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I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? |
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over a year ago
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
Eh midnight to 5am is 5hrs where does the hr after meeting come from? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't "hope" for them but I only sleep with people I really like and get on with as friends as well as sexually. So spooning up together if it's an over nighter is something I enjoy as much as the sex together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always enjoyed overnight meets, it's is nice to have a snuggle after sex if that's what you are both happy with, plus the morning sex is always a bonus  "
Of course morning sex mmmmmmm  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"I very rarely stay over, but then I always tell the person before we meet that I won't be staying the night... "
Exactly this - did you say that you will or wont be staying the night
Communication is the key  |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
Not at all .
Clearly she had a different agenda , more akin to a dating site .
NSA all the way for us . |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
Not at all .
Clearly she had a different agenda , more akin to a dating site .
NSA all the way for us ."
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"Fuck and go well thanks that was good thanks for having me lets do it again sometime "
I have done that too, had some fun, had a chat and left, the circumstances of a meet dictate what the right thing to do is |
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"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up.
Careful mate. Don't generalise. "
I know you'll store this conversation and bring it up in the future when I think all is forgotten/forgiven. |
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"He said he's just been verbally slaughtered. He didn't say the meet had just occurred. Women like to store shit up.
Careful mate. Don't generalise.
I know you'll store this conversation and bring it up in the future when I think all is forgotten/forgiven."
Surely people don't save posts on their notes about that person so they can use it against them at a later more convenient time???  |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
Depends on the circumstances.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No cuddles required
I've developed a technique where I can dress them as they cum
By the time I've swallowed, they're half way down the stairs
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Too funny  |
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It's really worth investing time before a meet to ensure expectations are matched and appropriate. Kissing, cuddling, available time are just some aspects to cover.
If you have misled someone then it's poor and predictable that someone feels aggrieved. Otherwise if you need to leave then you're at liberty as a non-incarcerated individual to get out. |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
There's no rules..... Make sure you tell your next potential that it's a Till Cum do Us Part type of meet.......
And then pray LIKE FUCK that she doesn't come first and kick your ass as you leave
You did nothing wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fuck and go always seems so cold and clinical especially if you know the person quite well or,thought you did.
Almost feels like you may as well hold your hand out and get paid. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
????? It's 9:15pm
Wot country you in ?????? |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
????? It's 9:15pm
Wot country you in ??????"
wow just wow hahaha |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
????? It's 9:15pm
Wot country you in ??????"
This was posted over twenty weeks ago haha. Not sure if you looked at the date lol. |
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It all depends on what kind of meet it was and what was agreed on...if the session was intense leaving her after an hour is selfish... after care is as important as the play.
Communicate however lustful you feel.  |
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Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol
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I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
????? It's 9:15pm
Wot country you in ??????
This was posted over twenty weeks ago haha. Not sure if you looked at the date lol. "
Lol ya I just notised lol |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
????? It's 9:15pm
Wot country you in ??????"
check out when it was posted...
21 weeks ago
who knows what time the OP posted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a good post coital spoon myself
Now you're talking!
Anytime sunshine smile 
Besides a snoozy spoon helps round two access "
There is that.... I'm not the one and done type anyway |
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Love a good post coital spoon myself
Now you're talking!
Anytime sunshine smile
Besides a snoozy spoon helps round two access
There is that.... I'm not the one and done type anyway "
Same here.. can't get enough of a good thing |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy. |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. "
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...  |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy."
Nice that you see it that way. But I disagree with your needy point. Its a hug, not a wedding ring lol. NSA doesn't have to mean cold and clinical. |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?... "
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies "
Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before! |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies "
And he denied her a cuddle for a full hour before leaving?! That's just cruel |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?... "
No, just bad English, met at midnight, yapping, drinking fucking till 4am left at 5..
Neither fuck & go or all nighters are wrong, but you need to make sure you are all singing the same tune.
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies
And he denied her a cuddle for a full hour before leaving?! That's just cruel"
Think it was chat, shag and quickly exit straight after... Literally |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies
Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before! "
lol genitals ain't that attractive really |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I do love an overnight meet. It's usually planned though that it's an overnight.
I do love the anytime during the night and morning sex. Cuddling in to each other and spooning.
You haven't done anything wrong and no one deserves to be abused verbally like that. Deep breath and move on.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I don't do cold clinical meets, but I make that clear up front. Years ago a young pup thought he was being funny, but he wasn't laughing when I told him to get dressed and get the fuck out (wasn't from here)
I'm nobodies fuck and go |
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"Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....
So I was hoping
Did you get some cuddles and smooches? "
He hasn't even messaged!
I was starting to go off him  , then he put that bloody blonde wig on!
Got me all going again, it did |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet.
We didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left.
Does anyone else see the mathematical problem here?...
I hear what you're say, I'm guessing he means 1 hour after they bumped uglies
Bumped uglies??? Hahaha not heard that one before!
lol genitals ain't that attractive really "
Mine is carved from Greek Gods I'll have you know! That's why I don't show it on here.... Jealousy is an ugly, ugly thing! |
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou. "
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot. |
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"Well I was matched with Markoh for a pint....
So I was hoping
Did you get some cuddles and smooches?
He hasn't even messaged!
I was starting to go off him , then he put that bloody blonde wig on!
Got me all going again, it did "
Tempting you with that blonde wig! He's nothing but a tease! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot. "
I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol
I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally. "
if a meet tried to cuddle id freak. |
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.
I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "
You are your own little central heating unit then! |
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Clearly wasn't much talking up front to agree the plans lol
I would have thought a cuddle was a given. I'd feel used without a little imtimacy personally. if a meet tried to cuddle id freak. "
Lol. Each to their own. That's why i prefer regular to one nighters. |
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"I like a cuddle after sex with a lady.
Glad you qualified that bud, you'd have had a dozen blow and go emails if not!!
Forums get all the "straight" dudes lurkin "
They are starting to arrive!!! the lock button is on fire  |
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"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion."
Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'? |
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou. "
Oh to be in your bed........ |
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot. "
I can cope for a couple of minutes and then I just want to sprawl out |
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"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.
Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'? "
Possibly. He definitely farted a lot. |
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.
I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "
Same. I'll warm them up then they have to roll over and leave me alone so I can stick my feet out of the end of the duvet. |
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"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.
Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?
Possibly. He definitely farted a lot."
Dreams of sulphurous volcanoes? |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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Im a cuddler but each to their own. OP nowt wrong or right with what you did as it was your meet and perhaps she expected more and you didnt relaise. May be next time (assuming you meet her again) you can just cuddle to make up for it |
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"Cuddles are great but sleep is a purely solo excercise. I fell asleep in MrWho's arms on Sunday and it was a momentous occasion.
Did he pick his nose and wipe it in your hair when you was sleepin'?
Possibly. He definitely farted a lot.
Dreams of sulphurous volcanoes? "
The Apocalypse. It was all fire and brimstone |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more "
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't like "all night" cuddles in any situation.
Cuddle for a bit, but when it's time to sleep, I'm fucking off to my side of the bed and you can leave me alone, thankyou.
Yasss I'm not a cuddler, I get too hot.
I'm quite hot (in a literal sense) and if I really like a person, I may donate some of my heat, but then I get too hot and have to start poling my legs out. "
Exactly what we do! H is like ice compared to me so cuddles to warm up, post sex cuddles till she's asleep then it's "Get me the fuck to the cold side of the bed & turn the pillows too!! Our alarm is set 45mins before we need to get up. So cuddles are first & last thing we do each day
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"What I don't like is waking up in the night with a huge arm and leg pinning me down onto the bed. I get all panicky and want to cry. "
I get that, but how about a hot hard boaby between your thighs/cheeks? That ok? |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "
I had an ex that did this, awesome... best way to wake up with some sexy tampering going on |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "
We still haven't concluded that picture deal we discussed |
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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
I prefer over night meets and cuddling and kissing it's just seems right . |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "
Isn't that rape? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep! "
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.
Isn't that rape? Lol"
I explicitly give my permission before sleeping |
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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. "
Poor car ! Lmao |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. "
^ she's so flipping blunt. |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "
Best way to wake them up! |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. "
Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.
Best way to wake them up!"
I'm always up while sleeping |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. "
Oh yes... I woke myself up inward farting once! |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it.
Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound "
Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though. |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all. "
Winning comment.
(Sometimes I do this, too, and it's always well received!) |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it.
Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound
Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though. "
If you hold your bum cheeks apart it doesn't make a sound. Obviously that won't stop the smell but if it's the noise you're concerned about. |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.
Isn't that rape? Lol"
Right for 2 years I've expressed my fondness for sleeping guys and people have said it's essentially rape because you can't give consent if you're not concious. But, every guy that's put himself in my bedroom is fully aware of what will happen. |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it.
Ha ha the trick is to do it on the loo but flush it as you're about to pass wind.Smothers the sound
Or if you can't get to your car if you put your finger over your bum hole you can release it like a puff, have to wash your fingers afterwards though.
If you hold your bum cheeks apart it doesn't make a sound. Obviously that won't stop the smell but if it's the noise you're concerned about."
Although if you need a hand someday with that ruby give me a call happily be your cheeky lad lol |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.
Isn't that rape? Lol
Right for 2 years I've expressed my fondness for sleeping guys and people have said it's essentially rape because you can't give consent if you're not concious. But, every guy that's put himself in my bedroom is fully aware of what will happen. "
Prior awareness and acceptance equals not rape |
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"I like a short spoon afterwards but then I like the guy to have a deep sleep so I can do my sleep things.
Intriguing tell me more
I like sucking the willys of sleeping men that's all.
Isn't that rape? Lol
Right for 2 years I've expressed my fondness for sleeping guys and people have said it's essentially rape because you can't give consent if you're not concious. But, every guy that's put himself in my bedroom is fully aware of what will happen. "
*Heads to Wales for a nap |
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"Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do
Are you saying your meets don't last an hour? "
I should be so lucky |
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"Also, I get massive fear that I may accidentally fart in my sleep!
Yeah and do you notice how your stomach does weird fart things like your fart disappears up in to your stomach and It only happens when you've got a guy in your bed. I've had to go out to my car at stupid hours in the morning to fart in it. "
Wow! I thought that was just me! Haha. |
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"Up unless I have been speaking to the person for a while I won't even stay the hour ... So u stayed longer than I do
Are you saying your meets don't last an hour?
I should be so lucky "
Meeting the wrong dudes |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong? "
Sleepovers are best, but as long as the guy doesn't run out the door as soon as he's done it's fine. An hour should do. |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
Sleepovers are best, but as long as the guy doesn't run out the door as soon as he's done it's fine. An hour should do."
I'm just getting tired in my jaw after an hour... what's the hurry |
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I love cuddles and smoochies, with the right person (even without sex) - but agree that after a while, I often get too hot, so have to disengage, to cool down. |
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"Fuck no, most men snore.....one of my pet hates!!!!"
Met a few of those... I usually make excuses in that regard, of why I have to go home a bit earlier than planned. |
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"Fuck no, most men snore.....one of my pet hates!!!!
Met a few of those... I usually make excuses in that regard, of why I have to go home a bit earlier than planned. "
Their loss snoring mofos
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"Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep.
Spoobing sounds hot "
It is
Gently cup one arm around your ladies waist and the other arm under her chest gently cupping a breast and gently nibble at the nape of her neck till.you nod off. |
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"Best thing about post meets is the after sex spoobing in bed till we both fall asleep.
Spoobing sounds hot
It is
Gently cup one arm around your ladies waist and the other arm under her chest gently cupping a breast and gently nibble at the nape of her neck till.you nod off."
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If it's only a one off meet then why worry.
When ya go for a crap you don't cuddle it afterwards do you??
However, if it's likely to be an on going thing then maybe a little bit of communication & consideration may not have gone a miss. |
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"If it's only a one off meet then why worry.
When ya go for a crap you don't cuddle it afterwards do you??
However, if it's likely to be an on going thing then maybe a little bit of communication & consideration may not have gone a miss."
you're from that school of charm aren't you? |
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"I've just been verbally slaughtered for leaving an hour after a meet. She told me I should have stayed over to cuddle her. Taking in to account that we didn't meet till midnight and it was nearly 5 am when I left. Am I wrong?
In my mind its nsa and its fine to leave pretty much straight away. I'd see anything else as much too needy."
Tbh I think there'll always be a difference in the 'needs' of couples and singles on fab! Couples get (or should get) all their emotional/affection needs from their partners so they tend to look to other sexual partners purely for sex (and perhaps friendship). Singles, unless they have kids (which is a different kind of affection obviously), don't have a partner to satisfy their affection/nurturing needs so they often look for compatible meets to fulfil that need - eg lots of cuddles and affection after/in between sex. It doesn't make us needy or desperate for a relationship (as some seem to think) - it makes us human!
However - unless it was agreed that the op would stay overnight, I think staying for an hour afterwards for cuddles seems completely reasonable! |
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