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I'm not gay/bi but....
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Seen a few posts/comments now from guys that say they're straight, but are looking to sleep with TV/CD :/
I could kind of understand if they were looking for someone who is TS, but arn't TV/CD 100% physically male?
Is there a stigma about a guy saying they're bi?
Seems to be a lot of women's fantasy on here so not sure what they're afraid of? |
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"Seen a few posts/comments now from guys that say they're straight, but are looking to sleep with TV/CD :/
I could kind of understand if they were looking for someone who is TS, but arn't TV/CD 100% physically male?
Is there a stigma about a guy saying they're bi?
Seems to be a lot of women's fantasy on here so not sure what they're afraid of?"
Since you are straight, you are not going to be playing with them in any event. Why is it of interest? |
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it puts a lot of women off apparently.. so they pretend theyre straight as women are usually the main reason theyre here.
but to be honest as long as your in heels ,sexy outfit and dont look too bad most guys dont care what youve got between your legs that much |
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Since you are straight, you are not going to be playing with them in any event. Why is it of interest?"
Just seems strange to me. Like they're lying to themselves. If you're going to be open about your sexuality, surely this is the place to do it? |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
There's s similar amount of negativity towards people who tell lies.....  "
Do you think there might me another train of thought Soxy, or is yours the only valid opinion? |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
There's s similar amount of negativity towards people who tell lies.....
Do you think there might me another train of thought Soxy, or is yours the only valid opinion?"
Well here's the thing....
Some women have a preference not to meet guys who engage in same sex activity ..... are they not entitled to the respect of having a fair chance to avoid the deception of guys who lie..
Perhaps not everything is a clear cut in your world ..... but I don't trust liars... and do you know what..... I'm very comfortable with that ... |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
There's s similar amount of negativity towards people who tell lies.....
Do you think there might me another train of thought Soxy, or is yours the only valid opinion?
Well here's the thing....
Some women have a preference not to meet guys who engage in same sex activity ..... are they not entitled to the respect of having a fair chance to avoid the deception of guys who lie..
Perhaps not everything is a clear cut in your world ..... but I don't trust liars... and do you know what..... I'm very comfortable with that ... "
And that's my point. In my opinion a persons sexuality is based upon the gender they find atractive which is not necessarily the same as the gender of an individual they have had relations with.
In my opinion, somone who has relations with a TS/TG may see themselves as straight and and so calling themselves straight is not a lie.
In your opinion, they are a liar. Ergo, you may consider them a liar, but that's not fact, just your opinion. |
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"Maybe the site should be set so that if you select tvcd as an interest it auto selects bi curious."
That may be the most blinkered statement I have ever seen from someone I consider to be an enlightened forum member. |
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"I messaged a woman, she replied back "I don't do bi men, real men only".
I was so deeply upset that I went and painted my shed, in a manly colour."
Don't take heed of one person's opinion, I liked it pink .... |
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Since you are straight, you are not going to be playing with them in any event. Why is it of interest?
Just seems strange to me. Like they're lying to themselves. If you're going to be open about your sexuality, surely this is the place to do it? "
I am open about my sexuality and my circumstances.
It is fairly easy to spot those who aren't. And I am not judging them.
I have no idea why you are remotely interested in bi men though. |
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"I messaged a woman, she replied back "I don't do bi men, real men only".
I was so deeply upset that I went and painted my shed, in a manly colour."
I really wish there was a love button for your comment. X |
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"I messaged a woman, she replied back "I don't do bi men, real men only".
I was so deeply upset that I went and painted my shed, in a manly colour.
I really wish there was a love button for your comment. X"
I've seen a few love buttons on this site ?? |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
There's s similar amount of negativity towards people who tell lies.....
Do you think there might me another train of thought Soxy, or is yours the only valid opinion?
Well here's the thing....
Some women have a preference not to meet guys who engage in same sex activity ..... are they not entitled to the respect of having a fair chance to avoid the deception of guys who lie..
Perhaps not everything is a clear cut in your world ..... but I don't trust liars... and do you know what..... I'm very comfortable with that ...
And that's my point. In my opinion a persons sexuality is based upon the gender they find atractive which is not necessarily the same as the gender of an individual they have had relations with.
In your opinion, somone who has relations with a TS/TG may see themselves as straight and and so calling themselves straight is not a lie.
In your opinion, they are a liar. Ergo, you may consider them a liar, but that's not fact, just your opinion. "
My profile clearly explains that I am nothing more than a bisexual bloke who enjoys wearing a frock...therefore there is no earthy reason to suggest I'd be a compatibly matched sexual partner for a straight man....
So when I'm contacted by a man whose profile information says he is straight with a message telling me he is actually bisexual but has an ulterior motive for not being honest about it on his profile..... I can be quietly confident he is no stranger to manipulating the truth to satisfy his own ends.....
In my book that makes him a liar... I don't trust liars
But feel free to dress it up however you like....
I reserve the right not to invite random strangers into my home for sex who introduce themselves with intentionally misleading profile information......
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
There's s similar amount of negativity towards people who tell lies.....
Do you think there might me another train of thought Soxy, or is yours the only valid opinion?
Well here's the thing....
Some women have a preference not to meet guys who engage in same sex activity ..... are they not entitled to the respect of having a fair chance to avoid the deception of guys who lie..
Perhaps not everything is a clear cut in your world ..... but I don't trust liars... and do you know what..... I'm very comfortable with that ...
And that's my point. In my opinion a persons sexuality is based upon the gender they find atractive which is not necessarily the same as the gender of an individual they have had relations with.
In your opinion, somone who has relations with a TS/TG may see themselves as straight and and so calling themselves straight is not a lie.
In your opinion, they are a liar. Ergo, you may consider them a liar, but that's not fact, just your opinion.
My profile clearly explains that I am nothing more than a bisexual bloke who enjoys wearing a frock...therefore there is no earthy reason to suggest I'd be a compatibly matched sexual partner for a straight man....
So when I'm contacted by a man whose profile information says he is straight with a message telling me he is actually bisexual but has an ulterior motive for not being honest about it on his profile..... I can be quietly confident he is no stranger to manipulating the truth to satisfy his own ends.....
In my book that makes him a liar... I don't trust liars
But feel free to dress it up however you like....
I reserve the right not to invite random strangers into my home for sex who introduce themselves with intentionally misleading profile information......
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"surely this is the place to do it?
I am open about my sexuality and my circumstances.
It is fairly easy to spot those who aren't. And I am not judging them.
I have no idea why you are remotely interested in bi men though."
I'm just interested in why they feel the need to hide their sexuality on what I thought was a site very sexually open website.
Plus thought it would make an interesting convo, and I think it has! |
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"surely this is the place to do it?
I am open about my sexuality and my circumstances.
It is fairly easy to spot those who aren't. And I am not judging them.
I have no idea why you are remotely interested in bi men though.
I'm just interested in why they feel the need to hide their sexuality on what I thought was a site very sexually open website.
Plus thought it would make an interesting convo, and I think it has! "
Its a device subject on here that has been done many-many time over without ever reaching an accord..
Suffice to say each person should be happy with whatever works for them... |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
I'm openly bi and have never experienced any negativity "
Pretty much my point.
Although I'm not attracted to men in the slightest I'm happy to call myself bi as my other half is technically a man. I have also never experienced any negativity whatsoever regarding this.
But I see it all the time on the forum. |
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"surely this is the place to do it?
I am open about my sexuality and my circumstances.
It is fairly easy to spot those who aren't. And I am not judging them.
I have no idea why you are remotely interested in bi men though.
I'm just interested in why they feel the need to hide their sexuality on what I thought was a site very sexually open website.
Plus thought it would make an interesting convo, and I think it has! "
Maybe they're still unsure about it, so rather than say they're bi, it might be easier to say straight, that way random men won't message them and they can take things at their own pace.
I remember messing with friends as a teen. I used to get a really guilty feeling after and a bit of self loathing. But when I was growing up, gay, fag, homo, queer were used as insults, so I guess I thought they must be bad things. |
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"There is a lot of negativity towards bi men on here, op.
I'm openly bi and have never experienced any negativity
Pretty much my point.
Although I'm not attracted to men in the slightest I'm happy to call myself bi as my other half is technically a man. I have also never experienced any negativity whatsoever regarding this.
But I see it all the time on the forum. "
Same for us. We have seen it talked about on the forums and seen some poor comments, but in real life, we try to avoid it, to be honest. |
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"surely this is the place to do it?
I am open about my sexuality and my circumstances.
It is fairly easy to spot those who aren't. And I am not judging them.
I have no idea why you are remotely interested in bi men though.
I'm just interested in why they feel the need to hide their sexuality on what I thought was a site very sexually open website.
Plus thought it would make an interesting convo, and I think it has! "
Are you coming out of the closet?  |
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