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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! " Its because you my dear would qualify as a "real" woman. Im open to the criticism that is about to follow. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! " Thanks a lot | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! " Peach you are not old and have a very sexy body!! I know fab is not a dating site but I still go for personality over looks! I like all shapes and sizes. X | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples " Ewwww no thanks. | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples Ewwww no thanks. " Not putting that on our profile. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! Thanks a lot " I was being ironic lovely - not putting anyone down! You and I have both been in hot photos many times - and know that they're (understandably) dominated by young, slim women with 'model' looks! About 10-20% are larger or older - and that's fine by me - essentially it's a picture catalogue for fab! I'm simply in agreement with the op that, amusingly, most guys come onto the forums protesting that they'd far rather meet a 'real woman ' (ie older or larger with lumps and bumps) than a young model lookalike - which we all know is bollocks most of the time!! As it happens- I think you're rather lovely Hun and I've fabbed several of your pics! peachy x | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples " Are there single males who are bombarded by females on this site. | |||
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"Fucking shit when i was young getting drinks bought all night, paid in night clubs and lots of sex 'sighs' how did i cope" That's right if I was 18 again I wouldn't need to be on here. | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples Are there single males who are bombarded by females on this site." There has been a couple.... | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples Are there single males who are bombarded by females on this site." Actually... yes | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! Thanks a lot I was being ironic lovely - not putting anyone down! You and I have both been in hot photos many times - and know that they're (understandably) dominated by young, slim women with 'model' looks! About 10-20% are larger or older - and that's fine by me - essentially it's a picture catalogue for fab! I'm simply in agreement with the op that, amusingly, most guys come onto the forums protesting that they'd far rather meet a 'real woman ' (ie older or larger with lumps and bumps) than a young model lookalike - which we all know is bollocks most of the time!! As it happens- I think you're rather lovely Hun and I've fabbed several of your pics! peachy x" I did notice your wink emoticon and was joking myself . Yeah I know what you mean with the young lads, much prefer older men myself as I don't like being someone's fetish. Your photos are lovely too. | |||
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"If u want slim slender young things .... im sure there are plenty on here ... just state it in your profile then you wont get bombarded from us oldies who have lots of wobbly bits Simples Are there single males who are bombarded by females on this site. There has been a couple...." Why never me | |||
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"Wait a sec... what about the young uns who aren't so slim? " It appears the female shape nowadays is not expected to be slim. All those extra pounds are converted to curves and the guys claim that's desirable. If I carry a little extra padding it doesn't go to the desirable areas so I have to just starve myself. It's not easy approaching fifty and staying slim. Enjoy it while you're young | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! Its because you my dear would qualify as a "real" woman. Im open to the criticism that is about to follow. " 'my dear'? WTF lol | |||
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"Wait a sec... what about the young uns who aren't so slim? It appears the female shape nowadays is not expected to be slim. All those extra pounds are converted to curves and the guys claim that's desirable. If I carry a little extra padding it doesn't go to the desirable areas so I have to just starve myself. It's not easy approaching fifty and staying slim. Enjoy it while you're young " Well my tummy chub certainly isn't curves! But I like my food. Nooo, I envy your figure! Your legs are gorgeous | |||
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"Wait a sec... what about the young uns who aren't so slim? It appears the female shape nowadays is not expected to be slim. All those extra pounds are converted to curves and the guys claim that's desirable. If I carry a little extra padding it doesn't go to the desirable areas so I have to just starve myself. It's not easy approaching fifty and staying slim. Enjoy it while you're young Well my tummy chub certainly isn't curves! But I like my food. Nooo, I envy your figure! Your legs are gorgeous " I'd love some hips, a bum that sticks out and a healthy bust. Legs is all I got. | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare." I am middle size ....... lets here it for the 12/14 on here . lol | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare." So many blokes on here say they prefer the big girls. Us emaciated tgirls get the others. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " Don't feel too sorry for them,i spent my (chubby) youth trying to get slim as men didn't seem to be allowed to fancy bigger or older women then. It's only recently that we've been deemed to be sexy thank God, it's been a long wait. | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare.I am middle size ....... lets here it for the 12/14 on here . lol " Yes and that is good, we need to hear for that size as well lol | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare. So many blokes on here say they prefer the big girls. Us emaciated tgirls get the others. " That is right, I dont think they would turn down any offer due to the size. | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare.I am middle size ....... lets here it for the 12/14 on here . lol " and the 12/14 with not big boobs. | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare.I am middle size ....... lets here it for the 12/14 on here . lol Yes and that is good, we need to hear for that size as well lol " 12-14 IS slim to me | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare. So many blokes on here say they prefer the big girls. Us emaciated tgirls get the others. That is right, I dont think they would turn down any offer due to the size." I most certainly would. Large ladies don't do it for me. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " . Right that's it, I'm dressing up as a milf | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare. So many blokes on here say they prefer the big girls. Us emaciated tgirls get the others. That is right, I dont think they would turn down any offer due to the size." | |||
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"Not under 30 (some consider attractive) but I'm slim size 8 and do very well TY " Yay for a hot slim girl. I'm an 8 in hotpants | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare." Yes the majority are bbws. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. " | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. " You must have been a bit d*unk when you messaged me then | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. " Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. You must have been a bit d*unk when you messaged me then " Exceptions can be made you know.. maybe I just liked the look of you | |||
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"That is because the majority are bbw's, slim ones are very rare. Yes the majority are bbws." | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. " You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. " Another reason why you haven't messaged me then | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " I am Sure you do, no really, really!! | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. " Do what? Eat cake? | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what? Eat cake?" on fab they do. dunno why there's no cake smiley on here. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what? Eat cake?" I can eat cake REALLY well. I just value my figure so I don't. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. " I can understand that,I wish I was more curvy,but I can't really change so you have to love how you are really don't you | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. I can understand that,I wish I was more curvy,but I can't really change so you have to love how you are really don't you " You look fine too me | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. I can understand that,I wish I was more curvy,but I can't really change so you have to love how you are really don't you You look fine too me " Thankyou | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! Its because you my dear would qualify as a "real" woman. Im open to the criticism that is about to follow. 'my dear'? WTF lol " Its my term of endearment | |||
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"People come in all shapes and sizes. Surely confidence and personality is sexier than a hot bod, if I can't have a quick chat in the short break between sessions then why bother?! " Wish there were more of you on the site. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what better? Visually turn you on? I'm pretty sure big girls are no better or worse at sucking or fucking. You are right.. anyone can be good at that, doesn't matter who you are. But for me IMO I just prefer curvy woman and always have. " Then don't slight others just because you do. | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large!" any holes a goal to some of the men on here. | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large! any holes a goal to some of the men on here." yes even mens holes | |||
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"They are going with the majority. I reckon the majority are larger ladies of the older persuasion...." I agree but I'd seperate the two persuasions. | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large! any holes a goal to some of the men on here. yes even mens holes " I bet you have a lovely hole though | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large! any holes a goal to some of the men on here. yes even mens holes I bet you have a lovely hole though " | |||
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"They are going with the majority. I reckon the majority are larger ladies of the older persuasion.... I agree but I'd seperate the two persuasions. " Yes....i should have said "and/or" | |||
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"The young beautiful people are out there living their lives and so they should be x" | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!!" There's some truth in that | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large! any holes a goal to some of the men on here." You could be right given that an estimated 80%+ of my mailbox is from straight guys. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!!" That is right too | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!!" This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads | |||
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" If I carry a little extra padding it doesn't go to the desirable areas so I have to just starve myself. " I have a straight up and down body with a stomach that always puts more weight on than my boobs. Whatever I do, fat or thin, my boobs are always flatter than my stomach. That's not right! If I eat more, I don't get curvy, just more Father Christmas-like. Boob job and eating lettuce and a serious about of workouts seems to be the only thing I can do to change my shape. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!!" Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too. None of them were malicious, just a change from all the BBW threads that i notice always more than one of them is running at a time, which contradicts forum rules supposedly. Pisses me off now when i see one. If i can't appreciate people or be appreciated then i don't see why anyone else should be allowed. | |||
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"I adore slim women. " Why message me then | |||
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"I think some men would say the sky is green if they think they will get a fuck, whether you are slim, average or large! any holes a goal to some of the men on here. You could be right given that an estimated 80%+ of my mailbox is from straight guys. " I take everything with a GALLON of salt on this site . People's definition of straight is certainly different to mine. Anyway you're hot so I'm sure you get loads of attention | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " Ladies under 30 and attractive? As opposed to those being over 30 being unattractive? | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!!" It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads " Or on the BBW threads, there is always once who quotes 'only dogs like bones' And that one is from both sexes! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Ladies under 30 and attractive? As opposed to those being over 30 being unattractive? " Chillax it was only meant as a tounge in cheek post, as a direct comparison of the endless thread's started by younger guy's constantly asking for older women. Ironically the thread has seemed to have gone completely over some people's heads. Light hearted banter. Everyone is beautiful, ok? Except people over 6ft. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." " Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads " When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! " I think it was you! Was it not? And you didn't go unscathed (sorry shouldn't laugh) x | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " I'll try again as that was full of typos! Maybe some guys feel it may be frowned upon in a public forum if they admitted to looking younger ladies! Just my theory, I could be wrong! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? " ochhh okay, I will be nice and accompany any under 30slim and attractive well on second thoughts 28+ | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. " As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! I think it was you! Was it not? And you didn't go unscathed (sorry shouldn't laugh) x" Nah - I committed an even more heinous crime - went on suggestions and suggested that we should be able to search by body type! I've still got the scratches! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! I think it was you! Was it not? And you didn't go unscathed (sorry shouldn't laugh) x Nah - I committed an even more heinous crime - went on suggestions and suggested that we should be able to search by body type! I've still got the scratches! " Go and sit in the corner and only come back when we say that you can. What a ridiculous suggestion. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! I think it was you! Was it not? And you didn't go unscathed (sorry shouldn't laugh) x Nah - I committed an even more heinous crime - went on suggestions and suggested that we should be able to search by body type! I've still got the scratches! " Oh dear, I did feel your pain lol I am surprised you didn't have teeth marks as well Think I was to much of a wuss to agree after seeing the comments you got but you were right as I want to search on body type also | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes." I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! This is sooooo true and then all hell breaks loose. Man i love those threads When was someone last brave enough to start a thread in favour of young, slim women? - Bet the poor bugger went unlos within an hour after the 'outraged and offended' had finished with him! I think it was you! Was it not? And you didn't go unscathed (sorry shouldn't laugh) x Nah - I committed an even more heinous crime - went on suggestions and suggested that we should be able to search by body type! I've still got the scratches! Oh dear, I did feel your pain lol I am surprised you didn't have teeth marks as well Think I was to much of a wuss to agree after seeing the comments you got but you were right as I want to search on body type also " So would I - but it was actually single guys I was trying to help! I occasionally but rarely go searching or 'hunting ' as I call it - but couples (looking for women) and guys have to do it all the time, poor buggers - so I don't see why it shouldn't be made easier for them if they have a preference for a particular body type! And yeah - there were bite marks too! Only time on fab I've ever been reduced to tears! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! " I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. | |||
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"i will be honest, it is fun sneaking into the big tits topics and posting something silly about my small tits when there's nothing but big tit topics." I do the same on big willy thread's. Don't like feeling left out. Must have that fear of missing out syndrome. | |||
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"i will be honest, it is fun sneaking into the big tits topics and posting something silly about my small tits when there's nothing but big tit topics. I do the same on big willy thread's. Don't like feeling left out. Must have that fear of missing out syndrome. " That comment was just a ploy to get me to look at your cock wasn't it | |||
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"I fucking hate the real boob vs fake boob debates. Yes it's fine to have a preference but just say yeah I prefer boobs to be real and leave it at that, I say I prefer a dick to be big and leave it at that without saying some nasty comment towards smaller knobs, just do the same for boobs. That doesn't happen though, it's like people think they can say all kinds of things about fake boobs but don't think or rather don't care that the majority of people who have fake boobs have gone through expensive and painful surgery because they hated their body before having breasts and having fake boobs wasn't just a fashion statement, to some people they could have suffered for years due to having small or no breasts only to be criticised and mean comments said again for having implants. " Completely agree with this. | |||
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"i will be honest, it is fun sneaking into the big tits topics and posting something silly about my small tits when there's nothing but big tit topics. I do the same on big willy thread's. Don't like feeling left out. Must have that fear of missing out syndrome. " i think it just makes the forums boring tbh when there's nothing but big this and that topics, i'm not even tall ffs...and that's why it's fun to nip in, make a stupid comment, then leave. i never noticed your comments lol. i don't even care if anyone else laughs so long as i'm amusing myself. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. " Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic." I could say the same about men who claim to prefer "slim and athletic women" as I said earlier everything with a GALLON of salt on here | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too. None of them were malicious, just a change from all the BBW threads that i notice always more than one of them is running at a time, which contradicts forum rules supposedly. Pisses me off now when i see one. If i can't appreciate people or be appreciated then i don't see why anyone else should be allowed." That's because some can't allow people to be appreciated without putting the *opposite* group down. | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic." I prefer a real woman. The cardboard cut-outs chafe..... | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too. None of them were malicious, just a change from all the BBW threads that i notice always more than one of them is running at a time, which contradicts forum rules supposedly. Pisses me off now when i see one. If i can't appreciate people or be appreciated then i don't see why anyone else should be allowed. That's because some can't allow people to be appreciated without putting the *opposite* group down. " they should ban all appreciation threads until all people behave. *folds arms* | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! " Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. | |||
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"Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too.." 'Women who look after themselves' is a poisonous kind of thread though. I look after myself. I bathe daily, I get my hair cut regularly, I eat appropriately, and I have regular health checkups. What I *don't* do is paint my nails, wear fashionable clothes, or pander to what guys want when it comes to looks. Implying that I don't look after myself because I don't meet some dumb patriarchal beauty standards is shitty. Because I do look after myself - probably better than the people the thread was about. | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic. I prefer a real woman. The cardboard cut-outs chafe....." You could use a real doll, they don't have cardboard holes for fannies. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. " You think? I've always noticed that more of the defensive comments come from slim women without big boobs and curves, who seem to resent guys who prefer bigger ladies! Women are a multitude of combinations of younger/older, slim/athletic/average/curvy/bbw, ugly/plain/pretty/stunning, short/tall/amazonian - what does it matter? Everyone has a preference, and it shouldn't mean that stating their preferences is being derogatory to other females (unless the phrase 'real woman' is bandied about). I never understand why some ladies are so obsessed with commenting on threads which don't relate to them - unless it's to get men to tell them how gorgeous they are regardless of their lack or abundance of boobs/bum/curves/height etc? | |||
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"Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too.. 'Women who look after themselves' is a poisonous kind of thread though. I look after myself. I bathe daily, I get my hair cut regularly, I eat appropriately, and I have regular health checkups. What I *don't* do is paint my nails, wear fashionable clothes, or pander to what guys want when it comes to looks. Implying that I don't look after myself because I don't meet some dumb patriarchal beauty standards is shitty. Because I do look after myself - probably better than the people the thread was about." I think it's a shame that those who do conform to "patriarchal" beauty standards can't be desired and publicly addressed in such a way. It shouldn't negate your idea of beauty, or how you feel about it. We can't all be everyone's cup of tea. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. " I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. You think? I've always noticed that more of the defensive comments come from slim women without big boobs and curves, who seem to resent guys who prefer bigger ladies! Women are a multitude of combinations of younger/older, slim/athletic/average/curvy/bbw, ugly/plain/pretty/stunning, short/tall/amazonian - what does it matter? Everyone has a preference, and it shouldn't mean that stating their preferences is being derogatory to other females (unless the phrase 'real woman' is bandied about). I never understand why some ladies are so obsessed with commenting on threads which don't relate to them - unless it's to get men to tell them how gorgeous they are regardless of their lack or abundance of boobs/bum/curves/height etc? " I do think so, more so on the health threads than BBW related threads. I think a lot of women on here want to be desirable to people. It would obviously hurt their feelings to have it pointed out that they're not what someone else is looking for. I think the mistake being made is believing that the post complimenting what they're not and taking the post personally. | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic. I prefer a real woman. The cardboard cut-outs chafe..... You could use a real doll, they don't have cardboard holes for fannies. " I can't make one for a couple of quid though, can I? | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! " Why did you do that? If people want to be bitter, let them. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! " I've had similar. A man I used to see regularly told me he'd no longer be able to see me as someone he wished to meet had "blackballed" me. I'd never engaged with her, so I'm not sure what she didn't like, or why she felt threatened cos he had his cock in me a few times. It's silly and catty to me. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! " Women fighting over him....poor guy | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic. I prefer a real woman. The cardboard cut-outs chafe..... You could use a real doll, they don't have cardboard holes for fannies. I can't make one for a couple of quid though, can I? " Use a pie and close your eyes... | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. You think? I've always noticed that more of the defensive comments come from slim women without big boobs and curves, who seem to resent guys who prefer bigger ladies! Women are a multitude of combinations of younger/older, slim/athletic/average/curvy/bbw, ugly/plain/pretty/stunning, short/tall/amazonian - what does it matter? Everyone has a preference, and it shouldn't mean that stating their preferences is being derogatory to other females (unless the phrase 'real woman' is bandied about). I never understand why some ladies are so obsessed with commenting on threads which don't relate to them - unless it's to get men to tell them how gorgeous they are regardless of their lack or abundance of boobs/bum/curves/height etc? " This is exactly what I said further up the thread | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! I've had similar. A man I used to see regularly told me he'd no longer be able to see me as someone he wished to meet had "blackballed" me. I'd never engaged with her, so I'm not sure what she didn't like, or why she felt threatened cos he had his cock in me a few times. It's silly and catty to me. " Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... | |||
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"All these men who prefer 'real' women - I've never had one turn me down in person because I'm petite, slim, and athletic. I prefer a real woman. The cardboard cut-outs chafe..... You could use a real doll, they don't have cardboard holes for fannies. I can't make one for a couple of quid though, can I? Use a pie and close your eyes... " What a waste of gravy! | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! I've had similar. A man I used to see regularly told me he'd no longer be able to see me as someone he wished to meet had "blackballed" me. I'd never engaged with her, so I'm not sure what she didn't like, or why she felt threatened cos he had his cock in me a few times. It's silly and catty to me. " Yep - had that too - a woman refused to meet one of my meets because he'd met me! Fortunately he's a good friend of mine and had the balls to tell her where to get off!! There's no need for nastiness among women at all - there are ten times more guys than women on here - so more than enough to go round! X | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Agreed!! Everyone on fab wants old crones like me or large ladies! A cursory glance at hot photos will confirm this - not a young, slender woman to be seen!! Peach you are not old and have a very sexy body!! I know fab is not a dating site but I still go for personality over looks! I like all shapes and sizes. X " Must remember that chat up line yiu sweet talker! "I still go for personality over looks". Made me genuinely lol | |||
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"Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... " Yeh, I've had meets tell me women have commented on me too, but this woman flat out refused to meet him if he continued seeing me. It gets bizarre and bitchy in PMs, I guess. | |||
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"Both my gym fit appreciation threads got deleted, and another guys 'women who look after themselves' thread deleted too.. 'Women who look after themselves' is a poisonous kind of thread though. I look after myself. I bathe daily, I get my hair cut regularly, I eat appropriately, and I have regular health checkups. What I *don't* do is paint my nails, wear fashionable clothes, or pander to what guys want when it comes to looks. Implying that I don't look after myself because I don't meet some dumb patriarchal beauty standards is shitty. Because I do look after myself - probably better than the people the thread was about." I personally though of the hotwife type of look myself. It is very like you described above though yes. | |||
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"Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... Yeh, I've had meets tell me women have commented on me too, but this woman flat out refused to meet him if he continued seeing me. It gets bizarre and bitchy in PMs, I guess. " But did they say it's because you are slim though? Or because of your posts on here. | |||
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" Yep - had that too - a woman refused to meet one of my meets because he'd met me! Fortunately he's a good friend of mine and had the balls to tell her where to get off!! There's no need for nastiness among women at all - there are ten times more guys than women on here - so more than enough to go round! X" I've refused to meet guys based on their previous meets as well mind, usually cos I think the people they have met are buzzing! | |||
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"Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... Yeh, I've had meets tell me women have commented on me too, but this woman flat out refused to meet him if he continued seeing me. It gets bizarre and bitchy in PMs, I guess. " Not in mine, it doesn't. It really makes me wonder.... | |||
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"Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... Yeh, I've had meets tell me women have commented on me too, but this woman flat out refused to meet him if he continued seeing me. It gets bizarre and bitchy in PMs, I guess. But did they say it's because you are slim though? Or because of your posts on here." | |||
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"Blackballed? Jeeeesus! I think if anyone tried that kind of thing with me, I'd cut them dead.....But, as I seem to be reminded every now and then, I'm weird.... Yeh, I've had meets tell me women have commented on me too, but this woman flat out refused to meet him if he continued seeing me. It gets bizarre and bitchy in PMs, I guess. But did they say it's because you are slim though? Or because of your posts on here." It was before I contributed to the forums. All they would have seen was my proper profile and body pictures on my old profile. | |||
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" If I carry a little extra padding it doesn't go to the desirable areas so I have to just starve myself. I have a straight up and down body with a stomach that always puts more weight on than my boobs. Whatever I do, fat or thin, my boobs are always flatter than my stomach. That's not right! If I eat more, I don't get curvy, just more Father Christmas-like. Boob job and eating lettuce and a serious about of workouts seems to be the only thing I can do to change my shape." It seems we have much in common. My wife's not keen on my boob job plan unfortunately | |||
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"Young at heart, slim men do not fair much better, I do declare. They have a more serene following " You mean 'less desperate ', yes? | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! " Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... | |||
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"Young at heart, slim men do not fair much better, I do declare. They have a more serene following " And where might I find this following? | |||
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"Young at heart, slim men do not fair much better, I do declare. They have a more serene following You mean 'less desperate ', yes? " Those weren't my words... | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... " You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. | |||
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"Lots of thread's and requests for older ladies, milfs, Giles,cougars, bbw... Don't see many thread's asking for ladies under 30slim and attractive. They really must hate it on here and get no action at all? Because when men start threads about young slim women, the old bbw women throw an absolute hissy fit and fuck up the thread!!! It works both ways. On BBW appreciation threads, I've seen slim women make comments like "Oh well, you won't like me then." Overweight are considerably more defensive despite claiming total contentment in their bodies. As I've already said, I've seen it on both kinds of threads. I have no idea why a bigger woman would need to comment on an appreciation thread for slim women or vice versa. It also happens on threads regarding boob size. There's always someone who has to comment even though they can see from the thread title, it's not for them. The thought that some might not be attracted to them seems to irk some. And this goes for women of all ages and sizes. I agree with you to a large extent - and I'm as 'guilty ' as anyone for posting (but not insulting posts) on threads that aren't specifically about me! However - these are open forums, and therefore everyone has the right to post on every thread! I will say though, that the reason slender women occasionally make snide remarks on BBW threads is possibly that there are incredibly rarely any threads for other body types (except for 'curvy' - which on fab is used by many as a euphemism for large anyway!). If there was any kind of balance I really don't think there'd be the same issue!! I've never had a slim/average woman dismiss me for being "skinny" but I've had 3 overweight women do it. Your body looks fab to me! I'd look exactly like that if I didn't like chocolate so much! Ta, I don't think yours really looks any different to mine (especially clothed), I'm just shorter. Hope you understand I wasn't fishing for a compliment, just that there's a loooot of resentment from larger women on here. I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you do that? If people want to be bitter, let them. " Because there's only so much you can take - especially if you're on your own! | |||
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" Yep - had that too - a woman refused to meet one of my meets because he'd met me! Fortunately he's a good friend of mine and had the balls to tell her where to get off!! There's no need for nastiness among women at all - there are ten times more guys than women on here - so more than enough to go round! X I've refused to meet guys based on their previous meets as well mind, usually cos I think the people they have met are buzzing! " I've done this on several occasions for a variety of reasons and without bitchiness - although never based on looks or size (that doesn't bother me) - it's called personal preference. Although without exception every guy I've declined to meet based on his previous veris has backtracked, grovelled and put-down the other woman to get me to change my mind...which just further enhanced that I had made the right choice in saying 'no thanks'. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. " I don't go to clubs and I don't find other females intimidating so I guess I'm unaware of this. It just seems strange to assume it's because a person is slimmer - they could have all been stunning sizes 16s with fantastic personalities yet they've been portrayed as jealous fatties in one sentence! | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. I don't go to clubs and I don't find other females intimidating so I guess I'm unaware of this. It just seems strange to assume it's because a person is slimmer - they could have all been stunning sizes 16s with fantastic personalities yet they've been portrayed as jealous fatties in one sentence!" I think you're also holding other people to your own standards. People do get jealous, and women can be bitchy. It's just not something you'd do. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. " These 'intimidating' woman are not always slimmer though. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. These 'intimidating' woman are not always slimmer though." No, you're right. I'm solely going on my own experience, having seen what was said about me in messages and by reading posts here from the women who have said things corroborating what I have heard. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... " | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. " Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....)" Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? " Yeah I've seen it. But I don't get how that's bitchy? How is women feeling insecure, which is understandable in a world that praises thin and criticises fat, a sign they're being bitchy to slim women? | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? Yeah I've seen it. But I don't get how that's bitchy? How is women feeling insecure, which is understandable in a world that praises thin and criticises fat, a sign they're being bitchy to slim women? " Cos it's immature nasty, they're putting slimmer women below them in their rankings instead of considering them on a personal basis. It's the equivalent of "you can't be in my gang" from school. Feeling sorry for a woman lashing out as she's insecure is backwards. She should just stop lashing out. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? Yeah I've seen it. But I don't get how that's bitchy? How is women feeling insecure, which is understandable in a world that praises thin and criticises fat, a sign they're being bitchy to slim women? Cos it's immature nasty, they're putting slimmer women below them in their rankings instead of considering them on a personal basis. It's the equivalent of "you can't be in my gang" from school. Feeling sorry for a woman lashing out as she's insecure is backwards. She should just stop lashing out. " Below them in the rankings? Are you joking? The posts I've read on here regulalry say they don't meet men who only meet slim women because they think they are ABOVE them in the rankings and it makes them feel insecure. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? " It's also, as I said above, just so unnecessary as there are so many more men than women and plenty for everyone! It just makes me sad to be honest! This is fab - a site where many of us, to put it bluntly, 'sleep around!' (Please feel free to dress that up if you wish!) If another woman/man gets a meet/play (in a club) with the guy/woman you wanted then so what? - there's always next time - and there are loads of other guys and ladies out there too! | |||
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"Working in pubs/clubs since 17 you tend to pick up and see a lot without realising but when you stop and actually think about it, it makes me realise just how much of a diversity and opposite attitude we take towards one another. For instance last month there was a lovely woman in her mid 20's id say no older than 26 was a bit bigger than the other girls and I noticed how they all huddled together and this woman was in my view separated from the group and was left on her own. So me being me and feeling for the girl made her another drink and made small chat with her and she was probably one of the most lovely women I've come across. Bubbly, full of personality and the perfect smile so I went a bit out of turn and asked her "does this happen to you regular?, I mean in the sense they disappear and your left to mind the drinks?". Her face dropped a little and she just nodded her head and said yes it does happen regular but I'm used to it now. So I asked why?. She just shrugged her shoulders and said I think it's because I'm a bit bigger than they are and I don't exactly fit in well with them and get in the way with them on the pull on a night out. I usually go home by myself. It was then I realised just how cruel people can be and how hurtful you can be without even realising it. She wiped away a little tear and took a deep breath and then her friends returned and didn't even notice her blood shot eyes. I don't tell bullshit stories or make things up so my conscience is clear. But if one person is seen like this then there must be thousands of girls out there like this!. It's not all about diets, sunbeds and the latest makeup and foundation to make you beautiful it's what's inside that is precious and delicate. No one is ugly and everyone should be treated as a equal no matter what!. Slim, plump or even big. What's more important that the scales is the personality and also the attitude towards life!. Not shagging everything in sight without a care in the world and choosing who's slim and slender with the perfect tan. It really does wind me up!. Thursday rant has come early for me!! " I was the fat one of the girls when I was at school, hell in still the fat one but now a lot of my friends are men and they don't care as much. There's a lot of truth in your story. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? " Because.... forums. I tend not to message either type | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? Yeah I've seen it. But I don't get how that's bitchy? How is women feeling insecure, which is understandable in a world that praises thin and criticises fat, a sign they're being bitchy to slim women? Cos it's immature nasty, they're putting slimmer women below them in their rankings instead of considering them on a personal basis. It's the equivalent of "you can't be in my gang" from school. Feeling sorry for a woman lashing out as she's insecure is backwards. She should just stop lashing out. Below them in the rankings? Are you joking? The posts I've read on here regulalry say they don't meet men who only meet slim women because they think they are ABOVE them in the rankings and it makes them feel insecure. " No I'm not joking. Why do you think it's acceptable? I have explained it happens both ways, yet you're focusing on making me say it's okay for overweight woman to not meet men who see slim women, and to call those women names, yet you don't care about the other way. One sided argument. | |||
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"Working in pubs/clubs since 17 you tend to pick up and see a lot without realising but when you stop and actually think about it, it makes me realise just how much of a diversity and opposite attitude we take towards one another. For instance last month there was a lovely woman in her mid 20's id say no older than 26 was a bit bigger than the other girls and I noticed how they all huddled together and this woman was in my view separated from the group and was left on her own. So me being me and feeling for the girl made her another drink and made small chat with her and she was probably one of the most lovely women I've come across. Bubbly, full of personality and the perfect smile so I went a bit out of turn and asked her "does this happen to you regular?, I mean in the sense they disappear and your left to mind the drinks?". Her face dropped a little and she just nodded her head and said yes it does happen regular but I'm used to it now. So I asked why?. She just shrugged her shoulders and said I think it's because I'm a bit bigger than they are and I don't exactly fit in well with them and get in the way with them on the pull on a night out. I usually go home by myself. It was then I realised just how cruel people can be and how hurtful you can be without even realising it. She wiped away a little tear and took a deep breath and then her friends returned and didn't even notice her blood shot eyes. I don't tell bullshit stories or make things up so my conscience is clear. But if one person is seen like this then there must be thousands of girls out there like this!. It's not all about diets, sunbeds and the latest makeup and foundation to make you beautiful it's what's inside that is precious and delicate. No one is ugly and everyone should be treated as a equal no matter what!. Slim, plump or even big. What's more important that the scales is the personality and also the attitude towards life!. Not shagging everything in sight without a care in the world and choosing who's slim and slender with the perfect tan. It really does wind me up!. Thursday rant has come early for me!! " Orrrr she may have just been shit company or not wanted to get involved with the group. If the other girls thought that she was less attractive than them they wouldn't freeze her out when trying to pull they'd keep her around to make themselves look better, sounds harsh but it's true. When I go out to generic bars or nightclubs with my friends I'm left holding the drinks whilst they go on the dance floor, nothing to do with not being good enough, just the fact I don't drink and I only like certain music to dance to so don't do all the fluff when I'm out. | |||
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" I understand perfectly! I've been frozen out by groups of women in clubs before now because I was the only woman there who was size 12 or under! I once asked a hot guy who was interested in me to play with another lady who liked him first - because I knew she and her mates would bitch like hell about me if I 'got to him first'! All good fun! Why did you assume it was because you were slimmer than they were? Do you think that larger women are intimidated by your figure - I honestly doubt that? Maybe they just didn't like something else about you? A genuine question as I'm quite gobsmacked by your casual arrogance towards anyone over a size 12... You know women on the forums regularly admit they won't meet men/couples with verifications from "intimidating" women? Women in the scene here are not always inclusive of others, jealousy is a big thing. Not only that, I've seen it on profiles semi-regularly that they won't meet peopole who have met women who they deem to be not of a similar body type to them because they are worried about being a pity fuck (I may have paraphrased somewhat there....) Exactly, this does happen both ways (slimmer people saying they won't meet people who shag anything which is clearly targeted at bigger women, or bigger women slagging off "sticks") but it's so common on female profiles. I don't know how all of this is missed?? Yeah I've seen it. But I don't get how that's bitchy? How is women feeling insecure, which is understandable in a world that praises thin and criticises fat, a sign they're being bitchy to slim women? Cos it's immature nasty, they're putting slimmer women below them in their rankings instead of considering them on a personal basis. It's the equivalent of "you can't be in my gang" from school. Feeling sorry for a woman lashing out as she's insecure is backwards. She should just stop lashing out. " I would have to say my experience of the forums is , those people who dare to be proud of they feel is a healthy lifestyle or are proud of their physique attained by exercise tend to experience more negativity than those who do not Its rightly frowned upon to belittle a larger person but some feel gym bunnies are narcissistic and fair game to ridicule with often offensive generalisations | |||
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"People come in all shapes and sizes. Surely confidence and personality is sexier than a hot bod, if I can't have a quick chat in the short break between sessions then why bother?! " Im with you on this one, all you women are just as human as us men i mean you have feelings as we do too, for me age is only a number and size does not matter at all to me, its who you are that attracts me, you can have the best bod in the world and still be a bitch which will turn me off. | |||
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"Because curvy, busty ladies just do it better !!. Do what? Eat cake?" I definitely eat cake well...and chocolate...and bread...and crisps...and sweets. I have a huge amount of respect for those who restrict their diet and work out to a healthy level but the enjoyment I get from food means that in all honesty, I place more value on that then I do on my physical appearance. I try to make the best of what I do have though. | |||
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