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"Yes also I can't accommodate and can only meet daytimes weekdays at their place...probably less hassle just to get an escort...."
I think it's your tone that would put me off. Why does the meet have to be at someone elses? Why not a hotel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes also I can't accommodate and can only meet daytimes weekdays at their place...probably less hassle just to get an escort...."
What a strange attitude. Negativity puts people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ouch ... Ok real advice please keep looking or go down the escort road ..or forget about it all and ravish the wife more often...."
Would you prefer unreal advice? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes also I can't accommodate and can only meet daytimes weekdays at their place...probably less hassle just to get an escort...."
Maybe it's your attitude that women on here are an alternative to escorts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
Start by making the most of what you have got. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
spoilt for choice between all the liars and fakes, and not forgetting the timewasters of course....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list"
Well that's because we are, why take the trouble with a married when there is hundreds of single guys on here.
Not having a go at you but it's not hard to work out is it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I wouldn't say so.
I've met a few ladies on here and chat regularly to a couple of others.
I'm honest about my situation. I completely respect that it's not ideal for some ladies, and am always appreciative of those who will spend some time getting to find out more about me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody.."
Can't see that going down well with the die hard swingers, I have seen and been told by a few that as far as they concerned married man shouldn't be on here. I had a long talk with one couple who really didn't like us cheating man but had on there profile they had meet a married lady 4 times, funny they stopped talking to me when I asked them about her 
There are sites for married men and women looking to play and to a point they are right this is a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. The majority of guys i meet seem to be married since I am not part of the morality police. Of those who say they really are single; they just seem to lie better. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody.."
You may be need to ask yourself a few home truths and look close to home for ALL of your answers. Dishonesty is never a good foot to put forward as the first step of a journey.
Not having a pop at you, just suggesting that you be a little more honest with yourself about why you are here, what you want and how you think at all might end up. Fix a few issues at the root of all this and everything may just miraculously fall into place.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list"
Well that's because we are, why take the trouble with a married when there is hundreds of single guys on here.
Not having a go at you but it's not hard to work out is it."
We are? You're a man though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
Put a suggestion forward to admin. Im sure they would consider it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody..
You may be need to ask yourself a few home truths and look close to home for ALL of your answers. Dishonesty is never a good foot to put forward as the first step of a journey.
Not having a pop at you, just suggesting that you be a little more honest with yourself about why you are here, what you want and how you think at all might end up. Fix a few issues at the root of all this and everything may just miraculously fall into place.
Good luck."
We all have different reasons for being on here and some just can't be fixed, I would be the happiest man alive if you can fix mine that's for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi 
Married men are my favourite flavour
Down boy lol
All that hope and fear wrapped up in a little ball of anguish.
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You leave my little balls out of this  |
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"Ouch ... Ok real advice please keep looking or go down the escort road ..or forget about it all and ravish the wife more often...."
Not impressed with your juxtaposition either: woman from Fabswingers or escort...hmmm! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think a lot of people ...mens womens are married here...but if they want to do it ..how is the problem??"
Personally, I don't care but many do. They find it unrespectful. For those that do care, it is usually easy enough to spot the signs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think a lot of people ...mens womens are married here...but if they want to do it ..how is the problem??
Personally, I don't care but many do. They find it unrespectful. For those that do care, it is usually easy enough to spot the signs."
Yep they tend to say NO and block you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't give yourself much flexibility in your profile, I'm married although my wife knows I'm on here as she has her own profile too, try searching for women who can accomodate, then read their profile to make sure they don't have an issue with married men.
I've come across a lot that don't meet married men, even with the full knowledge of my wife, but you do find those that do. Just spend more time searching
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm finding very difficult too!
Been on here a while and not a Sausage!!!
Too many women on here hate cheaters.  "
A married man looking for sausage and not getting any. There's a first |
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!!
spoilt for choice between all the liars and fakes, and not forgetting the timewasters of course.... "
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody.."
There are sites which cater for married people who are looking for affairs. And there are escorts, for men who are just looking for sex.
Fab isn't either of these, it's a swingers site, and cheating ain't swinging. Two of the most important tenets of swinging are honesty and respect. Anyone who is married and cheating isn't showing their partner that honesty and respect, so they aren't likely to offer Fab members that honesty and respect, either. |
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
Women & couples looking for men are spoilt for choice (married or not), but just don't be defeatist!
If your considering an escort, maybe its just a quick shag your after, so bets to look at another website (there plenty for escorts).
The hotel thing is bollocks - just book a hotel room with an early or late check our overnight.....easy as, I've done it plenty of times (you don't necessarily need a day rate!)
Good luck, but I fear fab might not be for you?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they do pretty well out of this site, if it be social or sexual, of course it's harder for them but there are weirdos (like I used to be) that find it a turn on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP what your looking for is a quick shag and I doubt you'll get it from here. Your advertising as a single guy do you realise how many single guys are on here your up against major competition, your married this narrows who will meet you even more and no offence judging from your posts you do not seem the sort who would read profiles but just copy and paste the same message to every woman on here and you won't even offer to pay for accomodation tbh I don't fancy your chances try ill***enc****ters you'll have more luck or an escort agency |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes Mr.Toy I understand that and its fair enough definitely a married category would help or a search option for married women looking for men.......then we wouldn't be mailing everybody..
There are sites which cater for married people who are looking for affairs. And there are escorts, for men who are just looking for sex.
Fab isn't either of these, it's a swingers site, and cheating ain't swinging. Two of the most important tenets of swinging are honesty and respect. Anyone who is married and cheating isn't showing their partner that honesty and respect, so they aren't likely to offer Fab members that honesty and respect, either. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not adverse to meeting married men but id sooner know they are married before chatting so I can make my own discussion as to if it's worth the risk. Xxx |
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My goodness I can't believe this thread!!
It is very difficult to meet married ladies but to even ask if one would be better off going to an escort is unreal!!
Surely any married lady reading this would feel like they are being equated to an escort!
What comes across is you want to meet a woman at her place as it saves you having to get a hotel room and it saves having to pay for sex with an escort!
Yes there are some lovely married ladies here that will meet married guys!
Should you be lucky enough to meet one she should be treated with respect! If a hotel room is needed then a hotel room is got without worrying that it is €10 dearer than a day room!
She should NEVER be thought of as an escort or anything like that!
As a married guy things are difficult enough!!
Certainly not all of us married guys would even dream of comparing a married lady with an escort!!
Married ladies will/do meet married guys if they are treated with respect!
RESPECT!! |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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We don't have any guilt trips...If a Guy is married happily or not, that is up to them to live with their feelings.
We wouldn't meet at his house though, whilst his wife was out. (that would be one step to far)  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes also I can't accommodate and can only meet daytimes weekdays at their place...probably less hassle just to get an escort...."
Walk into Waitrose; get a BOGOF offer on a couple of steaks; job done; probably about as satisfying for any woman you would meet in a rush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?"
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion "
You have no idea what their relationship dynamics are like to make such a statement.
You don't agree with cheating, fair enough. No need to get personal though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion "
So am i cheating because I'm married to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion "
As you don't know him or his wife, don't turn her into a saint and him into a sinner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience, politeness and perseverance.
There's thousands of people on this site, all after something different. There will be a match for your wants somewhere.
Don't expect 2 messages and you'll have a meet. You get out what you put in.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
So am i cheating because I'm married to?"
Don't worry, I won't tell Scarlet what you get up to. Your secret is safe with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
As you don't know him or his wife, don't turn her into a saint and him into a sinner "
Well said. Who gives people the right to judge in here?
We all have a choice who we chat to and meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
As you don't know him or his wife, don't turn her into a saint and him into a sinner
Well said. Who gives people the right to judge in here?
We all have a choice who we chat to and meet"
Why do people need to be given the "right" to judge people doing what they consider to be abhorrent things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
If you bothered to write more than 2 lines of profile text you may do better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the record I've never cheated on my wife. I've never lied to my wife. I've never said a bad word about my wife to anyone. I pay her plenty of sexual attention and loving cuddles. The limited amount of swinging we do, we do because we both want to. Any judgemental types judge all you want, we're happy and we don't lie to people we meet so no harm done. |
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
So am i cheating because I'm married to?
Don't worry, I won't tell Scarlet what you get up to. Your secret is safe with me "
phew thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!!
If you bothered to write more than 2 lines of profile text you may do better"
Easier to blame the "spoilt" bitches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count. "
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?"
I'm not married, I'm divorced, I've not been on this site long, but I get the impression that both married and single guys do get a more negative response, which is fair enough, and a do understand ( I'm not complaining by the way).
But the thread is slating these men, I would like to point out that there are many woman on here, that are also married and playing with out their husbands knowledge. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"Just seems like the women on here are spoilt for choice and married men are way down the shopping list,a bit of fair play,even chance would be nice,perhaps fab should have a separate section for married people!! "
No absolutely not...... fab should have separate section for singles only. Swinging is mainly about couples swapping with each other. Not about married people cheating on their wife/husband, then bemoaning the fact they can't get a meet Xxxx |
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count.
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit. "
It's bizarre to me. Why take pride in being honest to a stranger, yet not the person you married? Silly priorities. |
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count.
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit.
It's bizarre to me. Why take pride in being honest to a stranger, yet not the person you married? Silly priorities. "
I understand your stance, but many people both men and women have personal marital problems where the relationship has broke down where perhaps that kind of honesty is not possible.
Proud? I'm not sure that's a correct term. They are trying to be honest so others can make an informed decision.
After all, both men and women don't have to say they are married do they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count.
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit.
It's bizarre to me. Why take pride in being honest to a stranger, yet not the person you married? Silly priorities.
I understand your stance, but many people both men and women have personal marital problems where the relationship has broke down where perhaps that kind of honesty is not possible.
Proud? I'm not sure that's a correct term. They are trying to be honest so others can make an informed decision.
After all, both men and women don't have to say they are married do they?"
Yeh I'd say proud, so many profiles gloat "at least I'm honest" as if it makes them more moral than the other cheaters.
I don't agree with the relationship being irreparable beyond honesty. Leaving is always an option and so is not fucking others, no one HAS to cheat. |
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count.
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit.
It's bizarre to me. Why take pride in being honest to a stranger, yet not the person you married? Silly priorities.
I understand your stance, but many people both men and women have personal marital problems where the relationship has broke down where perhaps that kind of honesty is not possible.
Proud? I'm not sure that's a correct term. They are trying to be honest so others can make an informed decision.
After all, both men and women don't have to say they are married do they?
Yeh I'd say proud, so many profiles gloat "at least I'm honest" as if it makes them more moral than the other cheaters.
I don't agree with the relationship being irreparable beyond honesty. Leaving is always an option and so is not fucking others, no one HAS to cheat. "
Fair enough, sadly though life isn't that simple. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
So am i cheating because I'm married to?
Don't worry, I won't tell Scarlet what you get up to. Your secret is safe with me
phew thanks!"
Hey, not sooooo fast, because I will; I love watching a good ole fisty cuffs or flying saucepans  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All , are married men wasting their time looking for meets on this website?
Yes, your married, cheating is cheating, you have a woman at home pay proper attention to her and you probably wouldnt need to look for sex else where. Just my opinion
So am i cheating because I'm married to?
Don't worry, I won't tell Scarlet what you get up to. Your secret is safe with me
phew thanks!
Hey, not sooooo fast, because I will; I love watching a good ole fisty cuffs or flying saucepans "
Fortunately, i get up to nothing.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't fuck a cheating married man. I don't understand the whole "at least I'm honest about it" stance. They're only being honest to the person who doesn't matter, that doesn't count.
They only tell people on here so that they can be complicit in their deceit.
It's bizarre to me. Why take pride in being honest to a stranger, yet not the person you married? Silly priorities.
I understand your stance, but many people both men and women have personal marital problems where the relationship has broke down where perhaps that kind of honesty is not possible.
Proud? I'm not sure that's a correct term. They are trying to be honest so others can make an informed decision.
After all, both men and women don't have to say they are married do they?
Yeh I'd say proud, so many profiles gloat "at least I'm honest" as if it makes them more moral than the other cheaters.
I don't agree with the relationship being irreparable beyond honesty. Leaving is always an option and so is not fucking others, no one HAS to cheat.
Fair enough, sadly though life isn't that simple. "
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Some women on here like when a man is married and doing the dirty behind his wife's back, sort of a turn on I guess. I know a guy in this exact situation who gets more meets off here than many single guys or real swingers do.
Different horses for different courses I guess. |
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