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Question is size a result of media conditioning of which most of us get trapped in.
Whether guys being hardwired to being turned on by thinner bimbo thin faced female roles in movies, and magazines and models.Equally this can be said of male roles to.
Is it not feesable that through porn women equally have a biased missconception of of what guy has between his legs and performance exspectations. Thus gets conditioned in mind that equates that bigger and faster is better.
For guys ( like me) who are not blessed, watch the opening scene to film Bridesmaids , in a humerous way encapusulates this angle... ( clever) |
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I'm not hardwired to be turned on by pencil faced stick insects and my penile insecurities got left back in 1987, i may not be the largest sausage on the griddle....but if i put it up someone's arse, they'll know about it  |
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media."
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts |
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From the point of view of physique, look at ancient art and it's clear we have always known what a great body looks like.
Some have them, most don't.
I think the worst example of setting unrealistic expectations is the women's beauty industry where if women are not utterly flawless then they are just not trying hard enough.
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media.
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts"
 
The world is full of lemmings. |
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"Question is size a result of media conditioning of which most of us get trapped in.
Whether guys being hardwired to being turned on by thinner bimbo thin faced female roles in movies, and magazines and models.Equally this can be said of male roles to.
Is it not feesable that through porn women equally have a biased missconception of of what guy has between his legs and performance exspectations. Thus gets conditioned in mind that equates that bigger and faster is better.
For guys ( like me) who are not blessed, watch the opening scene to film Bridesmaids , in a humerous way encapusulates this angle... ( clever)"
The stigma to being anything but "Perfect" and "normal" is propagated by newspapers, magazines,tv and films everyday. My ex wife was overweight but gained her confidence through swinging and making genuine friends. |
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Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like. |
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"Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like."
Well said that woman |
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"Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like."
See I wouldn't have said that,I know men prefer curvy |
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media.
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts"
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"Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like."
Its not just looks i,m trying to highlight but also over inflated quantity, performance expectations.... |
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media.
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts
The world is full of lemmings. "
Nice. So your cool and confident but anyone who isn't is just a lemming.
I'm big enough, ugly enough and old enough to not give a toss what most people think.
My OH on the other hand, for reasons to many and varied to go into here, feels the weight of pressure to conform with expectations on a daily basis.
It does not make her a dumb animal blundering toward oblivion.  |
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"Is it not feesable that through porn women equally have a biased missconception of of what guy has between his legs and performance exspectations. Thus gets conditioned in mind that equates that bigger and faster is better."
Out of curiosity, what's your opinion? Are you insinuating that bigger cocks are implied to be better simply because the public has been conditioned to believe so by the media - and if so WHY, when the same could have been done for smaller penises (just make people believe that large penises are clumsy and painful and thusly inferior to smaller ones), or is the sexual glamour behind having a big penis derived from nature - ie, most people naturally favour a bigger cock? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
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"Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like.Its not just looks i,m trying to highlight but also over inflated quantity, performance expectations.... "
I'll admit I prefer to look at pics of big cocks as opposed to little ones, but that's aesthetic appeal. It doesn't mean I want to fuck them. |
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I'm yet to talk to a bloke that finds pencil thin women attractive. The fashion industry doesn't connect to the average man's thinking in my opinion. It's all about curves for me, and a great smile. Speaking to mates they all say the same. |
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"I'm yet to talk to a bloke that finds pencil thin women attractive. The fashion industry doesn't connect to the average man's thinking in my opinion. It's all about curves for me, and a great smile. Speaking to mates they all say the same."
yea so why are these thin women so popular? |
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If this is a question about cock size, there was no need to throw body shaming into the mix really. Surely it's personal choice and it's fine. I would agree that some people are very influenced by unrealistic media expectations, but fortunately others actually think about realities. |
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media.
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts
The world is full of lemmings. "
That's not true. everyone knows The World is just a Great Big Onion. |
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"Its interesting that women and men have differing ideas of what they think each other wants. research has shown that, when asked, women prefer toned men, not overly muscly, whereas men think women prefer huge muscles. When asked, men prefer women who are curvy, but women think men prefer women who are stick thin.
If the media affects our ideas of what we look like, its our fault for making them think we know what we want each other to look like. In the meantime, until we can make up our minds, I'll stick with what I look like.Its not just looks i,m trying to highlight but also over inflated quantity, performance expectations....
I'll admit I prefer to look at pics of big cocks as opposed to little ones, but that's aesthetic appeal. It doesn't mean I want to fuck them."
To be honest I don't look much at pictures of cocks at all - or ask for cock pics as a prelude to a meet! A man is a whole package for me - the cock being a small (but admittedly fairly vital) part of the whole!!
I'd imagine guys see it in the same way - looking at body, face, bits (if its important) and personality and then judging as a whole whether we're interested!
I don't think society or the media tells us what body type we're attracted to - our brain does! |
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"I think most people are blessed with a brain and make their own decisions in life thankfully and are wise enough not to be swayed by the media.
Sadly I don't think that's true at all. Wish it was but I have severe doubts
The world is full of lemmings.
Nice. So your cool and confident but anyone who isn't is just a lemming.
I'm big enough, ugly enough and old enough to not give a toss what most people think.
My OH on the other hand, for reasons to many and varied to go into here, feels the weight of pressure to conform with expectations on a daily basis.
It does not make her a dumb animal blundering toward oblivion. "
What on earth makes you think I'm confident? I have no pics!
Ok I apologise, bad choice of term.
It's up to the individual what they feel and how they react to anything external. It's all superficial bollocks. If people subscribe to that it's their problem. No-one forces them to. |
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The media has a huge influence upon what we regard as socially acceptable and ideal and it now reaches global levels of influence very quickly. In earlier generations some trends passed between European countries, the USA etc, but more slowly and to a limited extent.
It helps to reduce or to stop your comparison with others, as this is the driver for much insecurity. |
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"I'm yet to talk to a bloke that finds pencil thin women attractive. The fashion industry doesn't connect to the average man's thinking in my opinion. It's all about curves for me, and a great smile. Speaking to mates they all say the same.
yea so why are these thin women so popular?"
Don't confuse healthily thin with model thin, models to me do not look healthy or attractive. |
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"I'm yet to talk to a bloke that finds pencil thin women attractive. The fashion industry doesn't connect to the average man's thinking in my opinion. It's all about curves for me, and a great smile. Speaking to mates they all say the same.
yea so why are these thin women so popular?
Don't confuse healthily thin with model thin, models to me do not look healthy or attractive. "
I could make a list of models you and most men would die to be with.
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"I'm yet to talk to a bloke that finds pencil thin women attractive. The fashion industry doesn't connect to the average man's thinking in my opinion. It's all about curves for me, and a great smile. Speaking to mates they all say the same.
yea so why are these thin women so popular?
Don't confuse healthily thin with model thin, models to me do not look healthy or attractive.
I could make a list of models you and most men would die to be with.
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Size 6 catwalk models then no thanks, interesting conversation though. I've spent a fair bit of time in South America and women there hit the gym to get curves rather than get thin. The weight rooms are full of women squatting etc, which is totally different to the gyms I've been to in the UK. You could argue it's the same media influence over there but just in a different way, more my personal like though, can't beat a good pair of hips  |
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