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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've often said before, that not all blowjobs are created equal, there's a big difference between putting your cock in someone's mouth and them dutifully sucking it, and someone who understands how to treat a cock the right way, running their lips up and down it enthusiastically, licking it, kissing it, working a firm and playful rhythm as they make LOVE to your penis with their mouth.
This is a thread for women who particularly rate their oral skills to share their tips and techniques, and for guys to talk about particularly enjoyable ones they've received, lets banish cold, toothy and emoionless blowjobs from the world of sex - our cocks deserve better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One girl will forever stay in my mind...no idea what she was doing with her tongue/hands but it was like two pairs of lips at once? If you can imagine two woman at exactly the same time...i have never ever met anyone that has come even close! Almost put off by it all now as its generally a disappointment....the girl has ruined my love of it now! Like quitting smoking..you just crave it and nothing else comes close...ahhh miss her now you got me thinking about it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enthusiasm is the key ingredient!
Following that you need to take your time exploring different motions and altering what you're doing in tune with the responses you're getting..... not all cocks are created equal either  |
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Just lay your head on your lover's stomach and suck with love, as though that cock were a delicacy. Lap like a kitty and suck by turns fast and slow, taking time to flicker like a butterfly over the sweet spot, and gently fuck his cock eye with your tongue tip. But hey girls, you knew all of this anyway. How about getting it back with skill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh 
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?"
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that "
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own."
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love guys who make a noise in bed so it's well worth enjoying sucking cock for that alone, hearing them turned on really does it for me.
spit roast is like the ultimate thing, being filled up and sucking a nice cock at the same time.
i need more good sex. |
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"i love guys who make a noise in bed so it's well worth enjoying sucking cock for that alone, hearing them turned on really does it for me.
spit roast is like the ultimate thing, being filled up and sucking a nice cock at the same time.
i need more good sex."
Love to hear sexy moaning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own."
Via a blowjob? I'll pass thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One girl will forever stay in my mind...no idea what she was doing with her tongue/hands but it was like two pairs of lips at once? If you can imagine two woman at exactly the same time...i have never ever met anyone that has come even close! Almost put off by it all now as its generally a disappointment....the girl has ruined my love of it now! Like quitting smoking..you just crave it and nothing else comes close...ahhh miss her now you got me thinking about it!"
I think I know that girl, lol! Know exactly what you mean. To be honest, never had a bad one - but there has been the occasional, exceptionally skilled partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Teeth scraping along your cock isn't a great feeling
My ex wife must've sucked you off too 
Luckily I've since experienced some great blow jobs  "
Is that why she's your ex? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
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"1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
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What was it you said we were doing later Suzi ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
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Wow, anyone would think you'd done this before! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
What was it you said we were doing later Suzi ??? "
i didnt think we had any arrangements..yet.. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
Wow, anyone would think you'd done this before!"
if you are going to do something well enough to call yourself a master at it, then its worth studying well dont you think? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 its not a job, its a pleasure
2 take your time its not a race
3 every man is different, its access to the man, the penis isnt the man. its a journey of exploration
4 be unassuming, gentle and aware of signals. if you havent been there before he has to know you arent in it to hurt him, before he starts to enjoy it.
5 stop every now and then and do something more circumstantial, make sure you go back to it eagerly...
6 different positions give different sensations
7 build him up till he gives you the sounds you want to hear
8 edge him, cos you know you want to...
9 enjoy...
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Right i wasnt going to ask jay as hes biased. So i randomly text a friend never said why i was asking.
He gave me 8/9 out of 10 for my blowjobs said it kind of enhanced his life (but he disnt have a clue what i was on about) when i explained he changed it to an enjoyable experience. So no enhancing lives from me. Off with my head |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine. "
Little things please little minds... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've often said before, that not all blowjobs are created equal, there's a big difference between putting your cock in someone's mouth and them dutifully sucking it, and someone who understands how to treat a cock the right way, running their lips up and down it enthusiastically, licking it, kissing it, working a firm and playful rhythm as they make LOVE to your penis with their mouth.
This is a thread for women who particularly rate their oral skills to share their tips and techniques, and for guys to talk about particularly enjoyable ones they've received, lets banish cold, toothy and emoionless blowjobs from the world of sex - our cocks deserve better."
Loads of eye contact and coming up for teasing kisses on the mouth running my hands all over a guys body then kissing and caressing my way back down to a throbbing cock is a massive turn on for me.. I just love the feeling of knowing that I can have such an affect on a guy using my mouth and love the build up to the sexy fun it leads to. xxx
I love waking a guy with a teasing morning blow job..xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds..."
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives? |
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By *rp861Man
over a year ago
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I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man! "
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both). |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both). "
If *I'm* still sucking after an hour I have replaced my mouth with a Dyson. I get jaw ache after 10 minutes.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?"
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting. "
See my earlier point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both). "
Get your sexy ass to Bournemouth babe, I wont suck for an hour but you would be very far from sleeping. xx |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both).
Get your sexy ass to Bournemouth babe, I wont suck for an hour but you would be very far from sleeping. xx"
We do seem to keep managing to not align our diaries. I must work on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not boasting or anything like that but have had lots of blow jobs in the past and tbh none ever did it for me in fact in over 30 odd years I only ever came three times through a blow job and they used to bore me tbh but since meeting tray i have now discovered how a blow job should be done I don't know what it is but she does something with her tongue over the tip that just drives me wild and the enthusiasm she has for it is definately a turn on to all those who have mastered it maybe we should start an appreciation thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting. "
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying."
So the blowjob is ALL about the man? |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying."
Why would you gain a confidence boost?
Is it because the man in question (who may or may not be you) has finally persuaded someone to put his willy in their mouth, this partially validating his obvious obsession with it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?"
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them."
Yes, you are clearly misunderstood. |
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By *rp861Man
over a year ago
notts |
"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both). "
Trust me, a woman who can keep you wanting more after that length of time with her mouth is something else. You just lay back and enjoy! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I have been very lucky and met some great women who clearly really really enjoy sucking cock. They know when to go faster, when to ease off and work different areas. Plus plenty of different skills in their arsenal! You know when theyre still enthusiastically sucking after an hour youre a lucky man!
If they are still sucking my cock after an hour, I'm either very bored or have fallen asleep (or both).
Trust me, a woman who can keep you wanting more after that length of time with her mouth is something else. You just lay back and enjoy!"
Fuck that for a game of soldiers!
Laying there really isn't my style. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them."
Why is it a silly challenge? You state that the "guy gains a confidence boost from it"?
A man who knows by blowjobs well and has been swinging longer than you have been an adult describes mine as the best he has ever had. He knows I don't enjoy them but that I like to be reciprocal and if I'm doing something I want the person to enjoy and for me to do it well. So your claim that a good one cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too does not compute with me at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them.
Why is it a silly challenge? You state that the "guy gains a confidence boost from it"?"
My bad, I'll amend it.
'Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it, and the woman herself feeling pleasure in knowing her sexual abilities can have this effect, rather like the feeling of satisfaction from giving someone a great Christmas present, and seeing the look of happiness on their face as they open it.'
There we go, we can all be friends again. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them.
Why is it a silly challenge? You state that the "guy gains a confidence boost from it"?
My bad, I'll amend it.
'Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it, and the woman herself feeling pleasure in knowing her sexual abilities can have this effect, rather like the feeling of satisfaction from giving someone a great Christmas present, and seeing the look of happiness on their face as they open it.'
There we go, we can all be friends again."
dont amend it..i agree with you, he can gain confidence and alot of other things from being intimate with someone..whats wrong with you people..are you saying when two people get together there isnt anything given or received?..geez..i must be really strange if i want to exchange including empowerment here... |
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Right ive just had a serious discussion with jay (the guy that desires and appreciates me. Firstly i asked to rate them out of 10. He said 11.
Now i gave him a blowjob in the woods today so we talked about that one and i said what was the best thing (i already knew the answer cause i know him) his answer was when you unzipped my flies, the spontanatity and knowing what was to come. Now i know this the biggest thrill for him is when i first release his cock.
Then i asked him whether my blowjobs enhanced his life. His reply was darling you enhance my life in many ways our sex life is wonderful but a blowjob is only a small part of you.
I also already knew that.
But it really has made ne think and id be absolutly devasted if the only way i could get a man to want and desire me was based on my blowjob skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right ive just had a serious discussion with jay (the guy that desires and appreciates me. Firstly i asked to rate them out of 10. He said 11.
Now i gave him a blowjob in the woods today so we talked about that one and i said what was the best thing (i already knew the answer cause i know him) his answer was when you unzipped my flies, the spontanatity and knowing what was to come. Now i know this the biggest thrill for him is when i first release his cock.
Then i asked him whether my blowjobs enhanced his life. His reply was darling you enhance my life in many ways our sex life is wonderful but a blowjob is only a small part of you.
I also already knew that.
But it really has made ne think and id be absolutly devasted if the only way i could get a man to want and desire me was based on my blowjob skills"
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"id rather master something useful tbh
You don't think winning a mans desire and appreciation is useful?
not as useful as learning something that will enhance my life rather than someone else's ....im selfish like that
Enhancing the lives of others can enhance your own.
Receiving a blowjob enhanced your life? Sex is a very small part of mine.
Little things please little minds...
You don't percieve how the sexual acceptance and harmony between a man and a woman can enhance each others lives?
A very temporary enhancement in an NSA setting.
Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it.
Seriously folks, I'm not even trying.
So the blowjob is ALL about the man?
If you read my opening post, you'll see the kind of wonderful blowjob I'm describing cannot happen unless the woman enjoys it too.
I often wonder if people actually bother to attempt to understand my points before making such silly challenges against them.
Why is it a silly challenge? You state that the "guy gains a confidence boost from it"?
My bad, I'll amend it.
'Not if the guy gains a confidence boost from it, and the woman herself feeling pleasure in knowing her sexual abilities can have this effect, rather like the feeling of satisfaction from giving someone a great Christmas present, and seeing the look of happiness on their face as they open it.'
There we go, we can all be friends again.
dont amend it..i agree with you, he can gain confidence and alot of other things from being intimate with someone..whats wrong with you people..are you saying when two people get together there isnt anything given or received?..geez..i must be really strange if i want to exchange including empowerment here... "
but hes only on about blowjobs a tiny part of intamacy unless someones whole sex life is based just on blowjobs |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked? "
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself."
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself."
Yes, that's annoying but if I know oral will get a man hard and I can use that erect penis then I see it as quid pro quo. |
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Personally I enjoy giving oral - a girl's got to have a hobby!
Will once told me that I took the bj crown which was nice, but I intend to keep practicing
Sara |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it"
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Yes, that's annoying but if I know oral will get a man hard and I can use that erect penis then I see it as quid pro quo."
some cum too quick. i never give oral straight away now. and i meet less selfish men, which means less meets and less sex bit it's better than being used.
like i said, it's a confidence boost when a guy give s a shit about you, sadly because there's some who do not. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now."
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Yes, that's annoying but if I know oral will get a man hard and I can use that erect penis then I see it as quid pro quo."
But I thought giving a man a bj was all about boosting his confidence and validating his existance....
Bloody feminists, ruining it for everyone!
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Yes, that's annoying but if I know oral will get a man hard and I can use that erect penis then I see it as quid pro quo.
But I thought giving a man a bj was all about boosting his confidence and validating his existance....
Bloody feminists, ruining it for everyone!
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Stick your cock in my mouth and I'll blow up your ego balloon.
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I think ive got this swinging lark wrong. I thought it was about meeting people having a great time and all going away happy with smiles on the faces. I didnt realize it was about ego boosts and enhancing peoples lives |
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"Teeth scraping along your cock isn't a great feeling
My ex wife must've sucked you off too
Luckily I've since experienced some great blow jobs
Is that why she's your ex? "
Nah, far bigger issues ...!! I'm not that judgemental!  |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age."
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used. |
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact x"
I think some people over complicate and over think things at times, especially in relation to sex. It's just a blowjob. You're not splitting the atom here. It's not that big a deal. |
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"I think ive got this swinging lark wrong. I thought it was about meeting people having a great time and all going away happy with smiles on the faces. I didnt realize it was about ego boosts and enhancing peoples lives"
I didn't realise giving a BJ was so in-depth either.
There is such a thing as over thinking though |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used."
but you said noone ever goes down there |
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact x
I think some people over complicate and over think things at times, especially in relation to sex. It's just a blowjob. You're not splitting the atom here. It's not that big a deal."
Exactly my sentiments!! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact x
I think some people over complicate and over think things at times, especially in relation to sex. It's just a blowjob. You're not splitting the atom here. It's not that big a deal."
To normal people, it isn't. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact x
I think some people over complicate and over think things at times, especially in relation to sex. It's just a blowjob. You're not splitting the atom here. It's not that big a deal."
I don't think they like it if you split them in half.
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact x
I think some people over complicate and over think things at times, especially in relation to sex. It's just a blowjob. You're not splitting the atom here. It's not that big a deal."
thank fuck for that youve restored my faith |
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"I love the flick on the head whilst the mouths on the shaft....
Need some 2nd hand ball action too
Wouldn't you prefer it first hand? Hand me down ball action seems a little sad.
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there"
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
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ah, thats the confusion i was wondering where the hell you meet these guys if none will give you oral |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
ah, thats the confusion i was wondering where the hell you meet these guys if none will give you oral"
lol, i didn't even realise i'd said no-one. i nearly replied at first that i didn't say that then thought i'd best check first and saw i had.
i'd like my brain back if anyone has seen it. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
ah, thats the confusion i was wondering where the hell you meet these guys if none will give you oral
lol, i didn't even realise i'd said no-one. i nearly replied at first that i didn't say that then thought i'd best check first and saw i had.
i'd like my brain back if anyone has seen it."
i had a huge row a couple of years ago cause somesaid id said something and i was adamant i hadnt until i reread what id written and id completly used the wrong word |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
ah, thats the confusion i was wondering where the hell you meet these guys if none will give you oral
lol, i didn't even realise i'd said no-one. i nearly replied at first that i didn't say that then thought i'd best check first and saw i had.
i'd like my brain back if anyone has seen it.
i had a huge row a couple of years ago cause somesaid id said something and i was adamant i hadnt until i reread what id written and id completly used the wrong word "
always better to check.
especially when it's late or your tired. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself."
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
really? Ive never met a man yet thats not wanted to give me oral or given me the impression hes not enjoying it
i meet a lot of younger guys, some aren't that confident, some i've taught to give oral. i don't have a problem with those guys.
it's the ones who are selfish i do have a problem with, i don't meet them again. loads of guys are full of shit on here, i've met some of them.
i'm a sex addict and make poor judgements at times, not arsed, got on top of it now.
i meet younger guys as well. Hand on heart in nine years on here i have never met a selfish man or someone that doesnt know what they are doing know matter what age.
i'm not you though. so i have met these guys.
i prefer submissive guys, this also attracts inexperienced guys. i'm ok with that, i like the roleplay of teaching sometimes.
it is the selfish ones that piss me off. i used to do spontaneous meets with strangers because i was too trusting and it mostly went well, but you do get the occasional person who doesn't let on they're selfish until after you've met and been used.
but you said noone ever goes down there
sorry i did say that... not sure what word i meant but it shouldn't have been no-one.
i meant the guys who don't really care if i enjoy the meet with them.
i don't look forward to meeting anyone new now so have stopped looking for guys. think there's only about 3 guys i like meeting off here now as it is coz they're nice guys.
ah, thats the confusion i was wondering where the hell you meet these guys if none will give you oral"
A lot of men don't do it. I ask if they kiss and give oral now,even though I'm not that bothered about receiving it. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it. "
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many |
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It's interesting a few of you talking about your memory of things said and it differing to how something had been.
Our memories are not that reliable - we update them, unconsciously and consciously. And I will often be fairly certain that something was different to what the evidence shows. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it. "
I didn't mean no-one though, don't even know why i typed that.
I think it's just better sex and leaves you feeling better about yourself if you both enjoyed it and was really into each other, even if it is only sexually.
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many"
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
I didn't mean no-one though, don't even know why i typed that.
I think it's just better sex and leaves you feeling better about yourself if you both enjoyed it and was really into each other, even if it is only sexually.
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I've come to the conclusion I'm so good at giving their brain explodes and they forget to return the pleasure |
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"It's interesting a few of you talking about your memory of things said and it differing to how something had been.
Our memories are not that reliable - we update them, unconsciously and consciously. And I will often be fairly certain that something was different to what the evidence shows. "
my typing has gone to shit tbh. i often spell words wrong, mix them up...in a way where words blend together.
honestly, if i didn't have spellcheck i would look like i have learning difficulties. i think my cognitive functions are failing, probably something to do with my diabetes. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
I didn't mean no-one though, don't even know why i typed that.
I think it's just better sex and leaves you feeling better about yourself if you both enjoyed it and was really into each other, even if it is only sexually.
I've come to the conclusion I'm so good at giving their brain explodes and they forget to return the pleasure "
haha, i'm going for 69 if i can.
or just jump on their face anyway. in fact i'm only go show the veri that talks about me riding someones face so that guys get the hint.  |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else. "
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic."
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off. 
i showed my veri, haha. |
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"It's interesting a few of you talking about your memory of things said and it differing to how something had been.
Our memories are not that reliable - we update them, unconsciously and consciously. And I will often be fairly certain that something was different to what the evidence shows.
my typing has gone to shit tbh. i often spell words wrong, mix them up...in a way where words blend together.
honestly, if i didn't have spellcheck i would look like i have learning difficulties. i think my cognitive functions are failing, probably something to do with my diabetes. "
I'm really similar, especially when tired. There are probably loads of threads I post into that I forgot. If I found the posts later I'd swear it was someone else - probably where English isn't their native language.
When posting I'm often grateful if I hit the wrong key etc, so that my scrambled words can just be deleted instead. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha."
see i thought most people did that well not always straight away but during the course of the meet.
I wonder if ive ever enhanced someones life by sitting on their face |
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"It's interesting a few of you talking about your memory of things said and it differing to how something had been.
Our memories are not that reliable - we update them, unconsciously and consciously. And I will often be fairly certain that something was different to what the evidence shows.
my typing has gone to shit tbh. i often spell words wrong, mix them up...in a way where words blend together.
honestly, if i didn't have spellcheck i would look like i have learning difficulties. i think my cognitive functions are failing, probably something to do with my diabetes.
I'm really similar, especially when tired. There are probably loads of threads I post into that I forgot. If I found the posts later I'd swear it was someone else - probably where English isn't their native language.
When posting I'm often grateful if I hit the wrong key etc, so that my scrambled words can just be deleted instead. "
yeah tiredness makes it worse for me.
i like your posts, don't delete too many. |
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"It's interesting a few of you talking about your memory of things said and it differing to how something had been.
Our memories are not that reliable - we update them, unconsciously and consciously. And I will often be fairly certain that something was different to what the evidence shows.
my typing has gone to shit tbh. i often spell words wrong, mix them up...in a way where words blend together.
honestly, if i didn't have spellcheck i would look like i have learning difficulties. i think my cognitive functions are failing, probably something to do with my diabetes.
I'm really similar, especially when tired. There are probably loads of threads I post into that I forgot. If I found the posts later I'd swear it was someone else - probably where English isn't their native language.
When posting I'm often grateful if I hit the wrong key etc, so that my scrambled words can just be deleted instead. "
mines due to my medication
Im usually fucked after ive taken it at night my friends always know when ive just taken it |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha.
see i thought most people did that well not always straight away but during the course of the meet.
I wonder if ive ever enhanced someones life by sitting on their face "
i know the guys i've sat on i've enhanced theirs, coz they tell me and want more.
but yeah not all guys do it, and it's not something i'd expect them to do really but i don't meet new guys because of it now. i enjoy meeting sexually liberated men who are up for a lot more than just sex.
glad i got on top of my addiction really because i just feel better overall about myself and my choices. |
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"Not boasting or anything like that but have had lots of blow jobs in the past and tbh none ever did it for me in fact in over 30 odd years I only ever came three times through a blow job and they used to bore me tbh but since meeting tray i have now discovered how a blow job should be done I don't know what it is but she does something with her tongue over the tip that just drives me wild and the enthusiasm she has for it is definately a turn on to all those who have mastered it maybe we should start an appreciation thread "
Similar for me since I met cherry, but I still have yet to cum from a bj. Over time I have learnt to love being sucked and I agree that her enthusiasm is a big part of it. - pip |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha."
He seemed to enjoy it |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha.
He seemed to enjoy it "
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As many of us do, I often get requests for blow job only meets. I largely decline.
For me, giving oral sex is like painting the Sistine chapel - it's a hugely creative endeavour, involving my emotions, my connection with the person and a oneness with the guy's cock and mind.
Yes there are physical sensations and movements but ot largely is communication. I get lost in the sensuous tenderness, every moment seemingly frozen and crystal clear. I'm tasting a guy, feeling the feedback that his cock is giving to me. My breathing changes as I'm also intensifying the sexual charge that I'm generating. My erotic heights soaring, whilst I'm getting high on my mouth's connection to his cock.
Whilst I'm working, I'll devote 100% of my attention and energy into how he's feeling. Every piece of his flesh will have an intense level of attention, from the base of his shaft, up to the tip of his head. Sometimes my tongue will have almost imperceptibly soft and tender lightness and conversely my whole mouth and throat will be totally and intensely driven powerfully with fast and complete abandonment, a fuck hole for his cock. Inflamed intensity, full passion with its connection to a guy's increased sexual arousal. I'm absorbed in the moment, I know only this cock and how it's feeling now, whilst my mouth is engulfing it.
A guy wants a blowjob only meet, whereas for me giving a blowjob will mean he has to be right, a match and I'm going to provide 100% devotion. It's not just a little bit of sexual play. |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha.
see i thought most people did that well not always straight away but during the course of the meet.
I wonder if ive ever enhanced someones life by sitting on their face
i know the guys i've sat on i've enhanced theirs, coz they tell me and want more.
but yeah not all guys do it, and it's not something i'd expect them to do really but i don't meet new guys because of it now. i enjoy meeting sexually liberated men who are up for a lot more than just sex.
glad i got on top of my addiction really because i just feel better overall about myself and my choices."
i havent been hypersexual for a few years now thank god. It was a horrible period of my life and i never want to go through it again |
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"Is this another thinly veiled look at my cock thread?
Blow job mastery, really "
Why would I thinly veil it? I've already got one running where I openly state how lovely mine is |
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"Can you clarify how a man gets a confidence boost from having his cock sucked?
If someone enjoys giving you oral it does boost you a bit.
Especially (as often happens on this site, selfish men) no-one ever goes down there and gives you oral but accepts being sucked off themself.
Ok. I don't gain confidence from it. I think I've hit the jackpot when a man does it. Like you said,quite a lot don't do it.
just out of interest why dont these men give oral. It just seems odd that women seem to come across so many
idk why not.
i used to go straight for their cock as soon as it was out because i do love oral. and have stopped doing that now, it seems to have worked out better.
i think some guys are just selfish and lazy and it's also possible they are married/attached and getting regular sex with their partner but are after the more selfish stuff with anyone else.
I've been told that they have never and will never do it,don't enjoy it so don't do it,save it for someone special and they don't want to risk catching something. Very rarely does a man forget he wants sucking. It's great when a man enjoys it,same as when a woman does,it feels fantastic.
nobody tells me anything, they're too busy getting their pants back on asap and fucking off.
i showed my veri, haha.
see i thought most people did that well not always straight away but during the course of the meet.
I wonder if ive ever enhanced someones life by sitting on their face
i know the guys i've sat on i've enhanced theirs, coz they tell me and want more.
but yeah not all guys do it, and it's not something i'd expect them to do really but i don't meet new guys because of it now. i enjoy meeting sexually liberated men who are up for a lot more than just sex.
glad i got on top of my addiction really because i just feel better overall about myself and my choices.i havent been hypersexual for a few years now thank god. It was a horrible period of my life and i never want to go through it again"
i find it's ok if you have a loving partner with a high sex drive, didn't bother me then. just don't like it now i'm single, i was making stupid choices. |
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