 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Why are people overly attached and focused on this, I feel in my short time here that it is the only thing on their mind and it ruins any possible chance of actually having good dialogue with some one and establishing if that person is a suitable match.
I receive this message at least 4 times a day and if I try to open up a conversion with them I become another fake apparently.
I am not a swinger though I would like to connect and meet someone for a nice time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//"
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why are you engaging with people who accuse you of being fake? Aim higher for yourself and only engage with those that are interested. "
You are right I may have become overly focus on the ones who have fixed focus on the genuine subject.
Thank you I think I now have resolve to my thoughts. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile."
Some men resort to insulting or just being rude in order to pique interest. Replying just encourages further behaviour. Ignore them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile."
well yes but you also use the word genuine as well |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *tu1111Man
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile.
Some men resort to insulting or just being rude in order to pique interest. Replying just encourages further behaviour. Ignore them."
I can see why they get frostrated women very rarly reply to my messages.
But there is no need to be a dick about it and become insulting |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile.well yes but you also use the word genuine as well"
Merely using the word that was in a question directed as me but I could have used 7 dashes thus resulting in you having little know of what I was referring to.
So no not using it directly myself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why are people overly attached and focused on this, I feel in my short time here that it is the only thing on their mind and it ruins any possible chance of actually having good dialogue with some one and establishing if that person is a suitable match.
I receive this message at least 4 times a day and if I try to open up a conversion with them I become another fake apparently.
I am not a swinger though I would like to connect and meet someone for a nice time."
But are you a genuine fake though?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've had couples want me to prove I'm me. Who the frig is gonna set up a male profile if they aren't male?
Arrange a social, I'll turn up looking like me except wearing clothes. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile.
Some men resort to insulting or just being rude in order to pique interest. Replying just encourages further behaviour. Ignore them."
Same applies to some women too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've had couples want me to prove I'm me. Who the frig is gonna set up a male profile if they aren't male?
Arrange a social, I'll turn up looking like me except wearing clothes."
I've noticed fake make profiles. Quite a lot of them upload HUGE cock pictures from porn. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You want to know why people.ask for genuine people?//
Not asking why just curious as to why people become almost obsessed with it.
You would think they would be more focus in finding someone that suits their interests than making that the reason they contact you while showing little interest in your profile.
Some men resort to insulting or just being rude in order to pique interest. Replying just encourages further behaviour. Ignore them.
Same applies to some women too "
What do you mean? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"
But are you a genuine fake though? "
Interesting that you bring that up, bearing in mind that in often cases verified users also let you down to and usually at the last minute.
So the verified sign bears little comfort to users that seek a meet with someone they have found a connection with, I have found that out from using the site.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've noticed fake make profiles. Quite a lot of them upload HUGE cock pictures from porn. "
Maybe, not sure how a telephone call would make a difference to that (I know I didn't mention that was the method by which they wanted proof, just saying it now).
Mines a decent size but huge it ain't. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've noticed fake make profiles. Quite a lot of them upload HUGE cock pictures from porn.
Maybe, not sure how a telephone call would make a difference to that (I know I didn't mention that was the method by which they wanted proof, just saying it now).
Mines a decent size but huge it ain't."
I guess that they believe chatting on the phone would be better to gauge how serious you are, not necessarily fake (if that makes sense). A lot of fantasists set up meets and never turn up, or just lead people on endlessly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
upton wirral |
"Why are people overly attached and focused on this, I feel in my short time here that it is the only thing on their mind and it ruins any possible chance of actually having good dialogue with some one and establishing if that person is a suitable match.
I receive this message at least 4 times a day and if I try to open up a conversion with them I become another fake apparently.
I am not a swinger though I would like to connect and meet someone for a nice time."
Many our a waste of time but you can have some great meets from this site and make some good friends to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I guess that they believe chatting on the phone would be better to gauge how serious you are, not necessarily fake (if that makes sense). A lot of fantasists set up meets and never turn up, or just lead people on endlessly. "
Fair point  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why are people overly attached and focused on this, I feel in my short time here that it is the only thing on their mind and it ruins any possible chance of actually having good dialogue with some one and establishing if that person is a suitable match.
I receive this message at least 4 times a day and if I try to open up a conversion with them I become another fake apparently.
I am not a swinger though I would like to connect and meet someone for a nice time.Many our a waste of time but you can have some great meets from this site and make some good friends to"
We've had many so called timewasters it's their time they've wasted not ours ,but we've also had plenty of good meets |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
i've never been asked if i'm genuine, although once some guy sent me a message saying he knew i was a fake, idk who he is even but i ignored him.
i think a lot of guys shouldn't even be asking that really, what's the point? if they don't think you're real then there's no point in messaging you.
unless they;re trying to out you as fake? that would make sense i reckon. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i've never been asked if i'm genuine, although once some guy sent me a message saying he knew i was a fake, idk who he is even but i ignored him.
i think a lot of guys shouldn't even be asking that really, what's the point? if they don't think you're real then there's no point in messaging you.
unless they;re trying to out you as fake? that would make sense i reckon."
I don't think it should be aimed solely at the men as women are also guilty of doing that too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i've never been asked if i'm genuine, although once some guy sent me a message saying he knew i was a fake, idk who he is even but i ignored him.
i think a lot of guys shouldn't even be asking that really, what's the point? if they don't think you're real then there's no point in messaging you.
unless they;re trying to out you as fake? that would make sense i reckon.
I don't think it should be aimed solely at the men as women are also guilty of doing that too."
accusing them of being fake men? don't get what you mean sorry. or you mean the pics are fake or something?
i do think female profiles are more likely to be fake women than male ones as males aren't in demand that much. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why are people overly attached and focused on this, I feel in my short time here that it is the only thing on their mind and it ruins any possible chance of actually having good dialogue with some one and establishing if that person is a suitable match.
I receive this message at least 4 times a day and if I try to open up a conversion with them I become another fake apparently.
I am not a swinger though I would like to connect and meet someone for a nice time.Many our a waste of time but you can have some great meets from this site and make some good friends to
We've had many so called timewasters it's their time they've wasted not ours ,but we've also had plenty of good meets "
Definitely NOT a reflection on this poster but consider this for wasting time.
It said:
Looking for a meet either at your home or a club.
OK Fine that's a match.
Anything, anywhere on ********** in North West:
OK Fine that's a match.
At this meet looking for: F M MF FF
OK Fine there's a match.
Aged from 30 to 55
OK Fine that's a match.
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE US
OK Fine I'll do just that!
Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user
Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex
OK Forget it!
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
genuine..in context i feel is..
someone who is the gender / circumstance they have stated on their profile.
someone who has an interest in the swinger scene, hatever that maybe, but are honest about what they want.
someone who has been verified by the peer group somehow
someone who meets when they say they are going to meet (or cancels for a good reason, but its not, their usual behaviour)
you could extend this to those who say they are single/ bi/ straight but turn out to be different to what they state. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Like asking someone if they are a liar 
