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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool

Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??"

I would.... In fact, I just have!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What to carry the banter on

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yeah I do it all the time

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??

I would.... In fact, I just have!! "

If you don't, how will you get to know them better? Go for it!!

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??

I would.... In fact, I just have!! "

Just don't want too seem too rude. Oh have you it's not showed on my inbox lol

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By *parkly MittensWoman  over a year ago

My own little world

Don't see why you wouldn't?!

Have fun x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Of course is it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't see any foul there..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

At least he is being polite and asking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have only ever messaged first people I've got to know through the forums.

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If not then I do wonder why there's a "reply privately" button

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"If not then I do wonder why there's a "reply privately" button "

For the shit storm?

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool


"I have only ever messaged first people I've got to know through the forums.

Go for it "

Well suppose it seems like a great starting point on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At least he is being polite and asking "

Kudos for manners

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By *an_WoodMan  over a year ago

Stafford

Blocked you first

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Yeah fire away. That's how we get to know peeps that we want to know a little bit better if they take your interest

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool


"At least he is being polite and asking "

Thank you I do pride myself on being polite, no harm in asking is there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If not then I do wonder why there's a "reply privately" button

For the shit storm? "

Oh good, so I've been using it correctly

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change "

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??"

Same as any other message. They'll either reply or they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes definitely. Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some things can only be said back stage

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??

I would.... In fact, I just have!!

Just don't want too seem too rude. Oh have you it's not showed on my inbox lol"

You didn't look hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its jolly acceptable if their filters allow. I have made some really jolly friends from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it "

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been chatted up by some sexy forum men and also have nice chats with people from forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have multiple times. I wouldn't have been able to chat to some of the people I do now without the forum cause of their age range. Surprising how many are willing to go younger for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had some lovely messages and conversations through pm from the forums. Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??"

Yeah go for it

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??"

Had some lovely messages and random conversations from forum users messaging.

A couple of not so nice ones too.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Have been wondering is it ok to messege someone of the forum if you've had a little banter, what's your thoughts ??

Same as any other message. They'll either reply or they won't. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it's okay I do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely it's OK to message anyone,providing you aren't blocked wether you get a reply is another matter

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can't see any harm as long as it's not a simple: 'YOU'RE STILL WRONG!' and block message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've made some lovely friends from the forums because they messaged me .go for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM. "

You're just not trying hard enough

I was called a vile person the other day for challenging a point of view. Just made me smile as you know at that point they have no answer

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM.

You're just not trying hard enough

I was called a vile person the other day for challenging a point of view. Just made me smile as you know at that point they have no answer "

Well I really wasn't suggesting abusive messeges at all, that's just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM.

You're just not trying hard enough

I was called a vile person the other day for challenging a point of view. Just made me smile as you know at that point they have no answer "

Did Clem back down?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to use it all the time, to appologise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it's how I've made most of my fab friends

And it's led onto more than just virtual interaction

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think so. Then the usual ettiquette applies of judging their response and being respectful of it

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple  over a year ago

Andover

I have a few times. Once or twice to apologise.

More often I have received private messages being abusive.

I just chuckle to myself and think they must be doing it cos their online comments aren't cutting it!

I wonder how many people have had messeges from a moderator wanting to carry on an online debate/argument who then went on to make veiled threats when I refused to concede the point!

Or is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yep i often message folk ive exchanged public banter with..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM.

You're just not trying hard enough

I was called a vile person the other day for challenging a point of view. Just made me smile as you know at that point they have no answer

Did Clem back down? "

Does he ever??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few take it upon themselves to pm abuse from the forums so banter would be a change

We have all probably had it at some stage, I don't get why they do it say it on an open forum I can take it

I've never had abuse from the forums in a PM.

You're just not trying hard enough

I was called a vile person the other day for challenging a point of view. Just made me smile as you know at that point they have no answer

Did Clem back down?

Does he ever?? "

Well I did say to use a 4x4" instead of a 2x2".....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never do

Sometimes I think all because I've exchanged a few messages with them on the forum that don't mean they want me mailing them

Sometimes a joke on the forum is just that

It's like those snog, marry, avoid threads if somebody put snog under your name would you mail them?

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man  over a year ago

liverpool


"yep i often message folk ive exchanged public banter with.. "

No such a bad thing then seems too be ok to exchange messeges then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Course it is!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never do

Sometimes I think all because I've exchanged a few messages with them on the forum that don't mean they want me mailing them

Sometimes a joke on the forum is just that

It's like those snog, marry, avoid threads if somebody put snog under your name would you mail them?"

Dont know... I usually feel lucky to get an avoid

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