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how hard it is to find one regular fb!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got one thanks......had a few in the past too. I reckon I'm nothing special so on that basis it must be quite easy? One previously even introduced me to the then lady mayor of Droitwich as..."this is Chris, he's my fuck buddy!" So it was official lol! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm not keen on the term fuck buddy, if we're putting it out there though..
I'd like to find a lady to see on a regular basis for fun laughs and frolics... Not sure what you'd call itst a bit more than a.... friend with benefits..  |
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Many in here don't want any FB/FWB: they want one offs with absolutely no further involvement; so that's over half the " candidates" out of the picture.
And true FWB/FB se difficult to find; whatever you think, depending what you mean by "NSA" also; it will be a " relationship, so to find someone who has exactly the same _iew, and has an " availability" that suits you both, and interests ( sexual and non sexual) that are compatible is not easy.
Plus, you have to have some sort of " spark" and attraction between you. But be stable enough that you don't get over involved, and be sane enough to not have jealousy raise its head when they are off with others.
Some of us on here are lucky enough to have this; but it takes time to find them - and of my FWBs, only one came from here , I met the others elsewhere ( in " real life")
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"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.
Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway "
Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ?? |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.
Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway
Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??"
Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me!  |
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"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.
Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway
Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??
Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me! "
I have jump leads and durable batteries fitted ohh and solar panel as back up lol |
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I've had regular fbs, going to almost 10 years with one - many of us do it.
But op, many will search profiles looking for someone that they think matches their needs: they will be 99.99999999999999% certain to never message you, due to no pics - as others state. |
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!   "
What is it that YOU have got as the 'only' chocolate in the box to stop any 'sensible' woman for opting for Pick n Mix....... ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "
Same here buddy.. im really starting to lose hope. I lost my reg fwb of 5yrs, about a year ago. Cant get another one at all.  |
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"I'm not keen on the term fuck buddy, if we're putting it out there though..
I'd like to find a lady to see on a regular basis for fun laughs and frolics... Not sure what you'd call itst a bit more than a.... friend with benefits.. "
I'm in total agreeance with you. The simple fact that women and men like each others company and need sex occassionally and don't want committment is no need to label it with the vulgar terms that sites like this offer....
I don't think i'd ever call myself someone's fuck buddy. Even when I am  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.
Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway
Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??
Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me!
I have jump leads and durable batteries fitted ohh and solar panel as back up lol"
But no public pics other than a tiny avatar!
(you spotted a theme yet!?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a young man from Bangor
Who wanted to a fuck bud to bang her
He sent thousands of messages a day
In the hope of a lay
More often than the sun shines in Stavanger |
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In Bangor a Middle Aged man
Looked as hard as any man can
For a woman for sex
But it made him perplexed
As they weren't hurtling at him like runaway trains.
Who said it had to scan ?
Im in a bloody vanguard of one !
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Problem for me has always been that the males involved try to take over and expect too much ... too regular. I don't think finding someone is a problem, but finding someone who knows the limits of the 'relationship' is much harder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In Bangor a Middle Aged man
Looked as hard as any man can
For a woman for sex
But it made him perplexed
As they weren't hurtling at him like runaway trains.
Who said it had to scan ?
Im in a bloody vanguard of one ! 
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"Problem for me has always been that the males involved try to take over and expect too much ... too regular. I don't think finding someone is a problem, but finding someone who knows the limits of the 'relationship' is much harder."
That's the big sticking point; often one half of the pair (usually the man) ends up wanting more; and also ( usually the man again) gets possessive, wants an exclusive arrangement.
That's why it is not easy to find the "perfect" "FWB", as you both need to have exactly the same expectations of each other.
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "
Your right it is hard but we have to remember that us mere men are only guests in this womens playground |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "
well you have had 2 meets...were they not sensible enough for you?
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!
well you have had 2 meets...were they not sensible enough for you?
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great sexy prof its a pity your age preference is outside mine to message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one
Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol "
and counting lol |
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!
well you have had 2
meets...were they not sensible enough for you?
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The two meets not quite truthfully with their past on here! The term quality and quantity is confusing for some lol ?? |
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"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one
Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol and counting lol"
Hey Leanne you wearing em out too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one
Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol and counting lol
Hey Leanne you wearing em out too "
lol no ive just got the one and very happy with him too. no complaints here |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "
I've been looking for over 7 years! Gave up long ago! |
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!
I've been looking for over 7 years! Gave up long ago! "
Well 7 years of loss for scottsmen! Move to Wales lol |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Jesus I've all but given up!
Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "
Honest answer - very difficult. I've been fortunate im finding a FWB on here when i was south and finding one off here when i moved north again. Tricky and not easy but best of luck |
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