Probably either;
1. They have been flooded with messages, and have put a block on, to get a breather, or ;
2. They want the single guys; but rather than be flooded with messages; they do the searching and pick ones they are interested in... |
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"Why do some people put on there profile that they want to meet single guy's ? But have blocked all single guy's from messaging then. Thick or what ?"
Because they want to go searching themselves for a single guy rather than have single guy's who aren't compatible message them. Clever or what?  |
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"Just a mistake maybe, I was just looking at a couples profile that said they where both smokers but said underneath they don't meet smokers "
Maybe they don't like passive smoking it's bad for your health you know  |
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"Probably either;
1. They have been flooded with messages, and have put a block on, to get a breather, or ;
2. They want the single guys; but rather than be flooded with messages; they do the searching and pick ones they are interested in..."
This  |
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"Why do some people put on there profile that they want to meet single guy's ? But have blocked all single guy's from messaging then. Thick or what ?"
What's daft is they probably read this and decided you're not for them  |
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"Why do some people put on there profile that they want to meet single guy's ? But have blocked all single guy's from messaging then. Thick or what ?"
Not thick at all. See above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not "thick"... it's called getting either getting over run with stupid amounts of vile and grim messages from single men who can't read profiles or being able to pick and choose for yourself.
See, OP, you're not the only one who can generalise! But then, if you think people who do that are thick, would you really want to meet them?  |
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"Probably either;
1. They have been flooded with messages, and have put a block on, to get a breather, or ;
2. They want the single guys; but rather than be flooded with messages; they do the searching and pick ones they are interested in..." Definitely what I do  |
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To be honest I think it's wise to use the filters provided. That way if you can't message then move on. If a message appears in my in box then that is a bonus. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Probably either;
1. They have been flooded with messages, and have put a block on, to get a breather, or ;
2. They want the single guys; but rather than be flooded with messages; they do the searching and pick ones they are interested in..."
This is why I do it.
Or I'm Thick in the head OP and you wouldn't want to meet someone like me.  |
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The ladies on this site do get jolly inundated with messages .
a friend tells me she blocks chaps and then when she see's some one who jolly well catches her eye she messages them.
Our profiles are our own and we can choose what to say and who to block |
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Its a form of control they choose to exercise. Don't worry about it, concentrate your efforts on finding those with whom you can initiate a message and that meet your criteria....
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"Why do some people put on there profile that they want to meet single guy's ? But have blocked all single guy's from messaging then. Thick or what ?"
I think the wording is wrong it should say "don't want to be contacted by single guys" not "not looking for single guys |
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"The ladies on this site do get jolly inundated with messages .
a friend tells me she blocks chaps and then when she see's some one who jolly well catches her eye she messages them.
Our profiles are our own and we can choose what to say and who to block"
Spiffing  |
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"The ladies on this site do get jolly inundated with messages .
a friend tells me she blocks chaps and then when she see's some one who jolly well catches her eye she messages them.
Our profiles are our own and we can choose what to say and who to block
Spiffing "
Was thinking the same  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do some people put on there profile that they want to meet single guy's ? But have blocked all single guy's from messaging then. Thick or what ?"
I wouldn't call them thick, no.
There could be few reasons for it...
They might like to go searching for single men themselves, especially if they have a certain type they go for.
They might have enough messages or contacts to keep them busy for a while.
They might be concentrating on meeting others (like just couples) for a bit.
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