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"Can you have some kind of relationship purely online without Physically meeting? I've been asked to do this a few times and don't understand it. Is it just me? " I met my ex husband online and we were together a year before we met in person. So it is do able, but it takes a lot of work and trust and it does get hard at times. Even though we are divorced now, it was well worth bit at the time. Poppy x | |||
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"I've had two online subs, it was so challenging to Dom someone without physically meeting them, but as an exercise in domination, I learned more than I could from a physical dynamic, it forced me to get really creative, and find new ways to administer punishment. One of them wanted to be trained as a slut, which I thought was an odd request, but I soon realised that she wanted to sleep with multiple men, but guilt was getting in the way, by my ordering her to go out and fuck, it was facilitating her fantasy, and absolving her of guilt. She certainly got what she wanted, in the end she found herself a physical Dom in her area, and now she's really happy, so in a sense, that relationship worked "How can you punish though without being there physically? As in, you can't cane yourself for example. I understand the absolving of guilt although I wonder whether that self forgiveness stays with you. | |||
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"In short I'd say no - a relationship, in my eyes and surely by definition, includes physicality. " I vote for a no too. | |||
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"I've had two online subs, it was so challenging to Dom someone without physically meeting them, but as an exercise in domination, I learned more than I could from a physical dynamic, it forced me to get really creative, and find new ways to administer punishment. One of them wanted to be trained as a slut, which I thought was an odd request, but I soon realised that she wanted to sleep with multiple men, but guilt was getting in the way, by my ordering her to go out and fuck, it was facilitating her fantasy, and absolving her of guilt. She certainly got what she wanted, in the end she found herself a physical Dom in her area, and now she's really happy, so in a sense, that relationship worked
How can you punish though without being there physically? As in, you can't cane yourself for example.
I understand the absolving of guilt although I wonder whether that self forgiveness stays with you.
"That's when orgasam denial and humiliation comes into play, like I said it was very challenging, and I loved the challenge part of it, that's what was rewarding for me, instead of having sexual gratification, my satisfaction was in watching her grow as a person and let go of all the repression, and negativity towards sex and sexuality, and all from over a thousand miles away, it was an achievement I think | |||
