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Guys height (not going to go well probably)

By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

So I know a lot is made of females and even males about weight, how it is a touchy subject and we have to be careful not to offend others (I'm not against curvy or bbw at all, just so you're aware), however it is perfectly fine for something that cannot be changed in height to be discriminated against?

am I the only one baffled by this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(Zips mouth)

I'm tall

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Stand up and make yourself heard, is what I say. Height doesn't matter when lying down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How is it discriminated against?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In what way?

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"How is it discriminated against?"

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"In what way? "

Just stated it above

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

There's a difference between someone not like a short/tall and being discriminated against

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

No you wouldn't as it's a preference.

You'd be criticised if you said no fatties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

But some men do and they are perfectly entitled to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

We've said both in the past. Our choice. Not discriminatory, preference. There's a difference.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"There's a difference between someone not like a short/tall and being discriminated against "

It's still technically discriminating against? As I said, if we stated and said sorry to big for us, we'd be criticised, but females can always say 'sorry to small for me' and it's absolutely fine?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I know a lot is made of females and even males about weight, how it is a touchy subject and we have to be careful not to offend others (I'm not against curvy or bbw at all, just so you're aware), however it is perfectly fine for something that cannot be changed in height to be discriminated against?

am I the only one baffled by this?"

Not at all titch, it's a mystery that baffles is all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you discriminated against though? I won't meet men less than about 6 foot, because I'm tall and I feel like a big horrible heffer next to anyone smaller than me. I have no problem with the fact the massively overwhelming majority of men prefer small women, I've got used to it.

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Not at all titch, it's a mystery that baffles is all

Glad I'm not the only one who believes in this. Like height can't be changed, I didn't ask to be this short haha

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"There's a difference between someone not like a short/tall and being discriminated against

It's still technically discriminating against? As I said, if we stated and said sorry to big for us, we'd be criticised, but females can always say 'sorry to small for me' and it's absolutely fine? "

It's not discrimination, it's a preference. My preference is for tall, dark haired guys with tattoos, am I discriminating against blondes or redheads? No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'11 never had any issues about height. Thought it was the other way with the females as they can feel a bit over powered (No offence girlies!!!)

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By *azkinsWoman over a year ago

leeds

Im a midget

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"There's a difference between someone not like a short/tall and being discriminated against

It's still technically discriminating against? As I said, if we stated and said sorry to big for us, we'd be criticised, but females can always say 'sorry to small for me' and it's absolutely fine? "

Nope still not discrimination. It's someone's choice.

Discriminated would be the site saying no one under 5ft 6

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Are you discriminated against though? I won't meet men less than about 6 foot, because I'm tall and I feel like a big horrible heffer next to anyone smaller than me. I have no problem with the fact the massively overwhelming majority of men prefer small women, I've got used to it.

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not. "

I'm just saying, when it comes to weight if we were to say to a female 'you're to big for me to be attracted to, we'd face a lot of criticism' yet it's ok to say we're to small?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway. If the ladies don't like small men. It leaves more for us proper sized men

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Im a midget

Me too for a guy haha

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Anyway. If the ladies don't like small men. It leaves more for us proper sized men

Not fair haha, our market halves very quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

But some men do and they are perfectly entitled to. "

Loads of people do! I do my own searching and there are plenty of profiles stating they only want women below say size 12, or "gym fit" or "take care of themselves" (code for slim). So long as it's not expressed rudely then I'll just move on past.

If it says something like fuck off fatties then yes I will probably decide they're a wanker, but if it's just their criteria then fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Not at all titch, it's a mystery that baffles is all

Glad I'm not the only one who believes in this. Like height can't be changed, I didn't ask to be this short haha

Sorry, my cheap gag was too subtle

Wouldn't worry about it, there will be plenty of ladies shorter than you, just gotta expect taller women will find it odd to tower over you. Can't be helped

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not.

I'm just saying, when it comes to weight if we were to say to a female 'you're to big for me to be attracted to, we'd face a lot of criticism' yet it's ok to say we're to small? "

Loads of men say that. I don't criticise them. They only get criticised for being rude, if they're rude.

Also - if you read what I say, I'm not saying men are too small for me, I'm saying I'm too tall for them. It's my height hang-up, as opposed to thinking all men below a certain height are ugly. There are smaller men I would love to meet if I was small myself, but sadly I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But on the plus side, as least you only have to pay half price at the Chinese buffets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly as one of the taller 5% probably on here, I'd fully understand taller women wanting to see a tall man. Not like I've anything against 5 footers (saves them bending down too far to give a Bj!)

But I usually am more attracted to the taller ladies.. Though I don't state a preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's life people have choices/preferences at least you know if you remotely fit what they are looking for but we all know there's a fair few that don't read profiles and will message if they are able to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What if an 100 year old wanted to join Fab , the age preference doesn't go beyond 99. That could be seen as age discrimination.

Height isn't. Because no one is barred from joining due to age and it can't even be stated in preferences apart from in their free text.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not.

I'm just saying, when it comes to weight if we were to say to a female 'you're to big for me to be attracted to, we'd face a lot of criticism' yet it's ok to say we're to small? "

Why would you face criticism for saying you're not attracted to a woman because of her size?

I'm attracted to men with a footballers physique and don't find rugby player physiques particularly attractive. Don't ask me why, that's just the way I am. I am not discriminating against those with a rugby player physique because of that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meant can't be barred on height. It's been a long day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not.

I'm just saying, when it comes to weight if we were to say to a female 'you're to big for me to be attracted to, we'd face a lot of criticism' yet it's ok to say we're to small? "

No you wouldn't, we have in the past. It's not our thing - it's a choice thing not a discrimination thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Online it mostly is women looking for tall guys.

I suppose by automatically ruling out all short guys it is a form of discrimination, but if you don't find short guys attractive then you might as well tell them. and you can't help who you're attracted to so it's not discrimination as in hate crime but more of a preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Small men look up too me I find

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

But my main point is why is it frowned upon whenever guys state about a females weight, when that is something that can be changed (though it might not want to be, as I've already said I'm into the bigger females just the same as the skinnier ones) yet something which cannot be changed or worked upon, is perfectly fine for people to state no thanks for that reason?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take them to court then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not. "

I agree. I'm taller and larger built, which some guys do make quite clear is not for them and that's their choice, so a shorter guy would make me feel even bigger. A taller guy makes me feel like I'm protected and looked after, maybe unconsciously a bit of sub/dom going on, but it also helps with certain positions

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By *irceWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

am I the only one baffled by this?"

Not being one of the perfect ones can give you more of a empathic view of the world, would rather have selfawareness/wisdom than worry about people who write you off because of a slanted view of how we all, apparently should come off the production line.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love guys taller than me, the taller the better for me, why cant we have our preferences? xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just preference, but I found this interesting

https://mobile.twitter.com/heightismxposed

it's not just short guys it's short girls too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's just cull the short men. Easily sorted.

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

am I the only one baffled by this?

It works the other way too though, some people get rather angry/bitter and blame their height for their problems when it may be a personality thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest. I like taller women. Suppose I don't really have a choice to be honest lol

Many people I've met have been over 5'8. Most memorable person I've met was 6 foot. I tell you what, first time I've had to strain to reach for a kiss when on top lol

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"What if an 100 year old wanted to join Fab , the age preference doesn't go beyond 99. That could be seen as age discrimination.

Height isn't. Because no one is barred from joining due to age and it can't even be stated in preferences apart from in their free text.

Sarah "

So just because there's not setting for height it makes it not a problem? They read your profile,

Notice your height and message deleted. Same sort of situation really, just because the original message cannot be blocked, chances are it'll still be deleted anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of guys prefer shorter women on here. It's only since joining fab that I've realised this.

When I'm out I'm much more likely to pull in flat shoes than high heels. Men don't like really tall women, in general.

Something about preferring women shorter so they can throw them round the bedroom or something?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But my main point is why is it frowned upon whenever guys state about a females weight, when that is something that can be changed (though it might not want to be, as I've already said I'm into the bigger females just the same as the skinnier ones) yet something which cannot be changed or worked upon, is perfectly fine for people to state no thanks for that reason?"

People do say - no one over size 12 etc etc - no one ginger, no one who eats lemon drizzle , no hairy feet - there are all sorts of foibles in profiles.

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

Not at all. I happen to prefer tall guys. I am also very slim size 8. However there are many men on here who state their prefer curvaceous women /larger ladies. Should I say that is discriminating against slimmer ladies? Of course not. Everyone has their personal preference and taste. Some like blondes. Some like brunettes. Some like redheads. Some women (like me!) have a thing for shaved heads... others love long hair on men. You can't adopt that approach because otherwise everyone on FAB and in life generally is being discriminated on their appearance simply because someone out there doesn't fancy them.

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By *aturelover2016Man over a year ago

London

You likes what you likes and there is nowt you can do about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And my point is - is there evidence that it is actually frowned upon? If someone says it in a really offensive way then yeah, it will be. I've seen plenty of derogatory comments about weight get jumped all over, but they were stated in a derogatory way. But there are loads of people who just politely express their preference for slim women and those who don't fit that description just walk on past.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(Although my husband is 5'6 and we do ok. He is very stocky built/strong which helps.)

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"What if an 100 year old wanted to join Fab , the age preference doesn't go beyond 99. That could be seen as age discrimination.

Height isn't. Because no one is barred from joining due to age and it can't even be stated in preferences apart from in their free text.

Sarah

So just because there's not setting for height it makes it not a problem? They read your profile,

Notice your height and message deleted. Same sort of situation really, just because the original message cannot be blocked, chances are it'll still be deleted anyway

How do you know they've deleted your message because they've looked at your profile and seen your height? Has anyone actually said that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because there are more fat people on here than anything else. the majority (getting offended) often hold the most power over this sort of thing.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"What if an 100 year old wanted to join Fab , the age preference doesn't go beyond 99. That could be seen as age discrimination.

Height isn't. Because no one is barred from joining due to age and it can't even be stated in preferences apart from in their free text.

Sarah

So just because there's not setting for height it makes it not a problem? They read your profile,

Notice your height and message deleted. Same sort of situation really, just because the original message cannot be blocked, chances are it'll still be deleted anyway

How do you know they've deleted your message because they've looked at your profile and seen your height? Has anyone actually said that?"

I couldn't be sure of that, however I was simply stating that just because it can't be blocked for that reason, it can be deleted for that reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

Because more people are cunts about it. No one assumes you're lazy, greedy, on benefits and less of a person, or conversely that you're stuck up, bag of bones, not a real woman because of your height.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!"

And spooning sex must feel odd if the guy is so much shorter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!"
You can share a 99 with someone a lot smaller

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

No one should be derogatory about either , but some will. That's just representative of society in general .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected. "

LOVE your honesty

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!"

Exactly,

Now in no way shape or form am I criticising you for this, and I feel like a lot of people have the wrong end of my stick here. I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!"

I've managed all sorts with guys well over a foot taller than me and it's not problem, but yeah it's not the same lying down at all coz i like perving long legs on a guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

Are they touchy subjects? I don't think so.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected. "

At what point have I stated this is about me, and moaned that I'm being rejected by it!

seems like you're not a very nice person, I haven't once aimed to offend anyone,

Nor place blame on anyone. Have just asked if anyone else shares the same opinion as myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

Because people use it as a way to put people down. Usually men against women,on here. People don't tend to use someone's height as an excuse to be abusive; they just state a height preference. I've seen a few profiles stating no fatties,not seen any saying no short arses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"
You should feel sorry for the. Short fat guy.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

Are they touchy subjects? I don't think so. "

So you're saying weight isn't a touchy subject? I've seen various forums recently regarding people's nerves about swinging because they're 'bigger'

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

You're not listening to people are you. You just keep asking the same question, people are giving you answers.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height? You should feel sorry for the. Short fat guy. "

They've got it all against them lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!You can share a 99 with someone a lot smaller "

Not always!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'"

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!

Exactly,

I say no to small cocks too!

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

people are allowed to have any criteria for whatever they want in a person. I could say only want 6 foot Swedish lingerie models that own a brewery only but id say my changes would be slim. so stop whinging and just find people who don't care about height.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

You're not listening to people are you. You just keep asking the same question, people are giving you answers. "

People are answering regarding this site specifically, I'm not just on about here specifically, I'm on about every day life also. The media covers weight as a touchy subject massively

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither not wanting to fuck fat people or short people is discrimination.

If having certain things that don't turn you on is discrimination then everyone would complain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected.

At what point have I stated this is about me, and moaned that I'm being rejected by it!

seems like you're not a very nice person, I haven't once aimed to offend anyone,

Nor place blame on anyone. Have just asked if anyone else shares the same opinion as myself."

In fairness I think you have come across as a bit whiny, whether intended to or not. You have to accept that not everyone will like shorter guys...doesn't warrant a thread saying "this isn't fair, it would be discrimination if I did the same for people over a certain weight"

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

You're not listening to people are you. You just keep asking the same question, people are giving you answers.

People are answering regarding this site specifically, I'm not just on about here specifically, I'm on about every day life also. The media covers weight as a touchy subject massively "

Rubbish. People are constantly saying fat is unattractive, ugly, wrong, etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't fuck fat shorties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've seen plenty of threads regarding weight that have got very nasty.

The only threads I've seen regarding height are usually started by men who are on the smaller side who seem to think their height is an issue and the only reason why someone won't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected.

At what point have I stated this is about me, and moaned that I'm being rejected by it!

seems like you're not a very nice person, I haven't once aimed to offend anyone,

Nor place blame on anyone. Have just asked if anyone else shares the same opinion as myself."

You're short, entitled and not getting laid.

It's pretty obvious, hon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

Are they touchy subjects? I don't think so.

So you're saying weight isn't a touchy subject? I've seen various forums recently regarding people's nerves about swinging because they're 'bigger'"

I am saying that, yes. Few here are too worried about weight. Those that are make it clear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, basically no-one gives a fuck about you online unless they can use you.

Men are not as rare as women so even less people give a fuck about you coz you're replaceable.

You can't slag off fat women coz society has already been doing this forever decades now, it's unfair to do this and society is changing and recogonising it is unfair. Yes it can cause health problems being overweight, and that's been thought for ages now, but opinion on this is changing also (morbid conditions exempting).

So all the fat people said 'fuck this shit' we're fat and proud, fuck men who have had all the power for so long over our appearence and all the short arses are gonna get it for that'. Maybe. Or maybe women are more behind in the sexualisation of men thing, idk, but we've only just started doing this as a society and new to sexualising them so we gotta have out tall, hot guys because men used to only go for typically hot women, voluptuous women, slim but curvy women, for such a long time and we're copying that i reckon.

But seriously, people are here for sex and their sexual fantasies. Society is more shallow. What's the harm in being fat if you're fuckable with massive tits an arse? Compared to being small in height and unfuckable?

I need a creative outlet, help me someone...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't fuck fat shorties

That's ok- I am tall!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i just dont like really ripped men reallover weight men..i cant see their eyes when in between their legs and find it difficult to get on top..fact...my preference, my choice, your preference your choice. im not everyone's cup of tea, neither do i expect to be..my issue with meeting shorter men with pert cute bums and working cocks is that i might like them too much

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!You can share a 99 with someone a lot smaller

Not always!!!

"
Will rephrase that. You can share a 99 with someone smaller if she is not a greedy mare

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it. "

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don;t like guys who are significantly taller than me - makes them difficult to throw around the bed

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man over a year ago

Hunstanton

Popcorn in hand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'. "

Once again bollocks! !!

It's on a LOT of profiles.

Your height isn't a problem on here but this whining thread is not going to get you many meets!

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"What if an 100 year old wanted to join Fab , the age preference doesn't go beyond 99. That could be seen as age discrimination.

Height isn't. Because no one is barred from joining due to age and it can't even be stated in preferences apart from in their free text.

Sarah

So just because there's not setting for height it makes it not a problem? They read your profile,

Notice your height and message deleted. Same sort of situation really, just because the original message cannot be blocked, chances are it'll still be deleted anyway

How do you know they've deleted your message because they've looked at your profile and seen your height? Has anyone actually said that?

I couldn't be sure of that, however I was simply stating that just because it can't be blocked for that reason, it can be deleted for that reason "

So they haven't said that, you're just making that assumption.

Yes it could, but to assume that's the reason is stupid. Perhaps they read your profile and didn't see anything that attracted them?

To assume it's because of your height is your issue, not theirs. I'm overweight, I could assume that everyone who rejects us does so because of that but it wouldn't be true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?

You're not listening to people are you. You just keep asking the same question, people are giving you answers.

People are answering regarding this site specifically, I'm not just on about here specifically, I'm on about every day life also. The media covers weight as a touchy subject massively "

The media feeds (no pun intended) the anti fat campaign it doesn't treat it with kid gloves. Lots of coverage of sugar tax, diabetes, all the Biggest Loser, etc etc. Look at all the celebs - airbrushed photos etc. The media doesn't forgive imperfections in anything.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm not necessarily saying preferences aren't allowed, but why does weight seem such a touchy subject in comparison to height?"

'Cos more people are judgemental over weight than height. I feel Like Ruby - I'm a thumping great girlie and I like my men to be bigger than me, it just doesn't feel right otherwise.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!You can share a 99 with someone a lot smaller

Not always!!!

Will rephrase that. You can share a 99 with someone smaller if she is not a greedy mare

I did offer you my flake though.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'. "

Read all the profiles asking for a female, have you?

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected.

At what point have I stated this is about me, and moaned that I'm being rejected by it!

seems like you're not a very nice person, I haven't once aimed to offend anyone,

Nor place blame on anyone. Have just asked if anyone else shares the same opinion as myself.

You're short, entitled and not getting laid.

It's pretty obvious, hon

I'm short, well done for noticing. I'm not hiding that, and it personally doesn't bother me ha ha. And how do you know I don't get laid? Or is that an assumption from this site?

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'.

Read all the profiles asking for a female, have you? "

No, and I'm not going to pretend I have. I really find you quite rude if honest, not once have I been nasty to anyone on this site, and am generally a very nice and friendly person. And I don't like rude people. At all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't fuck fat shorties

That's ok- I am tall!"

And you look slim to me .

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

No they wouldn't!

Why don't people concentrate on those interested in them instead of those who aren't?

Sigh..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weight is a touchy subject for a lot of women. Nobody likes to be told they are too fat they should Go on a diet. Get some exercise etc etc on the other scale nobody likes to be told they are too skinny and they should eat

More Coz they need fattening up.

Teenage years could be hell for girls if they are bullied For a weight issue many weight issues can make the person depressed or even commit suicide because they think they don't fit a social normality.

However height is something you cannot change you are Destined to be the height you are. Therefore people won't come up to you and say you should eat more to get taller. Eat less to get shorter.

There OP. Question answered.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'.

Once again bollocks! !!

It's on a LOT of profiles.

Your height isn't a problem on here but this whining thread is not going to get you many meets!"

This 'whiny thread' is not specifically related to this site.

so this 'whiny thread' has no relation to myself getting meets at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, Not having much success may have more to do with having things in your profile like:

"I don't have much of a preference when it comes to who i'll meet"

Kinds of gives the impression of not being fussy, which goes to some way explaining the chip you have for those that may have "preferences"

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

"
he doesnt have to im not easily offended and im over 40 im sure that puts people off too...like guys in there twenties for me i have kids that age, and although gorgeous and tempting i dont go there x

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

We've said both in the past. Our choice. Not discriminatory, preference. There's a difference.

You're not allowed preferences don't you know? You have to fuck anyone who asks so as not to offend!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'.

Read all the profiles asking for a female, have you?

I'm not sure how many like whiny...

If you were getting laid you wouldn't be complaining about people not wanting people like you.

The thing is, you haven't accepted that, judging by your posts here, its probably nothing to do with your height.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Weight is a touchy subject for a lot of women. Nobody likes to be told they are too fat they should Go on a diet. Get some exercise etc etc on the other scale nobody likes to be told they are too skinny and they should eat

More Coz they need fattening up.

However height is something you cannot change you are Destined to be the height you are. Therefore people won't come up to you and say you should eat more to get taller. Eat less to get shorter.

There OP. Question answered.

It's nice to see a friendly response in here rather than someone jumping on my back.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

It's not ok if people are rude about your height, but it is ok for them to choose whether they fancy you or not.

I'm just saying, when it comes to weight if we were to say to a female 'you're to big for me to be attracted to, we'd face a lot of criticism' yet it's ok to say we're to small? "

Oh get over yourself!

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"OP, Not having much success may have more to do with having things in your profile like:

"I don't have much of a preference when it comes to who i'll meet"

Kinds of gives the impression of not being fussy, which goes to some way explaining the chip you have for those that may have "preferences""
as stated plenty already, this topic is not directly related to this site

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

" I'm just saying the whole weight subject is touchy, and a lot do get offended, yet height is perfectly fine to say 'no to small'

Rubbish. Plenty of preferences state they're not interested in anyone overweight. Both are perfectly acceptable to say because no one can help what physical appearance they find attractive.

Get over it.

If anything on here I've found that hardly anyone has stated regarding 'no overweight'.

Read all the profiles asking for a female, have you?

I'm not sure how many like whiny...

If you were getting laid you wouldn't be complaining about people not wanting people like you.

The thing is, you haven't accepted that, judging by your posts here, its probably nothing to do with your height. "

When once have I directed this at myself specifically? There's a lot of other short guys out there, I just wondered if anyone shared the same opinion as me....

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

he doesnt have to im not easily offended and im over 40 im sure that puts people off too...like guys in there twenties for me i have kids that age, and although gorgeous and tempting i dont go there x"

Age is completely understandable, especially with kids around that age!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, Not having much success may have more to do with having things in your profile like:

"I don't have much of a preference when it comes to who i'll meet"

Kinds of gives the impression of not being fussy, which goes to some way explaining the chip you have for those that may have "preferences" as stated plenty already, this topic is not directly related to this site

Well that was just friendly advice...

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

Is this not in reference to this site?"

not specially this site, daily life also, like down your local tesco lol!!

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"OP, Not having much success may have more to do with having things in your profile like:

"I don't have much of a preference when it comes to who i'll meet"

Well that was just friendly advice..."

Well thank you, don't appreciate people jumping on my back when all I did was ask if people shared an opinion?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected. "

Not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More Coz they need fattening up.

However height is something you cannot change you are Destined to be the height you are. Therefore people won't come up to you and say you should eat more to get taller. Eat less to get shorter.

There OP. Question answered.

"
Aren't people still bullied for their height though? Midget or lankey etc

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

More Coz they need fattening up.

However height is something you cannot change you are Destined to be the height you are. Therefore people won't come up to you and say you should eat more to get taller. Eat less to get shorter.

There OP. Question answered.

Aren't people still bullied for their height though? Midget or lankey etc"

A lot of people are mocked for being to tall or to small yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 6'2" so how would I know?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?"

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Seems like your looking for a reason that has nothing to do with you being a whiny brat, for you being rejected.

Not just me then! "

Well hate to burst your bubble but you're both getting the wrong end of the stick here! Sorry if I come across like that, but it's really not like that at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

Is this not in reference to this site?

not specially this site, daily life also, like down your local tesco lol!! "

What...? In what situation in Tesco's does anyone make an issue about your height...unless you can't get stuff off the top shelf? It's clear, despite your protests, you clearly meant specifically on this site...more than likely this is a knee jerk response to getting rejected. Grow up (pardon the pun) and deal with it

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?"

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a bit of a tall story to me

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

What can you do about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

Is this not in reference to this site?

not specially this site, daily life also, like down your local tesco lol!!

The tesco was a just an example of every day life ha ha, I didn't mean there literally. No, that's untrue and I will stand by completely that it was not specifically for this site

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had."
you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if you have an issue yourself with something about yourself ie height or wieght then you may take offence in people stating thier preferences. I used to have shit confidence and would take unbridge at people's prefernces but now a days It doesn't bother me as much. I'm fat n short some men want me some men don't. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

Is this not in reference to this site?

not specially this site, daily life also, like down your local tesco lol!!

The tesco was a just an example of every day life ha ha, I didn't mean there literally. No, that's untrue and I will stand by completely that it was not specifically for this site

I'm not convinced, think what I said about knee jerking is pretty accurate.

Maybe you just need to aim lower?

(Seeing as your preference is "anything", that shouldn't be too hard)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

What can you do about it?"
Just ignore it. You can't change your height, race or how you look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

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By *isandreTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

Prince was a small guy. He was never found wanting, the #SexyMF

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?"

Theme park rides?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP have you considered that your age is a factor... older members often state they don't want someone "young enough to be their son/daughter"... so is that preference again or ageism? (Just stirring the pot haha)

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?"

I have been rejected from a few football academies simply because of my height yes, as well as various taunts from other individuals within my child hood. I've learnt to deal with it now, just asked if anyone shared my

Opinion

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

Age is completely understandable, especially with kids around that age!

yeah i have one son and daughter over your age..id introduce you to her, but shes got a preference for beards

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"OP have you considered that your age is a factor... older members often state they don't want someone "young enough to be their son/daughter"... so is that preference again or ageism? (Just stirring the pot haha)

Age is understandable completely, as children there age would be a bit strange to

Some for sure

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

Age is completely understandable, especially with kids around that age!

yeah i have one son and daughter over your age..id introduce you to her, but shes got a preference for beards

Haha uh oh what about people who struggle to grow facial hair

just joking around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion "

Lionel messi is short...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?"

Put on a top hat and walk under a table

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i like men taller than me..as im s'4" that not difficult

i already avoid one man on here for just that reason ..hes so my type, its not funny and hes not available for that

But you're "curvy"...the OP probably won't like you

Age is completely understandable, especially with kids around that age!

yeah i have one son and daughter over your age..id introduce you to her, but shes got a preference for beards

Haha uh oh what about people who struggle to grow facial hair

just joking around"
she likes beards, height isnt an issue but facial hair is..lolol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion "

So my not being a model is discrimination?! Fucking bastards

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short..."

He is also arguably the best player in the world, I don't have that level of talent lol. A lot and o mean a lot of clubs will release players due to there development (or lack of). Bale was originally released from saints due to not developing however went to there satellite centre and luckily developed there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?"

People not wanting to shag someone because they are short is not discrimination.

People having preferences is not baffling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Theme park rides?

Properly laughing out loud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you know nothing, precisely nothing, about discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it discriminated against?

Not just sexually, but how many females say 'need a tall man' or '6ft plus only'? If us guys turned around and said nobody over a size 10 for example, we'd be criticised heavily for it....

I do.

Because I prefer my height or taller. A 69 is not possible with someone with a much shorter body before you say it's the same lying down!"

Height and body length don't necessarily correspond. I'm 5'11 but with only 31" legs so the bulk of my height is in my body where as with others it can be the other way around which then cause problems with a 69

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short. "

'Maybe crap at football' wow personal dig at me there lol. Crap enough to have spent a good few years within an academy set up (finally one who didn't say no simply due to height) with a team who are currently in the premier league

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By *razedcatMan over a year ago

London / Herts

I can see how the OP feels that a man being rejected for one's height should be treated with the same sensitivity as a woman being rejected for her weight, but

a) we all discriminate, it's how the world works,

b) we determine what constitutes unacceptable discrimination by way of context, and historically, short men have had way less negative attention than fat women, and

c) in the world of sex, discrimination on the grounds of size, weight, and even race are far more acceptable.

There are billions of women out there, it's just a matter of finding the one's that can either overlook your diminutiveness, or is very short herself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

People not wanting to shag someone because they are short is not discrimination.

People having preferences is not baffling"

Also

NOT having preferences is baffling

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"OP you know nothing, precisely nothing, about discrimination. "

Nothing about discrimination at all, alright then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

am I the only one baffled by this?"

None of us have universal appeal, people can turn down others for whatever reason they like.

Im sure you have things you're attracted to or looking for in others.

As long as people are polite about it, can't see the issue.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I can see how the OP feels that a man being rejected for one's height should be treated with the same sensitivity as a woman being rejected for her weight, but

a) we all discriminate, it's how the world works,

b) we determine what constitutes unacceptable discrimination by way of context, and historically, short men have had way less negative attention than fat women, and

c) in the world of sex, discrimination on the grounds of size, weight, and even race are far more acceptable.

There are billions of women out there, it's just a matter of finding the one's that can either overlook your diminutiveness, or is very short herself

Thank you. Someone who understands lol. When once have I frowned upon it and said its

Not allowed? I haven't haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Height cannot be changed

Weight can be changed.

Women tend not to like short men.

Men tend not to like large women.

Go for what you like. I do recall one time on a dating app a lady asked my height. I then asked her how much do you weigh? She was taken a back and said it is "rude" to ask a lady her weight. I then replied "but it is not rude to ask a man of his height?" She said she never thought of it like that.

Men if your under 5"10 and the lady ask's your height, you are perfectly within your right to ask how much do you weigh. Don't feel ashamed about it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

What can you do about it? Just ignore it. You can't change your height, race or how you look "

And 10 points to Jon Snow! OP, you're wasting your energy trying to change your height cos you can't, so why stress about something you can't change? Why worry? Look for ladies who don't see height as a barrier to meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

So what happened...? Lower leagues? Other academies? Why did you just give up? It's nothing to do with height nowadays as that was always a restriction years before your time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you know nothing, precisely nothing, about discrimination. "

That's the impression I've got too, from reading his replies.

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped. "

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The perfect woman is only 3' tall with a flat head. Gives you somewhere to rest your pint while she sucks your cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer small men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct "

Yeh but you don't have great perspective on stuff anyway. I don't know why you're trying to convince yourself height is chosen over talent in football, it's nonsense. You ought to just get over your height. It's not changing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The perfect woman is only 3' tall with a flat head. Gives you somewhere to rest your pint while she sucks your cock

"
reminds me of that collegehumor sketch

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

So what happened...? Lower leagues? Other academies? Why did you just give up? It's nothing to do with height nowadays as that was always a restriction years before your time"

I'm still representing my university, and I was released at the age where to make a lasting impression the chances are decreased significantly, so opted to gain a degree in coaching instead. And as for the 'height has nothing to do with it nowadays is so untrue it's a joke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct "

So do you think all women who are too short to be a catwalk model are discriminated against?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer small men

I prefer tall men means I don't have to kneel down xxx

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct

Height at junior and youth levels has a massive impact, it's the relative age affect which I'm currently studying in one of my university module's. Those who develop earlier hey picked up, because they have the physical side (height included) a lot sooner than others

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By *ni_lad OP Man over a year ago

Wiltshire

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct

So do you think all women who are too short to be a catwalk model are discriminated against?"

If it was a career they wanted to pursue I sure do think they could feel discriminated against for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

So what happened...? Lower leagues? Other academies? Why did you just give up? It's nothing to do with height nowadays as that was always a restriction years before your time

I'm sorry mate, if you went from a premier league academy to representing you uni, with nothing in between then I would say that it has more to do with your ability and little (pardon the pun) to do with your height

I'd get over the inferiority/small man complex and you'd be a much happier person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Maybe you're just crap at football instead of being too short.

It's not a dig, it's potentially the truth. I'm sure if you were good enough, you wouldn't have been dropped.

That to me was a dig. Plenty of players who have been a lot further than me and represented England at youth levels have been dropped and they're very talented. I wasn't Lionel messi that's correct

I do not believe you that talent is chosen by height. You just sound bitter because of your lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You either have to be extremely fast or be amazingly skillful to make it as a small Man, IE Messi/Owen etc

6ft plus and athletic is more common for a average player

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

am I the only one baffled by this?

Have you ever been discriminated against purely because of your height?

As someone just said about being mocked for height and being called midget etc, yes they have

I asked if you had. you asked if I had been discriminated for my height, and I responded with yes I have. I've forever been short lol, during school and college

So you've been turned down for jobs, college courses, been refused entrance to shops, restaurants because of your height?

Opinion

Lionel messi is short...

Released for lack of footballing talent....not height. What's your point?

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By *uriousc88Woman over a year ago

Reading

My profile clearly states I don't meet short men, and that I'll delete messages from people who've read my profile and still feel like chancing their arm...

So yeah, if I get a message from a short bloke I'll delete it, and probably block them for good measure.

I wouldn't respond with "eff off short arse" and I'm not nasty about expressing my height preferences.

I also say I don't like fat bellies and beer guts... But again, I'm not rude about it, so I've never had any nasty comments back (unless I've rejected someone and they threw toys from pram).

It's not discrimination, because I'm not saying "short men can't have sex". Short men can have plenty of sex. Just not with me (and that's even if they'd want to!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What was it that Woody Allen said?

Those that can, do. Those that can't, teach. Those that can't teach, teach PE

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Stand tall, no matter what your height.

.....................THE END.....…............

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