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Is being unable to ejaculate a turn-off?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?"
Because cum smells of tinned mushroom soup and she only likes fresh mushroom soup |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?"
I don't particularly like spunk. I've been told I am odd. I enjoy my meets with men who don't cum. I enjoy my meets with men who do and I grant them the 'gift' of cumming over me if that's the thing that they like. They give me pleasure so I give them pleasure. I like giving pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?
I don't particularly like spunk. I've been told I am odd. I enjoy my meets with men who don't cum. I enjoy my meets with men who do and I grant them the 'gift' of cumming over me if that's the thing that they like. They give me pleasure so I give them pleasure. I like giving pleasure.
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I see, that makes sense, thank you  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?
Because cum smells of tinned mushroom soup and she only likes fresh mushroom soup "
She abhors all mushrooms!  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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My ex had the same issue after prostate cancer - I really didn't care, but he had a huge issue with it and found a woman happy to take others cum whilst he watched - reckoned it made him feel better!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?
Because cum smells of tinned mushroom soup and she only likes fresh mushroom soup
She abhors all mushrooms! "
My mistake... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My ex had the same issue after prostate cancer - I really didn't care, but he had a huge issue with it and found a woman happy to take others cum whilst he watched - reckoned it made him feel better!? "
That's the thing, it's quite frustrating. I've adjusted to it but was always how women would perceive it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"My ex had the same issue after prostate cancer - I really didn't care, but he had a huge issue with it and found a woman happy to take others cum whilst he watched - reckoned it made him feel better!?
That's the thing, it's quite frustrating. I've adjusted to it but was always how women would perceive it."
I stayed with him 9 years after he lost the ability - never bothered me. When we had threesomes it only ever bothered one other person and that was a fella!
Turned out he wanted to eat my cream pie..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making. "
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"The ejaculation part means it's over. I like what happens before that and before penetration. There is a whole lot of flesh to indulge in on a man. "
Exactly.
Not many can recover quickly enough.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ? "
None  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ejaculation part means it's over. I like what happens before that and before penetration. There is a whole lot of flesh to indulge in on a man.
Exactly.
Not many can recover quickly enough.
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Or want anything more to happen. It's goodnight nurse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None "
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck "
Edd was male, gay! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me, as long as you were capable of orgasming too then I'd be happy. Don't let it put you off meeting, you're a very handsome guy and I'm sure you'd have no problems! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck
Edd was male, gay!"
There's nothing gay about fisting a duck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck
Edd was male, gay!
There's nothing gay about fisting a duck"
It just gets gay when it's a man fisting a male duck. Typical "straight" male hiding it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck
Edd was male, gay!
There's nothing gay about fisting a duck
It just gets gay when it's a man fisting a male duck. Typical "straight" male hiding it. "
"Straight" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck
Edd was male, gay!
There's nothing gay about fisting a duck
It just gets gay when it's a man fisting a male duck. Typical "straight" male hiding it.
"Straight""
Damn, thought you were straight. Well anyway, no longer curious if you're up for fisting duck arses  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a turn off for me. I prefer it.
Really? Would you mind saying why?
I don't particularly like spunk. I've been told I am odd. I enjoy my meets with men who don't cum. I enjoy my meets with men who do and I grant them the 'gift' of cumming over me if that's the thing that they like. They give me pleasure so I give them pleasure. I like giving pleasure.
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 because if I had three hands I would |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind! "
Big turn off I'm afraid as Sabrina loves cum . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer it during a meet with someone off of Fab. I'm not keen on semen from people I don't know/trust, just seems a bit grim to me so I prefer cum in a condom. Less chance of messy clean ups, too. I'm mostly indifferent when it's part of sex with my partner, just plays a part in baby making.
How many "I'd like to enter your broom cupboard" comments have you had ?
None
That's disappointing, well I for one would like to stick my hand up your yellow furry duck
Edd was male, gay!
There's nothing gay about fisting a duck
It just gets gay when it's a man fisting a male duck. Typical "straight" male hiding it.
"Straight"
Damn, thought you were straight. Well anyway, no longer curious if you're up for fisting duck arses "
Male of female ducks at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind!
Big turn off I'm afraid as Sabrina loves cum ."
You don't say? Just seen your photos  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind! "
I can relate to this after my back injury I've got delayed ejaculation so can take me a while to finish. Have to finish myself off aswell most of the time unless it really vigorous! Sometimes i can get a bit knackered an don't even finish the ladies don't complain though. I just let them know that's it not them it's me with a medical condition. Don't worry about it mate they wont complain when you give them multiple orgasms much better than being a premature ejaculator!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind!
Big turn off I'm afraid as Sabrina loves cum .
You don't say? Just seen your photos "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bit of a sensitive subject for me and I never know when/how to bring it up, but ever since I had a spinal injury a few years ago, the ejaculatory reflex doesn't work. I can orgasm, just without anything 'produced', although strangely I can have multiple orgasms. Sorry for the really weird post, I know this is unusual and just want your thoughts on whether it's turn-off/would put you off etc? Be as honest as you like, I really don't mind!
Big turn off I'm afraid as Sabrina loves cum ."
Thank you for being honest |
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Come quick first round, then become a stayer the second... By then whether you cum or not no one gives as shit, as its time for bed
In all seriousness OP, it really shouldn't matter and more so in a mmf or mmmf dynmic of play.... Plenty of yoghurt ti go around |
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