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Did I make a terrible mistake!?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I recently got a wink, and per my profile I looked over the sender's page and then sent a message with a face pic attached. She replied saying that she didn't think we would be a good match, but complimented my public photos and said good luck. I responded by saying "No worries, thanks for the compliment!" And didn't message her again.

Obviously this threads title is misleading, but hopefully some guys will read it and have a think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What are thinking about ????

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

Nice pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are thinking about ????"

CAKE!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What are thinking about ????"

How to sentence!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Think about what ....

She was polite to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll give it a miss thanks, haven't really got the time for a English lesson

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I recently got a wink, and per my profile I looked over the sender's page and then sent a message with a face pic attached. She replied saying that she didn't think we would be a good match, but complimented my public photos and said good luck. I responded by saying "No worries, thanks for the compliment!" And didn't message her again.

Obviously this threads title is misleading, but hopefully some guys will read it and have a think. "

And?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely look at who's winked at me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are thinking about ????"

No idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't get it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good photos, great profile. Her loss.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Obviously this threads title is misleading, but hopefully some guys will read it and have a think. "

Err...and?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

That is a bit like saying, "I did not misbehave."

It does not entitle you to a medal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

Ahhhh I understand what you mean now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Drama

It's a slow day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

You did what the vast majority of people do. Not sure what reaction you expect?

And the reality is those that could learn from this are probably the least likely to read it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You posted a thread in the forum about you being polite. I should imagine most guys on here are polite when a lady replies with a polite no. Me included. Those of us who are gentlemanly do not need a lesson in manners. Those who do need one probably do not use these forums.

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

Obviously this threads title is misleading, but hopefully some guys will read it and have a think. "

Let me get this right - what you're saying is made a mistake by sending a face pic which resulting in you getting turned down and should have sent a combo cock/sky remote pic instead?

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By *ecretgamesMan over a year ago

the moon

This hurts my head

Is this another cleverly disguised look at me thread?

There are plenty of guys who will always be polite and respectful. Most of those are regular forum users so kind of seems like you're advertising to the wrong audience.

If it's the former then yeah you look good in a suit

if it's not and just a genuine comment then .... CAKE!!! Yep count me in for some of that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is the cake thing, and how does one get involved?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Victoria along for me or a nice fruit scone. Maybe a custard tart. I like cake too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

That is a bit like saying, "I did not misbehave."

It does not entitle you to a medal."

Yeah but if you misbehave enough they give you a great pair of bracelets

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'll take your word for it on the. Pics. Not for me thanks.

Where's the cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hate the cock/Sky remote pics... Load of shite!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hate the cock/Sky remote pics... Load of shite!

Damn...I've just spent 45 minutes photoshopping mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My point was not that she turned me down, more that she didn't then have to suffer hate mail and "Y U NO LOVE ME" messages.

Give this man a blue Peter badge

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Think about what ....

She was polite to you"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well done on being normal, and behaving how normal people do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done on being normal, and behaving how normal people do. "

....i seriously began to think i was missing something, but that really is what this thread is about isn't it??

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By *olly RogererMan over a year ago

Braintree

Ive had a think. A real good think! Thanks for that OP your a real legend

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By *awtynNiceCouple over a year ago

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Have to admit that we have sometimes sent winks and friends invites by mistake in the past, especially when using our mobiles. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are thinking about ????

No idea "

Avacados

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By *cd and scruffCouple over a year ago

Rochester

"What are thinking about ????

CAKE!!!!!!

oh yes, CAKE!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a sad reflection on humanity when people expect a medal for simply not being a total dick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have to admit that we have sometimes sent winks and friends invites by mistake in the past, especially when using our mobiles. X"

Me too. I no longer send messages on my phone and never even put my finger close to the upper left hand of the scree when viewing profiles.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

Obviously this threads title is misleading, but hopefully some guys will read it and have a think. "

not read the whole thread...

don't see the problem i see it as she showed an interest you responded appropriately with a message and face pic maybe she just decided from that message it was a no go she wasn't rude in anyway and you accepted that don't see what us guys have to think about or what the issue is?