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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a good way of initiating contact. Let's you check them out too without having to bother with awkward first messages, be nice if it had an add feature something like opening your friends only pics to that person for 24 hours
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink  how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes? "
Did you attach a face pic to that message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?
Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.  |
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message? "
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body) |
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i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.
so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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She may have winked accidentally? Or changed her mind? Who knows?"
I have a habit of winking / sending friends requests by mistake when using the tablet.
It's really easy to hit it by mistake when just generally nosing. It really should ask you to confirm before just sending.  |
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" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.
so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx"
They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She may have winked accidentally? Or changed her mind? Who knows?
I have a habit of winking / sending friends requests by mistake when using the tablet.
It's really easy to hit it by mistake when just generally nosing. It really should ask you to confirm before just sending. "
It does on the mobile site, I presume that's the full site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?
Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all. "
I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message?
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"
Well there you go, I'd say she saw your pic and decided you weren't her type. It happens. Move onto the next one. |
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message?
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)
Well there you go, I'd say she saw your pic and decided you weren't her type. It happens. Move onto the next one."
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By *xxxMan
over a year ago
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I don't get offended if someone winks and then doesn't reply to a message as there are a while host of reasons why that is. Some mentioned already like accidental winking or change of mood/mind, if its s couple one might have been interested but the other half not or you might have changed your profile in some way like added an interest or pic. Attaching a pic to the message which could also have put them off.
All of which are valid reasons for not replying to a message.
I'll usually only wink first if I read in their profile that they use or are receptive of winks otherwise is a message. I wouldn't worry though as at least people are reacting positively to your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message?
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"
Just seen this. Well shes not interested simple |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?
Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.
I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic "
For me, a wink is like being in a pub, seeing someone I fancy from a distance, catching their eye and giving them a sign that I'm interested in them - if the response is favourable, then I'll go over and chat.
I wink sometimes as I get a bit weary of sending messages that recieve no answer. |
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" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.
so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx
They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you"
thanks for the advice......you enjoy your weekend.....maybe i'll message the odd one that stands out......xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got to be honest - I never know what to do about a wink either. Wink back? Send a message? But why didn't they just send a message in the first place? Are they sort of kinda interested but not enough to actually say anything? Are they waiting for me to respond, or just firing off winks because they like to? Am I over-thinking it all?
Yeah. Probably that last one... Then I end up doing nothing about it at all.
I'm exactly the same. I don't really know the point of winks. If you want me to know you're interested, just message me and send a face pic
For me, a wink is like being in a pub, seeing someone I fancy from a distance, catching their eye and giving them a sign that I'm interested in them - if the response is favourable, then I'll go over and chat.
I wink sometimes as I get a bit weary of sending messages that recieve no answer."
I was just going to say that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.
so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx
They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you"
Shows how different fab opinions can be. We'd rather receive a wink, and we never ignore them, than sift through a hundred messages all of the same ilk. |
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" i like to wink.......i'm not a cut and paste merchant....so i don't want to be wasting my time messaging people who are not interested.
so a wink is good.......if i get a wink back.....a nice message will follow.......so winks are good xx
They can be,but if you're winking someone that you think generally gets a fair amount of mesages your wink will get totally ignored. If you really like the look of them I would message if I was you
Shows how different fab opinions can be. We'd rather receive a wink, and we never ignore them, than sift through a hundred messages all of the same ilk. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just a good way of initiating contact. Let's you check them out too without having to bother with awkward first messages, be nice if it had an add feature something like opening your friends only pics to that person for 24 hours
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yep, a good introduction to say you are interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wink at people that I like but feel either they look like they get lots of mail or more likely they might not like me.
It stops the other person getting possibly unwanted mail. |
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"what does a wink mean in ur eyes? "
I just assume it was a fat-fingered mistake and they meant to hit the block button. Accordingly I get in first by sending them an abusive message before blocking them myself.
As a technique, it's never let us down yet... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you send a face pic and they delete the message, whether after a wink or not, then you're clearly not what they're looking for. Don't take it personally, people have different tastes. Also don't get hung up on it, their initial wink was just an expression of interest, not a binding contract.
Put it out of your mind, clear your status (that only makes you look desperate) and move on mate |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm happy to receive winks , I 'll respond with a message,
I never send a wink initiating contact I've always thought if the profile interests me enough to contact I'll message them I think the Investment in time is worthwhile. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message?
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)"
So she didn't like your face and body!  |
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We're a pair of winkers...If we like a pic we'll fab it, if we like the pics and profile we'll wink and if we get one back we send a message with face pics. When we get a wink, we check out the winker and if we like what we see then we wink back and it's up to them to send the message including face and cock pics...P's such a perv |
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"i had a young lady send me a wink! i politly winked bk & sent a msg say thank you for tne wink how are you & shes deleted the msg!
what does a wink mean in ur eyes?
Did you attach a face pic to that message?
yep i attatched a photo of me. nothing rude (face/body)
So she didn't like your face and body! "
shes actually just msgd saying she doesnt fink shes what im lookin for. whats wrong with nice broad decent body |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get a wink I will certainly check out the profile of the sender.If I like what I see I will respond.
Never dismiss a wink."
Spoken from the male perspective. Yes, a puddle in the desert.  |
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