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ever fallen in love with someone you shouldnt have fallen in love with?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sometimes life fukin sucks coz you love n lose lifes little diamonds or pick up its great big grotty slime covered rocks!!!!
we all fall in love with people who are not good for us break our hearts and were once soul mates only to become our nemesis through word action or deed
is it just me or does cosmic karma come kickin your ass n telling you at times even when you felt so right so vindicated in your thoughts mabe just mabe YOU WERE WEE BIT WRONG
Love is as we all know subjective and a fleeting thing at times but surely if a person provokes a feeling of love in you then at some point they were worth your time energy and compassionate feeling
SO as I sit hear addressing my karma and feelings of love lost n friendships I miss I ask have you ever fallen in love with someone you now feel didn't deserve your love and what made you love them in the first place?
Mine has always been I saw a kinderd spirit that drew me like a moth to a flame WHATS YOURS? |
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"sometimes life fukin sucks coz you love n lose lifes little diamonds or pick up its great big grotty slime covered rocks!!!!
we all fall in love with people who are not good for us break our hearts and were once soul mates only to become our nemesis through word action or deed
is it just me or does cosmic karma come kickin your ass n telling you at times even when you felt so right so vindicated in your thoughts mabe just mabe YOU WERE WEE BIT WRONG
Love is as we all know subjective and a fleeting thing at times but surely if a person provokes a feeling of love in you then at some point they were worth your time energy and compassionate feeling
SO as I sit hear addressing my karma and feelings of love lost n friendships I miss I ask have you ever fallen in love with someone you now feel didn't deserve your love and what made you love them in the first place?
Mine has always been I saw a kinderd spirit that drew me like a moth to a flame WHATS YOURS?"
i believe karma has two sides to it, its good and its bad side, i have said what goes around comes around sooner or later some may take weeks some may take years for it to come around, as for falling in love with the wrong person yes i have done so many of times.
may i also ask you this does opposites really attract Or is there something there that attracts us but we don't know off? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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great question hun 1 Ihave askd myself this over and over n yes I think they do but the karmic magnetism eventually acts as a repellent unless there is a truly heartfelt love xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yup wasted years of my life helplessly in love with a man who wouldnt love me back.. when i found the strength to cut all ties completely 12 months later he came after me telling me he wanted me..
i knew by then i didnt want him anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.....several times, particularly in my youth. The song title always makes me smile tho....as one such person was Liz Hannett. Who turned out to be Martin Hannett's sister.....did get to see a few free Buzzcock gigs tho....as he was their manager! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i have once.
I don't believe in karma is going to punish him for the way he used me, although i do believe i got with him to learn some important things about myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sometimes life fukin sucks coz you love n lose lifes little diamonds or pick up its great big grotty slime covered rocks!!!!
we all fall in love with people who are not good for us break our hearts and were once soul mates only to become our nemesis through word action or deed
is it just me or does cosmic karma come kickin your ass n telling you at times even when you felt so right so vindicated in your thoughts mabe just mabe YOU WERE WEE BIT WRONG
Love is as we all know subjective and a fleeting thing at times but surely if a person provokes a feeling of love in you then at some point they were worth your time energy and compassionate feeling
SO as I sit hear addressing my karma and feelings of love lost n friendships I miss I ask have you ever fallen in love with someone you now feel didn't deserve your love and what made you love them in the first place?
Mine has always been I saw a kinderd spirit that drew me like a moth to a flame WHATS YOURS?"
Yep & still at it.....time will tell X
Hope you're ok smush...big hugs xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had someone fall in love with me who shouldn't have and it was really awkward. It was obvious to other people too. I had to cut all contact until he got his head in a better place.
Sarah |
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"sometimes life fukin sucks coz you love n lose lifes little diamonds or pick up its great big grotty slime covered rocks!!!!
we all fall in love with people who are not good for us break our hearts and were once soul mates only to become our nemesis through word action or deed
is it just me or does cosmic karma come kickin your ass n telling you at times even when you felt so right so vindicated in your thoughts mabe just mabe YOU WERE WEE BIT WRONG
Love is as we all know subjective and a fleeting thing at times but surely if a person provokes a feeling of love in you then at some point they were worth your time energy and compassionate feeling
SO as I sit hear addressing my karma and feelings of love lost n friendships I miss I ask have you ever fallen in love with someone you now feel didn't deserve your love and what made you love them in the first place?
Mine has always been I saw a kinderd spirit that drew me like a moth to a flame WHATS YOURS?
Yep & still at it.....time will tell X
Hope you're ok smush...big hugs xxx"
Well when they are all ready married, like most men they can have their cake and eat it, why would they leave the ones they love and their son/children and family.......you just make it so easy for them to have it all.........but remember your not the only ones they see either........but thats the downside of meeting married men... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck it I'm off any-hoo.
Julie, she's still on here so i hope she reada this, about ten years ago.
Told me she loved me, I dropped my guard, fell for her massively.
She then fucked off back to her old FB. Told a pack of lies to him, saying I was controlling etc.
I'd just come out of a messy divorce, the wife an I where swinging and she fooked off with some-one else.
Both of these upheavals where enough to push me into a full nervous breakdown.
So Julie after all this time I'd like to say "thanks" for what you did, not to mention thw worry you caused my family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fall in love all the friggin time! And have done all my life.
With everyone I shouldnt!
Im far too free and easy. I give my love away to all and sundry.
But my hubby has only ever been in love once. With me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sometimes life fukin sucks coz you love n lose lifes little diamonds or pick up its great big grotty slime covered rocks!!!!
we all fall in love with people who are not good for us break our hearts and were once soul mates only to become our nemesis through word action or deed
is it just me or does cosmic karma come kickin your ass n telling you at times even when you felt so right so vindicated in your thoughts mabe just mabe YOU WERE WEE BIT WRONG
Love is as we all know subjective and a fleeting thing at times but surely if a person provokes a feeling of love in you then at some point they were worth your time energy and compassionate feeling
SO as I sit hear addressing my karma and feelings of love lost n friendships I miss I ask have you ever fallen in love with someone you now feel didn't deserve your love and what made you love them in the first place?
Mine has always been I saw a kinderd spirit that drew me like a moth to a flame WHATS YOURS?
Yep & still at it.....time will tell X
Hope you're ok smush...big hugs xxx
Well when they are all ready married, like most men they can have their cake and eat it, why would they leave the ones they love and their son/children and family.......you just make it so easy for them to have it all.........but remember your not the only ones they see either........but thats the downside of meeting married men..."
And your point is?
Who said anything about not meeting other - it's a swinging site - all for one & one for all!
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Yes I have and I still do.
We haven't been together for about 5 years now. We still meet up and mostly not for sex. I will always love him and I will never let that go because I'm not the sort of person that can truly love more than 1. I honestly don't want to fall in love again so as long as I hold on to the love we share then I never will again. What we have is toxic and we just don't work as a couple. I have introduced him to this crazy world and I love sharing our hook up stories |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Oh yes and more than once. I love everyone I have ever fallen in love with, but I don't like many of them now.
Life isn't worth much if you shut yourself off from feeling for fear of getting hurt or making a mistake.
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"Oh yes and more than once. I love everyone I have ever fallen in love with, but I don't like many of them now.
Life isn't worth much if you shut yourself off from feeling for fear of getting hurt or making a mistake.
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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Yes.
Hopelessly in love with someone who is an amazing person and the greatest friend anyone could ever have.
Will never happen though (she knows) and I've cried buckets over it.
I fought so hard not to fall into it, but I couldn't help it. I've not gone more than 30 mins without thinking of her for the last year or so.
I didn't think it was possible to feel this strongly for someone - the intesity has floored me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yes and more than once. I love everyone I have ever fallen in love with, but I don't like many of them now.
Life isn't worth much if you shut yourself off from feeling for fear of getting hurt or making a mistake.
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I like that .... Being in love is wonderful ....many says falling in love causes pain....I disagree, it's when it ends & the loneliness, the missing them, the end of a wonderful period in your life....that's what hurts ....not love - love is amazing & makes one very happy even if it is just short lived X |
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"great question hun 1 Ihave askd myself this over and over n yes I think they do but the karmic magnetism eventually acts as a repellent unless there is a truly heartfelt love xx"
i mean i had relationships with goths myself and im totally opposite but weirdly i have feelings for em, in not into some of their fetishs but still love em, does that sound strange? If it doesn't can someone explain? |
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"Fuck it I'm off any-hoo.
Julie, she's still on here so i hope she reada this, about ten years ago.
Told me she loved me, I dropped my guard, fell for her massively.
She then fucked off back to her old FB. Told a pack of lies to him, saying I was controlling etc.
I'd just come out of a messy divorce, the wife an I where swinging and she fooked off with some-one else.
Both of these upheavals where enough to push me into a full nervous breakdown.
So Julie after all this time I'd like to say "thanks" for what you did, not to mention thw worry you caused my family. "
mate i feel sorry for you i know how you feel ten years ago i got dumped by an ex of mine who i loved dearly the reason being she cheated on me and was pregnant with someone else child no wonder she would only see me once a week, she also got her friends to lie for her in saying she has commitment issues which is a bunch of bs because a fee years ago she came back into my life begging to have me back because what she did to me happened to her the only diff was he left her just after given birth, now she came back into my life when he was 6 years old now i assume he is ten, i was still hurting from what she did and still am but i tried to forget but everytime we had an argument she forced me to keep bringing the past up and now she is out of my life again and in still hurting from it, i guess that karma 4 u, in not totally innocent in all this tho i was obsessive about her and kept saying them three words and i am still learning not to say them or be like that and sometimes i do find it difficult because of being so happy. |
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"A few times, the last one left me feeling a little dented, I try to hold myself back now just so I don't get dented again  "
you should not let anyone hold you back from the happyness you deserve he is obviously not worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a difficult one isn't it ! it can cause so much pain and heartache and also so much pleasure and happiness , and for some you can't experience one without the other . I have had the pain and have been single for 14years but I will hold out for love again because it is so worth it X  |
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"Fuck it I'm off any-hoo.
Julie, she's still on here so i hope she reada this, about ten years ago.
Told me she loved me, I dropped my guard, fell for her massively.
She then fucked off back to her old FB. Told a pack of lies to him, saying I was controlling etc.
I'd just come out of a messy divorce, the wife an I where swinging and she fooked off with some-one else.
Both of these upheavals where enough to push me into a full nervous breakdown.
So Julie after all this time I'd like to say "thanks" for what you did, not to mention thw worry you caused my family.
mate i feel sorry for you i know how you feel ten years ago i got dumped by an ex of mine who i loved dearly the reason being she cheated on me and was pregnant with someone else child no wonder she would only see me once a week, she also got her friends to lie for her in saying she has commitment issues which is a bunch of bs because a fee years ago she came back into my life begging to have me back because what she did to me happened to her the only diff was he left her just after given birth, now she came back into my life when he was 6 years old now i assume he is ten, i was still hurting from what she did and still am but i tried to forget but everytime we had an argument she forced me to keep bringing the past up and now she is out of my life again and in still hurting from it, i guess that karma 4 u, in not totally innocent in all this tho i was obsessive about her and kept saying them three words and i am still learning not to say them or be like that and sometimes i do find it difficult because of being so happy."
Chin up kidder. Something similar has happened to me too. You owe it to yourself to have a go at falling in love again though(if that's what you want). Don't let the bastards grind you down! |
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"Fuck it I'm off any-hoo.
Julie, she's still on here so i hope she reada this, about ten years ago.
Told me she loved me, I dropped my guard, fell for her massively.
She then fucked off back to her old FB. Told a pack of lies to him, saying I was controlling etc.
I'd just come out of a messy divorce, the wife an I where swinging and she fooked off with some-one else.
Both of these upheavals where enough to push me into a full nervous breakdown.
So Julie after all this time I'd like to say "thanks" for what you did, not to mention thw worry you caused my family.
mate i feel sorry for you i know how you feel ten years ago i got dumped by an ex of mine who i loved dearly the reason being she cheated on me and was pregnant with someone else child no wonder she would only see me once a week, she also got her friends to lie for her in saying she has commitment issues which is a bunch of bs because a fee years ago she came back into my life begging to have me back because what she did to me happened to her the only diff was he left her just after given birth, now she came back into my life when he was 6 years old now i assume he is ten, i was still hurting from what she did and still am but i tried to forget but everytime we had an argument she forced me to keep bringing the past up and now she is out of my life again and in still hurting from it, i guess that karma 4 u, in not totally innocent in all this tho i was obsessive about her and kept saying them three words and i am still learning not to say them or be like that and sometimes i do find it difficult because of being so happy.
Chin up kidder. Something similar has happened to me too. You owe it to yourself to have a go at falling in love again though(if that's what you want). Don't let the bastards grind you down!"
cheers bud but i attract all the wrong women, women who lie cheat and who are just totally wrong for me and i also regret letting the one person who was right for me go i still talk to her and have massive feelings for and she has for me but she is in a possessive relationship which does not sit well with me but i love her and respect her so much that im doing what she has asked and i get their history and but he is a possessive asshole to her at times. |
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"Fuck it I'm off any-hoo.
Julie, she's still on here so i hope she reada this, about ten years ago.
Told me she loved me, I dropped my guard, fell for her massively.
She then fucked off back to her old FB. Told a pack of lies to him, saying I was controlling etc.
I'd just come out of a messy divorce, the wife an I where swinging and she fooked off with some-one else.
Both of these upheavals where enough to push me into a full nervous breakdown.
So Julie after all this time I'd like to say "thanks" for what you did, not to mention thw worry you caused my family.
mate i feel sorry for you i know how you feel ten years ago i got dumped by an ex of mine who i loved dearly the reason being she cheated on me and was pregnant with someone else child no wonder she would only see me once a week, she also got her friends to lie for her in saying she has commitment issues which is a bunch of bs because a fee years ago she came back into my life begging to have me back because what she did to me happened to her the only diff was he left her just after given birth, now she came back into my life when he was 6 years old now i assume he is ten, i was still hurting from what she did and still am but i tried to forget but everytime we had an argument she forced me to keep bringing the past up and now she is out of my life again and in still hurting from it, i guess that karma 4 u, in not totally innocent in all this tho i was obsessive about her and kept saying them three words and i am still learning not to say them or be like that and sometimes i do find it difficult because of being so happy.
Chin up kidder. Something similar has happened to me too. You owe it to yourself to have a go at falling in love again though(if that's what you want). Don't let the bastards grind you down!
cheers bud but i attract all the wrong women, women who lie cheat and who are just totally wrong for me and i also regret letting the one person who was right for me go i still talk to her and have massive feelings for and she has for me but she is in a possessive relationship which does not sit well with me but i love her and respect her so much that im doing what she has asked and i get their history and but he is a possessive asshole to her at times."
in sorry i am just so angry and upset with myself at letting a true gem like her go. |
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"Horrible to really want someone u cant have
Or be involved with one that (somebody here perfectly described it) is toxic..  "
totally fucks you up they were sneaky with it. idk who to trust any more, trying to trust myself but it's hard when someone tricks you so easily.
i wish toxic people would all fuck off already. |
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"Horrible to really want someone u cant have
Or be involved with one that (somebody here perfectly described it) is toxic..
totally fucks you up they were sneaky with it. idk who to trust any more, trying to trust myself but it's hard when someone tricks you so easily.
i wish toxic people would all fuck off already."
*offers big hug* there there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I have even thou I know it will end in tears ,could have had another guy who is really lovey but you cannot help who you fall in love with ,and they love is blind |
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"Horrible to really want someone u cant have
Or be involved with one that (somebody here perfectly described it) is toxic..
totally fucks you up they were sneaky with it. idk who to trust any more, trying to trust myself but it's hard when someone tricks you so easily.
i wish toxic people would all fuck off already.
*offers big hug* there there "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Horrible to really want someone u cant have
Or be involved with one that (somebody here perfectly described it) is toxic..
totally fucks you up they were sneaky with it. idk who to trust any more, trying to trust myself but it's hard when someone tricks you so easily.
i wish toxic people would all fuck off already.
*offers big hug* there there
thanks. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, he was married and believing in karma, it was appropriate that he cheated on me!! We live and learn and one reason why I don't meet attached on here!! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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yes, but i dont regret anything..they taught me how to love unconditionally, because i couldnt make it stop...then i realized it all comes from within and has nothing to do with another at all..great life lesson for me. it makes me more alive than ever x |
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