"Do people normally wait before they meet?"
Varies.
We've met within half an hour of the first pm, we have others we want to meet, but haven't managed to organise something definite after months.
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"For me, it seems to vary between a month & five months."
That long?
I've met people socially within hours of exchanging pm's or at least the next day or so. But then I've got an almost 100% success rate of not wanting to follow it up. Been speaking to someone a couple of days and can't meet for another couple of days but he's got good chat and I like him a bit already before meeting in the flesh. Surely that's a good thing? Penis is fine but never know in the flesh do you if there's an attraction. |
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"For me, it seems to vary between a month & five months.
That long?
I've met people socially within hours of exchanging pm's or at least the next day or so. But then I've got an almost 100% success rate of not wanting to follow it up. Been speaking to someone a couple of days and can't meet for another couple of days but he's got good chat and I like him a bit already before meeting in the flesh. Surely that's a good thing? Penis is fine but never know in the flesh do you if there's an attraction."
Yeah, it just seems to work for me  I tend to meet off the forums and the fact that those meets can be quite long distance can make meeting a bit difficult. Actually, my meet who I waited five months to meet is one of the best people I've met off here. Go figure! |
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Varies but because of limited time it's rarely really quickly. Couple of weeks to months, due to distance and logistics. If they can't wait then it won't happen. |
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can be the same night as we start chatting especially if we put a meet up doodar thingy - but we are chatting to some that we have been for years and still not met - we dont get hung up over it as its a sometimes distance thing but might happen one day |
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There's no set wait time. If it feels right and you're both available, go for it.
Availability is the deciding factor every time for me. If the chat and profile aren't right you know it pretty quickly I think. The rest is scheduling |
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"Do people normally wait before they meet?"
Depends how quick you want it move and what kind of mood your in.
If you have the gift of the gab and are in mega horney mood, the meet could happen same day if you want it too...push the boundaries lol |
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As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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For me anything from a couple of days - to a 1.5 years
Sometimes it's timing, location.
There was one old friend who I wanted to play with for years then as a random social at a club we ended up having a play.
For me I know I can't meet till after the euros - so have to having a but of a meltdown yesterday decided to be less full on.
I have told the people that I want to play with and been a bit more open and honest with them |
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Since we live in the sticks and have jobs and kids, it takes organising, so I (C) like to have sussed someone out pretty well via chatting before going to that kind of trouble. Plus we're picky, personality-wise. Anyone who can't accept this and tries to pressure us, we won't be meeting anyway. |
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"As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though"
Yes that's the thing I like what this guys about before meeting so that's a good thing surely. |
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"As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though
Yes that's the thing I like what this guys about before meeting so that's a good thing surely. "
i think most people like someone they are planning on meeting |
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"As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though
Yes that's the thing I like what this guys about before meeting so that's a good thing surely. i think most people like someone they are planning on meeting"
I don't, it's always quite cold, see someone I think I fancy, tell them to meet me, meet them and if in the flesh they aren't what I like physically then I don't follow it up. |
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"As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though
Yes that's the thing I like what this guys about before meeting so that's a good thing surely. i think most people like someone they are planning on meeting
I don't, it's always quite cold, see someone I think I fancy, tell them to meet me, meet them and if in the flesh they aren't what I like physically then I don't follow it up. "
Your a stunner Op all the cuties are in wales!lol |
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"As everyone else has said its whatever you're comfortable with, for me it's down to availability. I need about a weeks run time to get childcare arranged.
Although I've found that the longer I'm chatting to a person the better the connection when we do meet. I guess it depends what you're looking for from your meet though
Yes that's the thing I like what this guys about before meeting so that's a good thing surely. i think most people like someone they are planning on meeting
I don't, it's always quite cold, see someone I think I fancy, tell them to meet me, meet them and if in the flesh they aren't what I like physically then I don't follow it up. "
thats interesting. I meet people i like because of how they come over but when i meet them its to confirm whether we like each other or not |
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Long ago back in the day when I cut a marginally alluring semblance of a frock wearing bloke it used to be a matter of minutes....
Ahhh sigh,,,,,,, But now I'm a just a haggard old tranny lost amidst a torrent of fit hot bodied stunningly attractive T-girly types it's become a matter of months or sometimes years before an offer comes flooding in.....  |
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