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So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.  |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled. "
Well if there is little or no effort put into said pic, also if it's taken in a bathroom/toilet.
Cock only, sky remote rubbish.
Well that's a usual indicator that he not for us. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled. "
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened. |
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"Shoot me down if I am wrong but there has to be a physical attraction. Which they can tell from your pics "
But photos can be quite 2dimentional, and not necessarily portray the subject too well. Ive met a few people who look nothing like their photos, but was attracted to them more by what they had to say and their personality. Meeting in person is much better than just looking at a photo. Ive had brilliant meets with people who said.. well normally you wouldnt be my type.. but we had a great time anyway. Lol |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled. "
I look at the photos last. I use the profile as my main guide. If it's bland, generic with little effort/information I have absolutely no intentions of pulling teeth to find out anything...next! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened."
That's fair enough. But sometimes meeting in person can be a good thing also. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
I look at the photos last. I use the profile as my main guide. If it's bland, generic with little effort/information I have absolutely no intentions of pulling teeth to find out anything...next!"
Yeh.. I can go with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
Well if there is little or no effort put into said pic, also if it's taken in a bathroom/toilet.
Cock only, sky remote rubbish.
Well that's a usual indicator that he not for us. "
What do you class as little or no effort? Ooops.. im guilty of the bathroom photo. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened.
That's fair enough. But sometimes meeting in person can be a good thing also. "
True, and in one or two cases, meeting them in person was a good thing as they looked a lot better than their pics but on the whole I trust my gut instinct as to whether I will be attracted to them. I'm not sure it's just their looks, it's how they chat to me online too. |
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I wouldn't have the time to meet people just to see if I'm going to click with them, there has to be initial physical attraction for me to want to meet a person. Call me shallow but if I'm not physically attracted to someone then I wouldn't want to get naughty with them. This is essentially a site to meet people for sex, not for dating although personality and a spark is important, physical attraction is key for me to taking it further. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened.
That's fair enough. But sometimes meeting in person can be a good thing also.
True, and in one or two cases, meeting them in person was a good thing as they looked a lot better than their pics but on the whole I trust my gut instinct as to whether I will be attracted to them. I'm not sure it's just their looks, it's how they chat to me online too."
Yep I agree. But my original question is about people saying 'not my type' without even chatting first. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened.
That's fair enough. But sometimes meeting in person can be a good thing also. "
But women on here get so many requests to meet they HAVE to make choices, and I agree, a profile with no more than a couple of lazy unflattering pics will totally put me off. As the saying goes, you only get one chance at a first impression. |
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"I wouldn't have the time to meet people just to see if I'm going to click with them, there has to be initial physical attraction for me to want to meet a person. Call me shallow but if I'm not physically attracted to someone then I wouldn't want to get naughty with them. This is essentially a site to meet people for sex, not for dating although personality and a spark is important, physical attraction is key for me to taking it further."
Oh I agree. Im not here to date either. Maybe have a fwb, but not date per say. I see your point.. but at the same time you might just miss out on a really quality meet. Or maybe you won't. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
There has to be a physical attraction. I've met men socially when there hasn't been that initial physical attraction, just to see if in person, I might see them differently and although they've mostly been lovely people, there was still no physical attraction so nothing further happened.
That's fair enough. But sometimes meeting in person can be a good thing also.
But women on here get so many requests to meet they HAVE to make choices, and I agree, a profile with no more than a couple of lazy unflattering pics will totally put me off. As the saying goes, you only get one chance at a first impression. "
Yeh I actually think this is the main reason. Thanks for all the input. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled. "
How do you choose who to message in the first place? |
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I will be really honest and say, I like slim men with a nice face. So anyone with a beer belly is not for me, I don't like longish grey hair either. Just my choice, on the whole I prefet men in their 40's. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled. "
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know.  |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know. "
Ohhh I could probably turn you off then. Lmao. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How can guys tell by looking at a women's pic with out engaging in conversation if she's his type or not ? "
Good question. I always try to start a convo... but its not easy.. lol. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know.
Ohhh I could probably turn you off then. Lmao. "
i notice you have a skinhead so you probably could. aw, sorry.
that's the one thing that usually makes me not attracted to a guy. i love head hair. |
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"I wouldn't have the time to meet people just to see if I'm going to click with them, there has to be initial physical attraction for me to want to meet a person. Call me shallow but if I'm not physically attracted to someone then I wouldn't want to get naughty with them. This is essentially a site to meet people for sex, not for dating although personality and a spark is important, physical attraction is key for me to taking it further.
Oh I agree. Im not here to date either. Maybe have a fwb, but not date per say. I see your point.. but at the same time you might just miss out on a really quality meet. Or maybe you won't. lol"
Maybe, who knows but if you're not attracted to someone enough to get physical with them then why would you even waste the time finding out when there are plenty of other people who are physically the type of person I'd want to meet on here? I doubt very much anyone on here would message someone they didn't fancy just to see if they clicked. |
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know.
Ohhh I could probably turn you off then. Lmao.
i notice you have a skinhead so you probably could. aw, sorry.
that's the one thing that usually makes me not attracted to a guy. i love head hair."
Now it really is funny you should say that. Because...and here is the very strange paradox... my lack of hair seems to be a disadvantage to me on here. And yet.. in the flesh I have no problem, everyone says how it suits me, and ive had a lot of meets because of it. Weird huh? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't have the time to meet people just to see if I'm going to click with them, there has to be initial physical attraction for me to want to meet a person. Call me shallow but if I'm not physically attracted to someone then I wouldn't want to get naughty with them. This is essentially a site to meet people for sex, not for dating although personality and a spark is important, physical attraction is key for me to taking it further.
Oh I agree. Im not here to date either. Maybe have a fwb, but not date per say. I see your point.. but at the same time you might just miss out on a really quality meet. Or maybe you won't. lol
Maybe, who knows but if you're not attracted to someone enough to get physical with them then why would you even waste the time finding out when there are plenty of other people who are physically the type of person I'd want to meet on here? I doubt very much anyone on here would message someone they didn't fancy just to see if they clicked."
I just think this site makes it ok to be so choosy. In the flesh its a totally different matter. It then becomes being attracted to the personality and the banter. The two essential things lacking on a website. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know.
Ohhh I could probably turn you off then. Lmao.
i notice you have a skinhead so you probably could. aw, sorry.
that's the one thing that usually makes me not attracted to a guy. i love head hair."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't have the time to meet people just to see if I'm going to click with them, there has to be initial physical attraction for me to want to meet a person. Call me shallow but if I'm not physically attracted to someone then I wouldn't want to get naughty with them. This is essentially a site to meet people for sex, not for dating although personality and a spark is important, physical attraction is key for me to taking it further.
Oh I agree. Im not here to date either. Maybe have a fwb, but not date per say. I see your point.. but at the same time you might just miss out on a really quality meet. Or maybe you won't. lol
Maybe, who knows but if you're not attracted to someone enough to get physical with them then why would you even waste the time finding out when there are plenty of other people who are physically the type of person I'd want to meet on here? I doubt very much anyone on here would message someone they didn't fancy just to see if they clicked.
I just think this site makes it ok to be so choosy. In the flesh its a totally different matter. It then becomes being attracted to the personality and the banter. The two essential things lacking on a website. "
Its ok to be choosy period. Maybe clubs and socials are a better way to go for you? |
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Photos are difficult as not everyone puts recent ones. But you can get an idea I guess. We will always do a social first anyway - meeting in the flesh is the best way to tell if they're your type.
I will say - endless cock pics on a profile is my biggest turn off.
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"So, all you fems and couples out there. How can you tell by looking at a photo, but not engaging in any chat, if a guy is your type or not? Im puzzled.
some people i didn't fancy i do fancy a little after they become 'fans', they're usually sweet guys (if a bit weird).
but mostly when someone sends a message that turns me off with pics that also turn me off then i know i don't fancy them.
i'm in a permanently aroused state so turning me off is hard you know.
Ohhh I could probably turn you off then. Lmao.
i notice you have a skinhead so you probably could. aw, sorry.
that's the one thing that usually makes me not attracted to a guy. i love head hair.
Now it really is funny you should say that. Because...and here is the very strange paradox... my lack of hair seems to be a disadvantage to me on here. And yet.. in the flesh I have no problem, everyone says how it suits me, and ive had a lot of meets because of it. Weird huh? Lol. "
yeah it probably is a bit weird, on my part mostly. used to love skinheads when i was younger but i've changed taste now. although loads of guys suit them. |
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