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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just out of curiosity, why is it that, on a swinging site, which largely hinges on the practice of people online getting together, the part of the forum for arranging MEETINGS is buried way off screen? Sure, you can scroll down, but just having it where it is instantly removes much of it's immediacy and convenience (both for those posting meets and those looking for them, who may well have forgotten it's even there), can we have it moved up the menu please, so it's right near the top where it should be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one would read them anyway 
Most of them are so badly put together they're just there for the comedy value "
Always wondered were we going wrong lol must adjust all our text and reworded according to guys wishes instead of our own lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's on my landing page without being below the fold. "
Not mine, it's the TWELVE forum down, even the clubs feature higher than that.
Mind though - free site, expensive clubs (for single males), massive oversaturation of single males desperate for sex...hmmmm.....clever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's on my landing page without being below the fold.
Not mine, it's the TWELVE forum down, even the clubs feature higher than that.
Mind though - free site, expensive clubs (for single males), massive oversaturation of single males desperate for sex...hmmmm.....clever!"
Ah no, I mean the home page. You can browse meets and events there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven't you heard what all the single guys say? No one ever meets apparently!"
Not only are the odds stacked against them, the site does absolutely nothing to attempt to address this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, the site is more geared towards chatting rather than meeting as you can see where the meet request is, the meet request option is 12 places down, even under the fantasy section lol. |
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I think it's probably better to be searching by interests, rather than just who has listed availability in the meets section. Some of the posts are block booking repeats every day, I've no clue if it's habit or beneficial. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, the site is more geared towards chatting rather than meeting as you can see where the meet request is, the meet request option is 12 places down, even under the fantasy section lol."
I don't like focussing on negatives so often, as it doesn't allow me to show the best of myself, but after nearly a decade of swinging I still can't hold my tongue over just how much utter bullshit gets thrown around in this scene.
Sure, you COULD just post a 'meet today', but the fact is no on cares about single males looking for meets, as the general consensus is that guys will either fuck anything or are total timewasters, and so why should anyone consider their meet requests seriously?
A meet forum is different, this is where guys who have actually taken the time to spread their personalities around a little, show a bit of character in establishing themselves, and prove that they're here for honest reasons and just want to share a few good times, and yet it's not placed in an even remotely viable spot to work the way its supposed to.
It makes me wonder if this site is honestly intended as a hub for individuals who simply want to meet new, sexually attractive people for a little fun and adventure in their lives as it purports to be, or simply cynical, free advertising for clubs looking for a fresh crop to get cash from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female, I never ever checked the meets forum or the meets section. I searched profiles or replied to messages and established relationships through messages until I wanted to meet and fuck them.
It may not be worth browsing them at all, really. I'm not sure how useful they are. |
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"Haven't you heard what all the single guys say? No one ever meets apparently!
Not only are the odds stacked against them, the site does absolutely nothing to attempt to address this."
I seriously can't believe that you have just said that OP.
Why would the "site" do anything for you? You have been on here long enough to know that it is just a tool in your box to be used as and when is necessary  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a single female, I never ever checked the meets forum or the meets section. I searched profiles or replied to messages and established relationships through messages until I wanted to meet and fuck them.
It may not be worth browsing them at all, really. I'm not sure how useful they are. "
I don't find it is in particular, even for a guy. I browse single women's profiles as often as any other guy, but to be frank unless someone has REALLY taken the time to write a good and characterful one with plenty of personality, there's very little you can extrapolate from them beyond 'you have nice pictures and I can imagine I'd enjoy having sex with you because of them'.
The forums are different, they give a far more organic and realistic look at how a person interacts with others, which in turn gives a better idea of who they are and whether or not you find them attractive - so then why not emphasise the forums as a viable place for both single males and females to 'display' what they're all about and seek meets that way? I've chatted to a number of women from here who were interested in meeting me, sometimes even for a while, but never took a shot because they didn't really get me or even that I was actively seeking to meet people, this isn't entirely the sites fault, but it is set up more as a place where people can get together and chew the fat over whatever, rather than actively seek to get like minded swingers together (other than by attending clubs). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven't you heard what all the single guys say? No one ever meets apparently!
Not only are the odds stacked against them, the site does absolutely nothing to attempt to address this.
I seriously can't believe that you have just said that OP."
Well you should, because it's an issue along similar lines as walking into McDonalds and finding it difficult to order a cheeseburger.
I'm still curious as to whether or not the hugely ineffective placement of the meets forum is simply a sloppy oversight or an intentional thing? |
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