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By *anky_Panky OP Woman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

We've all read comments about grabbing popcorn, brew n biscuits when people can plainly see its gonna get uppity. Should the post not be there in the first place? Should we all be more grown up? Should we keep opinions on done stuff to ourselves?

Discuss x

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

I think it should stay as it is , think how dull it would become otherwise , I tend not to get involved in the argumentative threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people post controversial threads for the attention. Maybe not newbies, but definitely people who've been around for a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the only way of stopping forum fights is to ban the Internet.

I've seen it much, much worse on a lot of other forums. I don't think it's that bad here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's fine to post contraversal threads as long as those who post don't be abusive to others. It's healthy to diasagree. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think as long as people post within the rules then they can post what they like.

We all have choice whether to join in / debate / argue. A forum after all is for debate, your definition of contentious may not be the same as mine & vice versa.

For seasoned forum goers some people bite way to easily.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I think some people post controversial threads for the attention. Maybe not newbies, but definitely people who've been around for a while

Oh no we don't ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

open forum so post what the hell you want within the rules set by the site - but if you post controversial topics or something that invites personal comment be prepared for the good and bad - we are all here for ourselves not to please everbody else - for the record i love the forums - and like profiles stay away from the ones i dont want to get involved with and jump right in to the others

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The original forum was for debate, and it got pretty violent back then too.

Not so much popcorn then though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've learned our lesson about getting involved in heated forum discussions, not really liking the taste of our own feet!

Debate is a good thing, but it's when things take a nasty turn we stay away as it takes just one idiot to turn a good discussion bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most things on here cause an argument, some people just get off on being offended, some go out their way to twist what you say and throw it back at you

It's hard to know what does not cause an argument on here now days

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x"

If everyone always agreed and shared the same views on everything, the forums would be a very boring place.

Debate is good as long as it doesnt get personal and nasty.

As long as threads are within site rules, why shouldn't they be posted. People have the choice whether to open and read / post on them. There are plenty of threads and topics I avoid.

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

I forum I used to use had a rule:

"Attack the post, not the poster"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if anything the contentious stuff should be talked about more until people learn how to talk about this stuff properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most things on here cause an argument, some people just get off on being offended, some go out their way to twist what you say and throw it back at you

It's hard to know what does not cause an argument on here now days

Agreed.

Some people thrive on being offended and will be offended if they can't find anything to be offended about? ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people do post threads that they know will be controversial.

That's absolutely fine but what I don't like is when they then accuse people of having a pack mentality on here when a lot disagree with them.

I will say if I think someone is behaving like a child. It's my opinion and I don't ask anyone to agree with me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I forum I used to use had a rule:

"Attack the post, not the poster""

All forums have that rule. Unfortunately forumites tend to forget it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I forum I used to use had a rule:

"Attack the post, not the poster"

All forums have that rule. Unfortunately forumites tend to forget it."

THIS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My favorite is when you get people who can't argue with you on the forum so start pm-ing you instead! Lol such vile behavior. Usually the same people who mistake trolling for "a different perspective". Still, it's just a bit of fun isn't it.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"if anything the contentious stuff should be talked about more until people learn how to talk about this stuff properly."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x"

I hate the popcorn threads. They are used to steer a thread in a certain way. They are used to encourage conflict and arguments. And they are almost always posted by the most boring uninspiring trolls.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I forum I used to use had a rule:

"Attack the post, not the poster""

Exactly, aka, learn to be an adult!!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"open forum so post what the hell you want within the rules set by the site - but if you post controversial topics or something that invites personal comment be prepared for the good and bad - we are all here for ourselves not to please everbody else - for the record i love the forums - and like profiles stay away from the ones i dont want to get involved with and jump right in to the others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They should stay up. The professionally offended tripping over themselves to be seen to be saying the correct thing in order to get noticed it glorious.

Bringing popcorn to threads is a reflection that you can't bring anything worthwhile yourself in my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They should stay up. The professionally offended tripping over themselves to be seen to be saying the correct thing in order to get noticed it glorious.

Bringing popcorn to threads is a reflection that you can't bring anything worthwhile yourself in my humble opinion. "

Well said

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Most things on here cause an argument, some people just get off on being offended, some go out their way to twist what you say and throw it back at you

It's hard to know what does not cause an argument on here now days

I've been suprised what's caused a stink a few times recently. I'm convinced that there is something in the air or water that's causing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?"

Do I have to start threads? I like to think I make a valid contribution unlike the 'popcorn' comments I;ve just criticised.

To be honest I don't see what relevance your suggestion has to what I posted?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

nah, popcorn posts are done by people who have nothing to contribute but want to be on a possibly legendary post. Its very 'noughties' though. I've been on internet forums for a long time and some things never change.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There have been so many threads started of late that have meant to be contentious and to get a reaction, I just think they are trolls and tend to stay away - though it is good to know who the arseholes are

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"They should stay up. The professionally offended tripping over themselves to be seen to be saying the correct thing in order to get noticed it glorious.

Bringing popcorn to threads is a reflection that you can't bring anything worthwhile yourself in my humble opinion.

Well said

You've given this post a thumbs up, yet made a snide comment at another for saying pretty much the same thing.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Attack the post, not the poster."

There are people I like whose posts I can still disagree with on occasion. It's also rare that anyone posts so much I find hateful that I actively dislike the digital them as a result but it can and does happen. I tend to just steer clear of them forum wise as a result. No popcorn necessary.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If you don't like popcorn, nobody is forcing you to eat it.

Personally I prefer the sweet variety

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/05/16 19:14:47]"

You know, the whole point of a forum is to reply to people. It's a forum, not a "make posts and don't reply"rum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?"

It's not compulsory to start your own threads. I rarely have anything I want to share or discuss that I feel the urge to start a thread about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x"

I feel that just lately certain individuals have deliberately posted contentious and sometimes controversial threads in order to cause more of an argument than a debate.. but what I don't like is when the posts become ever more personal, which is not on, and a little bit childish IMO

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Wondered how long it would take before the snide comments started happening....I take the forums with a pinch of salt I come on for a laugh it's all taken so seriously at times...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

It's not compulsory to start your own threads. I rarely have anything I want to share or discuss that I feel the urge to start a thread about. "

That doesn't stop alot of people.....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I post where I like, when I like, how I like. It won't ever make me popular, but it will make me consistent. There are some people on here I can banter with, and they banter back; others fire a personal attack (at just about anyone to be honest).

Not being able to accept what other people have to write and resorting to personal insults, belittles the attacker and not the one being attacked. I have seen whole threads turn on their heels because of that behaviour.

I sometimes derail threads, I don't mean to it just happens, nothing malicious in it. I often apologise, openly and in the forums. I often get very nice messages from people that never post on the forums, about my forum posts; I sometimes get nasty ones from people that do...

I have been accused of being

A white knight

A racist

Anti-semitic

Homophobic

Talking to people like shit

But I have received compliments too. In this life, everything I or you or anyone else will or can say will or can be judged and invariably will be, opinions can and will be attacked and rendered obsolete by facts (or fiction)...

Personal attacks, childish behaviour, insults.... they lead to only one thing; angst, and that I can do without.

Let the little voices have their day, let the rant rage and the venom burn veins, let the spittle of the offended quench the misery seeker...But most of all, let all words cast into the ether by the largely anonymous be lost when the thread slips of the page....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Attack the post, not the poster.

Damn....shall i put my popcorn away then?

Seriously though...

I agree with what you said about disagreeing with people you like. I often find myself rolling my eyes at some of hubby's posts

...you'll then find yourself agreeing with them over Something else. I do think it takes a certain maturity and self confidence though not to Take things personally. I think that's When people start throwing insults around.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

It's not compulsory to start your own threads. I rarely have anything I want to share or discuss that I feel the urge to start a thread about. "

I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn i hate the way my phone makes the word "I" default to small letter and then throws in random capital letters for the hell of it. Apologies all

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Does anyone like butter popcorn?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo."

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I post where I like, when I like, how I like. It won't ever make me popular, but it will make me consistent. There are some people on here I can banter with, and they banter back; others fire a personal attack (at just about anyone to be honest).

I have been accused of being

A white knight

A racist

Anti-semitic

Homophobic

Talking to people like shit

Personal attacks, childish behaviour, insults.... they lead to only one thing; angst, and that I can do without.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

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i was going to start a thread on mercury retrograde..its over about the 23 may for your information xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo."

Actually, it is!

What Happens When Mercury Goes Retrograde?

All sorts of things! It’s like everyone you know has suddenly gone mad! You might find yourself getting into bizarre arguments about nothing at all, being unable to finish sentences or barely even able to form a coherent thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been accused of being

A white knight

A racist

Anti-semitic

Homophobic

Talking to people like shit

Personal attacks, childish behaviour, insults.... they lead to only one thing; angst, and that I can do without.

Well said old boy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Didn't you put something up on your Lady post in big capital letters? And I quote from your post

THEY JUST LIKE ARGUING AND PERSONALLY ATTACKING PEOPLE ON POSTS AND THREADS?

Calling people bellends is that not personally attacking people on threads?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

i was going to start a thread on mercury retrograde..its over about the 23 may for your information xx"

Luckily it finishes two days before my birthday. Phew!!

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By *anky_Panky OP Woman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Mutual - I choose who I meet choose well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

Nice video...shame about the song

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well it makes a change from everyone being nicey nicey all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

It's not compulsory to start your own threads. I rarely have anything I want to share or discuss that I feel the urge to start a thread about.

I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo."

yesterday it was travelling in front of the sun so it was hot stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Didn't you put something up on your Lady post in big capital letters? And I quote from your post

THEY JUST LIKE ARGUING AND PERSONALLY ATTACKING PEOPLE ON POSTS AND THREADS?

Calling people bellends is that not personally attacking people on threads?

Not when he does it apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

It's not compulsory to start your own threads. I rarely have anything I want to share or discuss that I feel the urge to start a thread about.

I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

yesterday it was travelling in front of the sun so it was hot stuff

I'm not one to split hairs..... But surely it does that everyday..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been accused of being

A white knight

A racist

Anti-semitic

Homophobic

Talking to people like shit

Personal attacks, childish behaviour, insults.... they lead to only one thing; angst, and that I can do without.

Well said old boy"

I am 41.... I don't know how old you are..because? Not keen on the term "Old Boy"... but I wont take offense...

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By *anky_Panky OP Woman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I think some people post controversial threads for the attention. Maybe not newbies, but definitely people who've been around for a while

Am starting to think this may end up that way!!

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

Nice video...shame about the song

I like you but I disagree and think both are good. I love the descending chromatic brass pattern towards the end. It kicks arse. Each to their own though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Well it makes a change from everyone being nicey nicey all the time"

A bit of middle ground would be good.

It's either all lovey dovey or handbags at dawn.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think some people post controversial threads for the attention. Maybe not newbies, but definitely people who've been around for a while

"
Not so much now as mods would sort them out . Fab over the years has become a easy going site I find ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I start nice, non-contentious posts about MasterChef and David Attenborough, although its only a matter of time before one kicks off.

I wonder if Mercury is retrograde at the mo.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8UEaDaNMTgI

I am responding to your post with an apt tune, rather than starting a thread of my own.

Nice video...shame about the song

I like you but I disagree and think both are good. I love the descending chromatic brass pattern towards the end. It kicks arse. Each to their own though.

I didn't like the intro. Then i skipped on. Then my conservative nature panicked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, we've all seen them.....

Do you think it's right or wrong that contentious subjects are posted about if you know it'll cause argument?

Discuss x

Maybe you should show us all how it's done and start posting threads of your own instead of feeding of other people's threads and ideas??

That would make a refreshing change for you ?

Do I have to start threads? I like to think I make a valid contribution unlike the 'popcorn' comments I;ve just criticised.

To be honest I don't see what relevance your suggestion has to what I posted?

The revelance is this... Your so quick to critique and criticise other people's threads and posts that maybe you should start threads of your own before criticising others threads and posts.

But people like you don't do threads as you know you have nothing interesting to say, so you lurk around the forums picking at other people's threads and posts like an annoying shit fly !!

Very sad and spineless "

So commenting in a thread is critiquing and criticissing? Do you understand how a forum works, people post, other people reply.

How is it spineless to post my own opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All I can say is ....Thank fuck I don't have to associate with some of the BELLENDS that frequent this place in my personal life! !

Didn't you put something up on your Lady post in big capital letters? And I quote from your post

THEY JUST LIKE ARGUING AND PERSONALLY ATTACKING PEOPLE ON POSTS AND THREADS?

Calling people bellends is that not personally attacking people on threads?

Out of the hundreds of threads I've posted and commented on I think you'll find its very rare of me to single out anyone individually unless I'm defending a personal attack.

Even my "BELLENDS" post was generic and it didn't single anyone out personally.

Big difference to my generic threads and personal attacks in forums etc.

But to be honest I'm wasting my breath as some people in here are beyond reason.

I'm out a here .

You lot carry on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well it makes a change from everyone being nicey nicey all the time

A bit of middle ground would be good.

It's either all lovey dovey or handbags at dawn.

I have lots of squishy "middle ground" if anyone wants any?

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Oh dear, seems I have missed something .... well, can't even be bothered to read through the whole thread. Except to say that it gets boring when people can't be bothered to air their opinions and others are told to be quiet .... its mighty boring here. Now I am going to post basically the same comment on another thread ... meanwhile, had a great meet last night, nothing to do with the forums ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't always get my point across clearly and I'm often misunderstood. I can't help it,I don't have a properly functioning brain,and when I try to explain myself my deep thinking gets jumbled. It pisses me off,especially on the political threads where I'm constantly deleting comments before posting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sticks and stones springs to mind, shame peeps don't just chill and enjoy life while they can

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Well it makes a change from everyone being nicey nicey all the time

A bit of middle ground would be good.

It's either all lovey dovey or handbags at dawn.

I have lots of squishy "middle ground" if anyone wants any?

Kind offer but I've got enough of my own.