Hiya
I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem
"I'm here" !
But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males
Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?
Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx |
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Although I meet with my partner, I also have a single profile where I meet women alone .... but, as well as you being too far away, I found too many things that were 'no's' for you were things I am into .... plus I don't have the time for long drawn out chats. Pity really because who knows, we may have got on. Pepper. |
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"Maybe it's because you've only currently meet single men? Wouldn't bother me but it might bother some. "
I have always said I would meet single men, single fems and couples
The only thing that has changed is I don't meet single males alone anymore as I have tried it and it's not my thing - that's where my veris have come from, and one is from my previous couples profile so I have actually only met one male as a meet alone fem xx |
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It reads well to me (fem), I can't see anything that would put people off, very clear on what you want and like. However, we are outside your preferences so wouldn't message you and I like the pics you have ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Although I meet with my partner, I also have a single profile where I meet women alone .... but, as well as you being too far away, I found too many things that were 'no's' for you were things I am into .... plus I don't have the time for long drawn out chats. Pity really because who knows, we may have got on. Pepper."
Thankyou for the reply
I know a lot of people have a lot of different preferences but surely some couples have the same as me xx |
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"It reads well to me (fem), I can't see anything that would put people off, very clear on what you want and like. However, we are outside your preferences so wouldn't message you and I like the pics you have "
Thankyou
Xx |
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"It's cause you're bi
Why would that stop MF bi fem couples messaging me ? Lol "
Sorry, nothing to do with you being female, just the bi bit as we all know bi guys won't get any offers here, was a lame joke..... I'll get my coat ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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"Youve blocked single guys for a few days now. I often browse your profile "
I turned them off and on at times and updated my status but I'm no longer meeting single guys now so it's staying off xx |
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"Distance and the fact you're a smoker but other than that you have a cracking profile. Hope you have more luck in the future "
Thankyou
I'm similar the other way round it puts me off if people don't smoke lol - well I wouldn't not meet because of it but easier if they do so it wasent awkward when I wanted a cig
Thanks for the compliments on my profile xx |
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"It's cause you're bi
Why would that stop MF bi fem couples messaging me ? Lol
Sorry, nothing to do with you being female, just the bi bit as we all know bi guys won't get any offers here, was a
lame joke..... I'll get my coat "
Oh ! Lol ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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As your only veris are off men that maybe a little off putting, saying that we would meet you if everyone likes the face photos.
Sure you'll have no problems getting meets |
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"Hiya
I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem
"I'm here" !
But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males
Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?
Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx "
as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...
are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple? |
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"As your only veris are off men that maybe a little off putting, saying that we would meet you if everyone likes the face photos.
Sure you'll have no problems getting meets"
I haven't got veris from couples because I haven't met any yet because I don't get many messages catch 22 lol
And I have only met one male as a meet alone fem the other veri was a previous meet when we met as a couple and I/we no longer do both lol xx |
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"Hiya
I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem
"I'm here" !
But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males
Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?
Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx
as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...
are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple? "
I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx |
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"Hiya
I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem
"I'm here" !
But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males
Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?
Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx
as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...
are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple?
I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx "
then I suggest you get proactive and do a search of bifem couples in your area...it wouldn't do any harm and it would put you in the driving seat, as it were![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Hiya
I see so many profiles and forum topics about couples who can't find the "play alone" fem
"I'm here" !
But I don't seem to get many messages from couples mainly single men before i changed my profile this morning and turned on my message filters from single males
Is there something in my profile that put couples off ? Or is it me ?
Any GENUINE advice would be great Thankyou xx
as we all know there a lot of couples looking for the fabled play alone fem...
are you looking to play with both or with just the fem of the couple as that would obviously have a bearing on whether they contacted you or not? or were you looking for just the fem of a couple?
I play with both the male and female if I met a couple xx
then I suggest you get proactive and do a search of bifem couples in your area...it wouldn't do any harm and it would put you in the driving seat, as it were "
When we had our couples profile we were never messaged by meet alone fems although we do have a couple of meets ffm - we had to do all the searching and messaging and it was hard work to arrange - do couples like meet alone fems to message them too ? Xx |
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