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Life partner or not
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"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " It's a myth that all women on fab have a high sex drive, there are frequent threads saying the opposite. It's quite possible to find a life partner anywhere, look at the women who marry men on death row but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after. | |||
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"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " Yeah, why not 
Could be a match made in heaven!
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"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital......I should know "We met on here, but not on the forums as I think there are more singles here who like to broadcast every facet of their relationship. It is possible to meet someone of a like mind here, but things don't happen overnight. Obviously a couple would have to have loads more in common than just the attitude to sex for it to work. | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " We met on fab and become a couple....neither of us were looking it just happened and pleased to say so far so good 
Fears and frustrations exist on both sides of the relationship but we talk openly about these to one another which helps!
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"Good god no." | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please We met on fab and become a couple....neither of us were looking it just happened and pleased to say so far so good
Fears and frustrations exist on both sides of the relationship but we talk openly about these to one another which helps!
"Similar for us too | |||
"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital.." SNAP! | |||
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"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " definite yes for me but hasn't happened yet | |||
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"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " You are likely to find someone sexually compatible and with an interest in swinging. Whether you are compatible on other levels - you will have to suck it n see. | |||
"I suppose finding someone with a similar attitude to relationships and sex is more likely here, there is less artifice about intention than, say, a "dating" site?" Wise words there! | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please It's a myth that all women on fab have a high sex drive, there are frequent threads saying the opposite. It's quite possible to find a life partner anywhere, look at the women who marry men on death row but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after." | |||
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"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital......I should know "Haha, yeah the psyche ward... | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please It's a myth that all women on fab have a high sex drive, there are frequent threads saying the opposite. It's quite possible to find a life partner anywhere, look at the women who marry men on death row but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after."No indeed. It's not a place I would look, but it obviously happens all the time and I am always open to the possibility, there are plenty of 'people like me' on this site who are just 'here meanwhile'. | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " its my ideal a D/s relationship with room to play in either swinger or fet scene..one lives in hope | |||
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"Women are mental on here. I'd never consider a relationship with any of the FAB fruitbars "If you think these are bad have seen what they are like outside the asylum? | |||
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"Sex is part of having a partner most people dont spend 24 hrs a day in bed there are other things to take into account no point being sexually compatable if everything else is shit" Couldn't agree with more!! | |||
Good luck, but in the meantime, have fun and show it too. | |||
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"I found mine on the other side of a narrow car park by a dual carriageway. It hit me like a slap in the face, recognising that he was to be a major part in my life, so I went across and got his number. We didn't meet again because he moved away for a year, but on returning, arranged a meet and to me, everything felt right. To him, he didn't realise yet, but I knew that. So, 2 years together, then he left and had a new partner in Ireland, both working in Saudi, yet I always knew we would get back. 5 years later, circumstances changed and we got back together. It was like that missing jigsaw piece had been found and completed a puzzle, there was a sense of life falling into place and we have a complete and honest open relationship, so he knows everything about my single profile on here, but it's a single profile, just for me. If we both meet for bisexual meets, I'll set a new couple's profile as well. So, meeting the right partner can happen anywhere at any time, more likely when you are happy with your life, have a good attitude and not actively looking. Also, accepting that we each have faults, so deal with them and compromise,
Good luck, but in the meantime, have fun and show it too. "That's nice! | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " I found mine. Met for a social on the Monday. Went on a date on the Tuesday had 7 hours of mind blowing sex and I moved in on the Friday been together 3 years in October x | |||
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"Good God ... 7 hours !! I would rather do a full shift at work ...and it would be over quicker ...just goes to show ...what floats one persons boat ....!" We just clicked and nothing had ever felt like that before. So it was well worth it. And believe me I would pick it over working any day lol x | |||
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"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please I found mine. Met for a social on the Monday. Went on a date on the Tuesday had 7 hours of mind blowing sex and I moved in on the Friday been together 3 years in October x" I met my first soulmate (discovered years later that I have two) on a Monday evening, went back to my place and had much less than 7 hours of sex, probably an hour) and by Thursday night of the same week, he moved in, where we spent nearly 10 years together. I always knew he would eventually move on, but we are still close. | |||
"For everyone who is looking for a life long partner, I wish you well, once found its fantastic and often its when you are not looking that you find that soul mate I wish everyone well and hope they find the perfect match " | |||
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"Women are mental on here. I'd never consider a relationship with any of the FAB fruitbars "Everything after the 3rd word was not required | |||
"I'm having exactly that problem. Would love a relationship. But I'd need it to be sexually fulfilling and I'm not finding that on the dating sites. I've always said fab should run an off shoot dating site " Nope, I had three 'sexy' eves two years on the dating sites and began to wonder if I was ever going to have decent sex again! That's why I finally said yes to a persistent 26 yr old..... 
BTW I love your white basquey thing - what make is that?? | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " A lot of the women on here get a low sex drive once they have found a partner | |||
"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex. So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner? Discuss please " Can be... But I mention this to women I meet on tinder all the time and I'd say it puts 50% off and the other 50% are drawn in. It's all about positioning, if you introduce it in a relaxed, at their own pace manner, I would say it's pretty easy to find. They just don't want to feel they are getting thrown to the wolves. Thing is most guys on tinder will just play the game, feeding anything they want to hear just to get into someone's pants. I have been quite open and upfront about it and it's surprised me how often it's appreciated and wanted. I only allude to something different sexually at first & I'm constantly asked. This may take longer than just saying I want 2 kids, a big house, car and a dog and I love country walks, holidays and family bbq's... But it's far more satisfying. | |||
"Sex is part of having a partner most people dont spend 24 hrs a day in bed there are other things to take into account no point being sexually compatable if everything else is shit Couldn't agree with more!!" This is true, but I know a huuuuuuge amount of people who have everything else, except the sex they desire and are so getting their fix somewhere else. | |||
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