A last minute meet or a meet well planned in advance? What do people prefer and what works best in your opinion? We were considering a little mmmf tonight which is a bit short notice, does anyone else do this? |
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over a year ago
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I tend to talk to people for a fair while in advance - I talked to the last person I met for five months beforehand - and as my meets tend to live a fair while away in advance works the best. |
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I like to get to know someone before a meet so its usually planned ahead, on the otherhand though, once I do know somebody and have met them before, I have no issues with short notice. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"I tend to talk to people for a fair while in advance - I talked to the last person I met for five months beforehand - and as my meets tend to live a fair while away in advance works the best."
My normal meets are club meets but this one was a one off    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)
Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"
Not all men do 
I meet someone who expects absolutely nothing when we see each other... he usually gets a little something though  |
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"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)
Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"
We have had cum and go gangbangs before which were planned in advance and worked well but thought we might try spontaneous tonight and see if anyone turns up |
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"Women prefer planned as they prefer more of a connection (well some of them)
Men prefer spontaneous as they are about the more cum & go"
Jesus, I must be part female then if thats the case...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like short notice met but with people I have spoken to before
If I had already exchanged mail or met somebody before last minute meets work well for me, I wouldn't meet somebody I didn't know at all last minute
I find planned meets don't work, something always seems to come up and the meet cancelled before the date arrives
Plus if you plan a week or so in advance they still have time to keep looking and drop you if a better offer comes up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot
You're such a romantic...
My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks  "
Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks? |
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"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot
You're such a romantic...
My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks
Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?"
That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.
Nice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have done spontaneous meets and with the exception of an MFM we did spontaneously, all my single male spontaneous meets have been not good.
Meets are just much better when you get to know someone first. And it feels a tiny bit safer too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot
You're such a romantic...
My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks
Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?
That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.
Nice.
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That is terrifically posh! Well it looks snuggly anyway, regardless of colour. |
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"I prefer planned but I'll do ya if ya hot
You're such a romantic...
My Marxist dialectic gets all the chicks
Are you sure that it's not the purple dressing gown that gets all the chicks?
That's deep red, not purple. But I have a lot of dressing gowns, including two from the Covent Garden Dressing Gown Co.
Nice.
That is terrifically posh! Well it looks snuggly anyway, regardless of colour. "
They are gorgeous. I've got one that's black and yellow and another that's red, green and brown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Planned: after an exchange of messages and a social. Dodged many a bullet I can tell you! "
This and sometimes we may not be their type either so it works better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Abit of both, a planned meet, then if it continues they can become short notice and spontaneous, happend to me the other day, meet after a while of talking, then then the next had 2 messages and was there again within the hour, was very sexy actually |
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