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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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and vice versa...
a less attractive man (in conventional terms) who can hold an interesting conversation and make me laugh is far more appealing to me than a gorgeous looking airhead.
Not saying that there aren't men who have both  |
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"and vice versa...
a less attractive man (in conventional terms) who can hold an interesting conversation and make me laugh is far more appealing to me than a gorgeous looking airhead.
Not saying that there aren't men who have both "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context? For sex no for a relationship yes."
This is what I was thinking. Although even for a relationship I'd want physical attraction. Someone whose personality I like but who I don't find attractive physically is more likely to be my friend than someone I have sex with. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I need a woman with a brain. Looks yes you need an attraction but how many times have we all seen a stunner male or female and oh yesss then they open there mouth and think fuck nooooooo  "
I like you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the old fat bird dichotomy. Everyone knows fat birds go harder and will be more appreciativ as they don't know when they'll get it next. But by that logic they're the ones having most sex as they're also the most attractive.
Yea I am stirring it. And yes I am Jay from the inbetweeners.
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"s an ugly man/woman who can make you laugh more attractive than a pretty man or woman who barely cracks a smile?"
The hard bit is getting a meet in the first place so you can make someone laugh and show them you are a nice person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ha ha no im sayin humour would get me over looks but has to be some attraction
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Ideally a combination of both really, we joined the scene around ten years ago to have fun, be social with like minded people and fulfill several fantasies. If there is no physical attraction we don't play, if there is no social attraction we don't play. This does not mean we only want super models oozing charisma as thats not us but we do want reasonably hood looking people who take care of themselves and are happy to chat and have a laugh.
That was a little long winded (lots of gin), but hope it makes sense. Have fun out there xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ha ha no im sayin humour would get me over looks but has to be some attraction
if you want to reply to a comment click on reply and quote under that comment"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ha ha no im sayin humour would get me over looks but has to be some attraction
if you want to reply to a comment click on reply and quote under that comment
thankyou "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't be interested in anyone who had the personality of a plank no matter how pretty they were  "
Even if he had the body of a Greek god and hung like a horse? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"s an ugly man/woman who can make you laugh more attractive than a pretty man or woman who barely cracks a smile?
Are they the only options?
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sorry the rules ha |
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"I wouldn't be interested in anyone who had the personality of a plank no matter how pretty they were
Even if he had the body of a Greek god and hung like a horse? "
I'm not interested in gym bodies or big cocks thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't be interested in anyone who had the personality of a plank no matter how pretty they were
Even if he had the body of a Greek god and hung like a horse?
I'm not interested in gym bodies or big cocks thanks "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me "
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha"
well if he's broke he cant afford a car |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car "
we are talking a duccatti here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"s an ugly man/woman who can make you laugh more attractive than a pretty man or woman who barely cracks a smile?"
yea but thankfully there are plenty good lookers that are funny also   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?"
no a pushbike |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike "
you serious ha dont know how to take you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
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its just banter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter "
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha "
you said ducatti lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol "
ha ha your seem nice i like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you "
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike? "
i dont drive ha i aint got a duccatti probably kill myself on one sighs of disapointment think thers a couple of push bikes in the garage though ha one each you up for it il brush up on some jokes hahah |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike? "
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati . "
noone likes a smart arse just a pointer mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what "
well yeah, that's why we want pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics."
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics.
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here"
true. it can be hard to decide who you wanna meet from online interaction tbh. i started chatting to a guy earlier, his first reply was alright, nothing much to go off but i replied anyway, then his next reply same again. i did think maybe he's better at chatting irl or something but couldn't be bothe_ed to carry on chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics.
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here
true. it can be hard to decide who you wanna meet from online interaction tbh. i started chatting to a guy earlier, his first reply was alright, nothing much to go off but i replied anyway, then his next reply same again. i did think maybe he's better at chatting irl or something but couldn't be bothe_ed to carry on chatting."
the reality is it could be anybody writing text totaly different than what they portray you got to look for honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics.
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here
true. it can be hard to decide who you wanna meet from online interaction tbh. i started chatting to a guy earlier, his first reply was alright, nothing much to go off but i replied anyway, then his next reply same again. i did think maybe he's better at chatting irl or something but couldn't be bothe_ed to carry on chatting.
the reality is it could be anybody writing text totaly different than what they portray you got to look for honesty"
as a cynical bitch i don't even expect honesty any more. is a nice surprise when i find someone genuine though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics.
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here
true. it can be hard to decide who you wanna meet from online interaction tbh. i started chatting to a guy earlier, his first reply was alright, nothing much to go off but i replied anyway, then his next reply same again. i did think maybe he's better at chatting irl or something but couldn't be bothe_ed to carry on chatting.
the reality is it could be anybody writing text totaly different than what they portray you got to look for honesty
as a cynical bitch i don't even expect honesty any more. is a nice surprise when i find someone genuine though."
few and far between on here then? i dont get many responses to be honest no matter how i go about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
i dont drive ha i aint got a duccatti probably kill myself on one sighs of disapointment think thers a couple of push bikes in the garage though ha one each you up for it il brush up on some jokes hahah"
Jeez I've not been on a pushbike for years.. I'd probably fall off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati . "
You do that... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati .
You do that... "
nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lot of people sayin it's all about personality. But the fact of the matter is most people won't even mail back to get to know that person if they don't like the look of them. Looks all ways comes in to play.no matter what
well yeah, that's why we want pics.
yeah i go with that but you cant tell apersons personality on here
true. it can be hard to decide who you wanna meet from online interaction tbh. i started chatting to a guy earlier, his first reply was alright, nothing much to go off but i replied anyway, then his next reply same again. i did think maybe he's better at chatting irl or something but couldn't be bothe_ed to carry on chatting.
the reality is it could be anybody writing text totaly different than what they portray you got to look for honesty
as a cynical bitch i don't even expect honesty any more. is a nice surprise when i find someone genuine though.
few and far between on here then? i dont get many responses to be honest no matter how i go about it "
dunno really if it's everyone but it seems to be but could be down to my bad choices also. i've found out quite a few guys i've been meeting regular have partners that they're cheating on, one even said he wanted a relationship with me (i class that as a lucky escape)...
i went through a stage of meeting guys who said they were 8 inches (am a size queen) and they were not.
fair amount lie about their age i reckon too, which is why i took my age filters off now, don't see the point in having them if people can get round them anyway and i judge who i fancy off pics rather than age anyway.
like i said though, i'm cynical. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
i dont drive ha i aint got a duccatti probably kill myself on one sighs of disapointment think thers a couple of push bikes in the garage though ha one each you up for it il brush up on some jokes hahah
Jeez I've not been on a pushbike for years.. I'd probably fall off lol "
me niether ha an dont think id let you fall ha be nice to have a chat but you blocked us unsupporters ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati .
You do that...
nice "
It's nice to be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
i dont drive ha i aint got a duccatti probably kill myself on one sighs of disapointment think thers a couple of push bikes in the garage though ha one each you up for it il brush up on some jokes hahah
Jeez I've not been on a pushbike for years.. I'd probably fall off lol
me niether ha an dont think id let you fall ha be nice to have a chat but you blocked us unsupporters ha"
I'll message you then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so what is more attractive a broke funny guy or a rich bore? just mixin it up a bit
a broke funny guy who can ride a bike will do for me
noone said anything about a bike ha watch wat you start ha
well if he's broke he cant afford a car we are talking a duccatti here?
no a pushbike
you serious ha dont know how to take you
its just banter
yeah i get yer but you did mean duccatti ha
you said ducatti lol
ha ha your seem nice i like you
lol thanks....so do you have a ducatti or a pushbike?
One day I might get ducatti,. Until they make one I'll stick to my Ducati .
You do that...
nice
It's nice to be nice "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"s an ugly man/woman who can make you laugh more attractive than a pretty man or woman who barely cracks a smile?"
Can I have the ugly one in the wardrobe cracking jokes while I fuck the good looking one?
Seriously though there is a lot more to it than looks. |
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People rarely have just one thing that I value but out of 2 identical twins, one with an uptight vibe and the other who's a great laugh, I'd probably get on better with the latter.
We're all more than just offering one thing though. Accept everyone for who they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"s an ugly man/woman who can make you laugh more attractive than a pretty man or woman who barely cracks a smile?"
I'm not going to lie but physical attraction is more important to me . I need to have that before moving onto the next stage.
I wouldn't bed anyone I didn't find attractive no matter how much they make me laugh.
Just saying it as it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People rarely have just one thing that I value but out of 2 identical twins, one with an uptight vibe and the other who's a great laugh, I'd probably get on better with the latter.
We're all more than just offering one thing though. Accept everyone for who they are."
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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I know plenty of people who have a brilliant personality,great fun,I don't fancy them,I wouldn't shag them.
I know plenty of people who aren't so great personality wise,
but look fantastic,i would shag them.
When it comes to shagging,looks win everytime.
If they have both,happy days.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me what makes a woman a lot more attractive is passion towards something. I don't care what it is, it can even be solving Rubik's cube but passion, not just hobby is very attractive in my eyes as well as very ambitious people. |
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