When I was a teenager in the late 70s early 80s I used to have sex with lots of men until I got married, only now its not as good because I don't fancy men the way I did then because they don't look the same and the ones I do fancy don't usualy fancy me because I am older and fatter.
When you see an old person you forget they were once young and I think some people are disappointed that they cant meet better looking people like they used to, I am also going by my experience of meeting certain older men and what they have said. |
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Interesting one and perhaps one I should answer from my single profile as it relates to my experiences on it, but here goes. My tastes have completely changed .... when I came on here as a single female I met young fit black men, had relationships with them, was seen out, etc. I don't have a problem with meeting 'better looking people' if I want to ... and I don't think anyone does, to be honest. I don't think its them lowering their standards .... but then again, I don't think I am bad looking or less than, so maybe its a confidence thing too. Now, since I met my partner here, much closer in age to me, my tastes have changed again .... I have no doubt I could meet anyone I want to, as could anyone on here ... I think its about attitude of mind. Not sure if that makes any sense |
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"When I was a teenager in the late 70s early 80s I used to have sex with lots of men until I got married, only now its not as good because I don't fancy men the way I did then because they don't look the same and the ones I do fancy don't usualy fancy me because I am older and fatter.
When you see an old person you forget they were once young and I think some people are disappointed that they cant meet better looking people like they used to, "
When I first met one or two young men for nsa I howled with laughter because I *WAS* meeting the exact same guys I was dating 30 years ago, in fact I saw more six packs than ever!!
The difference is when I was young I pretty much only had relationships with my peers, and as you get older it gets much, much harder to find someone worth having a relationship with.  |
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When I was single I was always so excited when I found a guy who wanted sex with me!
These days I find it easier to pull the same guys as I'm less shy than I was. But I married the best one.  |
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"When I was a teenager in the late 70s early 80s I used to have sex with lots of men until I got married, only now its not as good because I don't fancy men the way I did then because they don't look the same and the ones I do fancy don't usualy fancy me because I am older and fatter.
When you see an old person you forget they were once young and I think some people are disappointed that they cant meet better looking people like they used to,
When I first met one or two young men for nsa I howled with laughter because I *WAS* meeting the exact same guys I was dating 30 years ago, in fact I saw more six packs than ever!!
The difference is when I was young I pretty much only had relationships with my peers, and as you get older it gets much, much harder to find someone worth having a relationship with. "
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I think I know what you mean Hilda.
I agree that people think that 'old' people hatched out around the corner yesterday or that they had a lobotomy at 50 and can't understand anything.
I'm the same , bright, bubbly, reasonable, fun loving person i've always been. Just older, fatter and far more discerning.
Just don't be sending me any old fat blokes to meet.
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I know what you mean. I had a definite type. Now i still have preferences nut have learned through experience that the type are often all about aesthetics not skill. |
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Do you think there's a difference between men who will meet older women though as opposed to women meeting older men? Or is there equal numbers? I think a lot of it is to do with sexual confidence which I have far more of now than 20 years ago. |
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"I think I know what you mean Hilda.
I agree that people think that 'old' people hatched out around the corner yesterday or that they had a lobotomy at 50 and can't understand anything.
I'm the same , bright, bubbly, reasonable, fun loving person i've always been. Just older, fatter and far more discerning.
Just don't be sending me any old fat blokes to meet.
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"Do you think there's a difference between men who will meet older women though as opposed to women meeting older men? Or is there equal numbers? I think a lot of it is to do with sexual confidence which I have far more of now than 20 years ago. "
i think its equal numbers but i also know the reasons i meet younger guys isnt the same as some others reasons
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