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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???

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By *errygTV/TS over a year ago

denton

ive found in the past asian men tend to be very pushy and dont take no for a answer,ive done work for asians in the past and 90% of the time have problems with payment, ive just had a message off a asian man saying, asians are not into tvs and blocked me, i knew a asian tv who said a lot of asian taxi drivers wanted sex off her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because its there preference!

Why question it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ive met many Asians guys and every one has been just so much hassle ive decided I'm not meeting anymore end of story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"
attitude maainy which you actually inadvertently just proved a point

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By *errygTV/TS over a year ago

denton

"ive met many Asians guys and every one has been just so much hassle ive decided I'm not meeting anymore end of story "
i know where you coming from, my friend is a escort works from a flat,she has no asian policy, as in the past they just call without appointment invasion of your private time, and tend to argue over prices, even thou they are clearly stated on website, so now wont see them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive met many Asians guys and every one has been just so much hassle ive decided I'm not meeting anymore end of story i know where you coming from, my friend is a escort works from a flat,she has no asian policy, as in the past they just call without appointment invasion of your private time, and tend to argue over prices, even thou they are clearly stated on website, so now wont see them "
in my vast experience there a total waste of time and effort and demanding ! aint the word lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

As a general rule, people seem to fancy thier own makeup ie black couples, white couples etc obviously there are exceptions to this. I fancy Asian women, whilst Robyn does not fancy Asian men.

As the UK is still predominantly white, this preference will remain skewed against you.

Either way - preference is preference, not racism.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should it bother you when you are black ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off"
they are very very disrespectful ive yet to meet one who isn't and I mean in real life not just on here

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Oh here we go again....build a bridge dude....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What has reading the sun got to do with anything?

People tend to not play wity them because of preference not because a newspaper told them not too.

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off they are very very disrespectful ive yet to meet one who isn't and I mean in real life not just on here"

Fancy letting me buy you a coffee then?? Haha

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

"I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off they are very very disrespectful ive yet to meet one who isn't and I mean in real life not just on here"

The weird thing is the Asian guys I work with are great guys but all the ones we have met at clubs have caused problems. I know it's only a small percentage but they have ruined it for all...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every Asian man I have met from here has been lovely. As were the ones I met elsewhere.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Uncouth and pushy; can only speak for the ones I have bumped into at clubs

There are exceptions to the rule. Have met a couple of Asian men who were genuinely nice guys but the moment they approached me, my barrier went up

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

we've met some lovely Asian guys in clubs, can only recall one pushy one many years ago who the club promptly got rid of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

very devious minded arrogant and extremely selfish ! there are all of the same mind set In my experience. tho I haven't got a "no Asians" policy displayed on my profile theres no way ide arrange to meet another x sorry OP if u don't like my honesty but you did ask x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Why have you come to that conclusion?

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have only come across Asian males at clubs and unfortunately the ones we have have all been pushy, didn't seem to understand that no meant no and in one case followed us around the club until we threaten to go and complain.

This is only our experience and no we don't have a no Asian men policy we don't meet single guys for private meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It all comes down to preference. I don't dislike asians... I'm just not nessecerily attracted to some.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

I can't say that all Asian guys this or that. They are not. There are good and bad in all colours, creeds and races.

Our experience however has been that tha majority of white guys have been whole a few have not.

Asian guys on the other hand are the reverse. The majority have had poor attitudes, a sense of entitlement were very pushy (this does not go down well)

Some of the very nicest guys we have ever met were Asian, but sadly, when you have plenty of offers to choose from, you go with the statistics and stick with the safe bet.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Most ?

Where did you get that figure from ?

How many is lots ?

How do you know this ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

every asian guy i've met off here has been lovely to me and very respectful and every single one made sure i had great sex with affection, and ive met a fair few asian men.

i don't fancy all asians because of that though.

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? attitude maainy which you actually inadvertently just proved a point"

I'm black ????? Not Asian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

The problem is pre 9/11 I don't think this state of thought excised ,

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

I just think we're going back y 70s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Don't get the connection

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

I agree most are dick but not everyone is like my mate on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Its could simply be that we don't like your reputations and attitude towards women.

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off they are very very disrespectful ive yet to meet one who isn't and I mean in real life not just on here"

Come to Manchester lol

If you ever went to mission in Leeds for a night called tribal sections it was run by my mate who was Asian to be fair his gran is white lol

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"I've found the asian men that we have met socially, have tended to be pushy and full of them selves and really arrogant, its just our preference sexually we dont want to meet them, maybe its just the ones we have met that have put us off they are very very disrespectful ive yet to meet one who isn't and I mean in real life not just on here

That's what I'm thinking but if it was against us we would be calling everyone rascist

The weird thing is the Asian guys I work with are great guys but all the ones we have met at clubs have caused problems. I know it's only a small percentage but they have ruined it for all..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And you have the worst profile in Fab history.......god help you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???

Its could simply be that we don't like your reputations and attitude towards women."

Not all

A a general rule I don't play with Asian guys, but I know a few that I would and have happily played with

I wouldn't do a cold meet off here with an Asian man but I have gotten to know some via other means and played

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'no asians' 'no blacks' 'no whites' 'no rainbows' lol what i dont get is out of the whole of the 4 million+ asian people in the UK, you wouldnt find any attractive? Im half turkish and half english, this has often put women off when i mention this, my point is if you are attracted to someone should their ethinicity matter?

Stating you dont want to meet black or asian people or white people is a racial barrier... Guess it is a form of preferencebut a very ignorant one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're not all that bad. But, if attraction isn't there, then it just isn't and individuals should just move on.

Try being Asian, with facial hair and SHORT! Now that makes it difficult lol

...it's just one of those things. It's not the end of the world. It's not on for many guys to do as has been described above. Seen it myself and I don't like it.

However, not everyone is going to tick each other's fancy. But when you do. It's fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

If you weren't asking purely for your own benefit I'd have more to contribute to the thread. It's just personal preference and reaction to you, coupled with a ratio of men to women etc.

Nothing to do with the sun, if you think that then it may be half of the issue

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i fancy people, not their gender or ethnicity. its their energy im attracted to..those that have entitlement issues, poor me, or, whinging habits,( not pointing finger, this is in general) dont do it for me. i dont have friends like that, so, i dont choose lovers like that..its that simple. go to a club x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"'no asians' 'no blacks' 'no whites' 'no rainbows' lol what i dont get is out of the whole of the 4 million+ asian people in the UK, you wouldnt find any attractive? Im half turkish and half english, this has often put women off when i mention this, my point is if you are attracted to someone should their ethinicity matter?

Stating you dont want to meet black or asian people or white people is a racial barrier... Guess it is a form of preferencebut a very ignorant one"

But everybody has a choice, I've been turned down because I'm not English, I was told by one guy...sorry I don't fuck foreigners

He hadn't even seen a face pic so he had no idea of he fancied me or not he just knew because I wasn't English he didn't want to meet

Just accept not everybody will like you based on a number of things and move on, you cant change your nationality and your not going to change their mind so why moan about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Because it's personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I speak frankly?.

I think it's probably because of the attitude to women in Muslim culture. I mean when we say "Asian" we generally mean Muslim, I mean Chinese people are Asian, Indians, Russians, Thais, Arabs, Japanese...

But that's really not what's meant by no Asian!... It's a shit kicker being labeled with a whole bunch of others but that's basically how most humans work

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

"Can I speak frankly?.

But that's really not what's meant by no Asian!... It's a shit kicker being labeled with a whole bunch of others but that's basically how most humans work"

Very harsh but ultimately, and unfortunately, also very true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only thing I've got against asian men is that a lot of them keep asking this fucking question every week instead of using the forum search and looking at all the other threads that have already answered it over and over again

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"The only thing I've got against asian men is that a lot of them keep asking this fucking question every week instead of using the forum search and looking at all the other threads that have already answered it over and over again "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mabf3R9n7-4

It's a stupid people problem, not an Asian people problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The world has changed now and interracial dating/ sexing are very much on the increase.

I think the point is when Asian guys compare themselves to black guys they feel unwanted and disliked because let's face it half the ladies here want bbc! It's just a dick every guys got a dick! But I got no jealousy on that point as clearly black guys have something ladies want and that's the way it is!

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By *enossenpaiMan over a year ago

woolwich

Not all of us Asian are bad haha XD but then again everyone got their own personal preferences..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The world has changed now and interracial dating/ sexing are very much on the increase.

" half the ladies here want bbc!"

Fair amount of asian guys round here have cottoned onto that and are classing themselves as BBC i noticed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Yeah because they want black guys and are pretty specific about that. Not everyone classes asian guys as black i'm guessing, i never have anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Yeah because they want black guys and are pretty specific about that. Not everyone classes asian guys as black i'm guessing, i never have anyway."

Do you have a preference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Yeah because they want black guys and are pretty specific about that. Not everyone classes asian guys as black i'm guessing, i never have anyway.

Do you have a preference?"

Kind of, yes.

I do find many black guys particularly attractive. They usually have facial features i like and an athletic body which i do prefer. This might sound weird but i also prefer their pubic hair, sorry to mention that.

But i also like tall athletic asian and white guys, and even some more chubby guys of all races also. As for facial features i like a variety of faces also. So i do have a wide variety of men i fancy but yes i do find some more attractive than others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Yeah because they want black guys and are pretty specific about that. Not everyone classes asian guys as black i'm guessing, i never have anyway.

Do you have a preference?

Kind of, yes.

I absolutely and categorically love and respect your open honest response!!

Why can't everyone be as honest as you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem is pre 9/11 I don't think this state of thought excised ,

Let me open your eyes a bit. I have chatted or met socially or at parties with a dozen or two Asian guys: Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Mauritian of Indian origin - some born here, some not. I did not want to generalise so would happily meet for a coffee and chat and see what happens, or if a guy sounded nice and I liked the look of him, something else might have happened. Well, here are my observations (each one of those guys demonstrated at least two of the behaviours below):

- no experience with women. None. They seem to have watched porn but do not know how to make things pleasant, not painful for the woman;

- obsession with sexual discussions and sex talk. You can literally see how the guy is getting aroused from piling on words upon words that are little moRe than names of sexual organs or sexual acts;

- obsession with sex as in "OK, we'll meet for a coffee and chat but I will book a hotel just in case". Well, no, you will not, or feel free to book and have a lonely night. One extreme example (a guy in his 40s, British-born): "OK, we'll meet for a coffee, great, but if there is no physical attraction, I will just make you cum". IN THE COFFEE SHOP?!

- insecurities: "well, I am Asian but I am not like the others"; refuses to say he is Asian until pushed; when rejected, it is the woman that is a "racist" and... "easy"! Ehm, I just said no...

- scared to death to be seen with a woman they've met through this site. ReAl story: "If you see me outside with my relatives, do not say hi". Why? "I would find it hard to explain how I know an older woman". Well, he is a postgraduate student at a university, and I have taught at universities and colleges.

This pretty much sums up why I have stopped even trying to meet Asian guys. Over 3 years there has been only one exception from these rules, and I am not wasting amother 3 years to find a second one. Plus there is the old sexual attraction, and when I see an Asian guy, butterflies in my stomach lay very low.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Women tend to look at the whole person (OK, some women from couples excepted), not body parts "on them".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem is pre 9/11 I don't think this state of thought excised ,

- no experience with women. None. They seem to have watched porn but do not know how to make things pleasant, not painful for the woman;

- obsession with sexual discussions and sex talk. You can literally see how the guy is getting aroused from piling on words upon words that are little moRe than names of sexual organs or sexual acts;

- insecurities: "well, I am Asian but I am not like the others"; refuses to say he is Asian until pushed; when rejected, it is the woman that is a "racist" and... "easy"! Ehm, I just said no...

So sorry for you that you have had those experiences to put you off...

It's not a true or fair indictment, but I respect that is how you feel x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well still the point is even if some Asian guys are in fact genuine bbc the ladies will still opt for a bbc on a black guy and ignore the Asian guy!

Yeah because they want black guys and are pretty specific about that. Not everyone classes asian guys as black i'm guessing, i never have anyway.

Do you have a preference?

Kind of, yes.

I absolutely and categorically love and respect your open honest response!!

Why can't everyone be as honest as you xx"

Idk why not. I do think being honest can be offensive to some people and you know us english like to have manners.

I just think fuck manners, i'm too old to be messing about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

chat tommorrow or something sandy, i'm off to bed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"chat tommorrow or something sandy, i'm off to bed."

Night x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"chat tommorrow or something sandy, i'm off to bed.

Night x"

night

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By *r_wotzitMan over a year ago

se london/kent, bexleyheath and surrounding areas

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

What utter nonsense

I like Black and Caucasian men. However, I definitely do NOT want BBC, BBW, VWE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I genuinely find this one of the most interesting threads I've seen on here.

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By *r_wotzitMan over a year ago

se london/kent, bexleyheath and surrounding areas

I'm a British born Asian. I respect and treat people the way I wish to be treated. I did put a post up earlier. It was a bit long winded.

Just saying that not all Asian men are the same. Xx

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

That's my point wel said

Stating you dont want to meet black or asian people or white people is a racial barrier... Guess it is a form of preferencebut a very ignorant one"

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Simple lack of sexual attraction on our part.

Yet we are both attracted to Asian females...

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By *ragonDuo34Couple over a year ago

Spalding

We had an Asian guy follow us round a club.. pushy. Didn't like it.

It's just preference, just like some people won't like is because we're larger. It just depends what you like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My preference physically is Asian guys. I've met quite a few from here and not one has been pushy or weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not generally attracted to them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"We had an Asian guy follow us round a club.. pushy. Didn't like it.

It's just preference, just like some people won't like is because we're larger. It just depends what you like."

If a pushy white man followed you around a club would you label and refuse to meet all whites ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had an arguement just the other day with an Asian chap outside of tesco. There was me minding my own business , loading a few bags of shopping into the car when a car pulled up. He noticed I had my veterans badge on my jacket and started swearing at me. Called me a baby killer and all kinds of nonsense. Truly bizarre behavior.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple over a year ago

Lancashire

Non-whiye men don't really get the Mrs excited at all it's just not her thing.

On the other side of the coin some women exclusively only meet for BBC.

Personally I find Indian women extremely hot but very unlikely we'd find one who isn't part of a couple.

It's all just personal taste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To say no Asian in my opinion and stupid and to all who say it's a preference ..then I ask the question what is your preference. ..because it's not just Indians or Chinese living there there are a lot 2nd and 3rd generation European white and African black males and females born and live in Asia just like there's many british born Asians here there's no one attitude or no particular facial features for and entire continent ...

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"To say no Asian in my opinion and stupid and to all who say it's a preference ..then I ask the question what is your preference. ..because it's not just Indians or Chinese living there there are a lot 2nd and 3rd generation European white and African black males and females born and live in Asia just like there's many british born Asians here there's no one attitude or no particular facial features for and entire continent ..."

If there is no way to tell if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental, then how do people figure out if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If there is no way to tell if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental, then how do people figure out if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental?"

He said 'no particular facial features for an entire continent' ...... I agree with him .... I don't find Adeel Akhtar attractive but James Caan is. They look nothing like each other - both Pakistani.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there is no way to tell if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental, then how do people figure out if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental?

James Caan is Pakistani?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We had an Asian guy follow us round a club.. pushy. Didn't like it.

It's just preference, just like some people won't like is because we're larger. It just depends what you like.

If a pushy white man followed you around a club would you label and refuse to meet all whites ?"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there is no way to tell if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental, then how do people figure out if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental?

James Caan is Pakistani? "

Wrong James Caan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife and I have yet to meet the pushy type of Asian men who are being identified in this thread. We have, however met some outstanding British Asian men, some Muslim, some Sikh, who are the epitome of politeness and charm. If we wish to widen the discussion of Asian then I would include a particularly delightful Pinoy guy as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i've got pushy white guys in my inbox right now, blocked on already and ready to block another...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I miss my Asian friend with benefits

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

If there is no way to tell if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental, then how do people figure out if someone is White or Black or Indian or Oriental?

Racial classifications are based on ethinicity, not on continents, passports or where a second generation or third generation immigrant happens to be born

That is why South-East Indians have South-East Indian type features whether they are born in India or in Britain

No idea who those two people are so could not comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Cheque please!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can understand not liking an individual, but to block an entire group of people seems naff. To me it means that they aren't being seen as individuals, who may be decent, but are instead subject to a blanket ban.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we've met some lovely Asian guys in clubs, can only recall one pushy one many years ago who the club promptly got rid of "

same here!

But people don't have to be Sun readers just to express racists, bigotted opinions.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Imagine that you just don't physically find someone or something, like a particular sex act, a turn on. Would you discuss a meet for this or be clear up front?

Focus attention on those who may like you. It's difficult enough for you single guys as it is, without making it harder.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

At the risk of repeating things expressed in previous threads (and the risk of of being accused of being racist) I/we have definitely noticed particular traits in relation to many Asian men.

Some of the best meets we have had have been with great looking Asian guys with fantastic attitudes.

Sadly, this has been the rare exception.

Most (maybe 4 out of 5) have had a very, very poor attitude toward Erika and assumed they were into a sure thing just for turning up.

We have had a number of meets bad enough for me to have the tell the guys to leave.

At a club last week I had to step in after a group of guys followed Erika around not saying anything but making "squeeking" noises sucking air between their teeth as some kind of way to show they were interested. I've seen this before and thinks it's appalling.

When they started trying go push their way into a private room they got told to fuck off.

In our profile we dont mention it as you can filter out most arseholes when chatting but if we are away and looking for a quick meet you don't the chance for lots of chat and, depending on where we are, we express that we are not looking for Asian guys as its just not worth the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why question it ? You could ask why not fat/skinny people ? No gingers/blondes/beards ? No green eyes, no painted toes, no pubic hair No baldies ?

We like what we like. End of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I've read through this thread and I'm obviously not an Asian man.

I understand people have preferences whether that is race, body type or even hair colour.

What I don't understand though is why people think it is okay to completely stereotype a race of men, with some going as far as saying "in and out of bed".

Does that not bring with it connotations of times when it was "no blacks, no Irish, no dogs".

I mean really, you all say you're so liberal when it comes to sex, why can't you use that liberal attitude and consider how seeing "no Asians" might come across as offensive or even racist to those from ethnic minorities?

Anyway, that's just my two pence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have preferences about what our tastes are, but when it comes to race some people are very rigid about not going outside their preference. My preference is for Caucasians of northern Europian descent, and occasionally black men. Does that mean I wouldn't even consider going outside that preference? Of course not. I also have a preference for a man with a six pack - don't we all! Doesn't mean I'm gonna get it though. Since when did preferences become hard and fast rules?

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By *s1981Couple over a year ago

halifax

We don't have a particular policy of 'no Asian ' guys just the ones that we have been approached by or message are not all that attractive. More than One or two come across as arrogant and pushy , could be down to certain religions within the Asian community and their general archaic attitude to women in general.

But the flip side to the coin is we have had just as many if not more white/black guys come across like that so what's their excuse?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why should it bother you when you are black ? "

I noticed this too

Didn't see a reply either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sick to the back teeth with these threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's because Asian men usual leave there wife's at home . Think iv seen one Asian couple in a club and he left her in bar . She looked very uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over the many years I've been swinging i have met asian guys in the past but most were rude, pushy, wanted to do things i had said at the begining were off limits with me etc. Also at Chams asian guys i have seen there have been rude and pushy and seem to think all women are there just to please them. Often in the jacuzzi they would be putting their hands between my legs without even making eye contact or smiling let alone asking if it's ok to touch ! Yes there are a few asian guys that have been lovely, respectful and fun and also there have been white guys who have behaved badly but in MY experience most asians behave badly so i stopped meeting them when i was a single fem and we don't meet them as a couple either .... we have little free time so obviously we choose to meet guys that are fun and respectful

In 'real life' i know many asian guys and most of them are great, it just seems to be a problem in swinging life !!!

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

In 'real life' i know many asian guys and most of them are great, it just seems to be a problem in swinging life !!!"

I feel the same. I work with a great many (around 100) Asian guys on a daily and they are all nice guys (to be fair, being a nice person is a pre-requisite of the role)

But this is not represented in the swinging scene. (In our experience)

I wonder if this is as a result of cultural or religious influence. I suspect many of the guys assume that any woman who is part of the swinging scene is, by virtue of being involved in the scene, not deserving of the respect and consideration that other women are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why should it bother you when you are black ?

I noticed this too

Didn't see a reply either "

I have to admit I didn't get the impression the OP was asking this because it bothered him, more that he was just curious. I too have been curious, as to why some racial groups do well on the swing scene and others are less popular, and it's quite interesting to read people's thoughts. A lot of people just say it's a matter of personal preference, but I had often wondered why so many women have a preference for black men, and so few have a preference for Asian men, leaving white men somewhere in between. I'm generalising of course, but I'm finding it interesting (and I'm sure the OP does too) as to why women's preferences, when it comes to race, seem to show are similar pattern. It does seem, from the feedback, that Asian men have developed themselves a bad reputation on the swing scene, and that's unfortunate for those who do know how to behave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure about the swinging scene but I know on here people's sexual preferences are determined by the porn industry. Plenty of white and black men but very few Asian men.

Plus there's the issue of stereotyping and generalising by the media. I understand where you're coming from with the sun comment.

They aren't the only determining factors but theyre big ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In 'real life' i know many asian guys and most of them are great, it just seems to be a problem in swinging life !!!

I feel the same. I work with a great many (around 100) Asian guys on a daily and they are all nice guys (to be fair, being a nice person is a pre-requisite of the role)

But this is not represented in the swinging scene. (In our experience)

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I'm the opposite I work with the same if not more and I would say 99 percent of them are totally disrespectful to women. the other 10 percent are disrespectful to everyone male or female

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"We had an Asian guy follow us round a club.. pushy. Didn't like it.

It's just preference, just like some people won't like is because we're larger. It just depends what you like.

If a pushy white man followed you around a club would you label and refuse to meet all whites ?

Exactly! "

If 9 out of 10 men who are pushy happen to be White, then yes. But they are not; they happen to be Asian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After this morning on cam in bi chat ( non-directing room ) was having a laugh and a chat about all different random shit. Not once did I get told to show my boobs in over 2 hours.

An Asian guy comes in doesn't say hello or how are you to anyone.

1st words he said was " devil lift your top up now i want to see your boobs" no please ( not that it would have got him what he wanted )

He didn't like my reply when I said " if I told you to jump of a cliff would you do it"

He said " don't be stupid I don't do what women tell me to do"

He got banned before I got time to finish my reply x

And another reason me and my partner went to a club few weeks ago was a great night. Didn't go to plan more for the social n meet new people. A few single guys came up and asked if we was playing and and when we said sorry we not. They apologised for disturbing us and left with out a fuss.

But an asian guy came up sat next to us and started touching my leg. I ask him to please stop we are not playing. Fair enough he stopped when I asked him but he kept on asking "we play now?"

W moved away from him and went for a walk round every where we went he was behind us. We went toilet he would wait out side. It got to the point I had had enough and told him straight stop following us we are not going to play with you he finally got the message and left the club x

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"After this morning on cam in bi chat ( non-directing room ) was having a laugh and a chat about all different random shit. Not once did I get told to show my boobs in over 2 hours.

An Asian guy comes in doesn't say hello or how are you to anyone.

1st words he said was " devil lift your top up now i want to see your boobs" no please ( not that it would have got him what he wanted )

He didn't like my reply when I said " if I told you to jump of a cliff would you do it"

He said " don't be stupid I don't do what women tell me to do"

He got banned before I got time to finish my reply x

But an asian guy came up sat next to us and started touching my leg. I ask him to please stop we are not playing. Fair enough he stopped when I asked him but he kept on asking "we play now?"

Sounds like the Tories in London who assume all are the same, and are derogatory about all. Just because one or two Asian men are like that, why would anyone assume all are? I have had lots of rude messages from white guys (mostly) but don't assume they are all arseholes ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am mixed race, Anglo/coloured Southafrican..Nothing to do with being racist. Its the way they are generally and most, not all treat women wrong in my eye's.

As for Asian men calling themselves BBC in earlier posts. Black lads treat women totally different, Blackmen are lovers, most if not all want to make women feel good and have mindblowing sex and a fabulous time..

Just wish i had the BBC, just an average brown one..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After this morning on cam in bi chat ( non-directing room ) was having a laugh and a chat about all different random shit. Not once did I get told to show my boobs in over 2 hours.

An Asian guy comes in doesn't say hello or how are you to anyone.

1st words he said was " devil lift your top up now i want to see your boobs" no please ( not that it would have got him what he wanted )

He didn't like my reply when I said " if I told you to jump of a cliff would you do it"

He said " don't be stupid I don't do what women tell me to do"

He got banned before I got time to finish my reply x

But an asian guy came up sat next to us and started touching my leg. I ask him to please stop we are not playing. Fair enough he stopped when I asked him but he kept on asking "we play now?"

I have many asians friends who I would trust with my life and would happily walk around naked and even sleep in the same bed with. Not 1 would ever dream about telling me to do something or assume that I want to fuck them. My experience with single swinging asians is not good at all and they assume they have the right to treat and speak to women like they we belong to them. I have also seen asian guys go up to other people in clubs and just start touching without permission.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Some responses to people's bad experiences reminds me of, "don't mention the war"

FFS, people have every right not to engage with anyone else, whether it be because they have had a bad experience or whether they don't find them atrractive or whatever

I haven't had any experiences with short, fat, balding pensioners and guess what; I don't want to either. Any you know why? Because I don't want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"
they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman over a year ago

London

I find men from the indo-chine region to be less alpha.

Certainly growing up, the boys in the rugby and football teams and the 'bad boy' characters were all from backgrounds other than south and east Asia.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've not met any. I'd like to though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

In a club earlier a guy brushed my breasts as passing. I moved and turned away - a hand went onto my arse - I pushed it away and moved. It was again on me within a couple of minutes so I said 'no thank you'. Later on the same creep just came and stood next to me. I was infuriated as I'd been clear and direct. I've had mild gropes before but nothing so persistent. I don't like having a bias but the uncomfortable pushiness has come from asian guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody likes a Delhi belly,to be sure.

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

I go to chams with my fb and we get asians.. blacks.. white men touching my partner without permission! And??!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never dismissed anyone due to colour or race. Asian men however are the only ones to bring up race if I say I'm not interested in a fuck. I'd say about 3/4 of the Asian men I've met in clubs had a massive ego, one has actually said to me that I should be honoured that he wants to sleep with me because I'm just a white slut. There are a few out there who are complete gentlemen and who I will always make welcome should we bump into each other at a club but it just seems that the percentage of overly-entitled assholes is higher in the Asian club membership than in other races. I will always talk to them though, you don't find out about them just looking lol. I wouldn't just dismiss them for their skin colour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

I don't remember any of the recent terror attacks in Europe being carried out by Asians?

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By *etitesaraTV/TS over a year ago

rochdale

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

I don't remember any of the recent terror attacks in Europe being carried out by Asians? "

Syria is in Asia, its quite a large Continent.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman over a year ago

London

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By *methyst01Man over a year ago

Ealing Common

I have a whole view on this Asian thing.

For people to say that they not attracted to Asians, I cannot understand.

Do you know how big Asia is? Do you know how Asians can vary in looks even in one country. Look at India, the North of India you find the fairest of people with light hair and eyes and the further south you go they get darker etc.

Thats just India. I however do understand where this comes from. As a South African, I do have Asian blood in me but so far removed. I cannot speak any Asian language but can speak the South African Languages.

I see myself as South African and proudly so. Having been here for long enough I noticed that many Asians here were not even born here.

Having been to India as well it seemd like its a clash of culture, even I get annoyed with them and I am being brutally honest here.

For many of these guys they see swinging as free sex/getting laid quickly.

They seem creepy and lurky in the clubs, its very unfortunate to be perceived in the same manner.

You get beautiful and ugly people of all races, white black, asian, oriental.

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

Thanks good point

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

We have attaching countries that can only throw rocks at us and in return bombing them

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"I have a whole view on this Asian thing.

For people to say that they not attracted to Asians, I cannot understand.

I see myself as South African and proudly so. Having been here for long enough I noticed that many Asians here were not even born here.

Having been to India as well it seemd like its a clash of culture, even I get annoyed with them and I am being brutally honest here.

For many of these guys they see swinging as free sex/getting laid quickly.

They seem creepy and lurky in the clubs, its very unfortunate to be perceived in the same manner.

You get beautiful and ugly people of all races, white black, asian, oriental."

That's my point

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"In a club earlier a guy brushed my breasts as passing. I moved and turned away - a hand went onto my arse - I pushed it away and moved. It was again on me within a couple of minutes so I said 'no thank you'. Later on the same creep just came and stood next to me. I was infuriated as I'd been clear and direct. I've had mild gropes before but nothing so persistent. I don't like having a bias but the uncomfortable pushiness has come from asian guys."

So if. A white guy did that would you say don't meet white guys ????

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

Also read about Jimmy saval so all white men like children ??

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Some responses to people's bad experiences reminds me of, "don't mention the war"

FFS, people have every right not to engage with anyone else, whether it be because they have had a bad experience or whether they don't find them atrractive or whatever

Asia is a massive consonant full of different people all locks aspects to her so you don't like Asians that's what I'm asking

I haven't had any experiences with short, fat, balding pensioners and guess what; I don't want to either. Any you know why? Because I don't want to"

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have attaching countries that can only throw rocks at us and in return bombing them "

Wow that's a sweeping statement and million miles from your original point!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems pretty harsh to exclude all men from such a huge continent!

Obviously, I have no interest in men, Asian, or otherwise - but I do think Asian women can be incredibly attractive!

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"After this morning on cam in bi chat ( non-directing room ) was having a laugh and a chat about all different random shit. Not once did I get told to show my boobs in over 2 hours.

An Asian guy comes in doesn't say hello or how are you to anyone.

1st words he said was " devil lift your top up now i want to see your boobs" no please ( not that it would have got him what he wanted )

He didn't like my reply when I said " if I told you to jump of a cliff would you do it"

He said " don't be stupid I don't do what women tell me to do"

He got banned before I got time to finish my reply x

But an asian guy came up sat next to us and started touching my leg. I ask him to please stop we are not playing. Fair enough he stopped when I asked him but he kept on asking "we play now?"

The nearest to an Asian friend you have is the guy who makes your kebab on Friday night

Every racist starts with I have a friend who is black Asian or whatever so I'm not racist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After this morning on cam in bi chat ( non-directing room ) was having a laugh and a chat about all different random shit. Not once did I get told to show my boobs in over 2 hours.

An Asian guy comes in doesn't say hello or how are you to anyone.

1st words he said was " devil lift your top up now i want to see your boobs" no please ( not that it would have got him what he wanted )

He didn't like my reply when I said " if I told you to jump of a cliff would you do it"

He said " don't be stupid I don't do what women tell me to do"

He got banned before I got time to finish my reply x

But an asian guy came up sat next to us and started touching my leg. I ask him to please stop we are not playing. Fair enough he stopped when I asked him but he kept on asking "we play now?"

The nearest to an Asian friend you have is the guy who makes your kebab on Friday night

Every racist starts with I have a friend who is black Asian or whatever so I'm not racist "

You have deemed him racist due to a few bad expeirances.

Terrible

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Why should it bother you when you are black ?

I noticed this too

Didn't see a reply either

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Sick to the back teeth with these threads

Don't read it then dumd wit

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"So I've read through this thread and I'm obviously not an Asian man.

I understand people have preferences whether that is race, body type or even hair colour.

What I don't understand though is why people think it is okay to completely stereotype a race of men, with some going as far as saying "in and out of bed".

Does that not bring with it connotations of times when it was "no blacks, no Irish, no dogs".

Anyway, that's just my two pence. "

Thank you for seeing my point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sick to the back teeth with these threads

Don't read it then dumd wit "

Always wonder why people read threads they dont want to read them post on them that they dont want to read it .

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"My wife and I have yet to meet the pushy type of Asian men who are being identified in this thread. We have, however met some outstanding British Asian men, some Muslim, some Sikh, who are the epitome of politeness and charm. If we wish to widen the discussion of Asian then I would include a particularly delightful Pinoy guy as well."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ??? they read in the sun about grooming children,rapes in Sweden and terror attacks across Europe oh the sun must be making these things up

Also read about Jimmy saval so all white men like children ??"
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It's not always about race or racism, it's mostly just human nature.

I mean try being a white middle aged male scout leader or a white middle aged priest!.

Shit sticks for all of us unfortunately

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By *Carver-Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

People keep saying "preference", but I'm pretty sure that preference is informed by good ol'fashioned racism. A term like "pushy" could be applied to a whole bunch of men on this site, and yet these folks seem happy enough to take a chance on the white ones.

For my part I habitually block anyone who racially discriminates on their profile. I wouldn't want to give them the impression that their attitudes are okay with me just because I'm white too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally love Asian women. Men not so much. Some asian guys can catch my eye, but that's very rare

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Why Can't We Get Along?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wd5dDc2xE3U

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I personally love Asian women. Men not so much. Some asian guys can catch my eye, but that's very rare"

'Asian' is a *very* broad category - Malays, Mongols, Dravidians, Thai, Japanese... blah blah...

It's a bit misleading, imo.

You might as well say 'looks a bit European' but the population sample is three times as large

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???

For my part I habitually block anyone who racially discriminates on their profile. I wouldn't want to give them the impression that their attitudes are okay with me just because I'm white too."
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What about couples that want only BBC... Should I shout them down as blatant racists... I mean what's wrong with a BWC!.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???

For my part I habitually block anyone who racially discriminates on their profile. I wouldn't want to give them the impression that their attitudes are okay with me just because I'm white too."

if it was a lot of pushy asian guys i'd get why being pushy would put you off them.

i know i'm being prejudiced about all men sometimes based on the worst ones, i really try not to be but you can't help it sometimes. i have gone off meeting all men and need a lot more reassurance that they're ok guys to meet before i meet them. and this is because of only 2 men i've met off this site who completely disrespected my boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally love Asian women. Men not so much. Some asian guys can catch my eye, but that's very rare

'Asian' is a *very* broad category - Malays, Mongols, Dravidians, Thai, Japanese... blah blah...

It's a bit misleading, imo.

You might as well say 'looks a bit European' but the population sample is three times as large"
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I went through that point early on, I think we all know what the No Asian means

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By *entkinkcplCouple over a year ago

maidstone

"I had an arguement just the other day with an Asian chap outside of tesco. There was me minding my own business , loading a few bags of shopping into the car when a car pulled up. He noticed I had my veterans badge on my jacket and started swearing at me. Called me a baby killer and all kinds of nonsense. Truly bizarre behavior."
... my hubby ex army and no bullshit he'd of leant through the window and punched his fucking head in their and then if this was aimed at him , he never starts something, ever , but in this occasion he'd of finished it xxx

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I personally love Asian women. Men not so much. Some asian guys can catch my eye, but that's very rare

'Asian' is a *very* broad category - Malays, Mongols, Dravidians, Thai, Japanese... blah blah...

It's a bit misleading, imo.

You might as well say 'looks a bit European' but the population sample is three times as large.

I went through that point early on, I think we all know what the No Asian means"

Sorry - I've not been paying attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Is that true? I have certainly seen profiles that say no Asian men, but pretty sure I have seen many more without that exclusion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally love Asian women. Men not so much. Some asian guys can catch my eye, but that's very rare

'Asian' is a *very* broad category - Malays, Mongols, Dravidians, Thai, Japanese... blah blah...

It's a bit misleading, imo.

You might as well say 'looks a bit European' but the population sample is three times as large.

I went through that point early on, I think we all know what the No Asian means

Sorry - I've not been paying attention

Asian women in general

the only people I find myself not attracted to is Eastern Europians. Never encountered one I was attracted to.

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By *Carver-Man over a year ago

Glasgow

What about couples that want only BBC... Should I shout them down as blatant racists... I mean what's wrong with a BWC!.

If that's a serious question rather than a lazy false equivalency: some fetishisation of black men can come from a place of uncritical racist stereotyping. But some people engage with raceplay like that because there's a thrill in breaking what are still powerful cultural taboos around interracial sex between black men and white women, while some black men like the power fantasy it represents. Others simply like that those profiles signal that they're not wasting their time on yet another kneejerk racist.

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???

For my part I habitually block anyone who racially discriminates on their profile. I wouldn't want to give them the impression that their attitudes are okay with me just because I'm white too."

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By *bvnotitv OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

rochdale

Listen to Ian brown " illegal attacks "

We have attaching countries that can only throw rocks at us and in return bombing them

Wow that's a sweeping statement and million miles from your original point!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about couples that want only BBC... Should I shout them down as blatant racists... I mean what's wrong with a BWC!.

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Ahh so you've got a long clever answer for one scenario and a yeah there all racists for the other one?.

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By *Carver-Man over a year ago

Glasgow

What about couples that want only BBC... Should I shout them down as blatant racists... I mean what's wrong with a BWC!.

Ahh so you've got a long clever answer for one scenario and a yeah there all racists for the other one?.

I thought my responses each had the same length and level of detailed reasoning...

Oh, I see - you wanted the Lazy False Equivalency response, sorry.

Yes, You're Quite Right, #NotAllOvertRacialDiscriminationByWhitePeople, Political Correctness Gone Mad, These Days You Can't Even Slander An Entire Subcontinent's Worth Of Ethnic Groups As Would-Be Rapists etc, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about couples that want only BBC... Should I shout them down as blatant racists... I mean what's wrong with a BWC!.

Ahh so you've got a long clever answer for one scenario and a yeah there all racists for the other one?.

I thought my responses each had the same length and level of detailed reasoning...

Oh, I see - you wanted the Lazy False Equivalency response, sorry.

Aggghhhh a regressive....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cool story, needs more dragons though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do most females and couples dislike Asian men so much ,

But lots of gay men love to meet Asian guys

Is it that most people on here read the sun ???"

Personal preference and yes, we read The Sun.

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By *icksfocusMan over a year ago

Pontefract

Get over yourself.

Different people say :

No blacks

No whites

No Asians

No Eskimos

Get over yourself it's called personal choice

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

Cool story, needs more dragons though."

Best responce ever to a bullshit post! Just genius!

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By *rSuitedAndBootedMan over a year ago

London

This post is actually laughable.

People need to get over this nonsense its purely down to preference some people like black, some white, some European and some Asian. Its that simple.

Every ethnicity has pushy, arrogant and just damn right horrible people not just Asians.

If any person or persons treat people in anyother way than how they want to be treated themselves then lets face it that person is just a twat and isn't worth the time or effort or even oxygen lol.

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By *rSuitedAndBootedMan over a year ago

London

Oh and to add to this (this is to you original poster).

Ultimately it comes down to physical attractions. I have only ever dated white women and my recent FWB is white. I wouldn't be interested in an Asian woman because its just not my thing and I'm not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Asian, bird flu... Possibly?

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"This post is actually laughable.

People need to get over this nonsense its purely down to preference some people like black, some white, some European and some Asian. Its that simple.

Every ethnicity has pushy, arrogant and just damn right horrible people not just Asians.

If any person or persons treat people in anyother way than how they want to be treated themselves then lets face it that person is just a twat and isn't worth the time or effort or even oxygen lol."

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

It's down to personal choice and past experiences. If they want to be choosy, they'll miss out on some genuine partners- is their loss!

I've recently met a Caucasian woman who likes brown guys- win for me!!

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By *oy4funMan over a year ago

near you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we don't meet asshole's ...everyone else is ok tho ...there that's our prefrance

ps asshole's are not just men they can be women and often are couples too

there that was easy no reference to race or religion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's down to personal choice and past experiences. If they want to be choosy, they'll miss out on some genuine partners- is their loss!

I've recently met a Caucasian woman who likes brown guys- win for me!!

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not their loss if they DONT WANT TO MEET THEM

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"It's down to personal choice and past experiences. If they want to be choosy, they'll miss out on some genuine partners- is their loss!

I've recently met a Caucasian woman who likes brown guys- win for me!!

What utter nonsense. No, it is not THEIR loss; they didn't want to meet you at all

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"It's down to personal choice and past experiences. If they want to be choosy, they'll miss out on some genuine partners- is their loss!

I've recently met a Caucasian woman who likes brown guys- win for me!!

What utter nonsense. No, it is not THEIR loss; they didn't want to meet you at all"

But it makes them feel better if they don't think it's their loss but someone else's for not fucking them

Poor delicate sausages

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By *exydaveenaTV/TS over a year ago

Bexley

Well i'm asian and have my preferences to who i meet. That does not mean i have prejudice!?

Its my preference, what turns me on... I personally like white man, one reason i love to see the contrast between skin colour... But what i have encountered a lot is i get a so many emails from people who have it clearly on their profile and say no asians, but still email me and what to meet.. This is the bit that really puzzles me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive found in the past asian men tend to be very pushy and dont take no for a answer,ive done work for asians in the past and 90% of the time have problems with payment, ive just had a message off a asian man saying, asians are not into tvs and blocked me, i knew a asian tv who said a lot of asian taxi drivers wanted sex off her. "

Correct me if I'm wrong but are not the Pilipinos famous for men dressed as women? And isn't Philippines in Asia?

-Ads

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

Correct me if I'm wrong but are not the Pilipinos famous for men dressed as women? And isn't Philippines in Asia?

-Ads"

Yes, the Philipines is famous for ladyboys and yes, Filipinos are Asian.

In our experience, Asian men are more likely to be intoTV/TS/TG/ladyboys than non Asians.

That said, there is certainly no shortage of guys from every coulor, creed, race and nationality with a liking for them.

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By *errygTV/TS over a year ago

denton

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

This thread has bounced from pillar to post #Confused

OP can i ask why you even care?

If someone blanket bans a particular ethnicity it's their choice and there's nowt you can do about it. Whatever the reason is (a few bad experiences or just dislike) the fact is you can not do anything about it & everyone has the right to choose.

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By *errygTV/TS over a year ago

denton

it is usually pakistani males that are the main problem.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"it is usually pakistani males that are the main problem."

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