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Do any ladies find it hard to meet on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine  may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet very often but when I do I have no trouble finding someone  "
Same here, I only meet once every few months but thats through choice, I don't want meets on a weekly basis, I have other things to fill my spare time too
But when I do want a meet I always manage to find somebody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah. I was drowning in cock when I was meeting. I quite literally had my pick of the bunch, it's amazing being a single female on here. "
 that's true
I think if I wanted I could have a meet a day every day and never run out of men
Some proper fit guys too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah. I was drowning in cock when I was meeting. I quite literally had my pick of the bunch, it's amazing being a single female on here.
that's true
I think if I wanted I could have a meet a day every day and never run out of men
Some proper fit guys too "
I know, not only are you inundated but a large percentage are very attractive. It's really very good for women attracted to men here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose "
people are always arranging 'coffee meet socials where they are going out for a coffee anyway and are happy to meet up with a fellow fabber to verify them...
try looking in the meets section, or if no joy there, try posting your own? you never know ...it might just work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying."
I share this same sentiment... I love wit and very good banter to get me going. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose
people are always arranging 'coffee meet socials where they are going out for a coffee anyway and are happy to meet up with a fellow fabber to verify them...
try looking in the meets section, or if no joy there, try posting your own? you never know ...it might just work"
Have done that a few times never works but if anyone is free friday, Saturday or Sunday I'm available to meet up x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this serious? Lol women have got it on tap on here men with hard on are there own worst enemy  "
Thats what I thought but I see many posts that state otherwise just wondered whether it was a few it happens to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen. "
Yep. This exactly. I've pretty much retired because i don't think what I'm looking for exists except in my head |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.
Yep. This exactly. I've pretty much retired because i don't think what I'm looking for exists except in my head "
"Yes I have huge problems meeting. My brain gets in the way. It's very annoying."
"I share this same sentiment... I love wit and very good banter to get me going."
All of these plus I find that some of the single men I would like to meet would prefer an attached woman to ensure it remains completely NSA. A friend suggested I should change my profile to say I'm married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried to find a meet last weekend to no avail. I probably came to the wrong generalisation that lots of guys must be attached and were busy or have their kids at the weekend. So oddly, weekends seem difficult to find meets. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I tried to find a meet last weekend to no avail. I probably came to the wrong generalisation that lots of guys must be attached and were busy or have their kids at the weekend. So oddly, weekends seem difficult to find meets. "
Aren't they just! I have time at the weekend but rarely find a meet for the weekend. |
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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It would be easier if I wasn't fussy, but as I am, I rarely meet these days. Would prefer to feel like I was meeting a friend rather than a stranger, so that's always going to make things more difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose
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Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.
Recent thread about how many "hits" and surprise surprise ladies have significant more and no problems finding meets. Not really misogynist but we are animals and female of the species do the "displaying" and men do the chasing....suppose it's the way of the world?
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"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose
Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.
Recent thread about how many "hits" and surprise surprise ladies have significant more and no problems finding meets. Not really misogynist but we are animals and female of the species do the "displaying" and men do the chasing....suppose it's the way of the world?
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i also know guys that have no problem getting meets and they.arnt meceasarily young toned.20 something year olds. But they do.all have one thing in common. There proactive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.
Same here. "
same for me as well.
most guys say they want what i want but there's nothing on their profile to reflect that, or worse they are after NSA and i'm clear i am not after this. |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't meet very often but when I do I have no trouble finding someone "
Not so for me. I don't meet very often, when I am in the mood to meet no one is interested.
But then I am VERY picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tried to find a meet last weekend to no avail. I probably came to the wrong generalisation that lots of guys must be attached and were busy or have their kids at the weekend. So oddly, weekends seem difficult to find meets.
Aren't they just! I have time at the weekend but rarely find a meet for the weekend."
That's probably because they are with their wives and partners on a wkend |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
Men are like flies around honey on here.....
That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!
I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!
That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are like flies around honey on here.....
That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!
I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!
That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person "
This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.
Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.
The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I rarely meet these days. Would prefer to feel like I was meeting a friend rather than a stranger, so that's always going to make things more difficult."
Agree with this sentiment , and to pick up a point from a post earlier , having my kids alternative weekends limits my availability too. Though some assume that I'm married and that I'm playing away from home  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Men are like flies around honey on here.....
That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!
I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!
That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person
This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.
Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.
The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.
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Suppose it depends on how hard some find it to pull in 'real life' if they aren't used to it then I suppose it would be easy to feel like a pig in shit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i had a single account years ago never had a problem - but i was a bit niave back then and would be a lot more wary of things now - and possibly a lot more fussy and a certain people have set a standard for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are like flies around honey on here.....
That said, I have met people for socials for no other reason than to help verify them as genuine - I have however had disasters there and can see why some struggled to meet - seriously hard work!
I remember one in particular that was like a Little Britain sketch and I could see someone I know in the pub bar chuckling at me and my uncomfortableness!!
That said, I've also met some little goldmines who were gems in person
This is why I find it amusing when some women think they are "All that" on here posting that they are knee deep in cock etc.
Truth is even Susan Boyle would be knee deep in offers of sex too in places like this.
The inflated egos some have because of it is laughable.
Suppose it depends on how hard some find it to pull in 'real life' if they aren't used to it then I suppose it would be easy to feel like a pig in shit?"
Lol I like you choice of words |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose
Wish you luck, great idea and tried it myself in sunny scunny but alas no takers.
Recent thread about how many "hits" and surprise surprise ladies have significant more and no problems finding meets. Not really misogynist but we are animals and female of the species do the "displaying" and men do the chasing....suppose it's the way of the world?
i also know guys that have no problem getting meets and they.arnt meceasarily young toned.20 something year olds. But they do.all have one thing in common. There proactive"
Me too always sending good messages with face pic and still finding it difficult just gotta hope I catch the attention of a lady soon lol |
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Mrs here. I do find it hard for play meets. Maybe I'm too choosy.
I meet male solo,female solo or with hubby. And I only had 2 play mates in the 4 months we've been on fab.
Although I will be making up for it tomorrow
MrsSB |
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"I rarely find people that I want to meet. So yes it does happen.
Same here.
same for me as well.
most guys say they want what i want but there's nothing on their profile to reflect that, or worse they are after NSA and i'm clear i am not after this."
Yes! It's the subs that message me and I tell them I am not looking for a sub so they say of uncanny be dom. No, no you can't. There's no mention of this and you can't just 'be dom' |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
"We all know a good fraction of us guys find it hard to get meet of here any of you ladies find the same? If there is maybe we could get a group together for a little social coffee or summat just an idea to get my and others veri's up a tad to prove we're genuine may be a crappy idea but worth a shot I suppose "
There are already two main Manchester Socials per year, advertised in the Forums. Put "Manchester social" in the search bar, and you will find that there was one on 26th March, and one on 26th September. There is no date for the next one yet, but I guess it will be a Saturday, around 26th September. Just enter your name on the Forum thread (do it early, as these socials are very popular) and the site organisers will let you know venue etc nearer the time. |
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