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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had it the other way around....d*unkenly typed message from the male half of a couple....fukk ma gurlfrend I will watch???
Only happened twice over a good few years though. |
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xx"
totaly agree they are all twats |
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So all single males are the same and should go. If you search the forum you'll find anyone that's cheating are just counts so they should go. Search also how so many couples are up there own arse so they better do 1 to. Oh then there's the racists who only want black or white or no asain so they just better toddle on off. The single woman who are just fucking to ignorant to send a polite thanks but no thanks nobody likes them twats so let's show them where the door is and as for them Cocks in frocks well think we can all agree they needed shooting a long time ago. Let's also not forget them tosser who are only here to have a few laughs pfffft it's a sex site ffs what they all about. Think that pretty much covers it the place is all nice and tidy now we have got rid of all the riff-raff. Hope you enjoy your nice empty site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So all single males are the same and should go. If you search the forum you'll find anyone that's cheating are just counts so they should go. Search also how so many couples are up there own arse so they better do 1 to. Oh then there's the racists who only want black or white or no asain so they just better toddle on off. The single woman who are just fucking to ignorant to send a polite thanks but no thanks nobody likes them twats so let's show them where the door is and as for them Cocks in frocks well think we can all agree they needed shooting a long time ago. Let's also not forget them tosser who are only here to have a few laughs pfffft it's a sex site ffs what they all about. Think that pretty much covers it the place is all nice and tidy now we have got rid of all the riff-raff. Hope you enjoy your nice empty site "
you forgot the breeders |
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"So block them and message the ones you think are nice.
Problem solved. You don't get messages you don't want and you don't come across as a bit whiney. Everyone's a winner."
Wohoo the voice of sanity |
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Wohoo the voice of sanity
Which considering the time and lack of sleep, is impressive. I give it until 10am, the I'll have run out of reason."
I'm only just shaking the cobwebs by that time so go you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xxtotaly agree they are all twats"
All single men are twats? Really?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xx"
So block them and do the searching yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So block them and message the ones you think are nice.
Problem solved. You don't get messages you don't want and you don't come across as a bit whiney. Everyone's a winner."
Couldn't have put it better myself. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Single guys are our staple diet on here and not met any twats yet. If we get messages we don't want they're deleted without a thought or offence taken, really don't understand why folk get riled about unwanted messages they receive, that will always happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've been here for over a year OP so surely you know about filters, makes life a lot easier.
I receive a lot of messages, all I do is look at the avatar/ user name / 1st line of message ~ if it's not for me I delete it, simples... |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xxtotaly agree they are all twats"
Teat is that an acronym for time wasters at two ?
Delete block move on ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the defence of single men, if you were online at 1am when they messaged, they may have thought you were looking for a meet then. Meets happen all times of the day and night, they aren't constrained to 9-9. If you don't want single guys to message then block them with filters and do the searching yourselves.
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All single men are twats? Really?
Obviously Mr Monkey, you haven't read the rule book have ya "
I do find it frustrating that when I was half of a couple I had to make considerable effort to be viewed as a twat. Now people just assume it...  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"In the defence of single men, if you were online at 1am when they messaged, they may have thought you were looking for a meet then. Meets happen all times of the day and night, they aren't constrained to 9-9. If you don't want single guys to message then block them with filters and do the searching yourselves.
Sarah "
I have spoke to a couple 1 hour later I was at their hotel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found logging off Fab before midnight cut down on the d*unken booty calls considerably.
And the guys were pretty relieved too!  "
I should do this too  |
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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago
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"You've been here for over a year OP so surely you know about filters, makes life a lot easier.
I receive a lot of messages, all I do is look at the avatar/ user name / 1st line of message ~ if it's not for me I delete it, simples... "
i do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xxtotaly agree they are all twats"
What's the betting that next week your on the forum moaning "why don't I get any messages"  |
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"Single guys are our staple diet on here and not met any twats yet. If we get messages we don't want they're deleted without a thought or offence taken, really don't understand why folk get riled about unwanted messages they receive, that will always happen.
Well said but we do take offence at some messages though and these are the ones from guys that after they've received our polite 'thanks but no thanks' message then reply with an abusive, derogatory and quite often homophobic rant...We were a 'stunning and amazing' couple in their first message so go figure nobody likes rejection"
We get plenty of rejections and quite a few potentials that start well but fade away as the messages get shorter and more sporadic but we just take it on the chin and keep looking, we don't get abusive though or send another message asking 'why not?' I have been known to respond to some (very occasionally if I think it warrants a response) with a missive dripping with sarcasm and erudite observations but I've found that they're not usually that well received |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How are they to know who is online looking to booty call a single man and who is doing whatever else people do at that time of the day? If I'm online late at night and get a message I politely decline,saying I'm just on to browse. I have men blocked anyway but someone who has previously spoken to me can mail me. |
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We don't get a lot of free time for meets with work/kids etc get plenty of messages off dreamers but also some good guys out there too lol. Always try and be polite with messages no matter what time of day or night lol. If they see your online at silly o'clock then probably presume your looking rather than perving like we do at silly o'clock pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If crap messages bother you that much, block all single men and do the looking yourself.....
...maybe then you might appreciate what its like to send lots of individually crafted messages out and have them deleted without being read?
...if you are online late at night without filters, a great number of slightly squiffy dreamers will chance their arm, more than likely if you said "yes, come over now" they would be too pished to do anything about it....
...the one weird thing about all of these rants (be they from a single female/couple/single guy) is that you actually don't have to "suffer" the injustice and terrible affliction that appears to be a "message", you can just filter them out; rather than trying to change all the idiots on the site that ignore your profile or preferences, which obviously cause you enough consternation to create a forum thread....change the way you use the site......
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world – that is the myth of the atomic age – as in being able to remake ourselves.” |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"If crap messages bother you that much, block all single men and do the looking yourself.....
...maybe then you might appreciate what its like to send lots of individually crafted messages out and have them deleted without being read?
...if you are online late at night without filters, a great number of slightly squiffy dreamers will chance their arm, more than likely if you said "yes, come over now" they would be too pished to do anything about it....
...the one weird thing about all of these rants (be they from a single female/couple/single guy) is that you actually don't have to "suffer" the injustice and terrible affliction that appears to be a "message", you can just filter them out; rather than trying to change all the idiots on the site that ignore your profile or preferences, which obviously cause you enough consternation to create a forum thread....change the way you use the site......
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world – that is the myth of the atomic age – as in being able to remake ourselves.”"
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xx"
As many have suggested, use the mail filters and search yourself. If there are thousands of men on here, why sit and hope one you fancy will just happen to pm you? It may feel daunting, but in reality it is a tiny percentage who are currently mailing you.
Once you learn to use the features of the site to your advantage, you will both come to love it.
Mr ddc |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Single guys are our staple diet on here and not met any twats yet. If we get messages we don't want they're deleted without a thought or offence taken, really don't understand why folk get riled about unwanted messages they receive, that will always happen.
Well said but we do take offence at some messages though and these are the ones from guys that after they've received our polite 'thanks but no thanks' message then reply with an abusive, derogatory and quite often homophobic rant...We were a 'stunning and amazing' couple in their first message so go figure "
We get the same minus the homophobic stuff, they get blocked and totally forgotten. |
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Feedback and opinions on single men will proliferate because of the sheer numbers of them on here.
Some people in life generally would be insensitive dolts, so will likely behave the same way here. You reply to a meet now request explaining you're busy and - like last night's - they'll ask if they should start getting ready to come over.
If my status said I was undergoing assisted suicide someone would still message. In the hope they'd get to me and cum before I breathed my last. |
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"It amazes me an my hubby why single men come on here and complain about getting a meet with a bi couple!! I have never posted here b4 but no wunder single men don't get a look in!! We're looking for a nice single man but there all to busy messaging at
1am saying shall I come round now!!! Am sure they all think us couples r desperate for them!!! No mate I don't want a 2am booty call!!! Think u got the wrong site xxtotaly agree they are all twats
All single men are twats? Really? "
Single men are lovely...some couples are up themselves |
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It seems quite simple to me. No matter what I do good or bad I'm a twat and although it bothered me to start with I've got used to it now it's water off a ducks back.
I totally get what bike monkey said about the difference in how your seen when your on a couple profile and a single male one as I was originally a couple to |
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"It seems quite simple to me. No matter what I do good or bad I'm a twat and although it bothered me to start with I've got used to it now it's water off a ducks back.
I totally get what bike monkey said about the difference in how your seen when your on a couple profile and a single male one as I was originally a couple to "
Plus one for the way men get treated differently as singles or in a couple. Our couple profile gets messages from many couples who simply blocked Mr as a single guy .... interestingly enough, he is the same person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd rather be a twat than a sanctimonious hypocritical moron who pisses and moans just because a sex site doesn't fulfil their own needs instantly. If it bothers you so much OP leave. Trust me you won't be missed and don't let the door hit your arse on they way out! Lol |
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"It seems quite simple to me. No matter what I do good or bad I'm a twat and although it bothered me to start with I've got used to it now it's water off a ducks back.
I totally get what bike monkey said about the difference in how your seen when your on a couple profile and a single male one as I was originally a couple to
Plus one for the way men get treated differently as singles or in a couple. Our couple profile gets messages from many couples who simply blocked Mr as a single guy .... interestingly enough, he is the same person."
I'd have to point it out but then obviously I'm a twat or a single male no a twat no an an ohh bollex |
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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd rather be a twat than a sanctimonious hypocritical moron who pisses and moans just because a sex site doesn't fulfil their own needs instantly. If it bothers you so much OP leave. Trust me you won't be missed and don't let the door hit your arse on they way out! Lol "
not all single men are twats as there are a number of obnoxious morons that are female and couples,most of the people ive met have been wonderful and i call them friends and one or two of the others, i hope to forget with the help of drugs and therapy but i can't complain really  |
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