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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you say there's alot of jealousy on this site and other swingers site.
Do you feel jealous if someones profile looks better than yours or do you applaud it? Me I love seeing a good profile and pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the pics are good then I give a one handed applaud.
But generally, I'm jealous of everyone, I put lot's of effort into my profile and still no meets. Pfffft, what's that about huh.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If the pics are good then I give a one handed applaud.
But generally, I'm jealous of everyone, I put lot's of effort into my profile and still no meets. Pfffft, what's that about huh. "
it will happen sweets x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the pics are good then I give a one handed applaud.
But generally, I'm jealous of everyone, I put lot's of effort into my profile and still no meets. Pfffft, what's that about huh.
it will happen sweets x"
I'm beginning to think it wont, I've been sitting here watching my inbox for months, my arse is getting sore I've been in one place so long and I'm starting to smell.
Nothing, not a one begging message or owt, I'm starting to think I might have to start sending initial messages, haha |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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just watch when someone new meets someone more than once and others get jealous...
or guys looking at verifications of females they have met and checking out the other guys..
like a male dog marking their territory
funny as funny can be..... |
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"just watch when someone new meets someone more than once and others get jealous...
or guys looking at verifications of females they have met and checking out the other guys..
like a male dog marking their territory
funny as funny can be....."
lol have seen that happen in chat room sometimes... it is funny to watch  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just watch when someone new meets someone more than once and others get jealous...
or guys looking at verifications of females they have met and checking out the other guys..
like a male dog marking their territory
funny as funny can be....."
Now that is funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only get jealous of tgurls.. cos they have better legs than me! meh haha
I'm jealous of you as your boobs are so gorgeous x"
swap your legs for my tits??
bring back that swap shop program from back in the olden days *runs* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i only get jealous of tgurls.. cos they have better legs than me! meh haha
I'm jealous of you as your boobs are so gorgeous x
swap your legs for my tits??
bring back that swap shop program from back in the olden days *runs* "
Yeah with Noel Edmonds you must be too young for that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think there is a lot of jealousy on swinging sites. Your profile is like a shop window and you have to work at selling yourself. Some people do that better than others.
I am not jealous of anyone, I am envious at times of profiles I see and envious of some things that are said in a forum. Someone might say they are going to an exotic location or are off to a great party etc, and I may feel envious of that, but its very fleeting. Its never in a negative way as such.
I may see some pics and really admire them and wish I had taken them, or my pics were up to that quality, but again its never in a negative way. Im older now, Ive learnt that im not the prettiest, im not the richest, im not the most intelligent, im not the funniest but I have good points, I am ok looking for my age, whilst Im a big girl and I have a fat tummy and cellulite on my arse, I have good skin, boobs are sagging a little, but they are full and round - we have to love what we have. There will always be people who we feel look better than us, but then some people feel that way about us too. |
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"I do think there is a lot of jealousy on swinging sites. Your profile is like a shop window and you have to work at selling yourself. Some people do that better than others.
I am not jealous of anyone, I am envious at times of profiles I see and envious of some things that are said in a forum. Someone might say they are going to an exotic location or are off to a great party etc, and I may feel envious of that, but its very fleeting. Its never in a negative way as such.
I may see some pics and really admire them and wish I had taken them, or my pics were up to that quality, but again its never in a negative way. Im older now, Ive learnt that im not the prettiest, im not the richest, im not the most intelligent, im not the funniest but I have good points, I am ok looking for my age, whilst Im a big girl and I have a fat tummy and cellulite on my arse, I have good skin, boobs are sagging a little, but they are full and round - we have to love what we have. There will always be people who we feel look better than us, but then some people feel that way about us too. "
good point but i can see lots of peeps being envious of yours guys damm good pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no place for jealousy in this lifestyle at all. I'd go as far as to suggest that if anyine does feel jealousy then all at home is not as happy as they make it out to be. (I'm referring to couples here, as I wouldn't have a clue how singles feel about things as I haven't been one for quite some time) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is jealousy on the site though, maybe not as much now, but in the past when I first joined women fell over themselves to be the first to meet with the new guys, the new guys fell over themselves to couple up with the single fems and couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them. "
That's the point I was making in my post above. There is something very unhealthy about couples who get possessive of other couples. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"There is jealousy on the site though, maybe not as much now, but in the past when I first joined women fell over themselves to be the first to meet with the new guys, the new guys fell over themselves to couple up with the single fems and couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them. "
and if the new couple profile didn't bring in the results ..... The guy out of there quicker than Charlie sheen at opening time at the chemists.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is jealousy on the site though, maybe not as much now, but in the past when I first joined women fell over themselves to be the first to meet with the new guys, the new guys fell over themselves to couple up with the single fems and couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them.
and if the new couple profile didn't bring in the results ..... The guy out of there quicker than Charlie sheen at opening time at the chemists...."
..... and those same single guys who coupled up what did they put in large letters on their joint profiles? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them.
That's the point I was making in my post above. There is something very unhealthy about couples who get possessive of other couples."
So glad I don't play with couples then x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"There is jealousy on the site though, maybe not as much now, but in the past when I first joined women fell over themselves to be the first to meet with the new guys, the new guys fell over themselves to couple up with the single fems and couples used to get really possessive and jealous if other couples played without them.
and if the new couple profile didn't bring inthe results ..... The guy out of there quicker than Charlie sheen at opening time at the chemists....
..... and those same single guys who coupled up what did they put in large letters on their joint profiles? "
No single guys..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love to look at other peeps profiles, and get no jealousy at all about couples we know playing with others. After all, i have my man to play with all the time.
Even though now we have retired cos he is away, the only jealousy i will have is of his suntan when i only going for a fortnight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah I've never felt any jealousy, occasionally I see a couple profile and think how the hell did you pull her?!! You are definitely punching above your weight |
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If people have jealous tendancies then surely swinging is the last thing they should be doing. I dont understand it at all. Makes me laugh when two singles make a joint profile and then thats it wont meet guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people have jealous tendancies then surely swinging is the last thing they should be doing. I dont understand it at all. Makes me laugh when two singles make a joint profile and then thats it wont meet guys"
Even worse are the single guys who want to fuck my wife but when asked if they'd play if they found a partner they say, "no fucking way". Insulting wankers.  |
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"If people have jealous tendancies then surely swinging is the last thing they should be doing. I dont understand it at all. Makes me laugh when two singles make a joint profile and then thats it wont meet guys
Even worse are the single guys who want to fuck my wife but when asked if they'd play if they found a partner they say, "no fucking way". Insulting wankers. "
Years ago i had an asian guy say to me, you english girls are ok for playing around, but when i get married i want a respectable, faithful asian woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago i had an asian guy say to me, you english girls are ok for playing around, but when i get married i want a respectable, faithful asian woman "
And no doubt would still want to play around with English girls while his faithful asian woman was at home! |
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"Years ago i had an asian guy say to me, you english girls are ok for playing around, but when i get married i want a respectable, faithful asian woman
And no doubt would still want to play around with English girls while his faithful asian woman was at home! "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm off to meet with my favourite couple.....Ben & Jerry....back later!
Hey they're MY fave couple *goes off in a jealous huff* "
wanna join me? we can make it a ff and mm 4some on the sofa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm off to meet with my favourite couple.....Ben & Jerry....back later!
Hey they're MY fave couple *goes off in a jealous huff*
wanna join me? we can make it a ff and mm 4some on the sofa "
Ooooh!!! *comes back from huff* - I suppose sharing is good too!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago i had an asian guy say to me, you english girls are ok for playing around, but when i get married i want a respectable, faithful asian woman "
Now that boils my fucking piss!
Cheeky racist asshole! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is designed to attract a certain type of man, so why would I be jealous of others profiles designed to attract people they like?
I'm lucky in that I can afford anything I want so what others have don't interest me. I've been married, have children, well educated and loved, so nothing to be jealous of there.
There are certain things I'm envious of, but not in a nasty way as I don't begrudge, just wish mine was different ie illness has caused damage to my legs and skin biopsies have left them scared. I miss my smooth unblemished legs and sigh when I see ladies my age with lovely legs. My hair is thinning: my mother was totally bald at 60 and I'll go the same so feel life is unfair when I see men with gorgeous locks, women don't have that affect.
As Iconic said, there will ALWAYS be someone younger, fitter, stronger, richer, prettier etc. You'll be on a hiding to nothing and a nervous wreck if you became jealous at everyone! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I truly admire success in others.. if they have worked hard, achieved great results and are happy... happy for them.
same on here.. the nice people shine and the others don't.
nowt to be jealous about really... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ill be honest and say at times Ive felt a little pang, I wouldnt call it as full on as jealousy, but im human, Im not a robot and I do have feelings and im not always a strong, confident, ballsy woman. Now ive been swinging for just over a year it doesnt happen very often, but I recognise that it could happen again.
My pangs were mainly around my blowjob technique. My other half needs a firm and fast sucking motion to make him cum via a blowjob, and I enjoy sucking a guy but I tend to do it slowly and more sensual. I will combine that with a fast motion too, but I cant do the fast motion for very long because im not strong enough and my guy takes a while to come. Other women have made him come by giving a blowjob and Ive felt a little inadequate at times. I understand now that the whole scenario of having a complete stranger suck his cock and him not having to perform for her and be totally self indulgent is a massive turn on for him and he lets go.
He says its similar for him if Im with a guy with a bigger cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealousy is a very destructive emotion and I hate to see it in any part of my life
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Can't agree more! I am happy being me, so why be jealous of others?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people have jealous tendancies then surely swinging is the last thing they should be doing. I dont understand it at all. Makes me laugh when two singles make a joint profile and then thats it wont meet guys
Even worse are the single guys who want to fuck my wife but when asked if they'd play if they found a partner they say, "no fucking way". Insulting wankers. "
I feel that way about the men who won't play at home because it's not a knocking shop, but want to come to your home.
The only men I tell to fuck off and block!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to be made to feel a little jealous.. Master loves younger ladies.. and to be fair the type of woman that Master chats up are always totally stunning..
but the thing is its more like a glowing feeling.. I love the reclaim bit after we have had someone else.. Its a mad, passionaite, lustfilled, and jealous filled powerful moment..
Love it when I have maybe had 2-3 guys... and I know that Master needs me.. I see the jealousy in Masters eyes, and I know whats coming and its mindblowing totally..
Although most of the time its more compersion I think we are feeling ( described as the opposite of jealousy, but very similar feelings.. kinda positive jealousy)
I dont think we would enjoy play time with others without that little bit of jealousy.. its not in the nasty horrid way that can destroy things...
I will admit to once Master saying.. "wow go look at a message".. and I took one look and hated her.. was very nasty, saying to my Master had his standards dropped etc... There is one other person that Master knows he can evoke a pretty harsh reaction from but it is more amusing than a problem.
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont like to be made to feel jealous but I recognise the fact that it could happen, and I think it could happen to anyone. I have heard a lot of women say that they've played as a couple with another single female and the female was all over their guy and they hated it etc. Was the single woman all over their guy, or were they jealous of something and its easier to blame another woman for that. Who knows, women are competitive though and they do like to feel the most attractive to their man.
But the best thing is when my other half lets me know how hes feeling. When hes having sex with another woman, or having a blowjob, he always looks at me, or if a woman is sucking him, he reaches out to hold my hand. Its those little things that go unnoticed by others I think, but mean such a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But the best thing is when my other half lets me know how hes feeling. When hes having sex with another woman, or having a blowjob, he always looks at me, or if a woman is sucking him, he reaches out to hold my hand. Its those little things that go unnoticed by others I think, but mean such a lot "
It really is.. I find myself doing so even when Master is not there in person.. I reach out to the cam or have to pick up the phone.
I do like the feeling I get when I get jealous though.. makes me want Master even more than normal.
I have started to love playing up that angle the other way around now though.. and will look at the cam.. as I kiss my playmate... knowing, almost feeling the stirings in Masters tummy as I do so.. its a great feeling..
Katie.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly no. Although there are a couple of people who throw their teddies out the pram when someone they consider to be "theirs," whether they've met that person yet or not, meets someone else. Not pretty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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btw.. no I never get jealous of others profiles..
Why would I.. its not mine.. mines unique to me.. and mines for what we are looking for.
Sometimes see profiles and think WOW... or see a stunning lady and know when I show it to Master his face will light up, but I dont get jealous..
as I said previously though the odd person has contacted and I have had a jealous moment over them.. there was no way I wanted to meet them.. Master finds those moments endearing and amusing..
Katie.x |
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