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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment."
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive."
...not heard that one before.
I might give it a go the next time i need to break some bad news to someone! |
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive."
The people I refer to only ever see the shit, never the bread. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.you mean me don't you?
Damn! I didn't think you'd notice."
It's a gift |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive.
The people I refer to only ever see the shit, never the bread."
...do you think that it's possibly a confidence thing then? |
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive.
The people I refer to only ever see the shit, never the bread.
...do you think that it's possibly a confidence thing then?"
Possibly or a hugely negative outlook on life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment."
talking about that the other day but related to memories - seem to remember the tragic moments rather than all the good things especially from childhood days - im sure i had a blast as a kid but remember well the horrid moments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here's mine:
Always live life as if it's your last day. You never know when it'll be your time to go.
oh. Very uplifting   "
...it's something i realised after losing e loved one recently..
Going to do my best and attempt new things and take up more opportunities that come up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive."
Sorry to tell you your dog is dead, no he's not, yes he is, no he's not, etc. Then end on the negative. Like that sort of thing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That some people can hear 99 good things about themselves but will focus on the 100th bad comment.
Hence the theory of the shit sandwich. If you have to tell someone something negative, go positive, negative, positive.
Sorry to tell you your dog is dead, no he's not, yes he is, no he's not, etc. Then end on the negative. Like that sort of thing? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...here's one to think about.
Mention something that you learnt today.
It could be anything."
never answer the door to the postman seconds after watching porn  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...here's one to think about.
Mention something that you learnt today.
It could be anything. never answer the door to the postman seconds after watching porn "
...i know the feeling mate!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*  "
So what happens after sex if you don't cuddle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
So what happens after sex if you don't cuddle?"
You call the wife! Sorry I couldn't resist |
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
So what happens after sex if you don't cuddle?"
Have a tea break and a chat before you start again |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
So what happens after sex if you don't cuddle?
Have a tea break and a chat before you start again "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile* "
to clarify thats not my view point.. i read it in another thread |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
to clarify thats not my view point.. i read it in another thread "
So what's your view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
to clarify thats not my view point.. i read it in another thread "
I know, I guessed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
to clarify thats not my view point.. i read it in another thread
So what's your view "
that its possible to enjoy cuddles and do over nighters and still have nsa
same time its possible for people who are looking to date to get up and leave after sex. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"i learnt that its not nsa if you like cuddles.. and if you do then your more suited to dating..
Damn, I'm fucked then!
*deletes profile*
to clarify thats not my view point.. i read it in another thread
So what's your view
that its possible to enjoy cuddles and do over nighters and still have nsa
same time its possible for people who are looking to date to get up and leave after sex."
same as mine lol |
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