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Referred to as a "Lady" in here??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

all down to ones individual perceptions, how you associate that word in relation to women is more than likely based on how, when and even where you were raised..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well im not a man - lady - woman - fem - all are fine by me - those that know me call me by my name too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't get hung up on the words used, more likey the context they are used in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can still be a lady. You just point your little finger out whilst holding a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I'd rather be called a lady than a woman, to me woman just means they've noticed I have a vagina, lady means they've noticed I maintain a little class while being anally fisted by a gang of 8

What I really prefer is being called a minx, that means they hit the right buttons and got the full experience from the meet.

*disclaimer- I don't actually do anal fisting OR gangs of 8

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can still be a lady. You just point your little finger out whilst holding a cock. "

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

It's far better than being referred to as female or fem.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I am very much a lady,very prim and proper

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate when I get called a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I find it a creepy word in here and it gives me images of greasy men in raincoats with hard ons wanking furiously.

Lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it a creepy word in here and it gives me images of greasy men in raincoats with hard ons waking furiously.]"

I've woken furiously many times, know the feeling

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By *ndrew1972Man over a year ago

Roscrea

"I don't get hung up on the words used, more likey the context they are used in."

Exactly, as long as proper punctuation is used. There is a vast difference between saying "I recently had the pleasure of meeting this lady, boy she knows how to pleasure a guy" or "I recently had the pleasure of meeting this lady boy she knows how to pleasure a man"...

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman over a year ago

Bathwyche

Is op taking the piss?

Talk about utter disrespect for women.

Can a female not like sex and be a lady at the same time.

Or shall we call all guys who want to roast woman total cunts???

Everyday sexism at its worst...dear me.

And staying in Europe won't change attitudes like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ladys" is the best one I keep reading on here

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

Perhaps a touch of misogyny creeping in here. Just because someone decides they want to have a gangbang with 50 guys would not mean they are not a lady, nor would it mean they are a slut.

You have no idea who the person is, or what they are like. So how can you even make a valid judgement? She could be the most dainty & 'ladylike' person outside of sex, so why be judgemental based on one attribute!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising "

I'm from Leeds. Men call other men as well as women 'love' 'flower' etc, it's just a way people refer to each other when they don't know their name. Nothing sinister about it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising "

All right love take it easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising

I'm from Leeds. Men call other men as well as women 'love' 'flower' etc, it's just a way people refer to each other when they don't know their name. Nothing sinister about it."

It might not be sins tee but I hate being called love...just a pet hate of mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can be filthy and still be a lady, whatever sexual acts you may like shouldn't matter. A civilised gangbang with tea and biscuits isn't sordid at all.

That's like saying you can't call someone one a gentleman if they like blow job or mff's lol

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By *ollymollWoman over a year ago

Stockport

"You can still be a lady. You just point your little finger out whilst holding a cock. "

I do that!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah of course. A lady wouldn't be on fab would she.

I'm not a lady. If I was I wouldn't say this....

Wanker

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't get hung up on the words used, more likey the context they are used in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because a lady enjoys sex with multiple guys and swollows or takes it up the shitter by 8 guys she cant be called a lady

Id say shes a lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising

I'm from Leeds. Men call other men as well as women 'love' 'flower' etc, it's just a way people refer to each other when they don't know their name. Nothing sinister about it.

It might not be sins tee but I hate being called love...just a pet hate of mine. "

Ok Bab, no probs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising

I'm from Leeds. Men call other men as well as women 'love' 'flower' etc, it's just a way people refer to each other when they don't know their name. Nothing sinister about it.

It might not be sins tee but I hate being called love...just a pet hate of mine.

Ok Bab, no probs

Shut it you

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

From now on I wish to be known as Lady Juniper.

I am a lady, I was well dragged up & have excellent manners.

I just happen to like sex too. Lots of it.

I don't like babe or love & Hun is starting to get on my nerves too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ...

So you can't call yourself a lady if you enjoy sex.

he words Victorian & Misogynist jump to mind.

"Lady" Sara!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am very much a lady,very prim and proper

Sounds legit...

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I normally refer to the ladies of fab as ladies.. I use it in a respectful manner... the fact the ladies have a liberated and often xxx rated sex life doesn't make them less of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can still be a lady. You just point your little finger out whilst holding a cock. "

Damn, I'm not as ladylike as I thought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising "

Me too, or dear. Only my parents can call me love or dear

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

People can do as they like but they should still be treated with respect.

A thing some would do well to learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

just because a woman likes to be fisted and have multiple sexual encounters on the same night doesn't mean she can't be a lady ffs !!!....what do you suggest we /they get called? ...slags? Whores? Sluts? ...why doesn't it sit right with you? ..because ultimately you have little respect for "this type of lady "?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lady sonia ooooooohhh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some humorous replies that's made me laugh so ccheers for brightening my morning lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just because a lady enjoys sex with multiple guys and swollows or takes it up the shitter by 8 guys she cant be called a lady

Id say shes a lucky bastard

*takes it up the shitter

Such a lovely expression!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've given veris and used the word gentleman to describe the guy as they were a gentleman with me.

The sex may have been hot, dirty and fucking filthy but they were still a gentleman and I hope I was still a lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just because a lady enjoys sex with multiple guys and swollows or takes it up the shitter by 8 guys she cant be called a lady

Id say shes a lucky bastard

*takes it up the shitter

Such a lovely expression!"

The same context as the op then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

I think this says a lot about how you view women on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything outside the apparent trend for, often young, complete strangers referring to me as 'slut' in their opening message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies can enjoy great sex

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

I think this says a lot about how you view women on here"

Although I note you say women and not ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually don't care I'm more annoyed when someone calls me love I hate being called love it's so patronising "

...or babe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

..I knew there was a reason I'd got the OP on block! !!...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's far better than being referred to as female or fem."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't get hung up on the words used, more likey the context they are used in."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

Im sure others can think of other things to refer to you as

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

Im sure others can think of other things to refer to you as

You mean gorgeous and sexy

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's just used out of politeness on here, and as 'ladies' is used for everything from public toilets to members of the aristocracy I don't think much can be inferred from the word itself, it depends on context.

But please guys check out the loos and remember the plural is ladies, not ladys

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I think its a compliment to be called a lady or a man a gentleman, especialy these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahahaha!!....* whoops*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lady in the street freak in the bed as usher once said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

being referred to as a lady, in my mind anyway, a sign of respect.

And as many have said already, it beats being called 'love' or 'my dear', which I think just sounds condescending

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lady in the street freak in the bed as a wedding usher once said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've come to realize that different women will take exception to different terms.

"Baby, luv, honey" - there will be women who don't like these terms because they are patronizing.

"Female or fem" - there will be women who don't like these terms because they are objectifying, and honestly how often are men referred to as "males"?

"Slut" - there are some women who don't like this term because of its negative connotations and base associations.

"Lady" - apparently we've hit upon the term for women that some men find incongruous with the nature of the site.

It's all rather interesting, isn't it? To the casual observer each of these terms says something about the people who use them as well as the people who take exception to their use. What it says, exactly, in true subjective style, is only for the observer to evaluate but in the end does it really matter? People will continue to use each of the above terms and other people will continue to like/not like them.

Personally, I am a fan of calling men "men" and women "women" but I'd be very intrigued if someone could offer me a good reason why I shouldn't like those terms

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

Yes you have very old fashioned view sadly op . The fact that the term "lady" doesnt sit well with you if that woman is liberated when it comes to sex ,says far more about your blinkered view than about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've come to realize that different women will take exception to different terms.

"Baby, luv, honey" - there will be women who don't like these terms because they are patronizing.

"Female or fem" - there will be women who don't like these terms because they are objectifying, and honestly how often are men referred to as "males"?

"Slut" - there are some women who don't like this term because of its negative connotations and base associations.

"Lady" - apparently we've hit upon the term for women that some men find incongruous with the nature of the site.

Personally, I am a fan of calling men "men" and women "women" but I'd be very intrigued if someone could offer me a good reason why I shouldn't like those terms

Me too

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I use lady on veris etc it's just respectful and a compliment.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm not bothered if someone chooses to use, lady, woman, female/fem to describe me.

I can think of worse things to get my knickers in a twist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Babe always gets me lol....reminds me of that pig film..

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

You can be a lady even if you are a slut in bed

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By *uck princess and himCouple over a year ago

washington

Babe's or baby gets right on my tits but not as much as hun! Wtf!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Babe's or baby gets right on my tits but not as much as hun! Wtf!!

Ok Hun calm down calm down !

lol

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?"

I just think lady or ladies is banded about too much and has no real meaning. If I was a woman I'd just prefer to be called by my user name in here or if it's direct in the forum to all women then to use women and not ladies just seems better in my personal opinion and If I was a woman I'd prefer that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's 2 sides to me.. in the bedroom and out of it..

Id like to think id be considered lady like in day to day life. I speak well, hold my own, confident and independent.

I give respect to others and think its lovely that others give it back to me.

I like the fact i have been referred to as a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another provocative thread there is a pattern emerging here

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Is op taking the piss?

Talk about utter disrespect for women.

Can a female not like sex and be a lady at the same time.

Or shall we call all guys who want to roast woman total cunts???

Everyday sexism at its worst...dear me.

And staying in Europe won't change attitudes like that."

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Another provocative thread there is a pattern emerging here"

That little green arrow shows so much.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

No I didn't mean that a lady can't be sexual etc. I meant the term "lady" or "ladies" that the guys use on here in the forums and on veris is meaningless half the time and just over used by alot of men in here.

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lady means a woman to me,so does fem or female. How a man perceives me will determine whether I want to interact with him. He can call me a slut as long as he respects me after

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you women think to being referred to as a lady in here?

You know the score. Lots of guys who leave veris and posts on the forums use the term "Lady".

She took it in every hole by 8 of us and swallowed every last drop...Treat her with respect like the lady she is.

And on the forums. .. Do any Ladies like being fisted etc?

Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?

So what do you "ladies" ? Ahem ... women lol think to guys who are always using the term lady or ladies in here?

Your choice of sexual activity doesn't preclude you from being a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh, and

Your old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only meet gentlemen on here, so if someone wants to refer to me as a lady then that's fine by me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a Guy a Man a Male and that's how I like to be addressed or by my user name. I don't want or like the term Gentleman personally.

If I was a Woman I'd prefer to be called a Woman a Female a Girl etc or by my user name. I wouldn't like to be addressed as a lady in here.

That's just my personal view and this is why I wondered what the women in here thought to the term "lady" that the guys use so often?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand why the OP referred to the use of the word lady by enclosing it in ""'s.....

surely he can't be insinuating that we are anything other than ladies just because we happen to be on a swinging site?

but if this is the case I would be interested in knowing what word he would use instead, and why

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

"I don't get hung up on the words used, more likey the context they are used in.

you seem to have plenty time on yr hands..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean"

Ok this is why..... In the scenarios where some men have put on the veris that she was a "lady" and when they put threads up of... any "ladies" enjoy Bukkake and bareback gangbangs etc??

Do they actually mean it when they use the term "lady" or "ladies" ?

I think in most scenarios they don't mean it and it's nothing more than just a "word" that they think the women like to hear?

This is what the thread is about.

What do women think to guys in here who are always banding the term "lady" or "ladies" about?

Do they like it? Or do they think it's meaningless etc?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a Guy a Man a Male and that's how I like to be addressed or by my user name. I don't want or like the term Gentleman personally.

If I was a Woman I'd prefer to be called a Woman a Female a Girl etc or by my user name. I wouldn't like to be addressed as a lady in here.

That's just my personal view and this is why I wondered what the women in here thought to the term "lady" that the guys use so often?"

I'm fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean"

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment."

Sorry but I'm failing to spot aforementioned thin veil!?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Ok this is why..... In the scenarios where some men have put on the veris that she was a "lady" and when they put threads up of... any "ladies" enjoy Bukkake and bareback gangbangs etc??

Do they actually mean it when they use the term "lady" or "ladies" ?

I think in most scenarios they don't mean it and it's nothing more than just a "word" that they think the women like to hear?

This is what the thread is about.

What do women think to guys in here who are always banding the term "lady" or "ladies" about?

Do they like it? Or do they think it's meaningless etc?"

That still doesn't answer what your definition of the term "lady" is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment."

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment."

There is a viel?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

I think you need to learn a few things op if you are now inferring we are all paranoid because YOU don't think anyone who knows how to enjoy themselves sexually is not a lady.

Just sayin

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

Oh I think now is the time for me to take a seat with my popcorn......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How I read the opening message from the OP is that a woman can't be called a lady if she's into gangbangs and fisting! !...he's already told us that he personally had a problem with this and it doesn't sit right with him because he's old fashioned. ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

Nope I have no paranoia.

I just think that you like to try and rile people for sport.

I think you like to wind people up and one day Fatty, you will bite off more than you can chew! And I am hoping for a ringside seat- so I can sit with all my lady-friends and enjoy the show!

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It's far better than being referred to as female or fem."

Meanwhile I detest being referred to as a 'fem'

People like/dislike allsorts. I snort when people refer to me as a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

Paranoia?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not a lady. Therefore do not like being called one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

Nope I have no paranoia.

I just think that you like to try and rile people for sport.

I think you like to wind people up and one day Fatty, you will bite off more than you can chew! And I am hoping for a ringside seat- so I can sit with all my lady-friends and enjoy the show!

No need to get personal Hun. This thread isn't personally directed to you or anyone so no need for you to personally direct your grievances about me on here .

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Just the same as I don't like the term "gentleman" I'm a guy a man a him etc and that will do me just fine.

You also said you don't think it right to call women "ladies" if they like to be gangbanged or like fisting....so what do you think we should be called?

That didn't answer my question really, you said being called a lady while liking gangbangs or fisting is something you think you should be called old fashioned for.

That implies that you are old school and women couldn't possibly be a lady if they liked to have sex with others or many people.... please tell me I am wrong in my assumption?

Hence why I did a thread about what do the women in here think to the word lady in here etc?

As if I was a woman I'd find it a bit creepy personally.

My thread didn't mean women can't still be a lady if they enjoy sex etc.

It was about the term used "lady"

"Now call me old fashioned? But the use of the term "lady" doesn't seem to feel right in these scenarios?"

The comment you made above doesn't get explained in any of your posts. I may be assuming wrong who knows, if I am not assuming wrong then you should stand up for what you mean

Rugby it's obvious. It's a thinly veiled misogynistic comment.

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

Nope I have no paranoia.

I just think that you like to try and rile people for sport.

I think you like to wind people up and one day Fatty, you will bite off more than you can chew! And I am hoping for a ringside seat- so I can sit with all my lady-friends and enjoy the show!

No need to get personal Hun. This thread isn't personally directed to you or anyone so no need for you to personally direct your grievances about me on here .

Where has it got personal? And why call her Hun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat"

My definition of lady is varied and unless I had met and known that person I wouldn't address a woman as a lady as I wouldn't no if she was a lady or not?

Just as I wouldn't address a guy who I didn't know as a gentleman.

But this may answer your question about what I personally class as a lady... If I had gone to watch a woman bareback gangbang a group of strangers the term "lady" isn't one that would spring to my mind immediately lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Some men are basically in awe/scared of/ incapable of dealing with a woman's sexuality and all that that may involve, hence the need to protect themselves in their bubble of mother and child innocence by labelling 'other' women..

a woman is a slut, slag and all the other misogynistic drivel that some men perpetuate whereby their mate who has similar desires is 'a bit of a lad'..

its about oppression and maintaining what they perceive as the status quo..

all so very stone age..

OP is your mother a 'lady'..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah so it's really just the Madonna/whore complex that you have.

Figures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The other term which really makes me cringe to the max is "baby girl". I'm forty flipping one for fudge cake's sake!!!! Just stop it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Looks like this thread has gone off the topic of what women think to the term of "lady" used by men and turned into another...Let the paranoid with vendettas crawl out of the woodwork get together and try and attack the poster and use the thread for the excuse to air your bitterness.

Lol

Crack on I can take all you can give

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks like this thread has gone off the topic of what women think to the term of "lady" used by men and turned into another...Let the paranoid with vendettas crawl out of the woodwork get together and try and attack the poster and use the thread for the excuse to air your bitterness.

Lol

Crack on I can take all you can give

If Only you were that important sweetie!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Ice cream, popcorn, peanuts, hot dogs.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP feel free to tell me to.mind my own business but would you enter in to a relationship with a woman who engages in these unladylike sexual practices? I'm just curious...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol

Crack on I can take all you can give

If Only you were that important sweetie!

Your turn to buy the Cappuccino '

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not read all the thread"so apologies if this has already been covered, but if someone's sex life determines their personality and how they are identified as a person doesn't that make most men Wankers?

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman over a year ago

Bathwyche

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat

My definition of lady is varied and unless I had met and known that person I wouldn't address a woman as a lady as I wouldn't no if she was a lady or not?

Just as I wouldn't address a guy who I didn't know as a gentleman.

AND OP DIGS HIMSELF A BIGGER HOLE!

Why don't you just 'man up' 'be a grown' up' 'take responsibility'...whatever. Can you not just openly admit that this post has shone a mirror on some of your sexist points of view. And that is not a personal dig on you. There are many men on here who, after a short time messaging, will let that attitude pop out. It is unfortunately an ongoing issue and I think that to be a member of this website and to meet up with swingers and consider yourself open minded enough to engage in less typical sexual behaviours that you take a look at how you really do view the female participants in the group etc.

Perhaps it might be a good idea to stop retaliating and trying to justify your words and take a look at the underlying semantics of what you readily say/type.

That is all.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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Lol

Crack on I can take all you can give

You seem to be doing what you say others are doing. I have said before, if people want to post provocative posts then don't be surprised if people challenge it.

If you can't accept that will happen, maybe don't post those type of posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP feel free to tell me to.mind my own business but would you enter in to a relationship with a woman who engages in these unladylike sexual practices? I'm just curious..."

You say that like it's an option for him.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat

My definition of lady is varied and unless I had met and known that person I wouldn't address a woman as a lady as I wouldn't no if she was a lady or not?

Just as I wouldn't address a guy who I didn't know as a gentleman.

Not really, because you still havn't actually said what you think the woman is if she isn't a lady. If you don't want to answer thats obviously up to you, but you will then have to accept that people will assume what you mean.

I will keep the assumption I first made

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I think OP you had better proof read your opener before your press the Post Message, the way you have come across is the reason the ladies ( yes the ladies ) have answered the way they have, you do seem to have a very old fashioned view on sexually liberated women.

Wether we like being called ladies or not seems irrelevant now as you changed the tone of the thread all by yourself, you can't blame the ladies for that

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

"From now on I wish to be known as Lady Juniper.

I am a lady, I was well dragged up & have excellent manners.

I just happen to like sex too. Lots of it.

I don't like babe or love & Hun is starting to get on my nerves too "

I HATE being called 'Hun'. Funnily enough if they said 'Honey', I wouldn't mind as much! But 'Hun'! I get irrationally irritated by that word!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat

My definition of lady is varied and unless I had met and known that person I wouldn't address a woman as a lady as I wouldn't no if she was a lady or not?

Just as I wouldn't address a guy who I didn't know as a gentleman.

So, what term would immediately spring to your mind?

Does it make a difference if condoms are used in this gangbang?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't have to Veil my comments. But paranoia can be rife in places like this I've noticed

If you explain your definition of the term "lady" I can remove my tin foil hat

My definition of lady is varied and unless I had met and known that person I wouldn't address a woman as a lady as I wouldn't no if she was a lady or not?

Just as I wouldn't address a guy who I didn't know as a gentleman.

AND OP DIGS HIMSELF A BIGGER HOLE!

Perhaps it might be a good idea to stop retaliating and trying to justify your words and take a look at the underlying semantics of what you readily say/type.

That is all.

I have every right to defend myself and retaliate to posts aimed at me directly that I do not agree with!

My threads are enjoyed by lots of people and you can see that for yourself by the amount of posts I get on them.

It's like anything else there will always be the odd few around who decide to take my threads personally. But as a whole most people enjoy them.

Like the saying goes you can't please everyone all of the time.

There are people who will find an argument or be displeased with posts and threads and would argue with their own shadow.

And those people show them selves frequently as the green arrow confirms.

I will continue to post my threads and comments in threads as I see fit and there's nothing you can do about that fact!

IF YOU DONT LIKE MY THREADS OR POSTS DON'T READ OR WASTE YOU BREATH COMMENTING ON THEM!

THAT'S WHAT I DO IF I DON'T LIKE SOMEONE OR THEIR THREADS. I JUST IGNORE THEM.

CAN UNDERSTAND WHY SOME PEOPLE CAN DO THE SAME??

UNLESS LIKE I'VE ALREADY MENTIONED ...THEY JUST LIKE ARGUING AND PERSONALLY ATTACKING PEOPLE ON POSTS AND THREADS?

I REST MY CASE AND HAVE NO MORE TO SAY ON THE MATTER.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

The words "lady" and "ladies" have lost all meaning to me now after reading this thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was asking what the women thought to the term "lady" that gets used alot in here by the "gentlemen"? Lol

I wanted the women's view on it because if I was a woman I wouldn't like it and I'd find it creepy. To be hobest I'd prefer to be called a woman female etc.

Referring to someone as a 'female' refers to their sex organs and nothing else. Would you really like to be referred to as a sex object? 'Female' just means that you have female sex organs - it doesn't specify if you're a human, a dog, or a flower. A woman is the proper name for a human female.

But I do think that this thread reveals you at least have some latent misogyny holed up in there, since you think that 'ladies' can't enjoy sex.