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No ugly people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Use it as a filter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's rude and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It means people with shallow, ugly personalities. Ie, the ones with that in their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Use it as a filter"

spot on .... its a block .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It usually means me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I see no need for it really but each to there own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess it's an effective filter - if you think you don't meet their criteria then you probably don't. Only those really confident about their own looks will apply.

I don't reply - so I guess it works!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I send them a message with a face picture. It winds them up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you look at someone and you think they are ugly then they are ugly to you and a choice is made.

Then someone will look at the same person and think Phwoarrrr.

Such is the complexities of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't reply either but people with low self confidence that aren't ugly won't reply either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a statement made by butter faces to make themselves better.

You know what a butter face is? Everything is banging but the face.

Rather be a pretty fat chick who isn't a judgey bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A requirement of shallow people more than likely to be responded to by equally shallow people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you look at someone and you think they are ugly then they are ugly to you and a choice is made.

Then someone will look at the same person and think Phwoarrrr.

Such is the complexities of life.

Exactly my point

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A requirement of shallow people more than likely to be responded to by equally shallow people."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a statement made by butter faces to make themselves better.

You know what a butter face is? Everything is banging but the face.

Rather be a pretty fat chick who isn't a judgey bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only ugly people are the ones shallow enough to use the word in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They're basically very insecure people who are so far up their own arses they actually believe they're special.

Just be grateful you will never have to encounter such people and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They're basically very insecure people who are so far up their own arses they actually believe they're special.

Just be grateful you will never have to encounter such people and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate.

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

"They're basically very insecure people who are so far up their own arses they actually believe they're special.

Just be grateful you will never have to encounter such people and move on.

So true!

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have never seen this on a profile....I am guessing those who have it think they are beautiful people

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. "
some people may feel that about yourself, and what you may feel ugly someone else may find attractive. So going back to the original question how can you define this?

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By *3gam4nMan over a year ago

wrexham

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. "
not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You can't define it, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to say no ugly people puts me off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I could put it on my profile and wouldn't see a change in my inbox messages. I think any single woman could without repercussions.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I just put them into my 'steer clear ' category.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just ignore them usually, not because I'd consider myself ugly though, before someone suggests that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. some people may feel that about yourself, and what you may feel ugly someone else may find attractive. So going back to the original question how can you define this?"

I dont care what your original question was. I'm simply stating that i dont fuck people I'm not attracted to. And other swingers should not be judged for having standards. This isn't a charity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose the person who puts that on their profile is a beauty queen or male model then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. some people may feel that about yourself, and what you may feel ugly someone else may find attractive. So going back to the original question how can you define this?

I dont care what your original question was. I'm simply stating that i dont fuck people I'm not attracted to. And other swingers should not be judged for having standards. This isn't a charity."
I never asked if you would so your point is totally irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did that once, put will mingers stop messaging me.

It got a fair few laughs out of guys tbh and some fun conversations going.

I'm not a model or stunning in particular but this one time so many (what i consider) ugly guys were messaging me i just got pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo..."

Oh! But he might be such a nice guy I'm sure he wouldn't mind if i dry wretch a few times while i ride him. Looking at him throughout with a sympathetic expression i once learned from Esther Rantzen...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

Its the ones that make you go

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

It's darn tootin' plain daft.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i agree it doesn't really describe anything, so is kind of pointless. but by putting it your profile it is another way of venting your frustration.

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By *3gam4nMan over a year ago

wrexham

Maybe people should say on their profile what criteria doesn't rock their boat? If someone considers themselves ugly, they probabky have a very low self esteem alreadt and are unlikely to be messaging anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

To be honest it's not something I've seen on a profile myself - just heard about it on here!

I personally am quite fussy about appearance. Some may accuse me of being shallow - and they're quite possibly right - but I only really enjoy meets with men who tick all the boxes - including looks!

As in all things though, it's how you say it that matters - but it tends to take more eloquence and good manners to request something pleasantly than it does to demand it rudely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has anyone seen the clown in Asda who hides from ugly people ?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

The person writing the profile defines what's ugly. To them. I think visually I can get away with describing myself as not ugly. But I wouldn't contact a profile stating 'no ugly people' since it seems like a way of saying 'rather than say what we find attractive in a clear and positive way we'll put a vague, fairly negative phrase on our profile instead because we're all that'. They may not mean it to sound like that but it seems arrogant and elitist to me. So we are not suited regardless of my physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

I know I'm ugly so i don't message people who stipulate "no ugly people" the same as i don't massage people who write "no bi guys" or "no cunts". Don't take it personally just move on. Try attracting people to you through decent profile/photos and let them message you. Much easier for everyone."
my point being is those that stipulate this might find you attractive. Never mind but it's interesting to get different peoples takes on things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a statement made by butter faces to make themselves better.

You know what a butter face is? Everything is banging but the face.

Rather be a pretty fat chick who isn't a judgey bitch

I'm a pretty fat chick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never seen this on a profile....I am guessing those who have it think they are beautiful people

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....I've never seen it either. ....I would love to actually. ....oh what fun could be had....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually they don't got a pic themselves lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ugly people are the ones shallow enough to use the word in the first place. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people are very ugly on the inside too.

And that in my opinion is uglier to me than perceived physical looks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

I know I'm ugly so i don't message people who stipulate "no ugly people" the same as i don't massage people who write "no bi guys" or "no cunts". Don't take it personally just move on. Try attracting people to you through decent profile/photos and let them message you. Much easier for everyone. my point being is those that stipulate this might find you attractive. Never mind but it's interesting to get different peoples takes on things.

This just sounds like a "look how nasty people are, I'm not nasty, see?" thread. Some people are here to only meet attractive people. Sad, deluded twats as they are. They may never be satisfied, but so what? Some people write "no blacks or Asians" and pretend it's "preference".......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Usually they don't got a pic themselves lol."
shhh don't tell everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people are very ugly on the inside too.

And that in my opinion is uglier to me than perceived physical looks.

So,what's the coo with your username?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

i agree very rude and i wouldnt want to meet any guy with that on his profile

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

I know I'm ugly so i don't message people who stipulate "no ugly people" the same as i don't massage people who write "no bi guys" or "no cunts". Don't take it personally just move on. Try attracting people to you through decent profile/photos and let them message you. Much easier for everyone. my point being is those that stipulate this might find you attractive. Never mind but it's interesting to get different peoples takes on things.

yeah i'm seeing some hypocrisy in other replies to this topic.

your pity fuck scenario made me laugh also.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?"

Well said that Man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People take offence / but it's better to write what you want. Not fancying doesn't mean you dislike someone. Just you don't want to shag their brains out. I'd go for cerebral attraction anyway so I'm probably just odd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?

But this is exactly why people should write EXACTLY what they want on their profile so that you can avoid them! Would you be happy driving for an hour for someone to say "phew! Glad you're not ugly in the flesh! I won't fuck ugly people". Wasted trip... Let them write what they like!"
but you wouldn't. If after exchanging pics you don't find them attractive a simple thank you but your not my type or similar would do.or for the ladies that are inundated with messages then don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could write I only meet three headed aliens with 20 inch dicks. Someone would still message you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You could write I only meet three headed aliens with 20 inch dicks. Someone would still message you. "
that's wishful thinking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not offended by profiles stating no ugly people. I think it's a pointless thing to write but not offensive in the slightest, and not something I'm going to get my knickers in a twist over.

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By *akedninjaMan over a year ago

edinburgh

There's nothing more ugly than a pretty face and an ugly personality

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?

Why would they say that? I'm super pretty...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, but nobody is, are they?

Unless I've misinterpreted it, the thread is about people who write "no fat chicks" (or similar) on their profile....

It's a world of difference betwen not fucking people yuou don't fancy and writing it on your profile....Because its a given, isn't it?

But this is exactly why people should write EXACTLY what they want on their profile so that you can avoid them! Would you be happy driving for an hour for someone to say "phew! Glad you're not ugly in the flesh! I won't fuck ugly people". Wasted trip... Let them write what they like!but you wouldn't. If after exchanging pics you don't find them attractive a simple thank you but your not my type or similar would do.or for the ladies that are inundated with messages then don't reply."

You're not getting me. Everyone is saying "i use it as a filter" or "i would never meet someone who would write that, for THEY are truly the ugly ones" or some old bollocks. What I'm saying is you may meet someone who thinks the same way. You just scared them off from letting everyone know how "truly ugly" they are....

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By *mmabluTV/TS over a year ago

upton wirral

It is rude and ignorant as one persons beauty can be ugly to someone else.

People who put that on there profile deserve to be blocked by everyone.

I cannot stand ignorant people anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are we with or against ?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"There's nothing more ugly than a pretty face and an ugly personality

See, this line gets trotted out a lot. And I am the first to admit that I go for personality first and then find looks attractive as a result. But one person's pretty is another person's ugly in both face and personality. It doesn't follow that the two are mutually exclusive. There are some very pretty people I happen to really like. And some unattractive people I can't stand. And all combinations in between. Someone being a twat isn't made worse because they're good looking. I wouldn't be attracted to them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not really different from writing any other type of no this / no that on their profile.

Men don't seem to have these type of 'demands' on their profiles but if they did I'd probably think, twunt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It means people with shallow, ugly personalities. Ie, the ones with that in their profile"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You would probably think what a stuck up twat x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I saw this I had to respond

True beauty is in the heart. I can appreciate we all want to like the look of someone but there is no need for this cooment to be on anyones profile! The ones who put "no ugly people" are the true ugly ones. Point in case "The Devil is not ugly"

We all age older and looks fade, hearts and personalities improve. If someone can be so cruel to another humas shame on you.

I modelled but my mother told me the best thing about me was my kind heart. Would you sooner have a beauty box on the outside and when you open it their a pile of xxxx inside, or a plain brown box and when thats opened a beautiful person inside they wont betray desert when life gets bad

One day those who have this problem will loose what they have and be extremely unhappy!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

It's not rude. I loathe the word rude. It's not offensive unless you decide to take offense.

HOWEVERRRRRRRR ...... It says a lot about the people who put it on their profile e.g. If they were a puddle you wouldn't dampen the soles of your feet.

I just made that up. I'm wonderful. No ugly people please. I'm too shallow to realise just how deep I am.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"When I saw this I had to respond

We all age older and looks fade, hearts and personalities improve. If someone can be so cruel to another humas shame on you.

One day those who have this problem will loose what they have and be extremely unhappy! "

Are they a swift cheap fuck soon to be forgotten or a life long pal ? C'mon it matters...

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"I send them a message with a face picture. It winds them up

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"You would probably think what a stuck up twat x"

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By *lumsy colinMan over a year ago

basingstoke

I once messaged a woman on here i had done the usual research on her profile found the hidden password checked we wanted similar things and checked who had verified her

Her reply was and i quote

Look somewhere else for your princess fiona

I didnt get what she meant but she blocked me so i didnt know till later but tell me who is the ugly one in this scenario

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I once messaged a woman on here i had done the usual research on her profile found the hidden password checked we wanted similar things and checked who had verified her

Her reply was and i quote

Look somewhere else for your princess fiona

I didnt get what she meant but she blocked me so i didnt know till later but tell me who is the ugly one in this scenario

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you're better off not talking to her. Lucky escape I say.

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

So these people that put don't meet ugly people should be more specific to what they consider ugly to them & do these people look into the mirror every day and kiss themselves thinking they are gods gift to the opposite sex and can be rude to others by simply stating the fact that they are too good for you to even talk to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

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I have to feel physically attracted is better than saying no ugly people though. Maybe the same so it's just how it's worded I suppose?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

I agree with you but wouldn't it be better to leave it off and just say "no thank you" or not reply. Words hurt all of us, but no harm in manners.

Peace

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once messaged a woman on here i had done the usual research on her profile found the hidden password checked we wanted similar things and checked who had verified her

Her reply was and i quote

Look somewhere else for your princess fiona

I didnt get what she meant but she blocked me so i didnt know till later but tell me who is the ugly one in this scenario

That's really mean of her, there's no excuse for being so rude

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

If I met the stipulations of a profile I liked and they said they didn't want ugly people contacting them then I would. Why? Cos I'm not ugly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So these people that put don't meet ugly people should be more specific to what they consider ugly to them & do these people look into the mirror every day and kiss themselves thinking they are gods gift to the opposite sex and can be rude to others by simply stating the fact that they are too good for you to even talk to."
that's how I feel. Ultimately comes down to manners I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone had this on their profile I wouldn't message them. Not because of how I look, but because of their haughty attitude: we wouldn't get on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I met the stipulations of a profile I liked and they said they didn't want ugly people contacting them then I would. Why? Cos I'm not ugly..."

Mums always tell their sons that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I met the stipulations of a profile I liked and they said they didn't want ugly people contacting them then I would. Why? Cos I'm not ugly..."
unfortunately we all haven't got your confidence or a body like yours haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

that's my experience anyway. i have hardly any guy friends on here at all. the ones i do i love them for that, they've restored my faith in guys aren't all arseholes, but the rest? fuck them, they are only after one thing and worse than the honest people who say they won't fuck mingers, imo.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here.

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"I once messaged a woman on here i had done the usual research on her profile found the hidden password checked we wanted similar things and checked who had verified her

Her reply was and i quote

Look somewhere else for your princess fiona

I didnt get what she meant but she blocked me so i didnt know till later but tell me who is the ugly one in this scenario

From her point of view you were/are the ugly one.

From your, and others, point of view hers was the ugly response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My granny used to tell me a worm looks good in a ducks eye.

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"If I met the stipulations of a profile I liked and they said they didn't want ugly people contacting them then I would. Why? Cos I'm not ugly...

Mums always tell their sons that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

I have to feel physically attracted is better than saying no ugly people though. Maybe the same so it's just how it's worded I suppose?"

yes the wording is brash, but it means exactly the same thing. if you can comprehend that right now in this comment then why can't you comprehend that when you read these profiles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here."
so with someone who thinks this way can I ask if you feel that your better than someone who is ugly or ugly people aren't worth talking to? I'm not having a go just curious and I enjoy a good mass debate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

I have to feel physically attracted is better than saying no ugly people though. Maybe the same so it's just how it's worded I suppose?

yes the wording is brash, but it means exactly the same thing. if you can comprehend that right now in this comment then why can't you comprehend that when you read these profiles?"
a debate like this gives you an insight into other people's thoughts. I personally don't reply as I have no confidence but wanted an insight from other people. Hope this is ok with you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here.

so with someone who thinks this way can I ask if you feel that your better than someone who is ugly or ugly people aren't worth talking to? I'm not having a go just curious and I enjoy a good mass debate

yeah it's fine to ask, i love discussing also.

i don't actually think anything of people i don't know. i am also not a person who compares myself to others, so they are neither above or below me as a person.

so i wouldn't find a guy who is unattractive to me as anything at all. i just look, don't fancy him and therefore there is nothing of interest to me at all and i will not bother talking to him.

i also wouldn't tell him i find him ugly, that's not his fault it's mine and if he had the balls to approach me then why be nasty to him? no point at all.

i don't even have a standard of guy that i find attractive either, i have a huge variety of guys and i couldn't even give you a type that i like really. just i will know by looking that i'm not into him.

sometimes i do get pissed off when a guy i find unattractive presumes i will fuck him and i wonder why he would even think that i'd want to, but attractive guys who do the same also piss me off doing this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i find it weird that people who express that they have certain standards are being called ugly?

it's ok to call someone an ugly personality, despite not really knowing anything about them except they have standards of attractiveness that exclude certain physically unnappealling people.

it's a given that most people won't fuck anything, but if you express that there is a problem?

the word ugly describes something, it;s vague but it implies that the person using it holds physical attractiveness as important to them, that really is it.

i don't agree with the slagging people off in PMs for their attractiveness, that's direct and rude. but to be vague about it on your profile is fine, imo.

I have to feel physically attracted is better than saying no ugly people though. Maybe the same so it's just how it's worded I suppose?

yes the wording is brash, but it means exactly the same thing. if you can comprehend that right now in this comment then why can't you comprehend that when you read these profiles? a debate like this gives you an insight into other people's thoughts. I personally don't reply as I have no confidence but wanted an insight from other people. Hope this is ok with you!!"

yeah i realised afterwards you might have only just thought of that because it had been put in your head kind of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here.

yeah it's fine to ask, i love discussing also.

i don't actually think anything of people i don't know. i am also not a person who compares myself to others, so they are neither above or below me as a person.

so i wouldn't find a guy who is unattractive to me as anything at all. i just look, don't fancy him and therefore there is nothing of interest to me at all and i will not bother talking to him.

i also wouldn't tell him i find him ugly, that's not his fault it's mine and if he had the balls to approach me then why be nasty to him? no point at all.

You seem to be pissed off with guys full stop judging by your posts on them

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here.

yeah it's fine to ask, i love discussing also.

i don't actually think anything of people i don't know. i am also not a person who compares myself to others, so they are neither above or below me as a person.

so i wouldn't find a guy who is unattractive to me as anything at all. i just look, don't fancy him and therefore there is nothing of interest to me at all and i will not bother talking to him.

i also wouldn't tell him i find him ugly, that's not his fault it's mine and if he had the balls to approach me then why be nasty to him? no point at all.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

They've done you a favour by making it so explicit. Imagine if the same truth about their personality had only been shown once you'd checked into your hotel room, ready for the shag.

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It's not just here you find it or trying pull someone but simply people who consider them selves beautiful wouldn't give any person they consider ugly the time of day and thinks it's ok to be rude to them whatever situation in every day life. They are simply shallow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I've come to my own conclusion that there is no right or wrong answer (I'm no further forward) it all peoples own interpretation. Anyway I thank you all for your comments and good night you lovely people x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

Symmetry?

I do often wonder about people who make these kinds of threads questioning this.

Given that there are pretty clear norms for whats co sidered attractive and ugly.

Yes everyone has differnt tastes but the vast majority of people tend to boardly act inline with each other.

Remeber just like a snowflake you're all unique and interesting, but in a blizzard you're all pretty simmilar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a statement made by butter faces to make themselves better.

You know what a butter face is? Everything is banging but the face.

Rather be a pretty fat chick who isn't a judgey bitch

Yeah cause that post wasn't judgy or bitchy AT ALL...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, do they fuck do that kiss the mirror thing... or even be up their own arse, i'm not.

this site is not as social as it likes to think it is, ok.

every single 'nice guy' who wants to 'get to know me' is only after a fuck, why pretend they aren't.

i don't fall for the bullshit, lets be friends thing, it doesn't happen because they all push for meets and sex way before they even want to be friends.

huge generalisation, i don't care that IS my experience on here.

yeah it's fine to ask, i love discussing also.

i don't actually think anything of people i don't know. i am also not a person who compares myself to others, so they are neither above or below me as a person.

so i wouldn't find a guy who is unattractive to me as anything at all. i just look, don't fancy him and therefore there is nothing of interest to me at all and i will not bother talking to him.

i also wouldn't tell him i find him ugly, that's not his fault it's mine and if he had the balls to approach me then why be nasty to him? no point at all.

You seem to be pissed off with guys full stop judging by your posts on them

lol"

i am pissed off at mst guys. i don't even meet anyone any more.

got sick of the bullshit. it's why i don't actually mind honest or brash people. being wordy and manipulative are not great traits, imo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."
being im not a brad Pitt look alike I find it harder just to get a reply let alone a meet so I suppose I must be classed as ugly it has been sad to me a cple of times,doesn't really do you moral much good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've come to my own conclusion that there is no right or wrong answer (I'm no further forward) it all peoples own interpretation. Anyway I thank you all for your comments and good night you lovely people x"

it's good to have your own opinions, and discuss them, and even hold onto them despite others defending their own opinions.

debates are never personal.

night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got a nice looking face and nice body but not even I would say "no ugly people" That's no use to anyone because it doesn't say what you consider to be attractive. I'm only attracted to tall, dark haired, handsome men with large willys, big eyebrows and nice jaw lines, I still wouldn't say the people that don't have those features are ugly because someone's facial attractiveness is subjective.

9 times out of 10 the people that write stuff like that are buzzards themselves.

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I've got a nice looking face and nice body but not even I would say "no ugly people" That's no use to anyone because it doesn't say what you consider to be attractive. I'm only attracted to tall, dark haired, handsome men with large willys, big eyebrows and nice jaw lines, I still wouldn't say the people that don't have those features are ugly because someone's facial attractiveness is subjective.

9 times out of 10 the people that write stuff like that are buzzards themselves. "
well said good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the person saying it is usually a cunt..who might be attractive to me..but I couldnt care less...self obsessed juvenile rude behaviour puts me off even thinking of fucking the said cunts, so everyone wins.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 times out of 10 the people that write stuff like that are buzzards themselves. "

Not even someone like you with a pretty face and nice body would say "No Ugly People"

That's very noble and kind of you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i find it prejudice as well to judge people you know nothing about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 times out of 10 the people that write stuff like that are buzzards themselves.

Not even someone like you with a pretty face and nice body would say "No Ugly People"

That's very noble and kind of you

You know what I meant mun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

A defo avoid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I saw this on a man's profile, who I fancied talking to, I'd message and ask if he was ok with fat women who are average looking.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

Maybe folk put it on their profile, so as not to be out-uglied during a meet, or maybe when disappearing up their own arses, they don't want to be followed.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

To me that just shows how ugly the person is, beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe folk put it on their profile, so as not to be out-uglied during a meet, or maybe when disappearing up their own arses, they don't want to be followed."

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ugly on the outside??

Or ugly on the inside ???.... cause there's plenty of them on here ....

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

It just means that looks are important to them, trouble is not everyone knows if they themselves are a bit or slightly ugly. Some people are good looking, some are average, some plain, some with ugly bits and not so ugly bits or some are just ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry about it. All men are ugly, some are just more ugly than others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a statement made by butter faces to make themselves better.

You know what a butter face is? Everything is banging but the face.

Rather be a pretty fat chick who isn't a judgey bitch

Yeah cause that post wasn't judgy or bitchy AT ALL...

Gotta luvre the irony....

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."
when I see it I just don't msg as I know iam not to a lot of people's taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol

dry wretch

that totally reminded me of Kingpin, where Woody Harrelson pays of the rent by shagging his landlord

go to youtube and type in - Kingpin (2/12) Movie CLIP - Roy Works Off His Rent (1996) HD

this is what the Kingpin movie considers ugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

I pay it no heed, it is obviously meant for someone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ."

I think im quite a good lookin fella. And a lot of the men on here seem to agree. But all I ever get from females (the ones who can be bothered to answer) is..'sorry not my type' astonishing levels of shallowness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

People are shallow because they don't find you attractive?....ok....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

So then let me get this right,so someone feels you are not their type so this in turns means they're shallow?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

Not wanting to have sex with someone you don't find attractive is not shallow my lovely, its in the main, human nature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No ugly people"

....well I am posting in here anyway so suck it up buttercups!!!

Oh this wasn't a thread for only beautiful people? Damn... you know when a man takes a stand, it's horribly embarrassing to fall over....

For every saucer there's a teacup....

(I may have turned into a fortune cookie overnight)

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

look the elephant man was probably a wonderful man but it don't mean you would want to fuck him,its about attraction and if a guy has a face that would sour milk it aint happening!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For every saucer there's a teacup....

(I may have turned into a fortune cookie overnight)"

Not true, L seems to have an endless supply of saucers to put plant pots on but I am fairly sure we have always been a mug family and never owned a tea cup

Unless of course it was during my fortune cookie days when I was only partially sentient

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

Not wanting to have sex with someone you don't find attractive is not shallow my lovely, its in the main, human nature."

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Use it as a filter"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to meet ugly people as it makes me feel superior and better looking

Joke !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wonder if it works for them, I wonder if people read that and think hmmmm, best not message them as I'm ugly?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to meet ugly people as it makes me feel superior and better looking

Joke !

But is that not quite difficult ??

Joke !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not ugly.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

One man's meat though!

If I told some of my friends I meet men on a swingers site for sex, they'd reply, not for me I'm not that desperate.

I don't see it as desperate, neither do I see somebody fucking someone I don't find sexually attractive as desperate.

There's no need to be rude and arrogant.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

To be honest it's not something I've seen on a profile myself - just heard about it on here!

I personally am quite fussy about appearance. Some may accuse me of being shallow - and they're quite possibly right - but I only really enjoy meets with men who tick all the boxes - including looks!

As in all things though, it's how you say it that matters - but it tends to take more eloquence and good manners to request something pleasantly than it does to demand it rudely! "

Exactly.

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

One man's meat though!

If I told some of my friends I meet men on a swingers site for sex, they'd reply, not for me I'm not that desperate.

I don't see it as desperate, neither do I see somebody fucking someone I don't find sexually attractive as desperate.

There's no need to be rude and arrogant."
what would you call someone who has sex with someone they don't find attractive then? lol it cries out desperado to many people including me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't block but I think if I read that on a profile I may as I would think ... They must be so up themselves to say this . How can you say if a person is good looking or not with out knowing them .. I may see things different. We all don't like the same things here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

"We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

"
no that makes you normal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

"
Well people here most will only meet the ones they like the look off .... its fine but what you like and what I like may not be the same ... that's the difference .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Come one ..we all know what ugly is ...don't play dumb ...your dealt the genetics card ..nothing you can do ...well unless you got under the knife ...embrace what you have and make the most of your simple time on this planet !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

Well people here most will only meet the ones they like the look off .... its fine but what you like and what I like may not be the same ... that's the difference ."

But we're not here to meet the people you like the look of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP's post is about what's our opinion on people putting ..

"No ugly people" on their profile.

It's not about sympathy fucks or shagging people we personally don't feel attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seriously wonder about some people on here but its their profile, they can write what they like as long as its within the site rules. There are so many more ways of putting things but I feel some get frustrated at people not reading profiles and resort to the direct approach. It would be so much easier to put what you like and ignore or decline people you don't like rather than no this or no that, its pointless and tends to get people's backs up resulting in abuse, not that there's ever an excuse to be rude but as others have said, it acts as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See the thing about that kind of statement on a profile is that it's too subjective... but the likelihood is that those people get meets with other people who believe themselves to be beautiful too... which is good; a similar mindset..

For people that message them and then get deleted, well they are left wondering; am I ugly? Or did they delete for a different reason? I wouldn't message back someone with that on their profile... though I may change my headline to "no ugly people" on my profile before deleting their message..... everyone likes a guessing game..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

Well people here most will only meet the ones they like the look off .... its fine but what you like and what I like may not be the same ... that's the difference .

But we're not here to meet the people you like the look of

"
lol no your here to meet the ones you like the look of ,

its ok loads to go around.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What would be preferable on a profile

No ugly people

Will fuck anything

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

"The OP's post is about what's our opinion on people putting ..

"No ugly people" on their profile.

It's not about sympathy fucks or shagging people we personally don't feel attracted to.

"
exactly

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

One man's meat though!

If I told some of my friends I meet men on a swingers site for sex, they'd reply, not for me I'm not that desperate.

I don't see it as desperate, neither do I see somebody fucking someone I don't find sexually attractive as desperate.

There's no need to be rude and arrogant. what would you call someone who has sex with someone they don't find attractive then? lol it cries out desperado to many people including me

You miss my point. To clarify what I wrote: *I* wouldn't fuck someone *I* thought was ugly, but *I* wouldnt call someone desperate who shagged them because they didn't think them ugly!

Clearer?!!

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By *ampara2Woman over a year ago

biggleswade

"What would be preferable on a profile

No ugly people

Will fuck anything

"
as long as he/she has a pulse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP's post is about what's our opinion on people putting ..

"No ugly people" on their profile.

It's not about sympathy fucks or shagging people we personally don't feel attracted to.

exactly

I like your photo by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of these people saying "only ugly people on the inside would say that!" aren't always the nicest people themselves. Ugly people can be proper pricks too.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"We wouldn't use "not ugly people" on our profile.

But we wouldn't be meeting anyone who we thought was ugly as in unattractive.

Does that make us shallow then?

Well people here most will only meet the ones they like the look off .... its fine but what you like and what I like may not be the same ... that's the difference ."

That's my point Jo. Just because I don't find someone attractive I wouldn't call their next meet desperate.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"The OP's post is about what's our opinion on people putting ..

"No ugly people" on their profile.

It's not about sympathy fucks or shagging people we personally don't feel attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ugly on the outside??

Or ugly on the inside ???.... cause there's plenty of them on here ...."

I agree with that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

Not wanting to have sex with someone you don't find attractive is not shallow my lovely, its in the main, human nature.

In the real world. Its very often the social interaction with another person that can define attraction or unattraction, It isnt simply down to looks. That one factor is taken away in the virtual world and upsets the balance. Hence the very dismissive 'your not my type.' You cannot tell that from a photo and nothing else. Its shallow..but then, social networking is a shallow world.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Each to their own, but I'm not fucking something I'm not attracted to. Quasimodo may well have been the life and soul of the party, but I'm not going to suck his ugly dick. You lot can carry on but frankly I'm just not that desperate. not everyone will be everyone's brew seems to be the ongoing topic. The subject being raised is the fact that people think themselves beautiful and "ugly" people shouldn't even bother messaging them... end of the day if it is not for you all you have to do is say "sorry, not interested" or ignore it as a few people get all wound up when rejected. .. no need to go fucking quasimodo...

I don't think you're ugly, Clem. Just normal looking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When people put this on there profile what defines the word ugly? I think it's a bit offensive as everybody's taste in people differ.

Not wanting to have sex with someone you don't find attractive is not shallow my lovely, its in the main, human nature.

This is very true fella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One thing i do like about this thread is the sheer amount of vitriol and judgment of a hypothetical group of people.

The level of detail people have constructed about thier lives personalities etc is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a lot of ugly ppl but with good hearts an time for any one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a lot of ugly ppl but with good hearts an time for any one "

Which is great for a friend.

But less great for shagging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a lot of ugly ppl but with good hearts an time for any one

Which is great for a friend.

But less great for shagging"
Good thing people here all like different things . Things I find ugly in people don't show in there looks.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Some of these people saying "only ugly people on the inside would say that!" aren't always the nicest people themselves. Ugly people can be proper pricks too. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is you can never really call someone ugly because it is so subjective. Yes a person can be unattractive to you but somewhere out there another person would find those same features appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you dont love yourself no one else will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I bet there mum loved them and never would say ugly ... its not a nice word. Its going on the words I hate list . lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't it the same as saying...

Hot guys only!

I don't see why I have to stand next to a radiator!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After a few beers everyone is good looking

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Does it really matter that much if some people think youre ugly though, I mean we cant all be good looking can we and people who aren't so ugly have their problems as well.

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