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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning
though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab
i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids
id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do
advice anyone please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning
though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab
i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids
id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do
advice anyone please"
Set pics to private and choose who you send them to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning
though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab
i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids
id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do
advice anyone please" come off the site if it bothers you enough to let them find out, otherwise carry on, hes seen you now so no denying it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Either:
1/ if you know him well enough, have a quiet word and say, look mate, this is strictly between you and me
Or:
2/ if you don't know him well, just totally ignore him. "
i dnt know him that well i just know that he knows my family |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning
though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab
i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids
id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do
advice anyone please"
Without sounding Critical, you have your face picture all over your profile.
I'm sure there are lots of other people know you but haven't approached you. Having said that we are all in this together and if someone mentioned that they have seen you on a swingers site, then they automatically expose themselves too. Relax and move on, don't worry about what you cant change. Happy swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hes been very polite by simply messaging you here - didnt come up and high 5 you in the waiting room - but if you put your face pic up for all to see im sorry but expect to be recognised - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand your angst as tray has kids who are on here hence why we don't show face pics until we chatted for a while to someone but at the same time this isn't a sex site it's a swingers site and any social media site can be used for the same thing snap chat, facebook (how many marriages has that ruined) if they do find out just tell them it's the social side and the forums you love just because your on here doesn't mean you meet or have sex with any Tom dick or harry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you all and with having my face pic public it was only a matter of time before i was reconised
and to be fair to the guy he hasnt said anything negative |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got a message off a guy earlier who had reconised me at the dentist this morning
though ive got nothing to hide by being on fab
i realised that he used to live near me and knows my kids
id be motified if they found out that i was on a sex site i just dont know what to do
advice anyone please"
You will be today's news and tomorrow's chip paper. Because you have put that "dilemma" as a (forum) topic. You have opened yourself up now. You should of kept your silence and it would have blown over. |
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