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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Swinging or so I've been told that I'm too conservative for swinging and that I should stop being so frigid and start playing more...What is too conservative though? The fact that I don't sleep with that many people and I don't jump on the round room in the local club with my legs open saying take me boys...

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Swinging or so I've been told that I'm too conservative for swinging and that I should stop being so frigid and start playing more...What is too conservative though? The fact that I don't sleep with that many people and I don't jump on the round room in the local club with my legs open saying take me boys...

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But did you play more when you first started swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Errrr it's up to you who you do and how you do and when you do!!! Count yourself lucky you can afford to be choosey. Cos some in here just look for pulse and penis (and the first is optional)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own. Do what makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a personal choice for me

You put in and take out whatever makes you happy

There's no rules.

How can anyone judge you or tell you you don't swing "properly"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh crap, I must be frigid too!

At a recent event, there were two specific people that I wanted to meet but when it came down to it the signals from them weren't clear.

I wasn't gonna throw myself at them and was quite frisky but didn't just go and find anyone else because I just don't operate like that.xx

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But did you play more when you first started swinging? "

Yeah I was a horn dog back then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But did you play more when you first started swinging?

Yeah I was a horn dog back then

There lies your answer then chops x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The thing about this thing we call swinging is that everyone has a different approach. As long as we all have fun and don't take unnecessary risks who cares what others do?

MissCC - you're doing it right if you're enjoying it.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But did you play more when you first started swinging?

Yeah I was a horn dog back then

There lies your answer then chops x"

What I've done it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

I never broadcast what I get up to...

And nor do I meet very often..

Doesn't make frigid though... Just choosy and discrete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first tried it I was like a kid in a sweet shop.

Loved the attention and the ego boost it gave etc.

Then after a while the novelty wore off and now I rarely meet anyone and just enjoy a bit of banter in the forums and the odd socials.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But did you play more when you first started swinging?

Yeah I was a horn dog back then

There lies your answer then chops x

What I've done it all

Probably lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's your body. Your choices.

I don't look like I play often because I don't ask for veris. I do though

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

Just ignore the idiots! It is your journey, do it the way you want to do it. Nice rooster by the way!

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

Do what you want, when you want with whom you want. Nobody has the right to judge or condemn you for your sex life nor to say that you shouldn't "swing." Ultimately "swinging" is just sex given a fancy name. Nobody would call you too conservative for not picking up guys in pubs n bars so why should it be any different at a swing club??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll sit on the frigid step with you as I take it all very much at my own pace which is somewhat more sedately than many of my chums.

One of my lovely lady friends has recently been going through a quiet patch and on group chat last night said "Christ I'll have to get some action soon or I'll be even more of a virgin than Heels!" All in good nature as they've long since stopped questioning my conservative approach.

My pace, my rules, my swing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Miss Cheeky. ...are you frigid because you won't play with them specifically?

Have had similar from someone I wasn't interested in meeting. ..best way to soothe their dented ego is for them to then be unpleasant it seemed

Your game, your rules and your way

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'll sit on the frigid step with you as I take it all very much at my own pace which is somewhat more sedately than many of my chums.

My pace, my rules, my swing. "

My friends are very much like that saying I need to get on it, they say it in a jokey manner. I just can't have sex with someone for the sake of having sex it's not me. I don't know how I'm feeling just sometimes feel like I'm too boring but I know I'm not. I'm called the mother hen in the group

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By *carlet_heavenWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"I'll sit on the frigid step with you as I take it all very much at my own pace which is somewhat more sedately than many of my chums.

My pace, my rules, my swing.

You have a right to be choosey & I'm with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Play with who you want, when you want. What anyone else thinks is irrelevant. Only person you need to answer to is yourself. So long as it's fun for you is all that matters x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We dip in and out, as and when, it suits us. We're not that active anymore. If some people don't like that, tough titty!

I get fed up with others trying to dictate how others should meet / swing as if their way, is the only way.Its not as if there is a rule book that everyone has to adhere to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's the "beauty" of swinging

There's no one hard and fast definition of what it is, and it's a choice that we make ourselves, and not influenced by what others dictate

You're a swinger, I'm a swinger, they're a swinger(s)

Can anyone do that in Latin ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can anyone do that in Latin ?

I can whistle in Latin, also most of my jokes were originally in Latin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't realise to be a swinger you had to sleep with a certain amount each week to be classed as a proper swinger or otherwise your conservative Christ we must be as far removed as swingers as you can get we attend clubs and don't even play sometimes (hangs head in shame) for us it's a lot to do with the social side that we enjoy play is just a bonus when we feel we want to plus _isscheekychops you don't seem the type that would let anything somebody said bother you it's your life live it as you choose

Ps when you do get the urge I'm available Mon, Tues, wed,Thursday, Fri, Sat and sun just to let you know

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By *oo hotCouple over a year ago

North West

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

Whoever told you that is no friend in the true sense of the meaning. Life has its ups and downs and your sex life mirrors that. You can be rampant, normal and inactive according to your mood and personal circumstances.

Get those negative people out of your life and live the life you see fit. Your life, your feelings, your moods, your sex life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

Had a little look at your profile. The first thing I noticed was you only want to meet men. And I'll be honest I thought well she's not really swinging she just wants sex.

Then I read your veris and I think the person who said you're too conservative is really just pissed off you said no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to swing more then I do but my anxiety stops me.

Xxx

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Is that conservative with a large or a small C, OP?

Because if it's the latter, I'm sure you'll be fine

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

Had a little look at your profile. The first thing I noticed was you only want to meet men. And I'll be honest I thought well she's not really swinging she just wants sex.

Then I read your veris and I think the person who said you're too conservative is really just pissed off you said no "

My veris are from socials they don't speak for my sex life on here

I don't publish those

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr it's up to you who you do and how you do and when you do!!! Count yourself lucky you can afford to be choosey. Cos some in here just look for pulse and penis (and the first is optional)

I concur. Some to the detriment that their life revolves around fab and everything else gets put on a back burner. Yet they'll never admit it and still try to profess they are a nun.

Where ever you go and what ever you do you always leave a piece of jigsaw.

Admittedly it is a fine balance and harder for women as they have more opportunities. It's not the be all and end all though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think at 36 you're surely a bit too old and wise to become a victim of peer pressure

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I think at 36 you're surely a bit too old and wise to become a victim of peer pressure

Yup I am it's more a question than peer pressure my friends know I have my own mind I speak it often enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

But you're not a swinger if you don't proudly proclaim your conquests to the site and show the glowing verifications like the first place trophy you got as a kid for the egg and soon race!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

51 years of age and ive been swinging all my sexual life. I do just what i damn well like. But as ive gotten older ive really quietened down, it would kill me off now past activities.

I feel like an old dog (not dog in a bad ) sitting back relaxing enjoying herself while she sits and watchs the young pups play enjoying there new experiences.

As long as they dont forget ive still got it in me

what is slightly concerning is how some people seem to be so bloody serious about sex, sex will always be fun for me and thats not likely to change

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

^ what diamondsmiles said!

We mainly meet at clubs and people take it far too seriously, there's always going to be the posers etc

But we're there to have a good time and a laugh, plenty of times we've been in the middle of the action and somethings had happened or someone has said something and we collapsed in fits of laughter.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I think some of my views maybe conservative but I consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just do what makes you happy. It's your life journey not those who make unhelpful comments.

We aren't playing at the moment as life is mad. Doesn't mean we aren't true swingers.

Don't listen to negative people.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah but you do it too much you could end up in labour....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

i get this to and guys telling me that i shouldnt be on a sex site if im not willing to drop my knickers or go to clubs etc

obviously some guys automatically think if a woman is on fab then shes looking to shag any1 with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you should delete your account. You're just making it harder for all the other frigid women.

There was a Swinging quota introduced for single women. If you ain't meeting it... just do the right thing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This swinging journey is a funny one lately for me. I mean I do play I just don't broadcast it across the fab gazette.

There is no real question among this thread just thoughts from a frigid 36 year old woman...

Have you tried putting your privates in a pigs mouth?

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"OP you should delete your account. You're just making it harder for all the other frigid women.

There was a Swinging quota introduced for single women. If you ain't meeting it... just do the right thing..."

You are stuck with me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you should delete your account. You're just making it harder for all the other frigid women.

There was a Swinging quota introduced for single women. If you ain't meeting it... just do the right thing...

You are stuck with me I'm afraid

Yay!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can imagine that the OP is frigid, and it's obvious that she is a staunch conservative too....

I wonder sometimes if fabswingers will break up into component parts (Fab socialists, Fab lefties, Fab Racists, Fab Conservatives etc..)

It may be the only solution

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By *elvet RopeMan over a year ago

by the big field

I've met 3 people in the last year, all of them I've known for a few years. Do your own thing your own way and bollocks to what randoms think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I first tried it I was like a kid in a sweet shop.

Loved the attention and the ego boost it gave etc.

Then after a while the novelty wore off and now I rarely meet anyone and just enjoy a bit of banter in the forums and the odd socials. "

You're the male version of me!!

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