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anyone else tired of these 'where am I going wrong?' posts?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/ |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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You just wait til you've been using the forums for years... 
I just filter them out now. I occasionally respond if their problems are obvious (pics, stupid profile, things easily fixed) but usually I leave them. |
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No. We were all new once and lots of the men (it is usually men) have completely the wrong idea of the site and women in general. Some listen, some argue and some leave the site but they're all just people trying to get along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty much trying to get a meet through here. If a make my profile specific i.e. no one Liners. Must have a face pic then no one replies. If i loosen it I get idiots who want a quick wank before I even know what they look like. I'll stay for the chat and banter but this site had been ruined by the idiot single males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"EDITED I have pretty much given up trying to get a meet through here. If I make my profile specific i.e. no one Liners. Must have a face pic then no one replies. If i loosen it I get idiots who want a quick wank before I even know what they look like. I'll stay for the chat and banter but this site had been ruined by the idiot single males. The women don't respond because they're getting 200 messages a day. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. We were all new once and lots of the men (it is usually men) have completely the wrong idea of the site and women in general. Some listen, some argue and some leave the site but they're all just people trying to get along."
hmm, good point. Just a bit tiresome reading the same questions being asked etc. That's all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"EDITED I have pretty much given up trying to get a meet through here. If I make my profile specific i.e. no one Liners. Must have a face pic then no one replies. If i loosen it I get idiots who want a quick wank before I even know what they look like. I'll stay for the chat and banter but this site had been ruined by the idiot single males. The women don't respond because they're getting 200 messages a day. "
Very true.
I've quickly learnt that it's pretty difficult to meet someone from here, so I do the same as you, which is come on here for a bit of banter and make the day go by faster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
They're not exactly hard to spot and ignore are they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't bother me really. What I don't like is when guys get down on themselves, Just because they don't get replies or meets or attention lol from females on here. I feel like giving them a slap an telling them to man up!! Meant in the nicest way lol like the world is full of women come on dude..you don't need to jump through hoops an make yourself look desperate. Just for random females on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. We were all new once and lots of the men (it is usually men) have completely the wrong idea of the site and women in general. Some listen, some argue and some leave the site but they're all just people trying to get along.
hmm, good point. Just a bit tiresome reading the same questions being asked etc. That's all."
You don't have to read them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They don't bother me really. What I don't like is when guys get down on themselves, Just because they don't get replies or meets or attention lol from females on here. I feel like giving them a slap an telling them to man up!! Meant in the nicest way lol like the world is full of women come on dude..you don't need to jump through hoops an make yourself look desperate. Just for random females on here"
You're totally right. I think that's what I find most annoying about these posts, that there are guys beating themselves up for not being able to receive a reply or get a meet.
Sigh. Ah well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They don't bother me really. What I don't like is when guys get down on themselves, Just because they don't get replies or meets or attention lol from females on here. I feel like giving them a slap an telling them to man up!! Meant in the nicest way lol like the world is full of women come on dude..you don't need to jump through hoops an make yourself look desperate. Just for random females on here
You're totally right. I think that's what I find most annoying about these posts, that there are guys beating themselves up for not being able to receive a reply or get a meet.
Sigh. Ah well."
Perhaps it's the cynic in me but i don't think a large portion are beating themselves up. I think they are doing it for sympathy. There are genuine ones that are actually asking for advice and take it on board but a lot don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
As there's new people joining all the time i guess the question is relivant |
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It's a hugely popular site, helped along by the new users. Take the rough with the smooth.
Plenty of new potential friends and fun. The cost ?? - see a few forum titles and ignore ir just offer a little positive support.
It really is beyond me why snog, smash or run threads stay active though. Maybe the same reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a hugely popular site, helped along by the new users. Take the rough with the smooth.
Plenty of new potential friends and fun. The cost ?? - see a few forum titles and ignore ir just offer a little positive support.
It really is beyond me why snog, smash or run threads stay active though. Maybe the same reason."
good point! I shall use that advice and ignore them..or possibly give them advice if they really need it.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
Most of the posts in the forums are repetitive, especially when you've been knocking around a while.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
Quite enjoy them. You know you don't have to read them? |
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See I wouldn't mind giving advice to folk who stuck around and joined in here but they charge in with a sense of entitlement, scream "why won't anyone shag meeeee?" get some advice, argue the toss, then disappear from the forums forever.
Some of you are ever so patient and giving. Swinging Samaritans. Swingaritans. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See I wouldn't mind giving advice to folk who stuck around and joined in here but they charge in with a sense of entitlement, scream "why won't anyone shag meeeee?" get some advice, argue the toss, then disappear from the forums forever.
Some of you are ever so patient and giving. Swinging Samaritans. Swingaritans."
Swingaritans. Love it. Haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
On the flip side, this isn't the first "anyone else tired of these 'where am I going wrong?' posts?" posts is it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/
On the flip side, this isn't the first "anyone else tired of these 'where am I going wrong?' posts?" posts is it?"
...oops :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/
On the flip side, this isn't the first "anyone else tired of these 'where am I going wrong?' posts?" posts is it?
...oops :P"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand guys(including myself) wanting to know why they aren't getting replies, but there are so many of these posts, and it's starting to get a bit annoying now.
...or is it just me? :/"
Yes it's annoying, some of us do get regular meets so what's the issue? I think fab and all the lovely ladies is bloody brilliant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like them, I can have a nose at their profile and laugh at the 18-99 age limit and 50 cock pics
But sometimes I just wanna say ... It's your face mate '_' |
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