to try again , we are blissfully happy

Awwww you pair of big softies

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By *lumsy colinMan over a year ago

basingstoke

I have been married she died 12 years ago. Would i do it again dont know 12 years ago i would have said never but now if i met the right girl i am not so sure

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable.

No I haven't, but if I did, I'd like him to say that about me in 20yrs

I might just have 20 years left in me. How about it gorgeous

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'm a widow and not sure if I would - if the right person came along, who knows xx

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Been married twice before and said never again but somehow ended up with a 'porn star' soulmate (who's never been married) and I do everything I can to make her happy so it's on the cards...Next summer hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable.

No I haven't, but if I did, I'd like him to say that about me in 20yrs

Shhhh! Don't tell her. She'll think I've gone soft and take advantage!

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes... not yet

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No, never married and after being single for over 10 years, I can't see it happening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No,maybe one day,maybe.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple over a year ago

Saltburn

Have been and doing it again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still married.... but separated..... would need a device first..... but I don't think I will ever get married again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes two bad ones divorced twice re married again to the best man in the world and 15 years later he developed Cancer and died .If I found someone half as good as him I would marry again it is lovely belonging to someone but then I am daft . Love looking after a special man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes & depends if the right lady came along. As yet still cant find her

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I have been married and alway's thought I would never do it again,but as time goes on the thought of getting married again isn't quite so horrific. However,due to the fact I've been properly single for the last zillion year's I've don't have that issue (thankfully)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have both been married and I guess if Dick asked and he actually meant it I'd say yes"

No pressure dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes two bad ones divorced twice re married again to the best man in the world and 15 years later he developed Cancer and died .If I found someone half as good as him I would marry again it is lovely belonging to someone but then I am daft . Love looking after a special man "

I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was a fantastic husband. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was a fantastic husband. X "
Thank you he was the best been 5 years now and still miss him but life has to go on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No and...no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?! "

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never been married, just had 3 long term relationships. Got no kids, probably a bit late for that now though

So I really am youngish, free and single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......"

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

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By *ertiVogtsMan over a year ago

Exeter

"Yes and hells bells no

Couldn't have put it better myself !!

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......"

I better get an invite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a chance. Would rather go prison. Cant see much difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No way in hell & probably not - I'm too choosy about picking someone to sleep with, so finding someone I like enough to want to marry...?!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm still married.... but separated..... would need a device first..... but I don't think I will ever get married again"

A device? That sounds a bit ominous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married and divorced 4 times and after the first 2 I said never again. I can't see myself getting married again then I can't see myself being single for the next 30+ years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been married twice n never doing it again.

xxx

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Been married once and single for 10 years, I doubt very much I would do it again unless he had a few million in the bank

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......"

Oooh !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oooh !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still married I guess although recent events will change that soon. I'm certainly not planning on it and I can't see any point so that'll be a no then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

It's our intention to get married but it's not going to be for a couple of years. We both have to get divorced for one thing, and MrWho has teenage kids who still need him in the Midlands for the next year at least.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Nah, and nah

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes. I think the Mrs would have something to say about it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No, never married and after being single for over 10 years, I can't see it happening

I've never been married but I live in hope that one day I will be adored and loved the way I should be. I'd love to be married to my soul mate. But it would be him or no one. Not going to settle for anything less than perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. Most definitely no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I learned by my mistake that's all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cant think it'd make any difference....i'd have to live in separate houses though.

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By *unPeteMan over a year ago

Near Bristol

Yes and yes ...but not for a while!

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

This is so lovely to hear!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and have gone again lol , best decision ever for me

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

This is so lovely to hear!!!!!! "

Your next

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By *obka3Couple over a year ago

bournemouth

We have both been married before K for 13 and me for nearly 17, we lived together for 8 years before I popped the question and been married over four now and its great, really great, when you meet the right ONE nothing is better

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes still married so can't marry again.

Why should we when we can stay married and swing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes been married twice, never again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

This is so lovely to hear!!!!!!

Your next

So true!!

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

Nope and no

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple over a year ago

cwmbranish

Yes and yes

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married 24 years. Still officially am

Would do it again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married for 15 years. Still officially married. But been seperated 12 months. I'd never marry again. I'm not sure i would even live with someone again.

I'd be happy dating with child contact rules. Every other weekend and a night in the week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married very young. Divorced soon after.

My finger felt empty and I longed to be married again. Over twenty years later I am now married and very happy.

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

Although I was only married for 6/7 years were were together nearly 20. It's been just me & my boys for 4 & half years. It's a big responsibility to take them on (14 & 9) & for them to trust someone with me. But, never say never. Who knows what the future holds??

JG x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No but was engaged.

Using the phrase "if in doubt there is no doubt" i realised it was heading in the wrong direction so called it off.

Not off the table but it's not a priority for me - happiness is more than a piece of paper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and never again...I'm more than happy with my life as it is,in fact I'm buzzing.

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By *ssex guy64Man over a year ago

futurama land

At this moment no , if I ever met someone that I thought would want to spend there life with be who knows , but for now .... No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well how do you do wife swapping if not married?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it's true, Nell and I fully intend to get married. I truly feel I have found my soul mate.

I should thank this site and definitely thank Miss Cheekychops for helping bring us together.

MrWho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes,,,and never again

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Let's cut the shit. Who wants me going going woooosh gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's true, Nell and I fully intend to get married. I truly feel I have found my soul mate.

I should thank this site and definitely thank Miss Cheekychops for helping bring us together.

MrWho."

Oh Gosh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, never did happen. I'm not precious about it but would have liked it I think.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Yes it's true, Nell and I fully intend to get married. I truly feel I have found my soul mate.

I should thank this site and definitely thank Miss Cheekychops for helping bring us together.

MrWho."

Aw that's lovely

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By *edkent69Man over a year ago

maidstone

Yes. No.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes it's true, Nell and I fully intend to get married. I truly feel I have found my soul mate.

I should thank this site and definitely thank Miss Cheekychops for helping bring us together.

MrWho."

Good on ya dude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's true, Nell and I fully intend to get married. I truly feel I have found my soul mate.

I should thank this site and definitely thank Miss Cheekychops for helping bring us together.

MrWho."

Congratulations, both.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Personally no I wouldn't.

There's a whole new lifestyle to embrace

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yip....and nope. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes twice and perhaps !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neva again i had two ex husbands one was an alcoholic and the next was a secret gay . So no trust anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never been married as I have never felt it's needed and my exes thought the same thankfully.

I don't need to marry someone to prove my love for them and my commitment etc.

I think as time moves on less and less people will see marriage as something expected or needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never married but if right person came along then possible yes ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been married and divorced twice.

Don't intend trying the whole third time lucky thing.

Though i won't say never, as someone extremely special could come into my life and rock my world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes... And no

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By *ne hung loMan over a year ago

gloucester

Yes been married would I do it again not in this lifetime

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

I was married to my first husband for 6 years, the divorce was finalised 6 weeks before I married Shaggy.

We've just celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary. If I could marry him again I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never been married and don't have the desire to marry either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to"

perfectly understandable for me is that.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I have been married 30yrs, just divorcing now after a 12yr separation. I am an old romantic and would be lying if I said never ever again. I don't think I will let down my barriers enough again.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......"

I kept it a secret

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes twice

and no never again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once bitten twice shy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Twice. NOOOOOOOOOOO.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married for 7 year i dont think i could marry again not because i dont want but i rather focus my attention to my kids

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I am married but I very much doubt I would find anyone as good as my husband not going by the men I have met on dating sites and sites like this.

My son and my brother and sister have never been married, I don't think it matters, I don't think that many marriages are any good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been married. Not sure if I'd get married again, but who knows.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

No, I can't answer the second part of the question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.......... And very probably not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, and I doubt I ever will.

Have been in two very long term relationships, was engaged to them both, but the actual getting married part never appealed.

I think I like to be able to just get up and go if the shit hits the fan. No drama, just leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been married twice, would not get married again but would like a new partner one day, would have to be a swinger. XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been married, I wouldn't do it again, but perhaps one day a deeper relationship with someone; who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.No

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to"

I understand the not marrying again, but would you get into a relationship again? I think it's a shame to stay alone when the person you lost, probably wouldn't have wanted that for you.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to

I understand the not marrying again, but would you get into a relationship again? I think it's a shame to stay alone when the person you lost, probably wouldn't have wanted that for you. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mever been married and now doubt I ever will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. And not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been married three times (male part of a couple here) ...not a chance in hell would I ever marry again if this one goes pear!

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By *itzWoman over a year ago

south wales

i went camping on my own with a one man tent and was surrounded on my pitch by a young married couple from the uk and several european long standing couples. To the europeans, the idea of marriage was antiquated, defunct, they couldnt see the point when they had commitment and lived their lives together. They came from all over Europe.

I found it interesting to see the difference. I am married by the way. First time and happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.....unlikely! But not totally ruled out I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never been married and never want to get married. This doesn't mean I don't want to settle and have a family though. I just don't understand the concept of marriage, bit pointless in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have been married but that ended, at first I said I would never marry again but now, things have changed and I would marry ads!! (He is aware of this btw!!)

G x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Congrats to Nell and Mr Who

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was not married over 25 years ... yes I would again if I loved him ... I like to be in love and have passion in my life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and maybe, always said no but being to think maybe I would, but getting a bit long in the tooth for it now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely a no for getting married again. So much easier to walk away if things don't work out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No no no, learnt my lesson's, not divorced yet and might keep it that way then there's zero chance of making the same mistake again

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I'd love happily ever after and I'd love to get married again. I say again but actually I want to do it properly.

Someone I love who loves me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly twice..

Having childen is a bigger commitment and binds you together but I would,,,yes!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have, twice, both extremely good positive experiences. I am a lucky man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes, and maybe...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

have been never again the pain of breaking up to to much

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By *helbeeCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes been married once im now divoced

Never ever again would i marry

It was a huge mistake i got married

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No and can't see why I would x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Just completed my 2nd divorce. There wont be a 3rd marriage. Miss never has and doesnt want to. Jack.

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By *bbitMan over a year ago

Watford

Been there done it got the t shirt,,,,,and one to never say never even though part of the old me died ,,,, a new me was born

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

Yes.

No! Never!

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

Yes

Can't say that a second one appeals to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to

I understand the not marrying again, but would you get into a relationship again? I think it's a shame to stay alone when the person you lost, probably wouldn't have wanted that for you.

thanks kind advice and im thankful but I guess if brutally honest, im frightened to go through it all again, find someone, love them and lose them, I am supposed to be a big grown up man, a North Sea Bear, rough and tough oil rigger but I have a soft heart and I am still very fucked up, excuse the language. People say 3 years is long enough but its not for me

I guess when Roxette wrote the song Crash Boom Bang; they had me in mind

I guess I just cant handle loss as well as so many others in this world

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan over a year ago

Cheshire

Been married. Prob not again. Has a ex that been married 5 times. I think she just loved wedding cake and parties haha

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to

I understand the not marrying again, but would you get into a relationship again? I think it's a shame to stay alone when the person you lost, probably wouldn't have wanted that for you.

I guess when Roxette wrote the song Crash Boom Bang; they had me in mind

I guess I just cant handle loss as well as so many others in this world"

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Been married once... I never say never , it'd take someone very special

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By *obwithkiltMan over a year ago

Belton

Married once...spent our 17th anniversary sitting up in bed discussing me moving out 'temporarily'...6 years later papers now being filed. ..still good friends (ish)...marry again? ? Never say never! I once sneakily overhead someone say about me "that boy has too much love in him to stay alone"...meh one day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have - and I learned that I don't like men enough to be that close!

Yes I would again - but to a woman next time, if I can find the right one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Married and widowed, wont marry again, no one could compete nor would I want them to

I understand the not marrying again, but would you get into a relationship again? I think it's a shame to stay alone when the person you lost, probably wouldn't have wanted that for you.

I guess when Roxette wrote the song Crash Boom Bang; they had me in mind

I guess I just cant handle loss as well as so many others in this world

3 years is no where near enough, I was a mess for at least 5, It's 20 years since my first wife died, after 9 years, I did fall in love again, got married again but still it's painful at times.

Hang in there, time does not stop the pain, but it does shorten the time you feel it. now I can recover in probably less than a minute and carry on as normal, fake a coughing fit and nobody else knows. but it took a long time to get here.

Also I had the kids, they forced me to get on with life.

You are not alone, but it is the loneliest place on the planet, when you feel like you are expected to carry on as normal when frankly it just isn't!

6'3 hairy biker that cries at any film where children lose a parent... just not socially acceptable is it!

One day after another, you do get better at coping, but it ain't quick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've been married nearly 20 years and if it fell apart now I don't think I would remarry as she is irreplaceable."

That is probably the sweetest thing I have ever seen in the forums.

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

I've been married twice. Divorced twice.

I'm at my best when I'm in love so yes I would do it a third time but I've already been warned by my mum that she isn't coming to any more of my weddings!

If I did get married again and it didn't work out that would be it for me.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Yes.

No.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

Yes. Still am.

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, still am technically although that will be rectified after the two years apart comes round. Would I again? Ask MrWho

Does that mean what I think it means?!

Ssshhhhh! It's a secret......

Oh gosh, I wish there was a girly clapping emoji.

Awe congratulations!! Ads and I have had that conversation and yeah, we've kinda said yes to each other but it won't be for a very long time as he wants a massive do (he has a huge family) and I want the wedding I never had...yes it will be a Geeky affair!!!

G x

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