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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Open for advice, profile text/pics seem to push people away on here (had more luck at pubs/clubs in the flesh)
Any thoughts on my profile? Will prepare myself for a barrage of criticism lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's not anything wrong with it. It just doesn't stand out. Perhaps injecting a little more humour into your profile text, and adding a couple of more pictures. Hopefully then you'll draw more interest for potential meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments. "
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled  anyway moan over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "
Maybe they recognise you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Maybe they recognise you "
If that was the case they should have said hello. I only bite occasionally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Maybe they recognise you
If that was the case they should have said hello. I only bite occasionally "
Haha that depends on how they knew you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?"
So are you! |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?"
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I think your profile reads well. Your photos are nice perhaps a few more public wouldn't hurt.
You've Benn specific about your preference for BBW which will deter other body types from contacting you.
Have fun.
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"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?
People aren't a body type, they're people."
Of course their people,but I agree,if I see that on someone's profile I know they're probably not going to like my body shape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that "
Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).
And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I think your profile reads well. Your photos are nice perhaps a few more public wouldn't hurt.
You've Benn specific about your preference for BBW which will deter other body types from contacting you.
Have fun.
Knitter "
I thought the same actually. By stating a preference for bigger ladies, you might deter other body sizes a little x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?
People aren't a body type, they're people."
My apologies it wasn't intended to offend and of course everyone is an individual and I'm not suggesting defined by their body type.
It would deter me from contacting theOP |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that
Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).
And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "
I'd prefer a blow job  |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "
We block anyone within a certain radius, we will never be meeting them so we save them and ourselves the trouble |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that
Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).
And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "
. I think there are crossed wires here, crazy hot wife was talking about soulhound who is married, and vine was thought she was talking about naughty biker , who may be married but he doesn't say so, sorry for butting in, but that's the way I read the posts, hope this helps Mrs blue eyes  |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
So are you! "
So are you Married Vine!!!, you just choose to not put it on your profile....you just meet in hotels when you are away from home, behind your wifes back! |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that
Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).
And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "
Oh right I can't see any mention of that anywhere. Sorry non of my business just makes me extra vigilant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?
People aren't a body type, they're people.
Of course their people,but I agree,if I see that on someone's profile I know they're probably not going to like my body shape."
I agree... I know if someone said they loved the slim/ athletic frame, I would never consider messaging that person. |
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"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.
Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over
Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?
Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that
Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).
And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. . I think there are crossed wires here, crazy hot wife was talking about soulhound who is married, and vine was thought she was talking about naughty biker , who may be married but he doesn't say so, sorry for butting in, but that's the way I read the posts, hope this helps Mrs blue eyes "
Yep I'm confused  |
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The only "negative" for me is the "pleasing beautiful women" bit. If a woman lacks confidence this will put them off.
As you can't please everyone, it won't put the confident off.
Like the rest of us: win some, lose some. |
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"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?
People aren't a body type, they're people.
My apologies it wasn't intended to offend and of course everyone is an individual and I'm not suggesting defined by their body type.
It would deter me from contacting theOP"
I know what you meant and thought that too, along with his "beautiful women" comment. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Open for advice, profile text/pics seem to push people away on here (had more luck at pubs/clubs in the flesh)
Any thoughts on my profile? Will prepare myself for a barrage of criticism lol
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It's an OK profile, but not one that would stand out to me, if browsing.
Not enough public photos and there isnt anything that grabs & intrigues me to want to know more in the text.
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