"If it's play only and neither party is staying overnight in the room would expect 50/50 depending on cost."
I often use hotels.....no cleaning up afterwards. I am happy to pay 50/50....after all 50% of £50 isn't much for an afternoon of fun. |
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For me it depends on who earns more (assuming it's an ongoing thing, not a one timer).
As I earn very little, I expect my partner to pay more towards overall cost, but then I do try to make it up by bringing snacks, wine, etc.
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Half. No idea how anyone thinks differently.
This "I don't pay for sex" nonesense amazes me. Your not paying for sex, your sharing the cost of the facility.
If you arranged to meet at a club would you expect them to pay your petrol, snacks and club entry cos they suggested meeting? |
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Never paid for hotel and got no intention to. I can accomodate so why would I need to go to a hotel.
Ofcourse personal circumastances are different for everyone. I declined a meet as lady wanted hotel and i declined as i felt sleazy but she probably felt more secure. |
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I'd pay all of it were my suggestion or at least half. I wouldn't even consider meeting someone in a hotel if I couldn't afford the entire bill, salary isn't a question. |
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I always assume that I will pay for the hotel.
If the lady specifically wishes to go 50/50 , then fine.
Same for any meals etc.
it's just good manners.
if anyone thinks that's " paying for sex" , then they have a very strange outlook on life. |
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Very much depends. Number One Chap and I pretty much take it in turns or one pays for the hotel the other for getting into a club, it sort of evens out. To be completely honest it's just the admin and the least thing on my mind at the time. Far more entertaining things to put my mind to  |
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We don't really meet at hotels unless we are traveling, in which case we just pay the whole price because we are staying there for the night.
If someone were to ask for a meet at a hotel specifically I still think I'd be more inclined to just pay for the room and use it for the night following the meet. |
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if we had a hotel room and advertised a meet we would pay - if we arranged a meet together and the agreed place was a hotel then split 50-50 -likewise if they were already at hotel and asked us there we wouldnt pay towards it - |
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Used to pay £40/50 or go 50/50 but then I/we would say overnight.
£0 these days as no longer have budget for hotel plays 
