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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never used to be confident n happy with my body untill I joined fab. I can honestly say fab is the best thing I ever did. Don't even give a monkeys about meets or fans. I just love the fact that I'm now happy enogh to take pics of myself warts n all n share them with you guys. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you  
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx "
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time "
Hes history now forget him. Look at all the messages fabs n winks you get on here. All the men who think your stunning! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time
Hes history now forget him. Look at all the messages fabs n winks you get on here. All the men who think your stunning! Xxx"
You are completely right, he is history . Same for you too... You are stuuning, and I love that you are able to see that for yourself and embrace it xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
That is very true but false flattery beats negative flattery every time. Xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
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"I never used to be confident n happy with my body untill I joined fab. I can honestly say fab is the best thing I ever did. Don't even give a monkeys about meets or fans. I just love the fact that I'm now happy enogh to take pics of myself warts n all n share them with you guys. Xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never used to be confident n happy with my body untill I joined fab. I can honestly say fab is the best thing I ever did. Don't even give a monkeys about meets or fans. I just love the fact that I'm now happy enogh to take pics of myself warts n all n share them with you guys. Xxx"
Best way to be.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've still got no body confidence. Never have done. I too had an ex that was forever telling me how bad I looked and how I needed to lose weight. I just can't get my head round it!! Good on you op though!! |
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It's taken me over 3 yrs to lose 10 stone in weight, had zero confidence in myself back then and wouldn't dare take a selfie let alone a more
naughtier pic.
Shed the weight and my confidence just boosted then came the positive compliments from people I love this 'new found me' and intend on keeping it that way |
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I have to agree OP. I used to hate being in a swimsuit and now I don't mind being naked. I don't have a great body but I think it has nice bits and I just focus on the enjoyment my body can give me. I love to give pleasure too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
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Once you have photos up, who's to say the flattery is false? We all find different things attractive. It's just easy for a lot of people to not believe compliments, and maybe we should, regardless of the motivation.
This site has made me more confident in some ways. Not in others. That's my issue, not the site though. Overall I would say it's made me more confident.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's taken me over 3 yrs to lose 10 stone in weight, had zero confidence in myself back then and wouldn't dare take a selfie let alone a more
naughtier pic.
Shed the weight and my confidence just boosted then came the positive compliments from people I love this 'new found me' and intend on keeping it that way "
Wow!!! I really admire you for your weight loss. I have a similar amount to lose. Can't seem to get my head in the right place. A truly amazing thing to have achieved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've still got no body confidence. Never have done. I too had an ex that was forever telling me how bad I looked and how I needed to lose weight. I just can't get my head round it!! Good on you op though!! "
Same here. Time to try and take our power back, I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've still got no body confidence. Never have done. I too had an ex that was forever telling me how bad I looked and how I needed to lose weight. I just can't get my head round it!! Good on you op though!!
Same here. Time to try and take our power back, I think. "
Much easier said than done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've still got no body confidence. Never have done. I too had an ex that was forever telling me how bad I looked and how I needed to lose weight. I just can't get my head round it!! Good on you op though!!
Same here. Time to try and take our power back, I think.
Much easier said than done. "
Yes. Small steps... But they eventually develop into giant leaps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's taken me over 3 yrs to lose 10 stone in weight, had zero confidence in myself back then and wouldn't dare take a selfie let alone a more
naughtier pic.
Shed the weight and my confidence just boosted then came the positive compliments from people I love this 'new found me' and intend on keeping it that way "
I'm the opposite I put on weight n found my confidence. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
Once you have photos up, who's to say the flattery is false? We all find different things attractive. It's just easy for a lot of people to not believe compliments, and maybe we should, regardless of the motivation.
This site has made me more confident in some ways. Not in others. That's my issue, not the site though. Overall I would say it's made me more confident.
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my post did sound rather negative,, sorry for that
Ive been here for around 6 years and through various ups and downs only now just starting to suss out the meaningful and the stuff to be taken with salt.
Ive built up friendships and bonds with folk and its those people who i respect that i believe.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
That is very true but false flattery beats negative flattery every time. Xxx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
Once you have photos up, who's to say the flattery is false? We all find different things attractive. It's just easy for a lot of people to not believe compliments, and maybe we should, regardless of the motivation.
This site has made me more confident in some ways. Not in others. That's my issue, not the site though. Overall I would say it's made me more confident.
my post did sound rather negative,, sorry for that
Ive been here for around 6 years and through various ups and downs only now just starting to suss out the meaningful and the stuff to be taken with salt.
Ive built up friendships and bonds with folk and its those people who i respect that i believe.. "
If you get messages n fabs don't see them a negatives see them as positives. Your pics caught thier eye for what ever reason. Who cares if you ain't intrested in them. They are intrested in you or they wouldn't message or fab. Xxx |
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I have no body confidence either, stems from my mum constantly putting herself down when I was younger so just never had that female role model to say you look great. Jon tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am.... Depends what mood I am in whether I believe him!!! Ha!!! Fab is great though for building confidence in you, end of day beauty is more than skin
Jayne xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence has to come within.. and as much as im loving the fact the OP and others have got confidence from this site.. it wouldnt be my ideal place to claim it as a lot of men will give false flattery if it think it will get them somewhere. xx
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This is true of the desperate one's but not all. |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time "
He sounds like a charmer who deserves a slap!
It's a sad fact that theres not enough time in a lifetime to apologise for the crass, rude, and downright cruel things so called men say to some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I try & take all of Fabs with a pinch of salt as it can make you feel really good on one hand & then take it away with the other.
Great to hear that people are gaining body confidence, long may it continue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time
He sounds like a charmer who deserves a slap!
It's a sad fact that theres not enough time in a lifetime to apologise for the crass, rude, and downright cruel things so called men say to some people."
You think women are incapable of verbal abuse?
Or are you just white knighting? |
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Im glad it has a positive affect on you op
Ive always been confident(not when im ill) but in 9 years fab hasnt really alte_ed it. What has alte_ed it is losing weight and real life i buzz so much i will end up taking off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time
Hes history now forget him. Look at all the messages fabs n winks you get on here. All the men who think your stunning! Xxx"
A few women think she's pretty hot too!! 
Good on you op - glad it's given you confidence! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say my confidence has gone up loads since I've joined fab and been to clubs. Not just body wise, but also talking to people as I used to be shy as hell! |
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By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time "
I had the same for years the irony is he married a woman twice the size of me at my fattest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was here under a singles profile, it was the most liberating time of my adult life, as a larger lady I have never felt confident in my own skin and I would never dream of taking the kind of photos I used to take. Obviously to outsiders I would never dream of showing those photos off as I still wouldn't feel comfortable but on here I could.
In the outside world I would still cover up when I was with my friends, I may have felt sexy with myself but to blokes in the pub I was still the fat bird but here it was a different story and it's not just because every man is desperate for a shag, I guess it's a bigger platform and here men who contacted me (not all of them, some were clear it was just because I had a Fanny and didn't care what I looked like) but most actually fancied me and that was a welcome change that men could admit what they liked and not be ridiculed by their peers.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Glad your confidence is building ANGEL, your gorgeous
Your ex was an idiot, he tried to shatter your confidence because of his own insecurities. ..
Go look in the mirror at your beautiful self and hold your head high hun and leave your past in the past xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Glad your confidence is building ANGEL, your gorgeous
Your ex was an idiot, he tried to shatter your confidence because of his own insecurities. ..
Go look in the mirror at your beautiful self and hold your head high hun and leave your past in the past xx"
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"That's so refreshing to read. I'm not as confident with my body. I could learn a lesson from you
Your gorgeous dark Angel. Xxx
Thank you for saying that. Had a wonderful ex from years ago, who absolutely loved to tell me how ugly, fat and how much better his exes were than me lol. Slowly building myself back up. It just takes time
He sounds like a charmer who deserves a slap!
It's a sad fact that theres not enough time in a lifetime to apologise for the crass, rude, and downright cruel things so called men say to some people.
You think women are incapable of verbal abuse?
Or are you just white knighting?"
I'm just commenting on the OPs post. No more, no less. I am fully aware just how bitchy and abusive the fair sex can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmm my body confidence has increased since joining here 9 months ago but it took 2 months of me feeling the worst I ever have about my body, I decided to take a break and try and sort it out! I've since lost over a stone and do feel better but Yh for me I think fab batterd my confidence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Glad your confidence is building ANGEL, your gorgeous
Your ex was an idiot, he tried to shatter your confidence because of his own insecurities. ..
Go look in the mirror at your beautiful self and hold your head high hun and leave your past in the past xx"
Just saw this. Thank you. That is very sweet of you to say. I will definitely take your advice, lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never used to be confident n happy with my body untill I joined fab. I can honestly say fab is the best thing I ever did. Don't even give a monkeys about meets or fans. I just love the fact that I'm now happy enogh to take pics of myself warts n all n share them with you guys. Xxx"
We may be at opposite ends of a spectrum OP but our sentiment is the same.... if nothing else fab has given me the confidence to expose myself and in doing so; feel comfortable in my own skin.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I never used to be confident n happy with my body untill I joined fab. I can honestly say fab is the best thing I ever did. Don't even give a monkeys about meets or fans. I just love the fact that I'm now happy enogh to take pics of myself warts n all n share them with you guys. Xxx
We may be at opposite ends of a spectrum OP but our sentiment is the same.... if nothing else fab has given me the confidence to expose myself and in doing so; feel comfortable in my own skin.
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Good xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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this was me when i met someone who was a naturist - 20 years of hiding away in trackies and polo shirts- being told i was fat and wobbled when i walked when in fact i was only a size 14/16 at the time - some things i will never forgive the ex for - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a body confidence problem. I've been very underweight and very overweight and never shied away from getting naked. I'm quick to whip off my clothes and get my flesh next to the man's I'm seducing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Flattery does fuck all for me. I feel good when I undress and a man pulls me close to squash my boobs together,snuggle his face in them and let out a long mmmmmm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Flattery does fuck all for me. I feel good when I undress and a man pulls me close to squash my boobs together,snuggle his face in them and let out a long mmmmmm. "
This sums it up brilliantly for me. |
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