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"It happens.
I was at a private party and was rejected by 4 guys, didn't even play with the guy I came with 
But the ladies were oh so lovely 
Best way to toughen ones skin I suppose  "
Sounds like you still had fun don't over think it sometimes it's just not meant to be |
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"It happens.
I was at a private party and was rejected by 4 guys, didn't even play with the guy I came with
But the ladies were oh so lovely
Best way to toughen ones skin I suppose
Good grief  "
Ditto! as others have said, their loss  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
This thread is white knight bait! The ops confidence may have taken a knock and its not nice obviously but if people aren't attracted to you there's nothing you can do. Just forget it op and find somebody with mutual attraction. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op inbox will be very busy with the white knights. Guys and couples by the looks of it!
Dont go to any club or party expecting sex then you wont feel let down op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol"
He didn't want to hurt your feelings. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"It happens.
I was at a private party and was rejected by 4 guys, didn't even play with the guy I came with
But the ladies were oh so lovely
Best way to toughen ones skin I suppose "
How is that possible?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An incredible number of white knights on here I see."
I was just about to say that. It's the weather, they've all been able to launder their white heraldry properly |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see."
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Op inbox will be very busy with the white knights. Guys and couples by the looks of it!
Dont go to any club or party expecting sex then you wont feel let down op "
I've blocked single guys
Owww I know... That's why I go with someone... but he didn't even fuck me last night |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol
He didn't want to hurt your feelings. "
yes exactly this and maybe he wanted to have sex with someone new it's nsa not dating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Did you expect everyone to jump on you because you have a vagina? Tsk woman "
Nope I didn't expect that 
But was a bit  At the moment it happened as it was 4 in a row.
Owww I don't need a white Knight. Just to put it out there I did have fun, was a great night, just stating that rejection toughens up your skin. |
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"It happens.
I was at a private party and was rejected by 4 guys, didn't even play with the guy I came with
But the ladies were oh so lovely
Best way to toughen ones skin I suppose "
Hi Mae very sorry to hear that. Why they would turn you down I wouldn't have a clue. I think madness springs to mind. Nothing stranger than folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My theory is we can't all be everyone's type and I'd rather play with someone I liked and liked me back then a petty fuck.
You look stunning the men must of been blind and/or stupid |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol"
There are many reasons why he might have said/done this. I think you need to ask him not us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong."
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation. "
get real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol if this was a male post it would be. Grow some and move on .. "
The trouble is that if a woman says this she is accused of being bitchy, and many of the guys aren't gonna say it because they're too busy white Knighting. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"What's the issue? It happens to men all the time. "
i was thinking "hmmmmm.... if it was a man that had started this thread i wonder if it would have gone in a different direction........"
i know.... cynical me!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol if this was a male post it would be. Grow some and move on ..
The trouble is that if a woman says this she is accused of being bitchy, and many of the guys aren't gonna say it because they're too busy white Knighting. "
I meant to add that this is rarely the case the other way round so guys get it so much harder.....mmmm....hard guys......sorry I've completely lost my train of thought.... |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Lol if this was a male post it would be. Grow some and move on ..
The trouble is that if a woman says this she is accused of being bitchy, and many of the guys aren't gonna say it because they're too busy white Knighting.
I meant to add that this is rarely the case the other way round so guys get it so much harder.....mmmm....hard guys......sorry I've completely lost my train of thought...."
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"As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol"
Skin of steel? No need for that, plenty of white knight armour to go around here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation.
get real "
Eerrrrr, I'm being v real thank you. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation. "
They haven't rushed to Wyrd's defence either.
It happens to me too, OP (and Wyrd).
I stop seeing the people who accompany me to a club as my playdate for the night but play with anyone/everyone other than me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well shoot me down here but maybe you're a shit shag?? Only a thought. Don't shoot th messenger
I think you may have hit the nail on the head
Owwww wait...
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It's not them it's you 
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So first up, MaeBae is clearly a good looking woman with a great bod and I've seen her inteligent and well thought out posts so she has some smarts too. (Put me in my place a while and fair play)
But playing devils advocate, this thread is full of "Wight Knighers" sucking up to OP and saying they would def have been interested.
Really? For all you know MaeBae turned up dressed in a bin liner, stinking like a chicken shed and was onoxiouus to everyone in the place (of course she didn't but you don't know that)
And these are the same guys who populate the "what do people like" threads with statements that it's not about what someone looks like but all about the attitude and the whole package.
Just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I said, it happens. And is the best way to toughen someone up. I do feel for single guys who get that too, but we aren't always someone's cup of tea.
Although, someone explain to me why a guy who I've played with before would tell me he's all fucked out for the night, then 10 mins later be playing with someone? Now that's another matter
I need skin of steel for that lol"
maybe fancied fresh meat. ..he's had you so. ..such is life. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation.
They haven't rushed to Wyrd's defence either.
It happens to me too, OP (and Wyrd).
I stop seeing the people who accompany me to a club as my playdate for the night but play with anyone/everyone other than me.
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I honestly hadn't noticed, but you're right. So maybe I could have been a little bit right in my thinking? Oh the fickle men of Fab!! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So first up, MaeBae is clearly a good looking woman with a great bod and I've seen her inteligent and well thought out posts so she has some smarts too. (Put me in my place a while and fair play)
But playing devils advocate, this thread is full of "Wight Knighers" sucking up to OP and saying they would def have been interested.
Really? For all you know MaeBae turned up dressed in a bin liner, stinking like a chicken shed and was onoxiouus to everyone in the place (of course she didn't but you don't know that)
And these are the same guys who populate the "what do people like" threads with statements that it's not about what someone looks like but all about the attitude and the whole package.
Just a thought. "
You mean these Guys masquerading as white knights are full of shite and will say anything if it means they get some action ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation. "
I don't think they are out in force now mind |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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"So first up, MaeBae is clearly a good looking woman with a great bod and I've seen her inteligent and well thought out posts so she has some smarts too. (Put me in my place a while and fair play)
But playing devils advocate, this thread is full of "Wight Knighers" sucking up to OP and saying they would def have been interested.
Really? For all you know MaeBae turned up dressed in a bin liner, stinking like a chicken shed and was onoxiouus to everyone in the place (of course she didn't but you don't know that)
And these are the same guys who populate the "what do people like" threads with statements that it's not about what someone looks like but all about the attitude and the whole package.
Just a thought. "
You can call me Bae anytime
I might have had some kung pao chicken before I arrived and I didn't give my uber driver 5 stars, so that must have translated across to those men. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clem Fandango isn't saying anything.
We still hear you though, Clem fandango
Must be killing him
Listen carefully and you can hear his 'tache bristling in morse code.
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I thought it was his poo working it's way down!! Sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys would still say. "It's there loss you are stunning " If you had a silhouette avatar. No pics. And a bad case of blue waffle. ( warning do not google it ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked the op's profile. A very fit young bod! I wonder if it were me that had posted a similar thread would the white Knights be out in force? Hhhmmmm. I think not!!! Just an observation.
I don't think they are out in force now mind "
No, where they all gone? |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"It's not like you don't get plenty tho is it "
Haha
I had a great night last night, met some awesome ladies and couples, but like I said, rejection happens. Even us women too, for those fellas who get it, we understand you
It's just the feeling that goes with it that isn't nice, but tough skin makes it less  
Such is life. Now who wants to make lemonade?
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx"
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played |
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"It's not like you don't get plenty tho is it
Haha
I had a great night last night, met some awesome ladies and couples, but like I said, rejection happens. Even us women too, for those fellas who get it, we understand you
It's just the feeling that goes with it that isn't nice, but tough skin makes it less
Such is life. Now who wants to make lemonade?
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I got rejected recently- it's ok though, no biggy. Onwards and upwards xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played "
You were busy at my birthday party last year. So it's not two years. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"It's not like you don't get plenty tho is it
Haha
I had a great night last night, met some awesome ladies and couples, but like I said, rejection happens. Even us women too, for those fellas who get it, we understand you
It's just the feeling that goes with it that isn't nice, but tough skin makes it less
Such is life. Now who wants to make lemonade?
I got rejected recently- it's ok though, no biggy. Onwards and upwards xx"
Welcome to my world, please join me on the substitutes bench while I make us a cuppa xx |
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"It's not like you don't get plenty tho is it
Haha
I had a great night last night, met some awesome ladies and couples, but like I said, rejection happens. Even us women too, for those fellas who get it, we understand you
It's just the feeling that goes with it that isn't nice, but tough skin makes it less
Such is life. Now who wants to make lemonade?
I got rejected recently- it's ok though, no biggy. Onwards and upwards xx
Welcome to my world, please join me on the substitutes bench while I make us a cuppa xx"
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played
You were busy at my birthday party last year. So it's not two years. "
Was that only last year?? Gosh... feels like a lifetime ago. Thank goodness, I year then and not two xx |
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"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played
You were busy at my birthday party last year. So it's not two years. "
where are you having your birthday party this year Lickety |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played
You were busy at my birthday party last year. So it's not two years. where are you having your birthday party this year Lickety"
By all (Fab) accounts I've already had four birthdays this year.
It is about time for another forum social though.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"An incredible number of white knights on here I see.
If I go to a party and don't play, I don't worry about it. If I however go to 8 parties over the space of 2 years and not play, then I start wondering what am doing wrong.
I would be very surprised if you just went to 1 and didn't xx
You'll be surprised how things have changed - I can;t actually recall the last party I went to and played
You were busy at my birthday party last year. So it's not two years. where are you having your birthday party this year Lickety
By all (Fab) accounts I've already had four birthdays this year.
It is about time for another forum social though.
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I'm down for a laugh - loads I haven't seen in ages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happens.
I was at a private party and was rejected by 4 guys, didn't even play with the guy I came with
But the ladies were oh so lovely
Best way to toughen ones skin I suppose "
Theres always another day. |
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"Lol if this was a male post it would be. Grow some and move on ..
The trouble is that if a woman says this she is accused of being bitchy, and many of the guys aren't gonna say it because they're too busy white Knighting. "
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