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over a year ago
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Some people have 5 second charisma, others have charisma that suits them, rather than appearing to be attention seeking. I'd say there's a few layers to charisma, rare that there is true charisma in a person. |
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"How do you define it?"
I imagine everyone has their own ideas as to what they find charismatic. Hard to describe. I just know it when I see it.
Personally for me it's a mix of traits like humility, combined with self-confidence and good intellect and knowledge. The ability to engage with others and inspire. With that touch of uniqueness and other worldliness. Plus a few intangibles you can't quite put your finger on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How do you define it?
You don't someone either has it or they don't. "
So you believe that charisma is a completely random thing attributed to nothing more than a roll of the dice? |
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"An air that draws people to you, but it's not always a positive. Lots of crooks and cult leaders would be classed as charismatic. "
Yes my ex had it - presence, looks, charm and a vibe you could not ignore. I always said he'd make a good cult leader. Narcissist often have charisma sadly.  |
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With a bit of ugliness on the side 
lol
