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Not wanting to send face selfies does not equal fake!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can guys just be aware that 'most' women (myself included) need to have some make up on and take a few face pictures in order to get one tidy one.
If you're asking after 8pm sometimes 6pm and the bra has been taken off and the make up and you've got your pyjamas on, chances are women won't be able to produce instant face selfies. It does not make them fake.
Only sharing this info cos a few people ask and it's like no I ain't taken pictures now when I'm sitting down relaxing and watching emmerdale. They fuck it up for themselves cos then I feel nagged and end up telling people to fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think fuck it and take one. Serves them right too. "
Yeah but these are people I initially fancy and want to meet. Sending them a bare face picture after a long day and I've got a six o clock shadow and bags under my peepers will put them off!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think fuck it and take one. Serves them right too.
Yeah but these are people I initially fancy and want to meet. Sending them a bare face picture after a long day and I've got a six o clock shadow and bags under my peepers will put them off!
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Oh my god I am so feeling this thread!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its simple really just have one on ur profile  "
I do have face pictures in my friend only pictures but when I take my messages to kik I've had a few people say they don't believe I am the person in the pictures and have requested live face pictures. Which I understand cos I like to be sure as well but I always say I'll meet within days and local too so no risk or time wasted out of their day.
Just would like guys to understand that some people need to take a few pictures to get a decent one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its simple really just have one on ur profile
I do have face pictures in my friend only pictures but when I take my messages to kik I've had a few people say they don't believe I am the person in the pictures and have requested live face pictures. Which I understand cos I like to be sure as well but I always say I'll meet within days and local too so no risk or time wasted out of their day.
Just would like guys to understand that some people need to take a few pictures to get a decent one. "
I can relate to that, took about 10 bum pics before I posted one on fabs . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah pictures are hard work it's not like being in the flesh where if for one millionth of a second you're pulling a funny face it's over again by the time they've blinked. With a picture people can study it and refer back to it. I'm a fickle fucker so I assume other people are like me and one bad picture can put me off so don't want to do the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think fuck it and take one. Serves them right too.
Yeah but these are people I initially fancy and want to meet. Sending them a bare face picture after a long day and I've got a six o clock shadow and bags under my peepers will put them off!
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Have you tried it? It's not put anyone off that I wanted to meet and I bet I look worse than you with no make up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just don't like feeling nagged in the evenings especially after 7pm. Once I've got my munch and a cuppa tea and I'm on my sofa I don't like being nagged to take pictures of myself. This bloody live pic thing on kik is a pain in the arse, used to have a stock pile of pictures I could send to keep people happy till a social meet, now it's all about proving you're real by taking a live pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally understand this. I wear heavy coverage foundation cuz my skin is eczema red otherwise. I'm always asked for pics taken "right now" when I'm make up free. It irritates me. I feel bugged and it puts me off people.  |
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"Totally understand this. I wear heavy coverage foundation cuz my skin is eczema red otherwise. I'm always asked for pics taken "right now" when I'm make up free. It irritates me. I feel bugged and it puts me off people. "
I find messages like that make me feel like they think I'm a performing seal. I warn them once that I won't be taking pic demands and if they do it again I block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same for men with torso pics. Look in mirror and think hey I look ok in this light. Take a photo and look like a human chicken wing. Delete and hope nobody ever gets access to my cloud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You must be too good to be true then I've never been accused of being a fake, probably 'cos most people wouldn't bother faking a 49 year old women. I have been accused of the being a Daily Mail journalist though, which was mortally offensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its simple really just have one on ur profile
I do have face pictures in my friend only pictures but when I take my messages to kik I've had a few people say they don't believe I am the person in the pictures and have requested live face pictures. Which I understand cos I like to be sure as well but I always say I'll meet within days and local too so no risk or time wasted out of their day.
Just would like guys to understand that some people need to take a few pictures to get a decent one. "
Agreed, but in that situation it would get the spidey sense tingling for me too. If this was a bloke avoiding a pic, that he was probably married would be shouted from the heavens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You must be too good to be true then I've never been accused of being a fake, probably 'cos most people wouldn't bother faking a 49 year old women. I have been accused of the being a Daily Mail journalist though, which was mortally offensive "
Eugh!!
That's terrible. Especially as you work for the Sun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You must be too good to be true then I've never been accused of being a fake, probably 'cos most people wouldn't bother faking a 49 year old women. I have been accused of the being a Daily Mail journalist though, which was mortally offensive "
I've been challenged, rather than accused, that I'm a TV/TS more than once. Strongly suspect the exceptionally doll perfect T girls will be a darn sight more outraged than me!! And my usual response when accused of being fake is "only bits of me". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone has ever asked me to do a selfie if they dont believe its me tough"
Exactly this. Have been asked but don't feel the need to prove that I am real.  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Can guys just be aware that 'most' women (myself included) need to have some make up on and take a few face pictures in order to get one tidy one.
If you're asking after 8pm sometimes 6pm and the bra has been taken off and the make up and you've got your pyjamas on, chances are women won't be able to produce instant face selfies. It does not make them fake.
Only sharing this info cos a few people ask and it's like no I ain't taken pictures now when I'm sitting down relaxing and watching emmerdale. They fuck it up for themselves cos then I feel nagged and end up telling people to fuck off. "
I don't jump through hoops for anyone, if they won't wait or pester.. tough.. if they're interested they'll work with you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You must be too good to be true then I've never been accused of being a fake, probably 'cos most people wouldn't bother faking a 49 year old women. I have been accused of the being a Daily Mail journalist though, which was mortally offensive "
What was more offensive...being called a journalist or for working for the daily mail? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples "
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about  |
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"its simple really just have one on ur profile
I do have face pictures in my friend only pictures but when I take my messages to kik I've had a few people say they don't believe I am the person in the pictures and have requested live face pictures. Which I understand cos I like to be sure as well but I always say I'll meet within days and local too so no risk or time wasted out of their day.
Just would like guys to understand that some people need to take a few pictures to get a decent one.
Agreed, but in that situation it would get the spidey sense tingling for me too. If this was a bloke avoiding a pic, that he was probably married would be shouted from the heavens."
but why would a guy need to do a same day selfie if someone has a full profile with pictures on thats enough for me plus ive never used kick or whatsapp with anyone anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about "
Didn't realise it was KIK as they didn't mention it in the thread. Plus I've never used KIK so would know anything about what you can or can't do on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about
Didn't realise it was KIK as they didn't mention it in the thread. Plus I've never used KIK so would know anything about what you can or can't do on it. "
It is mentioned otherwise how would I know that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples "
I do have face pictures in my friends only pictures and I send them to everyone I converse with. I also have a different face picture on my kik profile and a different face picture again on my whatsapp. Plus I have 8 tattoos on my body the one you see the most is the rose on my collarbone and shoulder, if I took a picture of my boobs which I'm happy to do in the night cos they photograph well, you can see the same tattoo in all the pictures so don't know how people can say they don't believe I'm the person in the pictures and need further confirmation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see it on her opening thread.
Maybe need my glasses on "
So you read the opening thread regardless of all other posts and respond to that one? Maybe read the whole thread next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about
Didn't realise it was KIK as they didn't mention it in the thread. Plus I've never used KIK so would know anything about what you can or can't do on it.
It is mentioned otherwise how would I know that? "
Can't see where she mentioned it on her opening thread?
Maybe you have better eyesite than me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Off cause the simple solution would be to put on your profile dont do same day selfies but then noone would be able to get stressed out"
That's assuming ppl read profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would anyone need to get stressed out? Play by the rules that make you comfortable, if others have an issue with them, don't meet them.
Seems pretty simple to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about
Didn't realise it was KIK as they didn't mention it in the thread. Plus I've never used KIK so would know anything about what you can or can't do on it.
It is mentioned otherwise how would I know that?
Can't see where she mentioned it on her opening thread?
Maybe you have better eyesite than me ?"
It's not in the op but mentioned in almost every other comment I've made since, if you read the whole thread you'd see what I'm on about. I have face pictures on here in my friends only pictures but when I start chatting to people on another messaging app (kik in this instance) guys are requesting further pictures because they say things like am I really talking to a woman, are those pictures really of you, send me a face picture now to prove you are real, and other things like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just put some face photos on your profile and set them to private if you want privacy.
Then you won't get people complaining you don't have face photos will you ?
Simples
You can't do that on kik... Which is what the OP is talking about
Didn't realise it was KIK as they didn't mention it in the thread. Plus I've never used KIK so would know anything about what you can or can't do on it.
It is mentioned otherwise how would I know that?
Can't see where she mentioned it on her opening thread?
Maybe you have better eyesite than me ?
It's not in the op but mentioned in almost every other comment I've made since, if you read the whole thread you'd see what I'm on about. I have face pictures on here in my friends only pictures but when I start chatting to people on another messaging app (kik in this instance) guys are requesting further pictures because they say things like am I really talking to a woman, are those pictures really of you, send me a face picture now to prove you are real, and other things like that. "
I actually posted after your original post teabags before any other posts.
But it showed up later on the thread probably cos I'm out and about and I'm On mobile data.
Anyway let's get back on topic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the people that ask for them but don't supply their own first that are probably fake (despite what is written on a profile that they couldn't be arsed to read) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thing is guys don't have a problem sending live face pictures back cos they always look the same so when they have no problem sending a live pic they probably don't understand why women would have a problem with it. I'll send face pictures just can't do live ones late in the night when I've taken my make up off. I've got a burst blood vessel under my right eye from a fight a few years back which needs covering with concealer, have a 3 inch scar on my left eye from when I was glassed in 2004, have a very prominent bump in my nose from being broken so many times so need to get the picture angle right so you don't see my bump. The nerves in my top lip are fucked from a ripped frenulum so my mouth looks wonky and need a few goes at a picture to avoid looking like I've had a stroke. All these things you don't notice in real life when you're looking at me but you take a picture and unless I take a couple I'll capture at least one of my imperfections. |
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