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Muscular men - women's opinions

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wanting to know women's opinions on muscles. I'm not exactly what you call big, just muscular thighs cause I do a lot of walking and naturally bulky arms, but I do have a bit of a chubby tummy and in all honesty, a bit of a bubble butt. I would love to have the muscular physique but can never really find the motivation to go to the gym. What do you ladies think I could do to help motivate myself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loooooooove muscles!!! Bigger the better x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Seeming how arrogent men get on my tits, then I think it's all fine :')

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me"

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love a larger guy with big arms and broad shoulders

Like a bear. . . Yummy xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not fussed. I dont seek out men with muscles.

I do like a bit of chub chub on the belly i think its cute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like defined muscle tone on arms, legs & torso ~ the long n lean look.

The body builder physique isn't for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must confess I'm a great fan of a muscular body - but it's just part of the package - not the package in itself! A good looking guy with a generally good body and great personality will win over someone who just has the muscles! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me"
Thats actually a pretty good way to sum it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The muscles is more for me than anyone else due to very low confidence. Its a reason why I have no body photos up. I don't wish to have the body builder physique, but more of the slight pecs, six pack and big arms that go alongside my big thighs :')

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"The muscles is more for me than anyone else due to very low confidence. Its a reason why I have no body photos up. I don't wish to have the body builder physique, but more of the slight pecs, six pack and big arms that go alongside my big thighs :')"
i hope you will do it for you and noone else.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

And youve got a nice face. People like nice faces

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One day I'll look like the Rock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thighs are a good place to start picture wise

how about trying a photo of them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thighs are a good place to start picture wise

how about trying a photo of them?"

Is that a request or an order?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am skinny. My pictures show this. It is the way I am built and I have tried in times past to change this. Nothing worked (and trust me eating 6000 calories a day fair killed me).

I accept who I am now. I put that which I am on my profile; if people don't like, they don't message. The one good thing about presenting myself from all angles and not messaging first is that my confidence has grown. People now message me because they want to meet me; the whole package with no unknowns.

Since doing this I have been more confident and happy; and my "fabtime" has improved dramatically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love muscular thighs! And while I do appreciate muscles and the effort they take to maintain, guys with the full washboard abs etc always make me feel a bit guilty and self conscious. The physique is only one part of the package. I go to the gym for me, makes me feel comfortable in my skin. Don't rely on us lot to make you feel good x T

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I uploaded a photo of said thighs

and another reason is because men wise, I do like a good muscular male

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

For me the six pack isn't necessary, I like well built guys, strong thighs and shoulders and if they have a bit of padding it's ok with me, and bubble buts on men are quite lovely in the right jeans

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For me the six pack isn't necessary, I like well built guys, strong thighs and shoulders and if they have a bit of padding it's ok with me, and bubble buts on men are quite lovely in the right jeans

I wear 36" waist despite being a 34" cause I can't get them around my bum :') and you should see me in cosplay (I'm a geek, i know) tight spandex suits :P

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By *ancyDrewWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Just wanting to know women's opinions on muscles. I'm not exactly what you call big, just muscular thighs cause I do a lot of walking and naturally bulky arms, but I do have a bit of a chubby tummy and in all honesty, a bit of a bubble butt. I would love to have the muscular physique but can never really find the motivation to go to the gym. What do you ladies think I could do to help motivate myself?"

See, I think this sounds like the perfect body!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer bulk to lean. That means fat to most on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not into big muscles myself, anything ranging from long and lean to buff is awesome but not body builder big. Brock O'Hurn build or less for me

Going back to what you could do to motivate yourself...find something sporty that you love to do, if it's a chore you will find enough motivation to stick with it, and ultimately be happy with yourself, you're awesome no matter what shape

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me Thats actually a pretty good way to sum it up

Thanks, I'm full of it.

Philosophy that is!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

that is me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

that is me"

I am unsure if I have any of these. Please let me know

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

that is me

I am unsure if I have any of these. Please let me know"
i just told you further up the thread you had a nice face

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

that is me

I am unsure if I have any of these. Please let me knowi just told you further up the thread you had a nice face"

Oh, I didn't see

thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you cant find the motivation from within..

just leave it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op, theres a fit and healthy thread further down the page have a look through that and see how people are motivating themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others"

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Nah. I think your's are a bit too big. I just want mine defined, not bulging out of my arm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me Thats actually a pretty good way to sum it up

Confidence is knowing you can't always be the best and not caring about it.

EG , I'm a confident driver. I know I'm not Lewis Hamilton. I dont care.

What SB said were both prefect examples of arrogance.

Imo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go to the gym usually once a week just to try stay in half decent shape...not much time these days to hit the gym hard!:/

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

We are both more into guys who are lean and in shape than big and muscular.

I (make half) get in the gym a bit but usually just to polish the mirrors and check out the talent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Somewhere the other side of the definition of arrogance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Somewhere the other side of the definition of arrogance

Exactly what I was thinking. The arrogance where you think if you can do it, others can too

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By *ali 69Man over a year ago

jersey

Even though I train 5 days a week I cannot bulk up , metabilism is like the fucking Tasmanian devil and just won't let me put mass on despite eating all the right foods . Come to terms with it , not the end of the world .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me Thats actually a pretty good way to sum it up

Confidence is knowing you can't always be the best and not caring about it.

EG , I'm a confident driver. I know I'm not Lewis Hamilton. I dont care.

What SB said were both prefect examples of arrogance.

Imo."

Thanks clem u said it perfectly X

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

Erm...where's the chubby tummy that you referred to? Your body looks fine to me. Big thighs and a good arse are plus points in my book

. Body confidence is a very personal thing and only you know how you really feel in your skin. You're still a young lad so don't be too hard on yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can appreciate a fit body but it's more the whole package that I find attractive. I don't like huge muscles. Just not for me. A good example of a nice fit body is venivenivici

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By *5h1989Man over a year ago

rugeley

I have a big belly but all to all i have a lot of muscle legs arse arms shoulders top of my back but most of the women see my belly and lets just say 9/10 is a nasty remark the job i do i need to be strong who else can say they can throw a quaters beef over there shoulder and walk about 30 yards like it was a sack of potatoes lol thats about the biggest my ego gets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Erm...where's the chubby tummy that you referred to? Your body looks fine to me. Big thighs and a good arse are plus points in my book

. Body confidence is a very personal thing and only you know how you really feel in your skin. You're still a young lad so don't be too hard on yourself

Im not going to lie, but I was breathing in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Somewhere the other side of the definition of arrogance

Exactly what I was thinking. The arrogance where you think if you can do it, others can too"

i was messing with that comment bud..

wasnt expecting to be told my arms were too big

first time ive heard that

if you need any training advice id be glad to throw a more useful comment your way

if you want more defined anything its mostly diet you should focus on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Somewhere the other side of the definition of arrogance

Exactly what I was thinking. The arrogance where you think if you can do it, others can too

i was messing with that comment bud..

wasnt expecting to be told my arms were too big

first time ive heard that

if you need any training advice id be glad to throw a more useful comment your way

if you want more defined anything its mostly diet you should focus on"

Well shit

my uni is right next to a Mcdonalds and a KFC. And a Nandos. Nowhere healthy to sat really. Packed lunch it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id eat Nandos everyday if i could

just go with the rice instead of chips

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to be toned and buff but have to make the most of what we've got admire the guys who do the healthy eating and spend hrs in the gym but not something I could do or have time to spend doing for me I walk about 5 to 6 miles a day at work so toned legs just few wobbly bits around mid riff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly Sbaybay is right, even the personal trainers at the gym say unless the diet is right you won't get the results you want, and diet is a big part of it.

I've just got myself a Fitbit, I'm horribly competitive with myself and anything that gives me a figure to beat is motivation for me.

Oh and more pics! Liking the thigh shot very much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like muscular guys; big arms, strong thighs, big chest and broad shoulders. But, because I'm a contrary little madam, I like this pretty package to come with a brain, a sense of humour and a filthy glint in the eye.

It's the wit and charm that will hold my attention a lot more effectively than the next pretty peacock to strut by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x"

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

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By *elsh_lass74Woman over a year ago

South Wales

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

New pic needs to be naked

or tighty whites

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

New pic needs to be naked

or tighty whites

Maybe later

i like my bum in jeans

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By *elsh_lass74Woman over a year ago

South Wales

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

New pic needs to be naked

or tighty whites

Maybe later

i like my bum in jeans"

Your jeans need to be lighter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not fussed about muscles. A nice face and personality do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

New pic needs to be naked

or tighty whites

Maybe later

i like my bum in jeans

Your jeans need to be lighter

That is for another day

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By *elsh_lass74Woman over a year ago

South Wales

"Bubble butt lets see

Doll x

Shall upload a pic soon. Keep an eye on my profile

New pic needs to be naked

or tighty whites

Maybe later

i like my bum in jeans

Your jeans need to be lighter

That is for another day

You tease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people can't find the motivation from within. That's why they seek it from others

get ur ass in the gym and you could have a pair of gunz like mines oneday bro

hows that

Er no!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know you were asking for ladies opinion but, there are plenty of motivational videos you can listen to on YouTube that should help. I usually play a 1 hour compilation and get on with a task which I find boring or miserable. I also play them at the gym to get that extra mile or repetition out of me.

Mateusz M - YouTube channel might be a good start

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know you were asking for ladies opinion but, there are plenty of motivational videos you can listen to on YouTube that should help. I usually play a 1 hour compilation and get on with a task which I find boring or miserable. I also play them at the gym to get that extra mile or repetition out of me.

Mateusz M - YouTube channel might be a good start"

Thanks for the advice

I'll check it out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence is very sexy without arrogance , if you have that then it's yummy X

Just to clarify the difference right out of the gate:

Arrogance: I am better than everyone else

Confidence: No one else is better than me Thats actually a pretty good way to sum it up

Confidence is knowing you can't always be the best and not caring about it.

EG , I'm a confident driver. I know I'm not Lewis Hamilton. I dont care.

What SB said were both prefect examples of arrogance.

Imo."

No I think my analogy was better, confidence is self belief, but not in a way which is demeaning to others, which fits with my first statement, lets google it and see another definition...

'the feeling or belief that one can have faith in or rely on someone or something'

...well that's better than my example, but still, it doesn't contradict it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love tall and skinny... I love skinny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not particularly bothered about whether someone has muscles or not to be honest. A handsome face and a good personality is what works for me

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By *nfamyMan over a year ago

Goole

Get yourself a job that pays shitloads, flash the cash and you will be beating ladies off with a shitty stick.

Ladies love money

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not the biggest fan, I prefer short and ever so slightly tubby men

You have some lovely photos though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Work on gaining the confidence to be happy with who you are. And not worried about what you think other people want. Other people may have better bodies, but who wants to talk about how much protein they should be eating, or reps vs big weights yarder yarder yarder, why am i so single... Have fun, everything in moderation, you won't go far wrong. If you want to impress other men who go to the gym, go to the gym, if you want to impress women, dont be a prick.

simples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love tall and skinny... I love skinny

Latte?

Mocha?

Flat white?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sweetie, I've seen you plenty naked. No improvement is needed, just keep up on the wacky wack and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Muscles don't really do it for me but nice to look at.

I like confidence and personality with a Great sense of humour....

Nice face and chemistry and I'm all yours

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sweetie, I've seen you plenty naked. No improvement is needed, just keep up on the wacky wack and you'll be fine

Why you no message me then Zee? :P

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coz I've only seen you around today :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Coz I've only seen you around today :P"

Then pop me a message mun! It's been ages!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like more muscle tone. I'm finding it really difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Basically forget about trying to be what women want. Some want beards, some dont, some want stubble some dont, some want tall, some dont..

I have my body cause I get a buzz out of pushing myself.

Finally. You might see someone with a nice body in their photos have more women openly flirt with them. You should remember this is just a thrill of a flirt with something visually pleasing for the women. These guys wont get laid before anyone else, just cause of their six pack, so don't think that a six pack gets you pussy on tap.

Anyway, look after yourself.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

"Basically forget about trying to be what women want. Some want beards, some dont, some want stubble some dont, some want tall, some dont..

I have my body cause I get a buzz out of pushing myself.

Anyway, look after yourself."

Agreed. Looks might get your foot in the door but personality closes the deal. (For the most part)

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