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Singles, Why are you on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've recently become officially single instead of basically living the lie.
My priorities have changed therefore in what I'm looking for.
Yes NSA is fun, but now I'm single & ready to mingle 
Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recently become officially single instead of basically living the lie.
My priorities have changed therefore in what I'm looking for.
Yes NSA is fun, but now I'm single & ready to mingle
Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
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Good sex without any hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i split up with my ex last year i was ready to be NSA forever. just some things didn't add up and despite me trusting myself there was stuff in my head telling me i'd been too harsh on my ex and maybe i was wrong and that it's me and i'm not right for anyone...
turned out i was right after all, my suspicions were confirmed, i'm not as big of a dick as i thought i was but i am too trusting in others. so i'm still thinking NSA but i am ok for a relationship as well. would prefer more sex tbh, and bb sex, so wanting a relationship for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm having fun on and off fab. But If the one comes along and this ain't for her then it ain't the end of the world but would be such a big bonus if they are in to the same stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Conventional dating doesn't suit my current life style (work, children) and I just don't want anyone "live-in" or a next husband. Maybe in a few years but just not now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...I got lost looking for a sewing machine. I stay for the sex....
If you are around for more or less than that...you're lying to someone or yourself. In my opinion and I have a big arse.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"when i split up with my ex last year i was ready to be NSA forever. just some things didn't add up and despite me trusting myself there was stuff in my head telling me i'd been too harsh on my ex and maybe i was wrong and that it's me and i'm not right for anyone...
turned out i was right after all, my suspicions were confirmed, i'm not as big of a dick as i thought i was but i am too trusting in others. so i'm still thinking NSA but i am ok for a relationship as well. would prefer more sex tbh, and bb sex, so wanting a relationship for that."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All good points!
I've had some good meets on here but again, mainly here for the forums & chat at the moment.
In the back of my mind I feel the need to 'save myself' for any potential partner but then I could end up an old woman with 12 cats  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I've recently become officially single instead of basically living the lie.
My priorities have changed therefore in what I'm looking for.
Yes NSA is fun, but now I'm single & ready to mingle
Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
Good sex without any hassle. "
my sentiments exactly |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I love being a swingle. I love turning on 'who's near' when I'm alone in a hotel and pick a lovely bloke to come and roger me senseless. I love finding out about clubs and parties to go to. I love meeting guys I would never be able to meet on a pub night out in York. I love all the things that have become easier for me by having this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recently become officially single instead of basically living the lie.
My priorities have changed therefore in what I'm looking for.
Yes NSA is fun, but now I'm single & ready to mingle
Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
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I used fab while I was with someone. Now I'm single I want to leave fab. I think I've got this the wrong way round lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All good points!
I've had some good meets on here but again, mainly here for the forums & chat at the moment.
In the back of my mind I feel the need to 'save myself' for any potential partner but then I could end up an old woman with 12 cats "
I dream of having 12 cats |
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Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
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Nooo, I shall run for the hills the first chance I get!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've recently become officially single instead of basically living the lie.
My priorities have changed therefore in what I'm looking for.
Yes NSA is fun, but now I'm single & ready to mingle
Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
I used fab while I was with someone. Now I'm single I want to leave fab. I think I've got this the wrong way round lol"
I'm feeling much the same, sure there's something in there regarding forbidden fruit etc |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
Im single an prefer being single less complications in life, im finding im having more fun being single an i love the freedom of nsa fun an npt being tied to a guy.
Im not toally ruling out a bf type relationship in the future but for the next few years i think i want to be single. Ive been single 20 months |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it works for me for now and how I use fab. I don't have the time for anything proper or want it as yet. Maybe one day. Maybe not. Still won't have cats though maybe a few dogs |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
I started going to swingers clubs when I came out of a relationship.... I wanted sex but wasn't ready to 'fall in love' again. I met some lovely people at the clubs (shagged a few of um as well ), so I joined Fab to keep in touch. Now I find I need my regular 'fix' of chatting with like-minded people - I can't see me ever opting for a 100% vanilla life. |
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Because going out on the pull, although easy has its pitfalls with regards to meeting likeminded people.
At least people on here are after similar things.
I'm very much a free spirit and think people on here are more likely to be clear about there expectations and go with the flow.
Rather than in the Vanilla world where people tend to want to conform rather than let things flow  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because its all l know... and I Like the forums and social side . I feel a bit of a fraud now as a single if im honest. "
Don't be silly. If your a fraud then you me and lots of other single people on here are too then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because its all l know... and I Like the forums and social side . I feel a bit of a fraud now as a single if im honest.
Don't be silly. If your a fraud then you me and lots of other single people on here are too then ? "
yes but your looking to meet... I'm not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined this site because I wanted more sex…ha ha ha ha..its put me off if anything  "
i'm well on top of my sex addiction thanks to this site tbh. and it was men who put me off. |
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I'd like to meet someone like minded and open to swinging no interest in being vanilla and monogamous so here is the likeliest place to find it but that doesn't mean I'm a bunny boiler sometimes a fucks just a fuck and I'm cool with that |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
id like a partner, yes, but i have a foot in this scene and the fet scene. if someone was to come along, i would hope they would enjoy all the adventures of both being together, and playing together.
until then, ill wander about... |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
I'm a single, guy I'm on here because of all the sex and debauchery I get from all the fellow fabbers.
oh no wait a minute that's wishful thinking.
In all my time here I have only met with one lady which was for a social and all she did was cry because her nsa bf had left !!! In fairness she did pre warn me and I think it helped her feel better.
I live in hope.
The reason I only want nsa is complicated circumstances leaving me footloose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just going with the flow, the site seemed fun so I joined, I'm not sure what will happen long term but I'm happy to see who comes into my life and have fun while its fun and if its not I'll stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hoping I can meet someone on here for more than NSA therefore I refuse to have sex with anyone, I'll meet and do everything apart from sex that way I can keep myself from developing feelings for anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single, guy I'm on here because of all the sex and debauchery I get from all the fellow fabbers.
oh no wait a minute that's wishful thinking.
In all my time here I have only met with one lady which was for a social and all she did was cry because her nsa bf had left !!! In fairness she did pre warn me and I think it helped her feel better.
I live in hope.
The reason I only want nsa is complicated circumstances leaving me footloose"
That wasn't me was it? I met someone and all I did was cry about the guy I'd been dating blowing me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ended a short term "relationship" and it's come to my attention that I will be single forever, no point even going there again, I'm better off alone |
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Soooo my question is, are any of you singles using FAB until the right one comes along or do you think you're destined for a life of NSA?
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I don't see it as a choice of one or the other, this is who I am and this is what I enjoy whether I'm single or with someone. It just is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I came on fab had no idea what the hell I had joined , settled in and went in the ride of my life . I went on a social to see if this guy was ok for coffee mornings because the others liked him ! He did nothing for me . Little did I know that I would come away from that social with my heart fluttering and thinking o m g . Forget NSa I am in a relationship for the first time in 14 years and very happy X |
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I enjoy and take each day as it comes. No plans to date.
I'm here as I found it and like it. It's a place that feels like home, if that's possible from a virtual place. We've got a great group of people, the forum and enough in common. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I'm open to having a proper relationship but I'd rather meet someone in real life as opposed to thru a dating website. I use this site in the meantime as I don't meet many women in day to day life and also there are things which I'd like to try sexually (parties etc) that I probably wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to. |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
"I'm a single, guy I'm on here because of all the sex and debauchery I get from all the fellow fabbers.
oh no wait a minute that's wishful thinking.
In all my time here I have only met with one lady which was for a social and all she did was cry because her nsa bf had left !!! In fairness she did pre warn me and I think it helped her feel better.
I live in hope.
The reason I only want nsa is complicated circumstances leaving me footloose
That wasn't me was it? I met someone and all I did was cry about the guy I'd been dating blowing me off. "
no it wasn't you if it had been my eyes would have been out on stalks and my tongue dragging on the floor. Sorry just looked at your pics WOW |
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but not wanting to remain beyond chats/forums, etc. As it's the one thing I can't provide personally whilst continuing to enjoy being single.