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How important is a face pic?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?
Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?  "
Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?
Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?
Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt "
At the very first social gather I organised in Cardiff, we came up with the idea of a helium balloon on the table, so that we could be "picked" out 
Someone kindly went to the trouble of actually getting one printed up with a photo of pampas grass on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send a face picture with every message. The best reply to asking for one was judging by your face picture your be happy when you meet mrs we dont send pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the deal breaker??"
I think it's vital.
I do like the idea of one of those mask type parties though, if they exist. Seen em on telly anyway, and I kind of like the idea of that kind of scenario. |
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By *ark074Man
over a year ago
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"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?
Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?
Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt "
IKEA's wavy mirrors appear to be the new pampas grass |
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"How are you supposed to recognise someone in the local coffee shop ?
Do we all wear carnations/ tuft of pampas grass otherwise ?
Omg was in a hillarious chat about pampas grass today. Thought he was alluding to swingers and he wasnt "
My boss was talking about cutting his pampas grass back...I nearly choked on my cappuccino! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting responses, and no less than what I expected....but....
For all the people who came back with YES its important....how many of you have pleasured someone through a glory hole?
Or...
Had a fumble and more in a dark room in a club that we all know very well?? |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I think it's vital. Attraction is a 2 way thing. I'd never want someone to be with me if they weren't attracted to me.
As for a dark room.. I like the idea of it. Anonymity is sexy. And very different in my mind |
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"Interesting responses, and no less than what I expected....but....
For all the people who came back with YES its important....how many of you have pleasured someone through a glory hole?
Or...
Had a fumble and more in a dark room in a club that we all know very well??"
yeara ago before i had the internet i used to meet guys of the chatlines. All but one where similar to how they described themselves one was just a freak of nature. Yes ive done the gloryholes and the dark rooms for the buzz.
But now my marbles are more intact i wouldnt dream of it. Plus i do socials first so how would you know who you was supposed to be meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I'm a great believer in never judge a book by its cover .
I have met some lovely men on my previous page and my new one.
I think chatting to someone for sometime and connecting should not affect your meet once you've met. Some ugly fuckers actually are good lovers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to see the face before I arrange a meet. In fact at clubs the face is the first thing I look at. Contrary to popular belief not many women actually decide whether they will shag or no based on a cock shot. And no, I've never used a glory hole and never would and have absolutely never been in one of those pitch black rooms. I like sex yes but not enough to literally have no clue who is fucking me. |
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"I dont think its vital
I prefer a personality but i know how vain most are on fab so i send my mug shot and get deleted on 1ST message saves time"
It's nothing about being vain. People use fab for hook ups and not relationships. Should it be the latter personality is more important. For a hookup you have to be attracted to someone. |
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"I dont think its vital
I prefer a personality but i know how vain most are on fab so i send my mug shot and get deleted on 1ST message saves time
It's nothing about being vain. People use fab for hook ups and not relationships. Should it be the latter personality is more important. For a hookup you have to be attracted to someone. "
Relationship or hook up if there isn't an attraction AND connection then I'm not going to enjoy it and isn't my enjoyment as important as the guys ?
The whole point is, we are all different and use the site in ways that workfor each of us.
Asking for a face pic... I don't think that makes me vain just honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I'm a great believer in never judge a book by its cover .
I have met some lovely men on my previous page and my new one.
I think chatting to someone for sometime and connecting should not affect your meet once you've met. Some ugly fuckers actually are good lovers "
why would you fuck someone who'd s ugly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think may be important prior to meeting in person. Costa take a dim view of customers shouting 'Who here is waiting to interview an NSA sex partner'.
Even more embarrassing when half the shop raises their hand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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Refuse what? To continue chatting? Or to shag them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't imagine enjoying sex with a man who I have no facial attraction to. If I shut my eyes and peeked to see a sweaty Chubby Brown with his eyes bulging it would throw me off my game. |
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"So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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Shallow as it seems
to have sex with yes because if I don't want to kiss then my libido will have switched off and there in the friend/chat only zone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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I have always refused in the past until recently where let's say we both compromised on our own rules and met. Was a little strange seeing someone for the 1st time but also strangely exciting.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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A face pic is important to me and i'd never meet without one, however i'm not necesarily looking for classically great looking men, i'm looking for a certain something that appeals to me, and I like all sorts.
My OH have said he's surprised by some of the men i've gone for, and also some of the great looking guys i've turned down, so just because someone asks for a face pic doesn't mean you can assume what they want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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Yep we'd refuse them. Simply can't be with someone there is no physical attraction with. Plus we would have blocked them before it got to that stage as a face pic is a requirement of ours from the off and is non negotiable with potential play mates. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok...so we all seem to believe that it is rather important...but..
what if we wait a little longer for the face pic and get to know the other person a little more before we dive straight for the face pic??
So would you flat refuse someone you seemingly got on with on the basis of their face pic?
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In the days before the internet and before I ever knew about swinging I fell in love with someone based on our telephone conversations. When we met he made Quasimodo look like Adonis. We had a relationship for a year or so.
This is not about building a relationship until we have love before we meet (although it happens). For my safety I want to know who I am going to meet. I don't ask for a picture until I have exchanged a few messages and think it might be worth seeing if the chat will develop to a meet. In one case it turned out to be someone I knew through work so we agreed to just laugh it off. In other cases I just get blocked once I send a picture or told I'm not their type. It's a two way process.
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