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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even   |
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"On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even "
Are we related by any chance.
I make a very good friend or your worst enemie choice is yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My worst trait is probably my ability to completely cut people from my life when I see no further benefit from the acquaintance.
Of course, it's only bad from the perspective of others.... |
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Off cause i have lots of things about me that are not so good those that get to know me find out. I prefer to concentrate on the good things. A very good gentleman friend said if im in your life you have to take the good and bad and the good more than makes up for the bad |
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"On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even "
I'm also Scorpio and it's very true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My worst trait is that I talk too much. I just don't know when to shut up, or how. I go on and on and I don't notice if anyone is even listening. I have tons of other bad traits as well but I think that's the one that annoys people the most. And it's not something I can even hide. I can either sit and say nothing. Or relax and talk loads. There is no middle ground. I even do it when I'm writing a message on forums. Or emails. Or on the phone. I even had a mate who used to give me a time limit for talking. That's how bad I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I long abandoned beating myself up about the many-many improvement opportunities that infest my persona....
I'm of an age where life experience has taught me to treat the imposter of self loathing with the contempt it deservers and focus on the reward of knowing that occasionally my actions and deeds help make the lives of people less fortunate than me a little more bearable...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even
I'm also Scorpio and it's very true "
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I'm a Scorpio as well and I hate to say it I will wait years if have to get even with someone .also I don't trust easily and once you break my trust that's it ,I will never trust you again .debsx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm really soft. For example I was called a sad pathetic whore this morning because someone didn't understand what I like (never had a conversation with the guy). I got a little upset sad I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a terrible people pleaser and find it hard to say no to anyone when they ask me to help or do stuff, then I get overwhelmed by it all and end up making myself feel really stressed 
A x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even "
Confucius say.... “Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.” . com  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On this site we mostly say about our good points but is there something about you that isn't so nice ?
I'll start....(and probably finish the thread ) I am like a true scorpion, I have a real sting in my tail. Upset me and I'm not happy till I get even
I'm also Scorpio and it's very true .
I'm a Scorpio as well and I hate to say it I will wait years if have to get even with someone .also I don't trust easily and once you break my trust that's it ,I will never trust you again .debsx"
Don't mess with a Scorpio
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Also a Scorpio but with the ability to cut you dead and leave rather than take revenge, I don't trust easily either, I build walls and hold myself back just in case, also I don't suffer fools and it shows in my face  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My worse trate is my anxiety I talk myself out of most things for completely stupid reasons. Xxx
I know how you feel as I do it almost daily x"
The only thing I don't talk myself out of is sleep.  xxx |
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I'm too nice. I will bend over backwards to try to be polite or see something from someone else's perspective or not upset anyone when sometimes you should just cut that shit out and whip out your inner bitch. 
My inner bitch needs to get out more often. She needs airing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My worst traits are that I grind my teeth when I sleep and drool on the pillow.
That's why I never spend the night out or like people sleeping in the bed with me...
It's turned quite a few women off... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite clumsy, almost to Frank Spencer levels sometimes  it has been remarked by several people that it's a miracle I ever make it through a day alive or without causing major injury to myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too nice. I will bend over backwards to try to be polite or see something from someone else's perspective or not upset anyone when sometimes you should just cut that shit out and whip out your inner bitch.
My inner bitch needs to get out more often. She needs airing. "
I can give lessons |
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I'm argumentative, sometimes in the extreme.
And although people who know me will all say I'm a great friend and very generous I'm only doing for myself. I'm a selfish arse really.
To prove my point about being argumentative, humble bragging that your "fault" is that people shouldn't mess with you cos you'll get them back (as per every other post on here) is a bit naff.
Choke on that!
I on the other hand forgive very, very easily.
I believe holding a grudge is like drinking the poison yourself and expecting the other person to get sick.
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My worst trait is that I have no real traits. I'm very good at appearing to be whatever the person I'm with thinks I am. Don't get me wrong, I'm not submissive (although I can act it). Just quite good at reading people, empathising with what they want and making them feel they're getting it. Not sure if that's good or bad but it seems to work well for me. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I put barriers up and won't allow people to get too close. I have quite a hard shell but once penatrated I am a loyal friend.I can be extremely fiery and will speak my mind but only if I think the person or cause is worth it otherwise I will walk away without a backwards glance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a nightmare. I'm the kind of woman they warn you not to marry.
I'm selfish
I can't cook (or maybe I won't cook? )
I can't sew
My sense of direction is shite
I shrink important items in the tumble dryer
I never seperate my whites when doing a wash and hope the mixed load option will just magically work.
Kwik Fit have their own nickname for me, and it doesn't allude to my sex skills, they call me SUCKER
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not gunna fib.. and most likely shorten the list of people willing to meet me but I'm a very self satisfying kinda guy... don't get me wrong I'm all for pleasing a sexual partner but I'm all good when I'm all good lol e.g. if I fancy nothing but eating pussy well I'm doing it for like 8hours |
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"I'm too nice. I will bend over backwards to try to be polite or see something from someone else's perspective or not upset anyone when sometimes you should just cut that shit out and whip out your inner bitch.
My inner bitch needs to get out more often. She needs airing.
I can give lessons "
I could honestly do with them 
I just had to air her out slightly with a very persistent guy that would not accept a ladylike and polite no thank you without railing at the rejection in a series of arsey messages (I should not have fed his drama by explaining my no thank you) 
If only you could teach me your ways, my goddess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm shy, but cover it up by talking and joking - people then think I'm confident, but I'm not!
I can also be a real bitch if someone upsets me."
Shy?
I don't think so!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few character traits that I really wish I didn't...
I don't find it easy trusting people, always think they have an ulterior motive when they are nice to me. The down side to that is when someone eventually gains my trust it both upsets me then after a time extremely angers me if they betray the trust that took me so long to give in the first place. I'm a nightmare for cutting people out of my life when they cross that line.
On the flip side I'm such a softy. I'd do anything for my friends or family. Once someone is in friends zone no ask is too big (as long as it doesn't involve breaking any laws  )
Last but not least.... I'm a 'wee blether' would honestly talk the hind legs off a donkey . On the plus side if talking becomes an Olympic sport, I'm a sure fire gold medalist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm too nice. I will bend over backwards to try to be polite or see something from someone else's perspective or not upset anyone when sometimes you should just cut that shit out and whip out your inner bitch.
My inner bitch needs to get out more often. She needs airing.
I can give lessons
I could honestly do with them
I just had to air her out slightly with a very persistent guy that would not accept a ladylike and polite no thank you without railing at the rejection in a series of arsey messages (I should not have fed his drama by explaining my no thank you)
If only you could teach me your ways, my goddess "
That's easy, never, ever feel you have to explain your boundaries - if it helps, that guy validated your decision by his reaction, which showed he has zero respect for the boundaries of others. Thus, your boundaries are effective  |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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Another Scorpio here and I think the traits already described for many of us really do hold true. Thing is though, I don't actually see the inability to forgive or forget is necessarily a bad thing .... why *should* I do that when someone's been deliberately or carelessly horrid? Why use up emotional energy trying to forgive people who don't give a damn when there are plenty of others more worthy of your time?
My worst traits are a near complete lack of confidence and a general mistrust of others ... which probably means I lose out on friendships and fun opportunities, but find it very hard to let go in those respects.
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