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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol  "
maybe they don't like your chat?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol "
There's a name for that type lol...but seriously why are people just on this site to chat!! It makes a bit of a mockery of this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would say just move on as there are genuine people on here that do meet  . Also look at the number of threads from guys who say they can't even get to chat with anyone so your at least one step further on it that helps lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just look to see if they've had any meets. We get quite a few messages from couples who have been members for more than three months and never even met on a social. We tend to ignore the message. We don't mind a chat over the Internet but we are here to actually meet up even if it's only for a drink or a bit more in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol "
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you OP, there's an increasing number of bizarre women on here - messaging me first, proceeding to whatsapp then blocking me saying "it's me not you" ...its like being in the school playground again. Totally bizarre. I know women complain about time wasters but us men get it just as bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol "
my total bug bear on here
Some chicks need to look at themselves if they are on a sex site to go on a date
Its not a date its a sex site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I've just had a wink from a lovely lady I've met before on here. Messaged her with a polite "hello again"etc, with pics, and it just got deleted!
It certainly messes with ya head!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use the site in different ways though... I tend to talk to someone for quite a bit til we get to meet - the longest having been four months. Works for me, works for the people I meet, it's nobody else's business how anyone else uses the site.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet "
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ??"
Is this a test lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol "
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ??
Is this a test lol "
Not at all ...if I'm not your type please say it's fine and I fully understand that ladies can fancy / have an attraction to who ever they want to ...
All I ask is ladies just say no sorry not my type and move on don't lead us men on and then delete messages after sending a few or just not reply at all ..manners cost nothing X |
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By *elson61Man
over a year ago
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I've seen a few profiles where the members say they are just here to chat or use the forum, or they state they are not currently meeting. They are nice and upfront and you know where you stand from the outset. If the would be chatters were to do that it would make life so much easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't invite guys back to mine, they always invite themselves from the off.
so yeah i don't really meet now. nobody seems to give a shit about your safety on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal' "
Correct yes for the right lady yes I will be more than willing but I'm always 100% honest and tell them from the start if that's gonna happen or not ...
It's when ladies say yes let's meet etc etc chatted loads of dirty messages tell me they want nsa then last min say no or all of a sudden say social meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol my total bug bear on here
Some chicks need to look at themselves if they are on a sex site to go on a date
Its not a date its a sex site!"
some men have taken me out pn 'dates', even holding hands and that while out coz they like that kind of thing. it's rare that anyone sees me as anything more than a living flesh light but some guys do.
also the amount of married men who can't be seen in public with another woman reduces the amount likely to take you out but it happens.
i'm looking for a relationship on here even, i can do what i want on here so long as others are willing to participate with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are plenty of time wasters on here but I would also imagine it's quite a scary thing for a single woman to meet up with a stranger for NSA sex, it's a vulnerable position to put yourself in for both parties if you aren't meeting in a safe club or party environment. I can't say I'm surprised a lot get cold feet or want to meet somewhere public first.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal'
Correct yes for the right lady yes I will be more than willing but I'm always 100% honest and tell them from the start if that's gonna happen or not ...
It's when ladies say yes let's meet etc etc chatted loads of dirty messages tell me they want nsa then last min say no or all of a sudden say social meet..."
I just read your profile. So basically you'll fuck anything but take out people you can show off?
If your profile says you'll take someone out and they ask for a social and you turn them down then it looks like you're saying they aren't attractive enough to take out.
Yeah no wonder people don't wanna meet. and i'd tell you to do one for being a liar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they just got a better offer. It happens!  "
Given the opportunity is treat you to the works, nice meal, few drinks, open log fire......I can't do better than that lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?"
yeah. i can do that on a sex site where men are looking for a partner.
fair amount of guys are interested, most i think are saying it to get a fuck but some are serious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ??
Is this a test lol
Not at all ...if I'm not your type please say it's fine and I fully understand that ladies can fancy / have an attraction to who ever they want to ...
All I ask is ladies just say no sorry not my type and move on don't lead us men on and then delete messages after sending a few or just not reply at all ..manners cost nothing X "
It's nothing to do with manners, take a look at the site FAQs, all the answers are there.
As for meeting? Yes, lots do. I've never arranged to have a meet and they've not turned up. The answer to that is to look at your selection criteria, I often find the faster they move to sex talk, the less likely they are to meet. I also need to have a connection with people I meet too. Try arranging a social, that usually s out the time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ??
Is this a test lol
Not at all ...if I'm not your type please say it's fine and I fully understand that ladies can fancy / have an attraction to who ever they want to ...
All I ask is ladies just say no sorry not my type and move on don't lead us men on and then delete messages after sending a few or just not reply at all ..manners cost nothing X
It's nothing to do with manners, take a look at the site FAQs, all the answers are there.
As for meeting? Yes, lots do. I've never arranged to have a meet and they've not turned up. The answer to that is to look at your selection criteria, I often find the faster they move to sex talk, the less likely they are to meet. I also need to have a connection with people I meet too. Try arranging a social, that usually s out the time wasters "
The op does not bother with site faqs as you can see by the silly disclaimer ....Sydney |
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal'
Correct yes for the right lady yes I will be more than willing but I'm always 100% honest and tell them from the start if that's gonna happen or not ...
It's when ladies say yes let's meet etc etc chatted loads of dirty messages tell me they want nsa then last min say no or all of a sudden say social meet..."
Well, if they have recent veris then maybe it is something you are doing - no-one knows when they start to chat if you're going to click and maybe you are putting them off somehow?
I'll give you one hint for instance - do NOT get sexual until a lady has indicated she has made some kind of decision about fancying you. I talk to people all the time because based on their pics I MIGHT fancy them, but it is not a given.
Men don't seem to get this - women desire men partly based on the interaction between them - think of it like 50% exam and 50% course work!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?"
I know a few people who have met their partners on here, but single people & people who are already married will of course have a different view on meeting a potential partner on here. |
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"Just look to see if they've had any meets. We get quite a few messages from couples who have been members for more than three months and never even met on a social. We tend to ignore the message. We don't mind a chat over the Internet but we are here to actually meet up even if it's only for a drink or a bit more in a club. "
How you select playmates is your choice, but don't you think some couples are nervous and want to test the waters before plunging in?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are plenty of time wasters on here but I would also imagine it's quite a scary thing for a single woman to meet up with a stranger for NSA sex, it's a vulnerable position to put yourself in for both parties if you aren't meeting in a safe club or party environment. I can't say I'm surprised a lot get cold feet or want to meet somewhere public first.
Mrs x"
This exactly!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
As others have said,lots on here are just here to chat about meeting but don't actually want to meet
Ok I live in Tamworth only 15 mins from you
Away with work today / tomz but could meet Thursday if ur willing ??
Is this a test lol
Not at all ...if I'm not your type please say it's fine and I fully understand that ladies can fancy / have an attraction to who ever they want to ...
All I ask is ladies just say no sorry not my type and move on don't lead us men on and then delete messages after sending a few or just not reply at all ..manners cost nothing X "
I replied but you obviously didn't like my reply!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just look to see if they've had any meets. We get quite a few messages from couples who have been members for more than three months and never even met on a social. We tend to ignore the message. We don't mind a chat over the Internet but we are here to actually meet up even if it's only for a drink or a bit more in a club. "
Im definitely here to meet.. but I cant even get people to chat never mind meet. |
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if you"re just your normal self and not over the top.......you'll find nice people and you take it from there........
lots of girls are put off by the "hard sell" approach...
be your normal self and you will get someone that suits you......x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just look to see if they've had any meets. We get quite a few messages from couples who have been members for more than three months and never even met on a social. We tend to ignore the message. We don't mind a chat over the Internet but we are here to actually meet up even if it's only for a drink or a bit more in a club.
Im definitely here to meet.. but I cant even get people to chat never mind meet. "
To be honest the only chat you get with single women is here on the forum! And by admission by the majority of women on this thread is they are not looking for meets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol "
. Maybe no car and married with kids.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol "
Its hard work for guys. Lol
Keep trying otherwise turñ bi or gay to get lucky. Lol |
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal'
Correct yes for the right lady yes I will be more than willing but I'm always 100% honest and tell them from the start if that's gonna happen or not ...
It's when ladies say yes let's meet etc etc chatted loads of dirty messages tell me they want nsa then last min say no or all of a sudden say social meet...
I just read your profile. So basically you'll fuck anything but take out people you can show off?
If your profile says you'll take someone out and they ask for a social and you turn them down then it looks like you're saying they aren't attractive enough to take out.
Yeah no wonder people don't wanna meet. and i'd tell you to do one for being a liar."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?
It's a swinging website, not a a sex site."
which you meet for sex so its a,sex site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?
It's a swinging website, not a a sex site.which you meet for sex so its a,sex site "
At last someone who understands ...swinging site = sex site ?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?
It's a swinging website, not a a sex site.which you meet for sex so its a,sex site "
Oh my bad, didn't know the site was called fabsex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with your initial comments regarding all it requires is a no thank you. The issue you have being a male on something like this is the fact that there are so many guys you're competing against.(some) women start to buy into their own hype and act too hot for you. Experience has taught me that if you bump into someone at a party/club,that has ignored you on here, the scenario often changes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?
It's a swinging website, not a a sex site.which you meet for sex so its a,sex site
Oh my bad, didn't know the site was called fabsex "
no its called fab swingers not fab chatters or fab take me out to dinner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a boyfriend on a sex site?
Not judging you but really.. On a sex site?
It's a swinging website, not a a sex site.which you meet for sex so its a,sex site
Oh my bad, didn't know the site was called fabsex no its called fab swingers not fab chatters or fab take me out to dinner "
If that's how people pick their sexual partners, who cares? |
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"Spoke to a few ladies now who say they wanna meet ...they say they fancy me then make excuses hahha
Should I just take the hint on here now lol
maybe they don't like your chat? "
Der iz nowt rong wiv cht lyk ths is thr. Iwana c ur pussy n .......
I am so terribly sorry for not describing exactly in the Queen's English what I would like to do to you to make you come to an absolutely earth shattering orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sex site or not, it can be done with class and mutual respect and if chatting and taking somebody for a dinner first is lame because it is a sex site, then I am fucking lame yet proud of it |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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"This is v possible yeah ....but when they say all they want is dirty nsa sex then they asked to be taken out etc hahahah my heads messed up lol
You do say. 'Happy to take out and spoil with drinks and a meal'
Correct yes for the right lady yes I will be more than willing but I'm always 100% honest and tell them from the start if that's gonna happen or not ...
It's when ladies say yes let's meet etc etc chatted loads of dirty messages tell me they want nsa then last min say no or all of a sudden say social meet...
I just read your profile. So basically you'll fuck anything but take out people you can show off?
If your profile says you'll take someone out and they ask for a social and you turn them down then it looks like you're saying they aren't attractive enough to take out. "
Perhaps some of these people are actually males posing as females. Perhaps some of them are females who are winding you up as they don't like the tone/inference of what's in your profile text. If the common denominator in all of these exchanges is you then perhaps you need to look at what you're doing to put all these people off? Just a few thoughts |
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Maybe you could put in your profile more details about expectations, for example, really thin model like super women get a slap up meal in a Michelin starred gaff (with the added bonus you know they'll be eating a green salad) then downgrade depending on looks to a burger van in an industrial estate car park on a 50:50 basis. |
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