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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing!! dont think id like cuddles though, think thats too personal and intimate.
Kissing can be passionate, teasing, tempting, slightly aggressive and just a massive turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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having only ever met once, based upon an email thread centering around
wanting to snog her face off, I would say I'm for it. That said I hardly ever kissed my ex wife.. how odd.. Hang on, no its not, it was more like she harldy ever kissed me.. bitch..
I'm not bitter.. and she was a prude. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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If I cannot hug and cuddle a man I like enough to have sex with I would not want to bother in the first place.
Kissing is a huge turn-on when done properly and I would not like to meet people whose rules forbid it.
Soooo . . . yes please to both. 
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm, kissing definitely. But I think cuddling is something I'd only do with someone I was going out with.
I know that might seem backwards to some, but kissing can be lusty but cuddling to me is more a more of a lovey thing to do. |
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yeah i like kisses and cuddles. its warmer. i think without them the meet would be more mechanic, like your treating someone like meat. but plenty of people dont like to kiss with meets. so each to there own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing!! dont think id like cuddles though, think thats too personal and intimate.
Kissing can be passionate, teasing, tempting, slightly aggressive and just a massive turn on."
I second that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"
i love a kiss and a cuddle i think its nice
I couldnt kiss and cuddle anyone tho so i have to really like a meet to have sex with them as if i just saw it as sex i couldnt kiss them so there has to be a real attraction for me
im quite a sexsual lover and i think some people read wrong into that, a lot of people are scared to shiow any affection during sex on meets as they are scared it will be taken the wrong way
but yeah kisses and cuddles are good for me and no i dont want a relationship with you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and ...........
I dont think i would like to meet a guy who didnt ...They would feel very....oh i diunno...strange.
I like a guy who is ok with all forms of contact  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and couldn't imagine having sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. Just wouldn't work for me at all. As a few others have said, it would feel too mechanical.
And cuddles are lovely too, not essential, but a lovely bonus.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuddles are a no no on meets.. I never used to kiss on meets. still have no place for it during full sex, a little kissing for foreplay but certainly don't need it.
SOmetimes prefer in, instant play, cum and go. BUt on occasion I will be more intimate. I wouldn't class Is as essential.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when you have a social meet first and kiss someone you can get a bit of an idea if there's a connection,for me even no strings there has to be a connection and passion otherwise I just feel disappointed the morning after. |
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"I love kissing and couldn't imagine having sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. Just wouldn't work for me at all. As a few others have said, it would feel too mechanical.
And cuddles are lovely too, not essential, but a lovely bonus.
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Its great when it happens on a meet but with the fem of a cpl and when your told your great kisser but then the next message i wanted to continue the alarm bells start to ring  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really kiss on meets and cuddles is a no no for me. How do others feel about it?"
I have to kiss as it makes me so hot under the collar but cuddles im not fussed about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definite yes to both. Kissing is a major turn on for me, and the best way to start, kisses on my neck make my legs go to jelly.
And cuddles after, when your still shaking with pleasure, are like the icing on the cake.
Sex without kisses and cuddles is like jelly without icecream! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and cuddling - my own guy.
on meets I am not fussed. I will kiss a guy but they always instigate it. I dont encourage long drawn out snogging sessions with a stranger, it makes me feel uncomfortable.
My guy will kiss too, but again it doesnt tend to be a long drawn out kiss.
We dont really cuddle other people afterwards. We will hug them to say thank you and give them a kiss, but I wouldnt be happy if after a sex session, my guy was sitting with the other woman cuddling her, and I would feel uncomfortable cuddling another man. Im not here to find intimacy with strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And I know people are gonna say, well you cant get more intimate than penetrative sex, but its entirely different to me.
I equate kissing and cuddling with lovers, and none of my playmates are my lovers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't meet a couple who didn't kiss and cuddle. We'd feel there was something wrong with us, that they didn't find us attractive enough, and if we felt like that, how could we get ourselves up for it?
We had a short notice social meet with a couple who came down to Cornwall on holiday. They only wanted a "soft" meet, but also specified no kissing either. When we asked, "well, what can we do then?" They said "loads".
Now I've got a pretty vivid imagination, but I was "well fucked", so perhaps that's what they meant, lol.  |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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From a personal point of _iew, I have to laugh when people say I can fuck their wife, go down on her and play to my hearts content, but "you can't kiss her!" Now we have couples that won't cuddle cos it is too intimate??
Both of us love a snog and we love a cuddle too. Sometimes after the play has finished, we laze about and chat but without rushing back to our partners and really enjoy the intimacy. Have to wonder if there is jealousy when confronted by couples that won't even cuddle! Loved Jack's account of the soft swap, no snogging couple! Evening would be over before it started...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a tactile guy so both are a big yes for me in a one on one situation. I am however less so when meeting a couple, i would hate to disrespect someones husband and prolonged cuddling and kissing can.......well lets just say maybe somethings are best kept for just your partner especially if they are in the room! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and cuddling even with one-offs but only if they want to. Most men I have played with (full sex) I have kissed as I need that to get me going lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing and cuddling - my own guy.
on meets I am not fussed. I will kiss a guy but they always instigate it. I dont encourage long drawn out snogging sessions with a stranger, it makes me feel uncomfortable.
My guy will kiss too, but again it doesnt tend to be a long drawn out kiss.
We dont really cuddle other people afterwards. We will hug them to say thank you and give them a kiss, but I wouldnt be happy if after a sex session, my guy was sitting with the other woman cuddling her, and I would feel uncomfortable cuddling another man. Im not here to find intimacy with strangers. "
You sound very much like me.. I wouldnt do seperate room swaps either ( actually only time we talk to couples is when I am looking to be the extra girl as dont want to "swap" as it were)
Cuddles definately would not be something we would do.. and cuddling up in bed with another man after sex just would be wrong on a million levels. Afterwards, I do sometimes lay there and maybe still be in contact with my regular guys... but its not cuddled up...
I prefer to be the one that starts the kissing.. I also will avoid them when I dont want them.. and get the kisses on my neck etc..
I couldnt imagine kissing a meet during full sex, but the I also dont often end up in a position that is possible.
Katie. x |
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Kissing is essential for me. If people didn't kiss on meets then I wouldn't meet them. I like cuddles too but they're not essential. I sometimes like sleepovers but I don't want to fall asleep in someone's arms with their head in my chest. I don't mind spooning for a bit but then bog off back to your own side, I want to sleep face down whilst sucking my finger!
I probably want a lot from my meets. I don't want a relationship but I want some form of friendship with the people I fuck. I want laughter and filth and nonsense. I want someone who gets me and who'll fuck me how I want to be fucked as well as how they like to fuck. I want someone to experiment with me and I want to have fun with it. I like to be social with my meets and I'm not a fuck and fuck off sort. Don't get me wrong... there are times a quickie is brilliant but I want the choice. I don't like clinical sex and sex with no kissing for me is just not doable. I'd rather stay home and have a wank!
Sorry... I sort of waffled. What was the question again?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is essential for me. If people didn't kiss on meets then I wouldn't meet them. I like cuddles too but they're not essential. I sometimes like sleepovers but I don't want to fall asleep in someone's arms with their head in my chest. I don't mind spooning for a bit but then bog off back to your own side, I want to sleep face down whilst sucking my finger!
I probably want a lot from my meets. I don't want a relationship but I want some form of friendship with the people I fuck. I want laughter and filth and nonsense. I want someone who gets me and who'll fuck me how I want to be fucked as well as how they like to fuck. I want someone to experiment with me and I want to have fun with it. I like to be social with my meets and I'm not a fuck and fuck off sort. Don't get me wrong... there are times a quickie is brilliant but I want the choice. I don't like clinical sex and sex with no kissing for me is just not doable. I'd rather stay home and have a wank!
Sorry... I sort of waffled. What was the question again?! "
I could not agree with you more. Well said. |
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