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over a year ago
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Been clearing out a relations house.. Went through the trouble of getting the fish for a neighbour who put the fish in their pond. What annoyed me is i said there was a pond snail in with the fish and she took it out and killed it. Not sure if it,s because i feel insulted the ignorant cow needlessly killed something.. Instead me just putting it in the pond Or being disrespectful of my relation's belongings.. Perhaps both! It is am emotional time for me. People seem extra shite to me.. Anyone else think the same? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I probably wouldn't get upset over a snail. "
her attitude got to me.. I am having a time trying to sort out someone:p house.. Belongings.. Affairs.. Etc
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I've got feckin hundreds of snails in my tank.....pain in the ass!
Sneaked in on some plants I bought a few months ago....you are welcome to them. I have to clear loads out on a weekly bases....don't kill them tho...throw em in the local brook! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would definitely have been upset she killed it. Why do that??
Sorry for your loss too."
thanks.. Lost a lot of family and friends over the years .. Not getting any easier! |
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"I probably wouldn't get upset over a snail. her attitude got to me.. I am having a time trying to sort out someone:p house.. Belongings.. Affairs.. Etc"
Ah, perhaps you overreacted in that case. Try to tell yourself what the situation is and reconsider how you're reacting to it. It's difficult, but don't let your emotions dictate how you interact with or how you perceive others. |
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"I've got feckin hundreds of snails in my tank.....pain in the ass!
Sneaked in on some plants I bought a few months ago....you are welcome to them. I have to clear loads out on a weekly bases....don't kill them tho...throw em in the local brook!"
If they are not native species that could be a very bad idea.  |
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"Well ive had a night's sleep and still pissed off. Am i too soppy? "
At a guess you are transferring emotions, it's may be grief looking for a focal point. It's quite normal and a healthy reaction to confused emotions they need something to focus on.
if I am right, then hang in there give your pillow a good thrashing and you will feel better from symptoms you may not even be aware were hurting you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well ive had a night's sleep and still pissed off. Am i too soppy?
At a guess you are transferring emotions, it's may be grief looking for a focal point. It's quite normal and a healthy reaction to confused emotions they need something to focus on.
if I am right, then hang in there give your pillow a good thrashing and you will feel better from symptoms you may not even be aware were hurting you."
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"Been clearing out a relations house.. Went through the trouble of getting the fish for a neighbour who put the fish in their pond. What annoyed me is i said there was a pond snail in with the fish and she took it out and killed it. Not sure if it,s because i feel insulted the ignorant cow needlessly killed something.. Instead me just putting it in the pond Or being disrespectful of my relation's belongings.. Perhaps both! It is am emotional time for me. People seem extra shite to me.. Anyone else think the same? "
I wouldn't lose sleep over a snail. |
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And snails are not necessarily good for ponds, much of it is a myth;
They are not particularly good at eating algaes; but they do eat pond plants, and an infestation could strip a pond of plants
They can carry parasites which transfer to fish.
Most serious pond owners are very careful which snails they introduce. It's not surprising she killed the snail.
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"Well ive had a night's sleep and still pissed off. Am i too soppy?
Have a wank...good for stress  "
Try and have a little compassion there's a good man and I'm not talking towards the snail. Heaven help you if you require it one day we'll all just tell you to go and have a wank! |
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"Well ive had a night's sleep and still pissed off. Am i too soppy?
Have a wank...good for stress
Try and have a little compassion there's a good man and I'm not talking towards the snail. Heaven help you if you require it one day we'll all just tell you to go and have a wank!"
 are you being serious  |
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